Chad 'Ochocinco' Johnson Arrested for Domestic Violence

Chad 'Ochocinco' Johnson Arrested for Domestic Violence

What's Perfect in an Imperfect World? ~LuvUMuch Neciaism 

A Boy can't Love You like a Man... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: One of my sisters is 10 years my Sr, she's single and only attracted to males atleast 10 years her Jr; at this stage in life with no children while most of Our sister circle are Mothers, Wives or both she's starting to face & accept the strong possibility of growing old alone. This whole "Cougar/Mrs. Robinson" fad is really sexy & romantic, however being just as sexy but realistic, when we pursue boys we have to realize they're bound to act like Boys; Male Children.  Children are incapable of deep romantic relationships, don't want one & neither should they. As a grown Woman the discretion is Ours in realizing what's to window shop & what's to buy; furthermore since when do adults sit at the kids table during Thanksgiving dinner? IJS   Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Realistic. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012 https://www.facebook.com/pages/Neciaism/188220187272

What/Whomever You submit to You become a slave to it. If We want better results We have to make better decisions. We decide what We make of Our lives don't confuse Tradition with Truth; Women in My family aren't Happy unless they're Miserable. Disruptive Patterns & Vicious Cycles are made to be broken. You can't be Liberated from what You've awarded Power To & You can't award Power To what You've been Liberated from. Family curses are Options Not Laws. Consciously decide to Totally Love & Live Your Life. Let Whomever won't Go to Heaven with You, Go to Hell without You. Your Future belongs to You not Your forefathers it's called the past because You've moved passed it. Happy Independence Day!! XOXO ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Just because You're spinning Your wheels it doesn't mean You're going anywhere; some journeys are endless because that particular destination is Not for You; don't be afraid to change direction. It's easy to confuse Moving & Progressing. Taking a Spinning class & cycling cross-country both provide exercise but only one will expose You to new cultures, Broaden Your Horizons & physically take You to new places. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Enlightened. Good Morning, Today's a New Day with New Possibilities! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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God knows and so do I, I'm a work in progress that falls short every day. I accept that, I don't relish in it . I strive for better with sincerity and try not to repeat my mistakes. The embodiment of righteousness & integrity is being the best You, You can be, doing what You know is right & trying to please God; even when no one is watching. Masses may watch You & admire what they see outwardly but that still doesn't ensure You God's favor. Our religions aren't nearly as important as Our relationships. Have an Awesomely Blessed, Prosperous & Enlightened week All  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Don’t be so quick to Blame God when Calamities hit. No one’s perfect, We ALL fall short at one time or another & Eventually We Have to pay for Our transgressions; so consider it One debt Paid In Full. Karma doesn't move in a straight line it actually travels in circles. Remember Good, Bad or Indifferent We reap what We sew. Just like yelling into a cave the words that echo are Your own. Don't try to feed someone what You wouldn't eat Yourself. When I write, I'm not judging I'm sharing as these are things/flaws/behaviors I witness in My own reflection. I realize the toughest fight is within Me, Myself & I on whether to yield to either Flesh or Spirit.  Whats right within speech, movement & or behavior isn't always synonymous with whats popular, or what feels good.  Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged... Not just for You but for someone else.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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To Illuminate implies You shine brightly. A Star's stature is too elevated to stoop to the depth of ignorance, mastered by those who dwell in Darkness. We must Maintain Our elite stature by requiring the "Help" to use the Service Entrance NEVER the Front Door. Its nothing personal there is hieracrhy in every form of Life. You're either a Chess Player or a Chess Piece. Those who see darkness when they look at, then try to judge my family are simply blinded by OUR LI/GHT. Safe Travels. