Money can buy You a Bed but not Sleep, Clocks but not Time, Books but not Knowledge, a House but not a Home & Sex but not Love. More important than the Revenue is from where the Blessings to receive them came. 2Peter 2:19 reads "You are a slave to whatever controls You." Never loose sight of Your very First Prayer/Where You(it all began) started. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Hard doesn’t mean Impossible, Far doesn’t mean Unreachable, Broken doesn't mean Irreparable. Plan Your Direction, Strategize Your Movement, Define Your Goal & Claim Your Victory so Your Dreams can be Your REALITY. Dream Big & Live Bigger. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Your Accomplishments are a result of the level of Your self-esteem, Your essence, Your confidence, the image You have of Yourself and who You Really Are. These attributes are the voice that tells You, You Will, You Can, or even You Can't. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Do You ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

God's path for You will not be His path for Me, so refrain for telling me How to Get To Heaven, as I'll probably get there using Directions that You Don't have. Be as consumed with fulfilling Your personal Obligations as You are with What Your Neighbor Is/Isn't doing. Even the Most religious of people fail to realize that only One Opinion really matters. While Driving & in Life please try to Stay in Your Lane. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Okay Ladies Fall’s about to be in effect. We should be getting on Our grind while being in hibernation; this year We're getting New. Still having shows for Everyone but one night a week will be ONLY for Ladies email neciaism@live.com or FaceBook inbox Sistar Necia with days & times that'd be most convenient. The link is http://ping.fm/nlEds - Same rules as always No Hate; ALL LOVE ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

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There's 3 stages in God's great Work We know as a Successful Life: 1st) - It's Impossible, 2nd) - It's Difficult, 3rd) - It's Done. Claim the Victory it starts with Believing; People Fear Me because they can't understand Me, Hate Me because they can't Conquer Me & Love Me because they really Know Me but I'm exactly the way God wants Me to be so if You have a problem with Me Your problem's Not with Me. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: After You've been Self-Sufficient for sometime its hard to relinquish that "Head of Household" status & let a Man be a Man so We tend to offer up Somethings but seldom EVERYTHING/Be Completely Honest. Women like Myself who Stress Honesty in relationships, need to Accept; You can't be Honest with Anyone else if You can't even be Honest with Yourself. Men want Wives not Husbands ~LuvUMuch Neciaism © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Treat that Man like Who He Can & Will be. Not like Who he is or Was. Who wants to be reminded of their flaws? When we treat Our Men like royalty the pressure is on to Maintain Your Praise or Rise to the Occasion & Earn it. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: The Most Unattractive woman is the one who needs a Man to play God in their lives. Be that Woman who's consumed with so much Self Love, so much Confidence, that it can't help but be contagious. You'll find that He'll be Drawn to You as opposed to Running Away. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: The Most Unattractive woman is the one who needs a Man to play God in their lives. Be that Woman who's consumed with so much Self Love, so much Confidence, that it can't help but be contagious. You'll find that He'll be Drawn to You as opposed to Running Away. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Invest in Yourself to the point where the Man who makes You His will be the richest Man alive. Groom Yourself to Beautiful Inside & Out. Sisters realize We are Priceless; We're the Gold while in fact the Men are the Gold-Diggers. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Enlightened ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: When a Male is respectful, responsible & mature, that doesn't make him "corny" it makes him a Man. Having poor examples of Masculinity from Our childhood We tend to get confused when choosing a mate. Quite often We bypass Clark Kent looking for SuperMan. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Relationship advice seems to change when offered by Someone In or Coming Out of a Bad one. "Fight for Him" shifts to "Girl Forget Him"; To the receivers I say "Ms.Misery" loves her company because she spends so much time alone & to the advisers I say remember the infamous "Mistress Karma" if You want Love & Peace for Yourself put that energy out there for Your Sister. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Just because You're spinning Your wheels it doesn't mean You're going anywhere; some journeys are endless because that particular destination is Not for You; don't be afraid to change direction. It's easy to confuse Moving & Progressing. Taking a Spinning class & cycling cross-country both provide exercise but only one will expose You to new cultures Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Enlightened. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: As Women we act off of Emotions & the fact of the matter is We are proned to Talk Too Much. At times We allow situations to get Blown Out of Proportion by Running Off at The Mouth. It's impossible to HEAR or LISTEN while we're Talking. Ironically sometimes We have to Close Our Mouths & Open Our Minds to get Our point across. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

