Family curses are made to be broken; the women in My family are not happy unless they are unhappy. So many are not comfortable unless they are miserable enough to be uncomfortable; at ease only in the midst of chaos. I've decided to begin a New family cycle; New habits & traits passed down from Generation to Generation… Traits of Piety, Positivity, Peace & Prosperity. As People We follow examples rather than Advice; so Me being a stubborn person thus allowing Me to Understand stubborn people. I have to Live & Lead by Example if I truly Love Myself or whomever follows Me. After all the enemy is not challenged by where I came from or where I am but by where I'm going... Straight to the Top; not inspite of but because of My humbling beginnings, long Journey & My Strength building struggle. Remember There can be no Victory without a fight. #DestinedForGreatness Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2013 https://www.facebook.com/pages/Neciaism/188220187272?ref=ts http://twitter.com/Neciaism http://neciaism.tumblr.com/

Make Him want to Rush Home... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Business driven Men appreciate a Busy Woman. However knowing that You are a busy Woman, can You imagine how Privileged & Appreciated He will feel when You take the time out to find out what time He's coming home & then not just prepare a meal but make His plate & greet Him with open arms? Even on those occasions when You are upset & have a few "choice words" for Him; let Him get home get settled, debrief from the stresses of the world outside those doors… before He ends up in a heated debate. In all honesty Sisters, Men are not that complexed. They may be the physically stronger however not necessarily emotionally superior; a little stroking goes a long way. When they fall in Love with Us they are actually more in Love with the way that We make them feel, whether they realize it or not. Take time out to Pamper Him & keep Him on a pedestal but never completely abandon Your Life & or extracurricular activities that make You, You. These are the qualities that embody a "Strong Woman in a Relationship". Just keep in mind there's a difference between being a Strong Woman & being a MAN; Men want Wives, not Husbands. When You both have individual identities it allows for the space needed to miss one another. Only food should be smothered, everything else is entitled to & worthy of a nurturing, loving, Life. Just make sure You give Him a reason to rush home; home is supposed to provide Peace & Serenity that's supposed to be His Haven. #WorkingSmarterNotHarder #TeamHappyHome "Women are Crazy & Men are Stupid… for lack of better terms of course" a Neciaism Original writing ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2013 https://www.facebook.com/pages/Neciaism/188220187272?ref=ts http://twitter.com/Neciaism http://neciaism.tumblr.com/ http://www.Neciaism.com/

Understand that the enemy is the master of deception. His job is to divide and conquer in any positive relationship; even that of Christ and his followers. This being said it is certain that the worst places, things & people for Us tend to be the most appealing as well as difficult to separate from. We have to be very careful when We're chasing situations down & abandoning everything else to be in particular company, that We are not sabotaging God's plan of protecting Us from it, therefore He's removing it from Our lives. When You are unequally yoked with any person, place or thing, You are almost certain to become a product of Your environment & or step out of character, conforming to the ways polar-opposite of what You stand for. Remember I always say people are like gravity if they are not Elevating You, then they are weighing You down. Settling is for debris Kings & Queens should be treated like royalty & deserve the Best that Life has to offer. Learning to be still while God is moving is a process... Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Enlightened ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2013 https://www.facebook.com/pages/Neciaism/188220187272?ref=ts http://twitter.com/Neciaism http://neciaism.tumblr.com/