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Our nightmare today can be a Dream come true tomorrow. Life can hit Us with so much pain its almost impossible to see past the hurt & anticipate the good that may come of it. Having pride & being human We tend to struggle with forgiveness as its perceived a sign of weakness. Know that as much strength as it takes to endure pain it takes atleast 10 fold to move past it & forgive who/what caused it. You have to Go thru something, to Get thru Anything & without a fight, a victory is Impossible. Not every individual is worthy of forgiveness however keep in mind how worthy Your soul is of being able to forgive. The Ultimate goal is God's favor no one else's. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & with Your Eye on the Prize. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: As Women we act off of Emotions & the fact of the matter is we are proned to Talk Too Much. At times we allow situations to get blown out of proportion by running off at the mouth due to one wrong word, look or gesture that flipped Our switch. It’s impossible to Listen & Talk simultaneously. We’d be surprised how much We hear with Our mouths closed & ears open. If We continue to freely give Every situation a piece of Our minds how much will We be left with when it's time to think? Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged WomenAreCrazy&MenAreStupid... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Everything happens for a reason, Let Go & Let God, Pray about Everything & worry about nothing; these all sound Good but they’re easier said than done. On occasion We’re put in situations to test Our Faith; God wants Us to put Our walk where Our mouth is. If Jesus could be crucified without saving himself even though he was capable, whatever it is We can weather the storm. Sometimes We have to assume Our position as the passenger on this ride of 'Life", know God is in charge & allow him to drive. What's the worst that could happen? Even if You crash God is at Your side & he will sustain You. Driving being the perfect analogy; ironic & insulting how We put Our lives in the hands of man; Pilots, Physician, Drivers, even Pyschics but when it comes to God the one who gave Us life to begin with We're leary. Listen what God has for You no One can take away... Just Surrender ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © June 2012
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Of course Life is hard & being Human at times We feel like its a constant struggle. Scripture reads "They that live Godly shall suffer prosecution" If You were not a child of God, Destined for Greatness & a threat to the Enemy, Your walk in the Wilderness would be a Stroll in the park. The Higher a plane Flies the Greater chances of experiencing Turbulence. God Never said it would be Easy what He said is It Is Done i.e., "Possible". Enough Faith will provide You with Grace in the midst of Any Storm. When Your wealth is lost, You lost Nothing, when Your health is lost, You lost Something, when Your Faith is lost, You lost EVERYTHING. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Enlightened. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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I saw a thought provoking sign online, it read: "I asked God to protect Me from All of My enemies & then I started Losing Friends"... Deep right? It occurred to Me that people are like Gravity, if They aren't lifting You up They're dragging You down. We can't expect to fly with dead weight on Our wings. Some trips are designed to be solo flights. As uncomfortable as it may be there are instances We're faced to leave the familiar, Stand & Walk by Faith. On occasion We have to just step off that cliff & Trust that God will either catch Us or teach Us to Fly. FAITH=Forsaking All Insecurities & Trusting Him... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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It's not that I've changed it's that I've Grown & I'm not getting New, You just never really Knew Me. When You rise above where people think You should be, they tend to have a problem with it. Your Success can be offensive to others; very few people will congratulate You for living out their dreams. This amongst other reasons make some of Us afraid to Excel. If You have to be afraid of anything, be afraid of not giving it Your All, Always in ALL WAYS. When We don't use Our Gifts We forfeit Our Blessings. We owe it to God to Rise & Shine like the Stars We were created to be. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Bold about Your Greatness ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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When they see You pray sometimes You're seen as Prey. Sincere Love & Piety may compel You to show a miserable spirit a glimpse of Heaven; ultimately frustrating Yourself as that spirit can't shake it's homesick feeling for Hell. Some people aren't happy unless they're unhappy. For that I couldn't tell You what to do however I can advise what Not to do;...Allow it to steal Your Joy. Misery is the spirit form of a flesh eating bacteria, a cancer & like a cancer it needs to be cut out before it spreads. You can give someone a priceless gift by praying for them & simply turning away. We can't spend Our lives loving everyone else more than they love themselves. Realize when You Love Yourself You're also Loving God as Your life is a gift that he gave You... Cherish it & make the most out of it. Those of Us who are genuinely Loving & Caring periodically forget to Love & Care for Ourselves. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Sincere Love & Piety may compel You to show a miserable spirit a glimpse of Heaven; ultimately frustrating Yourself as that spirit can't shake it's home-sick feeling for Hell. Some people aren't happy unless they're unhappy. For that I couldn't tell You what to do however I can advise what Not to do;...Allow it to steal Your Joy. Misery is the spirit form of a flesh eating bacteria, a cancer & like a cancer it needs to be cut out before it spreads. You can give someone a priceless gift by praying for them & simply turning away. We can't spend Our lives loving everyone else more than they love themselves. Realize when You Love Yourself You're also Loving God as Your life is a gift that he gave You... Cherish it & make the most out of it. Those of Us who are genuinely Loving & Caring periodically forget to Love & Care for Ourselves. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: No matter how strong a Man is he still stands to benefit from a level of support; even the Rock of Gibraltar needs someThing/One to lean on. The most beneficial relationships are ones where the parties involved teach One another, learn from One another, uplift One another & in essence support One another. If stagnation is what One wants that can be accomplished alone. What makes a Significant Other Significant is the understanding that they are Blessings not a Burdens. Sisters We were created from His rib to be an important part of His backbone... We Hold Him down, not beat him down ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Love is not a Boomerang; there's no guarantee that when You throw it out there it'll come back to You. Sometimes You have to turn away from someone You truly Love inorder to truly Love Yourself. As Big as this world is realize only debris was designed to settle; Be steadfast & patient for what(who) You want; Brothers, You'll find Her & Sisters, He'll find You. Sometimes We're forced to put Our walk where Our faith is... Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Guess who's back minus the weight but double the vocals... She still got it LaTocha Scott (formerly of Xscape) ~LuvUMuch Neciaism
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Distance makes the Heart Grow Fonder... Individuals handle trauma differently. A person's troubled past may subconsciously drive them to hurt those who try to help them as hurt people tend to Hurt People. In protecting Yourself & demonstrating "How to Love" You may need to step back & Love them from a distance. Loving a heartless spirit can be a waste of time & effort; like trying to teach someone how to swim without them knowing their drowning or even in water for that matter. When someone hurts You, try to step outside Your flesh, step into Your Spirit & forgive them. Betrayal isn't always a personal attack so much as it is a personality flaw & flaws like having a 'Sin Nature' is something that We all have. Life's too short to do Anything but Love, Laugh & Live; so enjoy Loving Life & start with learning to Love Yourself. You can teach someone how to treat You by them witnessing how You treat Yourself. Sadly some Hate to Love & Love to Hate... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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When the Rock of Gibraltar, the strongest object known to man gets weak what does it lean on? No matter how strong or self-sufficient We claim to be at some point & time We all need support. As Human beings We have an instinctive, inborn sin nature that makes most of Us more willing to hurt than to help however that doesn't make it right. There's a significant difference between Truth & Tradition. Unfortunately doing what's right isn't synonymous with what's popular. As captain of Our Own ships it's charged to Our heads to carry Ourselves Accordingly & Pray as if " All Is Well" until it actually is... IN THIS PICTURE THEY WE'RE ALREADY MR. PRESIDENT & THE FIRST LADY OF THE USA; Don't sleep on Faith. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged for life has to be lived not dwelling on how things were but Anticipating how they will be.