You can have the World & Everything in it, just be Mindful that Everything comes with a cost; to Whom much is Given, much is Required. If You're too lazy to Go Hard; don't even Go. Make Faith Your Everything then Failure will be Nothing. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Life is about Progression not Stagnation. Its a Beautiful thing when You reach a plateau however its Your responsibility to elevate Your Grind & proceed to the Next level. Life may give You the first Opportunity but anything after that You'll have to Go Get. Settling is for debris not Soldiers. Get Motivated & Stay Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

I care for an Elderly woman who spent her Youth blaming her tortured childhood on the world mainly her own child. Daily I watch as the demons of her past consume her; Guilt eating away at what should be the Happiest time of her Life. When You're an inmate of the prison in Your mind there is No Escape or Early Release date; the only option You have is to serve Your time. Sew Dirt, Reap Dirt ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

While Under Pressure, maintain focus, see disturbances for what they are:”Intentional Distractions” to shake You off Your square. Airplanes that fly high can’t help but experience turbulence; Annoying? Yes, Deadly? No. Buckle Your seat belt & Keep Flying. When We’re trying to do what’s right it feels like nothing’s going Our way however, if We weren't a Threat & on the verge of Greatness Our walk in the wilderness would be a Stroll in the Park ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

If They want nothing to do with Your fight, then They should have nothing to do with Your Victory; real friends walk in when others walk out. In a crowd of false friends One can still manage to be lonely; again proof that Quality trumps Quantity. People are like Gravity they'll either help Elevate You or help Weigh You Down. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & AWARE ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © March 2011

From Your side of the fence it may seem that the grass is greener but when You're knee deep in Your neighbor's yard, You'll realize it's nothing but Spray Paint & Sod. Sincere Peace & Prosperity is found in realizing that what You're blessed with is far more substantial than what You lack. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Appreciative ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2011

God is about Truth & Clarity. When we're faced with situations that cause turmoil & or Confusion that's a clear indication it being Not of God. Any & Everything can be surrendered & resolved thru Sincere Prayer. Real Talk; if its too minor to pray about then its too minor to be a burden & loose sleep over. Pray about Everything & Worry about Nothing. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

No Accidents only Appointments. It's difficult just to abandon control & allow God to completely take over. Certain trials are purposely designed that way inorder to remove the ability from AnyOne/Thing to steal His glory; so when We have Victory in the fight, We understand it was None Other than God. Stay Prayerful, Focused, & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Losers constantly think about what the penalty will be when they fail. Winners can only imagine the great Rewards of Success. Possess a Belief in Yourself that is bigger than anyone’s Disbelief in themselves. Don’t be afraid of Moving Slowly or in the Wrong Direction be afraid of Standing Still. Always remember Improvement begins with “I”. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

If You're capable of Thinking Outside the Box, looking where Everyone else has looked & seeing what No One Else has seen. You're destined to Achieve what They think is Impossible. Life may offer You what You Deserve but it'll Give You what You Demand. Demand the Best of Both Life & Yourself. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2011

There's 3 stages in God's great Work We know as a Successful Life: 1st) - It is impossible, 2nd) - It is difficult, 3rd) - It is Done. Claim the Victory it starts with Believing; People Fear Me because they can't understand Me, Hate Me because they can't Conquer Me & Love Me because they really Know Me but I'm exactly the way God wants Me to be so if You have a problem with Me Your problem's Not with Me. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

God's path for You will not be His path for Me, so refrain for telling me How to Get To Heaven, as I'll probably get there using Directions that You Don't have. Be as consumed with fulfilling Your personal Obligations as You are with What Your Neighbor Is/Isn't doing. Even the Most religious of people fail to realize that only One Opinion really matters. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: In Relationships, Secrets, Goals & Aspirations You can't share with Your mate without receiving Animosity, Envy or Judgement may be an indication of a Mate Not worth Having; if He can't be Everything they might as well be Nothing. You can be part of a couple & still feel alone. Only debris should settle, everyone else deserves Happiness. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

http://ping.fm/UTHZF In Relationships, Secrets, Goals & Aspirations You can't share with Your mate without receiving Animosity, Envy or Judgement may be an indication of a Mate Not worth Having; if He/She can't be Everything they might as well be Nothing. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: If You ever questioned if He really Loves You or if He really cares; look around in the midst of this natural disaster... Where ever He is, his heart is with Him. So if He's not there the fact is He doesn't care. Truth is like most Effective medications; hard to swallow but eventually You'll feel better. One Mans trash is another Man's Treasure. Stay Patient & Encouraged, know that God has someone better ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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Loving someone one & being in Love with someone are two different entities. Love is like a Good Man & an Orgasm, You don't know what You've been missing until You have one; once You have one there's no question in Your mind. No matter how articulate You are, words can't express the feeling; You have to experience it inorder to relate to it. Speechless for Good Reason. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright© 2011

Loving someone one & being in Love with someone are two different entities. Love is like a Good Man & an Orgasm, You don't know what You've been missing until You have one; once You have one there's no grey area; no question in Your mind. No matter how articulate You are, words can't express the feeling; You have to experience it inorder to relate to it. Speechless for Good Reason “UnLovable” by Neciaism Copyright © June 2011

Our deepest fear isn't complete Failure, its being Successful beyond Our ability to even imagine. Light scares Us not Darkness. The Bright Light makes Us question:”Who am I to be Amazing, Talented, Successful?”Well Who are You NOT to be? As a child of God, Shrinking so other’s who are insecure feel Big, doesn't serve Him. We’re created to Manifest & Magnify God. Let Your Light shine & others worthy will get the courage to do the same. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

http://ping.fm/SRl6O I thought I was afraid of Public Speaking & "Telling My Business"; now thru speeches & writing about personal experiences I help heal Myself as well as Others. Simultaneously I feed My Spirit & Family. In hindsight I question, was I afraid, or did I allow the enemy trick Me into silence because He was afraid of the God in Me that would bless Me to be Blessing? Sometimes subconsciously We're afraid of Success & not Failure. Remember Faith is the Antithesis of Fear~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

I thought I was afraid of Public Speaking & or "Telling My Business"; now thru speeches & writing about personal experiences I help heal Myself as well as Others. I'm able to feed My Spirit while feeding My Family. In hindsight I question, was I afraid or did I allow the enemy trick Me into silence because He was afraid of the God in Me that would bless Me to be Blessing? Sometimes subconsciously We're afraid of Success & not Failure. Remember Faith is the Antithesis of Fear. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

If Your Peers/Surroundings are threatened by Your Success, then no question they Will ultimately Threaten Your Success. Identify Your Need, Understand Your Obstacle, Recognize Your Responsibility, and Become Your Answer. Life may not be going the way You intended it, but it's going EXACTLY the way God planned it. We know what/Who We want, God knows what/Who We need. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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Energy is ignorantly wasted by neglecting Moral consciousness, doing Alot of Talking & still Saying Nothing. More than What's said to someone what'll be remembered is How You Made them feel; I’d rather be hesitant in my speech then reckless with it’s content. Everyday Life isn't staffed with editors to make comments retractable, not too many weapons cut like the Tongue & tongue lashings take forever to heal. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Recognize the valuable Lesson in any "Bad relationship" for without Knowing Bad We couldn't Identify or Appreciate Good. We're in each others lives for Reasons, Seasons or Lifetimes & it doesn't have to be a Lifetime inorder to make a difference. To keep a Friend You have to be a Friend. Some people You have to Love from a distance so that You can be able to properly Love Yourself. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

At times we have to tap into Our “Inner Contortionist”: It's not Your circumstances that shape You, It's how You shape according to Your circumstances. If You’re capable of changing Your Mind, You’re capable of changing Your Life. Think about it Flexible people don't break or get “Bent out of Shape”. It is What It Is, Now how can You make it Work for You?? Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © August 2011

http://vevo.ly/qUd1yX Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: When dating a New Man We need to pay special attention to the Women he grew up around & the nature of their relationships. It could give You a glimpse into how He’ll be with You. He may not know how to Love You & maybe the type that doesn’t want to learn. Its not always P.M.S. sometimes it’s that “He-A-Mess”. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Okay Ladies Fall’s about to be in effect. We should be getting on Our grind while being in hibernation; this year I’m trying something New. I’ll still have shows for Everyone but one night a week will be ONLY for Ladies email me at neciaism@live.com or FaceBook inbox Sistar Necia with days & times that would be most convenient. The link is http://ping.fm/EJnCU - Same rules as always No Hate; ALL LOVE ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Okay Ladies Fall’s about to be in effect. We should be getting on Our grind while being in hibernation; this year I’m trying something New. I’ll still have shows for Everyone but one night a week will be ONLY for Ladies email me at neciaism@live.com or FaceBook inbox Sistar Necia with days & times that would be most convenient. The link is http://ping.fm/EJnCU - Same rules as always No Hate; ALL LOVE ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

It'd be easier to teach a Snake to walk upright & a Cat to bark; than to get a genuinely sneaky individual to become trustworthy & or Loyal. Somethings You can't ever be taught; it has to come naturally to You; You have to be born with it. Stay Prayerful, Focused Encouraged & Aware. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

http://ping.fm/Q1TXF Life is short, We should:Love Carelessly; If We get hurt, remember Destiny Always finds its way & what doesn't kill Us makes Us stronger. Love Our haters they're Secret Admirers, Make Love with Our eyes closed as the best things in life are Unseen. Remember every minute spent sad is 60 seconds of joy that's gone. Existence being Appointments & not Accidents, plan to Live Out Loud & NEVER SETTLE for ANYTHING/ONE beneath Us because We deserve Only the Best. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