~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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(THROW BACK)Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Sisters acknowledge the differences between a male & a Man; where a male may flatter You, a Man will Compliment You; Where a male may spend money on You, a Man will invest in You; Where a male will treat You like Property, a Man will treat You Properly; Where a male will only lust after You, a Man will Lust to Love You; where a male thinks He's God's gift to Women, a Man Knows Woman is God's gift to Man. Knowledge is Power ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©9/2009
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Once You're able to posses & display Sincere Happiness for others in the midst of Your unhappiness it's then & only then that You'll release the karma You need to find joy in Your Own life. The way We Live Good, Bad or Indifferent is like yelling into a cave & what We receive is nothing more than an echo; TEN fold what We put forth. Exude so much Love & Positivity that Your cup cant help but runneth over. By accepting the art of giving, We reap the the joy of receiving. Helping someones Spirit smile is an indescribable feeling . Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & in Love with Love. Pray to be Blessed to be a Blessing. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Even snakes occasionally shed their skin, change is necessary to achieve Growth. I'm realizing in order to get to the top & remain there You have to separate Yourself from those who dwell on the bottom; both misery & ignorance loves company. Sometimes You have to pray for people from a distance for even though You may love them they don't love themselves & the care You may offer them will compromise You caring for Yourself. Love Everyone; including Yourself Accordingly. Sometimes I need to break away from the world & allow God to re-introduce Me to Myself ReflectionIsTherapeutic Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & in Love with You. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: When a Male is respectful, responsible & mature, that doesn't make him "corny" it makes him a Man. Having poor examples of Masculinity from Our childhood We tend to get confused when choosing a mate. Quite often We bypass Clark Kent looking for SuperMan. When dating a New Man We need to pay special attention to the Women he grew up around & the nature of their relationships. It could give You a glimpse into how He’ll be with You. He may not know how to Love You & maybe the type that doesn’t want to learn. You can say what You want about a "Momma's Boys" but if He doesn't respect His Mother, Sis please don't expect any better. Our Lives can't change the truth but accepting the Truth can change Our Lives. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: We're living in the times of the "blended family" so if We expect Him to pay the Bills, Take Out the Trash, Shovel the snow, all the manly duties; it's also within his jurisdiction to discipline the Children. The way We Talk to/Treat him in front of the children can't help but have some bearing on the level of respect he gets from them as well as their impression of the "Family Dynamic". Sisters We can't keep asking Our Men to be Men with the stipulation... only when it's convenient to Us. Not ProMan or ProWoman just ProTruth, I hate being told what to do! but I hate taking out the trash even more, Lol it's a give & take Queens, Mwuah ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Of course my compassion is sincere; whether or not I've met You; Why? Because I've been there. To be so deep that You're taken too seriously while at the same time not be taken seriously enough is to be "Me".   While carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders I realize that even the rock of Gibraltar needed something to lean on; I choose God because he's infallible, will never disappoint Me, is always correct and on time... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Treat that Man like Who He Can & Will be. Not like Who he is or Was. Who wants to be reminded of their flaws? When We treat Our Men like royalty the pressure is on him to Maintain Our Praise or Rise to the Occasion & Earn it. Don't take for granted because men are physically the stronger sex that they are also emotionally superior. Sometimes all He needs is that boost of confidence from His better half to reach His full potential or even become aware of how much He's capable of. Men don't Love Women solely because of Our looks or the history We share, a majority of the Love comes from the way We make Him feel. Single doesn't always mean Your lonely and relationships don't always mean Your happy; make him anxious to come home for in Your eyes He can do know wrong. When You feel Amazing You behave Amazing...