I Love Me Some "Him"... not what He drives, but what drives Him, not how He moves, but what moves Him. I pray for Him & He prays for Himself. He has a Big heart & I'm always in it. He allows Me to teach Him & He's anxious to learn Me. He has several friends but He's strongest when He stands alone. I can Live without Him but I just don't want to. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011  http://vevo.ly/iir3X5 

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Sisters We need to leave a Lasting Impression. The only thing Better than Being Loved is Loving. Understand His Past, Believe in His future & Accept Him all the same. Be the type of Woman that's Hard to find, Painful to leave & Impossible to forget for being made from His rub by birth You're already what he needs. The title "Woman" is more Powerful & Prestigious than some of Us realize... ~LuvUMuch  Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Created from a rib, We were intended to be Help-Mates; Ignorance has since made that term a "badge of shame", a sign of Weakness & Stupidity. It takes Courage to play Your position & Intelligence to know what Your position is. Respect the honor of Him being the Man. Appreciate the prestige of being the Woman & Embrace them both as We all have Our designated roles; that's not sexist, it's TRUTH ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

http://vevo.ly/f4ZBMC.  Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: We have to be mindful when composing Our Perfect Mate list of requirements; realistically We should Only expect to Eat what We Ourselves bring to the table. You can't buy Imported Wine with Coupons & FoodStamps nor can an evolved adult expect a civilized relationship with a Caveman; so if You're barely a Girl-Scout stop screaming You want a Soldier. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

When We feel like Our prayers aren't being answered maybe We're praying for things outside God's will & like Our Father he stepped in to protect his child from AnyThing/One imposing harm; as sometimes We're a threat to Ourself. Our Faith let's Us Know God Loves Us but Our Heart & Flesh can't Feel it, so We're instructed "lean Not towards Our own understanding". That Job, that House, that Lover was Not for You; Let it Go obviously God has something better.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Challenges make You discover the Inner Strength You posses without even knowing it was present. Start to view Your Trials as Detours, not Dead Ends. Some Succeed because they’re Destined; the Masses Succeed because they’re both Destined & Determined. Your fear of not even trying has to Over Power Your fear of failure. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Life is short, We should:Love Carelessly; If We get hurt, remember Destiny Always finds its way & what doesn't kill Us makes Us stronger. Love Our haters they're Secret Admirers, Make Love with Our eyes closed as the best things in life are Unseen. Remember every minute spent sad is 60 seconds of joy that's gone. Existence being Appointments & not Accidents, plan to Live Out Loud & NEVER SETTLE for ANYTHING/ONE beneath Us because We deserve Only the Best. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Life is short so Love Carelessly; if You get hurt, know what doesn't kill You makes You stronger.& Destiny Always finds its way. Love Your haters they're Your Secret Admirers Kiss with Your eyes closed as the best things in life are Priceless & Unseen. Remember every minute You spend sad is 60 seconds of joy You lost. Life is Appointments not Accidents, so plan to Live Out Loud & NEVER SETTLE for ANYTHING/ONE that doesn't deserve You because You don't deserve that. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Individuals handle trauma differently. A person's troubled past may subconsciously drive them to hurt those who try to help them as hurt people tend to Hurt People. In protecting Yourself You may need to Love them from a distance. Loving a heartless spirit can be a waste of time & effort; like trying to teach someone how to swim without them knowing their drowning or even in water. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

You have to leave Where You Are to get to Where You’re trying to Be. If You don't have the Confidence & Courage to walk alone, others will not have the Confidence & Courage to walk with or even follow You. Birds fly because they have wings; Believers fly because We have Faith. Stay Prayerful. Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © August 2011

It may be the Most Difficult Task to pray for Someone who means You Nothing but Harm however keep in mind after the Toughest Fight comes the Greatest Reward! Be thankful You Are not where They Are in their walk any longer. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Above the Negativity ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

The old addage is not only true its inevitable; hurt people, Hurt People, like children We learn what We live. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism http://ping.fm/tSDeB I'm being replaced by my alter-ego
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What makes Us think if We pray about Goals & or Desires but avoid working towards them they'll magically fall out of the sky? Scripture reads: "if a Man doesn't work he shouldn't eat" therefore get up, get out & make it happen. You can't make moves by just thinking about them. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  Good Morning! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

http://ping.fm/gytih Everything happens for a reason, Let Go & Let God, Pray about Everything & worry about nothing; these all sound Good & are easier said than done. On occasion We’re put in situations to test Our Faith; God wants Us to put Our Walk where Our Mouth is. At some point & time We just have to Surrender because ultimately We'll go; the question is if it'll be by Will or Force... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

So much energy is wasted neglecting Moral consciousness by doing alot of talking & still saying Nothing. More than What's said to someone what'll be remembered is How You Made them feel; I’d rather be hesitant in my speech then reckless with it’s content. Everyday Life isn't staffed with editors to make comments retractable, not too many weapons cut like the Tongue & tongue lashings take forever to heal. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

There is a new study about women and how they feel about their asses. The results were pretty interesting: 30% of women think their ass is too fat, 10% of women think their ass is too skinny, the remaining 60% say they don't care, they love him, he is a good man, and wouldn't trade him for the world. Feel free to repost this & make someone laugh ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Don’t lower Your Standards & Goals to the level of Your Abilities. Elevate Your Abilities to the height of Your Goals & Standards. Nobody’s Perfect but if You Strive for Perfection You’re destined to Achieve the Best Available to You. We all have Individual Journeys, Paths, Destinations & therefore Definitions of Success; Strive to be the Best at Your Own. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

OMGoodness, I'm about to start a FB Group called " No Offense But Please Don't Add Me to Your Group, just Invite Me & Give Me the Option of Joining " Sheesh!ThisIsGettingOutOfControl    ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Wow, can You imagine within the blink of an eye We can all be sitting in the the True Seat of Judgement? Not TMZ, not Wendy Williams, not the Nosey ass neighbors not even Our church pastors & congregations but the True Seat of Judgement... Atheists & all. We can pretend like We don't know better but We all do c'mon now.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Ok now does He have everyone's attention? He said "Be still & Know that I am God"... Gas Prices, the recession, not even the Anti-Christ has nothing on the truth ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: We have to be mindful when composing Our Perfect Mate list of requirements; realistically We should Only expect to Eat what We Ourselves bring to the table. You can't buy Imported Wine with Coupons & FoodStamps nor can an evolved adult expect to have a civilized relationship with a Caveman; so if You're barely a Girl-Scout stop screaming about You want a Soldier. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Motown songwriter Nick Ashford dies
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RIP - Nick Ashford of the Motown songwriting duo Ashford & Simpson has died at age 70. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

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When You're generous in nature You may instinctively be anxious to share, however not everyone is worthy of reeping the benefits of Your labor. Where You tend to Pray others may view You solely as Prey. True friends are Priceless while False friends are Expensive so its cost effective to be clear on the difference. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When You're generous in nature You may instinctively be anxious to share, however not everyone is worthy of reeping the benefits of Your labor. Where You tend to Pray others may view You solely as Prey. True friends are Priceless while False friends are Expensive so its important to be clear on the difference. Know Your surroundings. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

You can't want something for someone more than they want it for themselves. Although We may want to help sometimes We're stepping on God's toes. He's the Father & will discipline accordingly. Valuable Lessons & Blessings come from struggles so on occasion the best help You can offer someone You Love when they seem to be Struggling is to turn away & pray for them. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

You can't want something for someone more than they want it for themselves. Although We may want to help sometimes We're stepping on God's toes. He's the Father & will discipline accordingly. Some valuable Lessons & Blessings come from struggles so on occasion the best help You can offer someone You Love is to turn away & pray for them. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

While Under Pressure, maintain focus, see disturbances for what they are:"Intentional Distractions" to shake You off Your square. Airplanes fly so high they can't help but experience turbulence; Annoying? Yes, Deadly? No. Buckle Your seat belt & Keep Flying. When You're trying to do what's right it feels like nothing's going Your way however, if You weren't a Threat & on the verge of Greatness Your walk in the wilderness would be a Stroll in the Park. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: No matter how much of a “Bitch” his wife is, How unattractive She may be or make Him feel like He is; make no mistake that’s still His wife. When You let squatters live in Your House You bring down Your property value. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Men are instinctively drawn to Strength, However there is a Significant Difference between being a “Strong Woman” & Acting Like A Man. Men want Wives Not Husbands. If You make him feel like Less Of A Man, he will behave like Less Of A Man. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

http://ping.fm/9EtGT Dear Haters, the Envious, My Doubters & Enemies, I have so much more for You to be mad at. Please be patient ;-) ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