~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Never take relationship advice from a Lonely & or Miserable Woman no matter how much Love & Respect You may have for her as an individual; if She knew so much She'd be applying it to Her own situation as opposed to tearing Your Union apart. Seek guidance from someone who Loves their Lord, their Mate, their Life, Themselves & the idea of being in Love. Not Everyone prays For & or With You, sadly some pray Against You. After a priceless artifact is broken all the glue & sauderring in the world could make it look new but the truth is the value has diminished. Giving Ultimatums, Self Esteem bruising & any other Negative Reinforcement turn Cracks into Faults. You Never want to go past the Point of No Return. Flesh bruises while Hearts & Spirits break. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged, Enlightened & Think Before You Speak OR Listen (We can't just go taking instruction from Every/AnyBody) ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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A Determined Spirit doesn't find it hard to Succeed; they find it hard to Give Up. If You do whatever it takes to get to where/what You want, it can’t help but be worth it. We all error & at times fall short; We have to accept & understand that in being human, the act of failing is what We may have done, but a Failure is NOT what or who We are. Look back on Your past trangressions as lessons learned & inspire to become a Champion standing over the shadow of Your former self. Neither to Quit or to Fail is Not an Option for God said You Are More than A Conqueror. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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No matter how bad Your life is, helping someone else in a worse position will feed Your mind, body, soul & spirit; then elevate You to an unimaginable height. We're not Blessed inorder to 'hoard' in theory its a child of Gods obligation to 'Help'; i believe We are Blessed to be a Blessing.  Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged... Not just for You but for someone else. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Screamed at but heard Nothing, Stifled but not Silenced, Shoved yet held My ground, Bruised but not Broken, You can pull on a warrior all You want but You’ll Never be Able to Pull Them Down. Not all Soldiers wear Combat Boots some of Us adorn Louboutin Stilettos. My Tests are now Testimonies that as a Man thinketh in His Heart so is He; You Never really know what You're capable of until You have no choice in the matter. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Never afraid of exceeding Your Own Limits. Those who dislike You are more than likely Intimidated by Your Greatness, Good Morning! Literally Rise & Shine!!  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Psalm 23 (New Living Translation)
(1) A psalm of David. The LORD is my shepherd; I have everything I need. 
(2) He lets me rest in green meadows; he leads me beside peaceful streams. 
(3) He renews my strength. He guides me along right paths, bringing honor to his name. (4) Even when I walk through the dark valley of death, I will not be afraid, for you are close beside me. Your rod and your staff protect and comfort me. (5) You prepare a feast for me in the presence of my enemies. You welcome me as a guest, anointing my head with oil. My cup overflows with blessings. (6) Surely your goodness and unfailing love will pursue me all the days of my life, and I will live in the house of the LORD forever.

As a child of The Most High, You stand & walk by Faith, not by sight for You are More than a Conqueror... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism 
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Psalm 110 (New Living Translation)
(1 ) A psalm of David. The LORD said to my Lord, "Sit in honor at my right hand until I humble your enemies, making them a footstool under your feet." (2) The LORD will extend your powerful dominion from Jerusalem ; you will rule over your enemies. (3) In that day of battle, your people will serve you willingly. Arrayed in holy garments, your vigor will be renewed each day like the morning dew. (4) The LORD has taken an oath and will not break his vow: "You are a priest forever in the line of Melchizedek." (5) The Lord stands at your right hand to protect you. He will strike down many kings in the day of his anger. 
(6) He will punish the nations and fill them with their dead; he will shatter heads over the whole earth. (7) But he himself will be refreshed from brooks along the way. He will be victorious.

You are More than a Conqueror... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism 
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Psalm 112:4-10 (New Living Translation)
(4)When darkness overtakes the godly, light will come bursting in. They are generous, compassionate, and righteous. (5)All goes well for those who are generous, who lend freely and conduct their business fairly. (6)Such people will not be overcome by evil circumstances. Those who are righteous will be long remembered. (7)They do not fear bad news; they confidently trust the LORD to care for them. (8)They are confident and fearless and can face their foes triumphantly. (9)They give generously to those in need. Their good deeds will never be forgotten. They will have influence and honor. (10)The wicked will be infuriated when they see this. They will grind their teeth in anger; they will slink away, their hopes thwarted.