http://ping.fm/xQCKn Prayer without Effort & Belief are dead words. The definition of Faith is belief in the unseen. Speak It, Believe It, Live It, Become It. When we Doubt Ourselves We’re doubting Our Creator. God said “You are More Than a Conqueror” & as a Man thinketh in His heart so is He... Just Surrender Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Dear Haters, the Envious, My Doubters & Enemies, I have so much more for You to be mad at. Please be patient ;-) ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Dear Haters, the Envious & My Enemies, I have so much more for You to be mad at. Just be patient ;-) ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Smph, Chivalry is not dead & God is a Gentleman; He won't break into Our homes We have to invite Him in... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Time spent trying to give directions where You’re headed when Your peers have difficulty reading maps, will only frustrate You & prolong reaching Your destination. Invite others for the ride, if they can’t make the trip, then so be it; just call them when You get there. Life like Success is a personal journey; therefore it’s a struggle to share Your vision. Similar to this blog, Some Will Get it & some won’t. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Don’t be so quick to Blame God when Calamities hit. No one’s perfect, We ALL fall short at one time or another & Eventually We Have to pay for Our transgressions; so consider it One debt Paid In Full. Karma doesn't move in a straight line it actually travels in circles. Good, Bad or Indifferent We reap what We sew. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Make time to Pamper Him & keep Him on a pedestal but Never completely abandon Your Life & or extracurricular activities that make You, You. Business driven Men appreciate a Busy Woman. When You both have lives it allows for the space needed to miss one another. Only food should be Smothered, everything else needs a Life. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Just because You're spinning Your wheels it doesn't mean You're going anywhere; some journeys are endless because that particular destination is Not for You; don't be afraid to change direction. It's easy to confuse Moving & Progressing. Taking a Spinning class & Cycling Cross-Country both provide exercise but only one will strengthen both Your Body & Mind. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Enlightened. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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I'm being replaced by My alter-ego, seems like there's only room for One; see You on the other side... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

When people ask Me where I'm headed My response leaves most thinking I'm delusional in My future expectations without being a Trump or from widely Known Royalty. However without it being publicized I'm a heir to the Throne. Your "Nay-Sayers" don't think You're Successful they Know it. The only one who hasn't gotten the Memo about Your Amazing Future is You. You're Your Biggest Competition; Get Out of Your own way ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright ©2011

Anger is sometimes the mask that Hurt wears when its ashamed to show You its face. An Angered Spirit is a Tortured Spirit. What You may hear is "I'm Mad at You" when what was said is "I'm in Pain". The Best people can make the Worst mistakes & the Worst Results can stem from the Best Intentions; without the ability to Forgive, We limit Our ability to Love. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Never abandon what’s obviously Yours but Flawed to covet what's seemingly Flawless but Someone else’s. A level of Respect is earned with repairing Your own Home in lieu of packing up, relocating & subletting Your Sister’s House. Layman's Trems: If You Leave Your Man to sleep with her's, You'll end up in a Manage' Trois with Karma & that Bitch can hold a grudge! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules:Women are Maternal; We want to Nurture & "Fix". We need to Understand the difference between trying to “Fix” a relationship & trying to “Change” a person. We can’t hold anyone but Ourselves accountable for painful backlash associated with one's character when their behavior is instinctive as opposed to intentional. If a Dog bites Us He's only doing what He does & We should've known that was a risk when We chose to play with Him ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

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When people ask Me where I'm headed My response leaves most thinking I'm delusional in My future expectations without being a Trump or from widely Known Royalty. However without it being publicized I'm a heir to the Throne. Like My "Nay-Sayers" don't think I'm Phenomenal they Know I Am & so do I. The only one who hasn't gotten the Memo about Your Success is You. As Your Biggest Competition get Out of Your own way. ~ LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Just because You're spinning Your wheels it doesn't mean You're going anywhere; some journeys are endless because that particular destination is Not for You; don't be afraid to change direction. It's easy to confuse Moving & Progressing. Taking a Spinning class & Cycling Cross-Country both provide exercise but only one will strengthen both Your Body & Mind. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Enlightened. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Just because You're spinning Your wheels it doesn't mean You're going anywhere; some journeys are endless because that particular destination is Not for You; don't be afraid to change direction. It's easy to confuse Moving & Progressing. Taking a Spinning class & cycling cross-country both provide exercise but only one will expose You to new cultures Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Enlightened. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Due to Our stubborn nature, it's only when We get hurt after a fall that We Learn. Everyone makes mistakes but as adults we shouldn't be repeating them; with Error should come Growth as in Child to Adult, Novice to Expert. Even within the theory of Evolution is common sense; the transition is Monkey to Man NOT Man to Monkey. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: As Women we’re Maternal & want to Nurture & "Fix". We need to Understand the difference between trying to “Fix” a relationship & trying to “Change” a person. You can’t hold anyone but Yourself accountable for painful backlash associated with one's character when their behavior is instinctive as opposed to intentional. If a Dog bites You He's only doing what He knows & You should've known that when You decided to play with Him. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Identify Your Need, Understand Your Obstacle, Recognize Your Responsibility, and Become Your Answer. Life may not be going the way You intended, but it is going EXACTLY the way God planned it; We know what We want but He knows what We need. Sometimes We're forced to put Our Walk where Our Faith is... Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

If You think it can't happen don't worry it won't; just like If You think it can happen without question it Will.  Good Bad or indifferent We have the ability to WILL Our desires into Existence. Life struggles can get so intense We have no choice but to Let Go & Let God. A Believer should understand at the edge of the cliff, Only 1 of 2 things will happen; God will catch You when you fall, or He'll teach You how to fly.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011  

Challenges make You discover the Inner Strength You posses without even knowing it was present.  Start to view Your Trials as Detours not Dead Ends. Some Succeed because they’re Destined; the Masses Succeed because they’re both Destined & Determined.  Your fear of not even trying has to Over Power Your fear of failure. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright  © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: The only thing Better than Being Loved is Loving. Remember by Nature We were made from His rib & what He Needs so do what comes natural Understand His past, Believe in His future & Accept Him all the same. Be the type of Woman that’s Hard to Find, Painful to Leave & Impossible to Forget. Real Women are Blessings Not Burdens. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright  © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Sisters We have the ability to make it easy. Men are more emotional then they let on or even know themselves. If You want to make Him Love, Respect & Appreciate You, show Him how much You Love, Respect & Appreciate Him. More than loving the Woman herself He Loves the way You Him feel... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Understand the differences between Men & Women far surpasses the physical. We actually speak different languages; Sisters We have to be mindful just because We said something that doesn't mean that's what He heard. Without being a job a relationship still requires work. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Patient. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

If Your Ambition & Potential makes Your Peers feel inadequate. You may need to find New Peers. Surround Yourself with those achieving Goals from Dreams You have yet to have; not for the purpose of looking down on anyone, but for incentive to keep striving for better. If Your Peers are threatened by Your Success, They Will Without Question Threaten Your Success. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © August 2011

Just like You know who Your friends are when You face tough times, God knows How strong Your Faith is when You face tough times. Scripture reads: Let not Your heart be troubled, neither be afraid. Remember as believers We Walk by Faith not by Sight. You are Never Alone; Stay Prayerful & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © August 2011

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Time spent trying to give directions where You're headed when Your peers have difficulty reading maps, will only frustrate You & prolong reaching Your destination. Invite others for the ride, if they can't make the trip, then so be it; just call them when You get there. Life like Success is a personal journey; therefore it's a struggle to share Your vision. Similar to this blog, Some Will Get it & some won't  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

http://ping.fm/WPYZ2 I Love Me Some "Him"... not what He drives, but what drives Him, not how He moves, but what moves Him. I pray for Him & He prays for Himself. He has a Big heart & I'm always in it. He allows Me to teach Him & He's anxious to learn Me. He has several friends but He's strongest when He stands alone. I can Live without Him but I just don't want to. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

I care for an Elderly woman who spent her Youth blaming her tortured childhood on the world mainly her own child. Routinely the demons of her past consume her; Guilt eating away at what should be the Happiest time of her Life. When You're an inmate of the prison in Your mind there is No Escape or Early Release date; the only option You have is to serve Your time. Sew Dirt You Reep Dirt ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Women in My family aren't Happy unless they're Miserable. Disruptive Patterns & Vicious Cycles are made to be broken. You can't be Liberated from what You've awarded Power To & You can't award Power To what You've been Liberated from. Family curses are options. Consciously decide to Totally Love & Live Your Life. Whoever won't Go to Heaven with You can Go to Hell without You ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©August 2011

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I Love Me Some "Him"... not what He drives, but what drives Him, not how He moves, but what moves Him. I pray for Him & He prays for Himself. He has a Big heart & I'm always in it. He allows Me to teach Him & He's anxious to learn Me. He has several friends but He's strongest when He stands alone. I can Live without Him but I just don't want to. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When We feel like Our prayers aren't being answered it's that We're praying for things outside God's will. Like a parent He'll step in & protect His children from AnyThing/One imposing harm; even when We're endangering Ourselves. This is when Our Faith let's Us Know God Loves Us but Our Heart & Flesh can't Feel it. This is why We're instructed "lean Not towards Our own understanding". ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright ©2011