We stand & walk by Faith, not by sight... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism 
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Don't take Kindness for Weakness, Salvation for Stupidity or Humility for Insecurity. Realize when We wrong anyone & their response is Piety or Silence, apparently its their devotion to a Higher Power that allows them to step outside of what You've done to them & Pray for You; because Pleasing God is more important than Pleasing You. When who You thought was a Loved One betrays You, take that betrayal & be on Your way. When You're good to someone & they take that for granted after losing You they spend most of their energy trying to find Your qualities in new friends. Strive to be the Best You that You can. Genuine Friendship is priceless & losing You whether they admit it or not was nothing they could afford to do. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Humble. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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The toughest fight is within Me, Myself & I on whether to yield to either Flesh or Spirit.  Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged... Not just for You but for someone else.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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By July 1, 2012, I'm mainstreaming, shutting down this page & solely maintaining my fanpage especially seeing as though they've now given us mailboxes on that end. So just as a heads up as I don't want to offend anyone & would like to remain in touch with all of you. Here's the link to my fanpage: http://ping.fm/mWjvn
If You haven't "Like"d it yet please do so now. Thank You in advance for the Love & Support & remember stop at Nothing to achieve Your Goals! Go Hard Always in ALL WAYS! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

An EffortLess Union is far better than one that is EffortFull; Love should be easy for relationships take work & dedication so its the fact that You Love whom You're with enough to apply the effort. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged...  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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No matter how bad Your life is, helping someone else in a worse position will feed Your mind, body, soul & spirit; then elevate You to an unimaginable height. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged... Not just for You but for someone else.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Speechless... BLANK STARE ~LuvUMuch Neciaism
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Misery is a spirit & of course she loves company however unfortunately due to her character she spends a lot of time alone. Someone Miserable, Somewhere at Some  point and time in life will try to steal Your joy. Especially if You're Energy exudes more positivity & joy then they ever thought possible &  only dream of possessing. Those who use their mouths to criticize You are exposing the fact that their spirit envies you. Like Jesus there are times we have to pity babies & fools. The epidemy of ignorance is to be so ignorant that the one whom embodies it can't define it. Walk with Your head up, therefore those beneath You remain in Your blindside.  Never play in trash unless You want to get sick. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Above the Ratchet, LOL. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Cycles were made to break... What/Whomever You submit to You become a slave to it. If We want better results We have to make better decisions. We decide what We make of Our lives don't confuse Tradition with Truth; Women in My family aren't Happy unless they're Miserable. Disruptive Patterns & Vicious Cycles are made to be broken. You can't be Liberated from what You've awarded Power To & You can't award Power To what You've been Liberated from. Family curses are Options Not Laws. Consciously decide to Totally Love & Live Your Life. Let Whomever won't Go to Heaven with You, Go to Hell without You ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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"As a Man Thinketh In His Heart So Is He"... Victim or Victor?, Test or Testimony?, Limited or Limitless?, Intimidated or Inspired?, Fear or Faith?, these are choices afforded to Us from conception in Our Mother's womb. When Your wealth is lost, You lost Nothing, when Your health is lost, You lost Something, when Your Faith is lost, You lost EVERYTHING. You've merely scratched the surface of what God has for You. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Enlightened. Today's the day You begin to Rise Higher & Shine Brighter... Literally Rise & Shine; Good Morning. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Okay Reality/HipHop/Buujh_hetto mistas; its time to tune in... (Looks like Mona Scott has another winner) ~LuvUMuch Neciaism