Set a goal to Exceed Your Personal Best. Work like Your Life depends on You & Pray like Your Life depends on God. Pray about Everything & Worry about NOTHING. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © August 2011

Just like You know who Your friends are when You face tough times, God knows How strong Your Faith is when You face tough times. Scripture reads: Let not Your heart be troubled, neither be afraid. Remember as believers We Walk by Faith not by Sight. You are not Alone; Stay Prayerful & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © August 2011

Identify Your Need, Understand Your Obstacle, Recognize Your Responsibility, and Become Your Answer. Life may not be going the way You intended, but it is going EXACTLY the way God planned it; We know what We want but He knows what We need. Pray about Everything & Worry about NOTHING. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © August 2011

Women in My family aren't Happy unless they're Miserable. Disruptive Patterns & Vicious Cycles are made to be broken. You can't be Liberated from what You've awarded Power To & You can't award Power To what You've been Liberated from. Family curses are options. Consciously decide to Totally Love & Live Your Life. Whoever won't Go to Heaven with You can Go to Hell without You ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©August 2011

Nothing can stop someone with a Successful Attitude from achieving their goal; just like nothing can help someone with a Failure’s attitude from falling short. You can’t get light from darkness; if You run from anything run from Negativity, Be Beyond Blessed.  Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & POSITIVE. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © August 2011

If They want nothing to do with Your fight, then They should have nothing to do with Your Victory; real friends walk in when others walk out. One can still manage to be lonely when surrounded by a group of false friends; again proof that Quality trumps Quantity. You need to be Held Down not Dragged Down.  Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & AWARE ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © August 2011

Whatever we put forth Good, Bad or Indifferent we get Back 10 Fold, like yelling into a cave You're bound to get a Loud Echo.  We have to be mindful of what we Do or Say & Always give our Very Best to ensure receiving the Very Best and If You wouldn't eat it, don't try to serve it to Anyone else. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © August 2011

Whatever we put forth Good, Bad or Indifferent we get Back 10 Fold, like yelling into a cave You're bound to get a Loud Echo.  We have to be mindful of what we Do or Say & Always give our Very Best to ensure receiving the Very Best. Stay Focused, Prayerful & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © August 2011

Due to Our stubborn nature, it's only when We get hurt after a fall that We Learn. Everyone makes mistakes but as adults we shouldn't be repeating them; with Error should come Growth as in Child to Adult, Novice to Expert. Evolution is Monkey to Man NOT Man to Monkey. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © August 2011

Become the Willing, who is led by Unknowing, to achieve the Impossible. In Faith, certain Goals have to be Believed & seen in the Spiritual inorder to be Seen & Received in the Natural. God said "Call things as they will be as if they already Are"; not even the Greatest Magician can make Him a Liar. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © August 2011

To Be Worthy of this Life and make it The Best Life, You have to place Value on it & Assess it's Worth. If Your Time is Valuable then do something Valuable & Constructive with it. Yes, God Works Wonders; but through Us, God will Make Wonders Work. Being More than a Conqueror You can make a Way out of No Way. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright  © August 2011

To all single ladies who are in such a hurry to get married, here's a quick piece of Biblical advice: Ruth patiently waited for her mate, Boaz. While waiting on YOUR Boaz, don't settle for ANY of his relatives: Brokeaz, Poaz, Lyinaz, Cheatinaz, Dumbaz, Cheapaz, Lockedupaz Goodfornot hinaz, Lazyaz or Marriedaz and especially his third cousin Beatinyoaz . Please, wait on your Boaz & make sure he respects Yoaz! Jocelynn Lorraine

Women in My family aren't Happy unless they're Miserable. Disruptive Patterns & Vicious Cycles are made to be broken. You can't be Liberated from what You've awarded Power To & You can't award Power To what You've been Liberated from. Family curses are options. Consciously decide to Totally Love & Live Your Life. Whoever won't Go to Heaven with You can Go to Hell without You ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © August 2011

If Your Ambition & Potential makes Your Peers feel inadequate. You may need to find New Peers. Surround Yourself with those achieving Goals from Dreams You have yet to have; not for the purpose of looking down on anyone, but for incentive to keep striving for better. If Your Peers are threatened by Your Success, They Will Without Question Threaten Your Success. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © August 2011

Downplaying Our Gifts, Blessings & Intelligence so other's won't feel insecure doesn't serve God & to serve God is why Man was created. Our psyche is an obscure entity; We convince Ourselves We're afraid to fail when in actuality We're afraid to succeed. "As A Man Thinketh In His Heart So Is He" ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © August 2011