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To Illuminate implies You shine brightly. A Star's stature is too elevated to stoop to the depth of ignorance, mastered by those who dwell in Darkness. We must Maintain Our Eliteness by demanding the "Help" use the Service Entrance NEVER the Front Door. Its nothing personal there's hieracrhy in every form of Life. You're either a Chess Player or a Chess Piece. Safe Travels; S.M.I.B. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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When You rise above the expectation of others, they tend to have a problem with it. Some can find Your Success offensive; this amongst several reasons make Us afraid to Excel so We stifle Our gifts. When We don't use Our Gifts We forfeit Blessings. The enemy is a Master of deception, he knows Our weaknesses better than We do & will stop at nothing to infiltrate Our Spirit & dim Our Light. When We feel "stuck"or unable to prosper, We need to take a step back & evaluate Our circumstances sometimes the very People, Places & Things that We love or are accustomed to are obstacles blocking our growth therefore they need to be removed inorder for Us to flourish. Negativity, Jealousy & Envy are heavy baggage that tend to weigh one down, however Joy & Success are contagious & when We surround Ourselves by it We're bound to catch it. We can't get  so consumed with what's familiar that We decide not to Let Go & remain stagnant. Substantial change makes Substantial Dollars. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Bold about Your Destiny.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Karma is the Original "Ride or Die Chick" either she has Your back or she'll get You back; whatever the case, she's going No Where until the job's done. Whether You Love her or hate her You have to respect her. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Enlightened & Aware of Your Walk... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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I used to question why a child with No Parents, would be created? Hindsight being 20/20 I now realize having a Loveless childhood & No Support was what was needed to prepare Me not just to fight but to be Independently Victorious.  Having such humble beginnings, then elevating above is the Only way My hardships evolved from "God where will I lay My head?" to "What family can I bless with beds & furniture as Our new pieces are being assembled?"  Transparent Clarity & Amazing Grace is when We realize that Our God is over equipped to take his thumb & crumble the very mountains that stand to crush & destroy Us. We have to Go Thru to Get Thru, be Broken to be Fixed & endure a Struggle to have a Win.  When climbing uphill its not until We look back that We realize how far We've come, how much progress has been made... Just Hold On...   ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Whether We admit it or not We tend to move closer to God the closer We come to grief. How often would We pray if everything in Our lives were perfect? Ultimately like most things that are beneficial its less about what got You there & more about what keeps You. Never forget where You came from. Before reaching out to push someone off a cliff extended Your hand to pull them up.  Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Humble ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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I used to question why a Loving God would create a child with No Parents, having a completely Loveless life? Hindsight being 20/20 I now realize having a Loveless childhood & No Support was what was needed to prepare Me not just to fight but to be Victorious Independently.  Having such humble beginnings, then elevating above is the Only way My hardships evolved from "God where will i be lay My head?" to "What family can I bless with beds & furniture as Our custom pieces are being assembled?"  Transparent Clarity & Amazing Grace is when We realize that Our God is over equipped to take his thumb & crumble the very mountains that stand to crush & destroy Us. We have to Go Thru to Get Thru, be Broken to be Fixed & endure a Struggle to have a Win. Hold On Family... Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Being Religious has very little to No bearing on the Relationship You have with God.  We have to mindful & not confuse Truth with Tradition. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Enlightened.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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R.I.P. Sis, Nothing but Love & Respect; of course gone but Never to be forgotten ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Sisters while You're slandering Your Ex or the Father of Your children keep in mind as Low Down, Irresponsible & a Bumb that You now say He is, at one point & time You gave Yourself to Him completely so what does that say about You? Grown Women use Washing Machines & Dryers to properly clean their clothes only little Girls  Air Out Their Dirty Laundry... Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Mature.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Brothers while You're slandering Your Ex's or the Mother of Your children keep in mind as Trifling, Lazy & a Whore that You now say She is, at one point & time You had raw & unprotected sex with Her so what does that say about You? Grown Men use Washing Machines & Dryers to properly clean their clothes only little Boys Air Out Their Dirty Laundry... Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Mature.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Pressing Pause, taking time out from society; a Hiatus, if You will; allowing God to reintroduce Me to Myself. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware of Self. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Don’t take Kindness for Weakness, Salvation for Stupidity or Humility for Insecurity. Realize when We wrong anyone & their response is Piety or Silence, apparently its their devotion to a Higher Power that allows them to step outside of what You’ve done to them & Pray for You; because Pleasing God is more important than Pleasing You. Living in the Flesh as opposed to the Spirit confuses people while trying determine the difference between what someone Can't Do with what they simply Don't Want To Do.  Underestimate No one; Everybody has their limits, the meekest cat will attack You if You back it into a corner. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Aware. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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While Under Pressure, maintain focus, see disturbances for what they are; ”Intentional Distractions” to shake You off Your square. Planes that fly high can’t help but experience turbulence; Annoying? 'Yes', Deadly? 'No'. Buckle Your seat belt & Keep Flying. When You’re trying to do what’s right it feels like nothing’s going Your way however, if You weren't a Threat to the enemy's plan for Your demise, on the verge of Greatness, Your walk in the wilderness would be a Stroll in the Park. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged for You Are More Than a Conqueror...   ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Time spent trying to give directions to where Your headed when Your peers have difficulty reading maps, will only frustrate You & prolong You reaching Your destination. The best thing to do is to invite others for the ride, if they can't make the trip, then so be it; just reach out to them when You get there. Life like Success are personal journeys therefore it's a constant struggle trying to share Your vision with those who don't have Your eyes. Similar to this blog, Some Will Get it & some won't.  Stay Prayerful, Encouraged & FOCUSED.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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If children are raised by a Mother who doesn’t demand respect from Men, or a Father who doesn’t respect Women, the boys will grow into Men that don’t respect Women & the girls into Women who don’t respect themselves. Before We blame society for the issues of Our Children (a.k.a. The Future) realize Society is the layman term for the Home.  The relationship We have with Our children sets the tone for All the relationships they ave during Life. Children may not do what We say but they'll surely do what We do.  Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Like bows in an arrow at times We Need to take steps backwards before being allowed to catapult forward. Sometimes the further You Step Back (assessing the situation) results in the most Tremendous Advance (PROGRESS). Strive to excel not INSPITE of but BECAUSE of Your setbacks. We determine if Our Failed attempts are Dead Ends or just simply Detours. We can change direction & still arrive at the same place... At Our Individual God Appointed times.  A Jones is not who You are so why try to keep up with them? Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Your Challenges can become Opportunities if You have the Vision to See the Good in the situation & the Faith to Welcome & Accept what You see. As a Believer when You doubt Yourself You're doubting God. Realize Our God is so much Greater than any of Our Problems. In Life on occasion We're forced to deal with difficult situations & difficult people, what We have to realize is those instances don't always arise simply to change the situation but at times it's to change the way We handle the situation while preparing Us for situations to come. Remember Ignorance breeds Fear, Fear is the Antithesis of Faith & without a Struggle there can be No VICTORY so fearlessly open Your Heart & Mind to UnTraditional means for resolution. Peace may not be Easy however it is very Possible. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Quiet before the storm; she just Unleashed the beast... Sometimes pain is all the incentive one needs. PERFECT IRONY: On occasion the more You're made Uncomfortable the  more aggressive You are to do whatever necessary to be Comfortable. What the enemy intended for bad can always be manipulated into being something Good. Learn the way Life works & how to Work it.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Karma is the Original "Ride or Die Chick" either she has Your back or she'll get You back; whatever the case, she's going No Where until the job's done.  Whether You Love her or hate her You have to respect her.  Stay Prayerful, Focused, Enlightened & Aware of Your Walk... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Once You're able to posses & display Sincere Happiness for others in the midst of Your unhappiness it's then that You'll release the karma necessary to find joy in Your Own life.  When You find Yourself on the way down extend a helping hand to someone else & elevate them.  The way We Live Good, Bad or Indifferent is like yelling into a cave & what We receive is nothing more than an echo; TEN fold what We put forth. Exude so much Love & Positivity that Your cup cant help but runneth over. On so many occasions I Write & Speak from the eye of a Tornado. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. IOnlySpeakWhatIveLived ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules:  No matter how strong a Man is he still stands to benefit from a level of support; even the Rock of Gibraltar needs someThing/One to lean on. The most beneficial relationships are ones where the parties involved teach One another, learn from One another, uplift One another & in essence support One another. If stagnation is what One wants that can be accomplished alone. What makes a Significant Other Significant is the understanding that they are Blessings not a Burdens. Sisters We were created from His rib to be an important part of His backbone... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Without wanting to be, You found Yourself now "Single". Sis, it is what it is. Take a class or read a book inorder to develop Your Mind. Join a gym inorder to develop Your Body. Pray inorder to develop Your Relationship with God. Meditate inorder to develop Clarity & get re-familiar with"You". As Women We were created, based & are driven by Emotion. Flesh bruises while the Heart tends to scar & break. Allow yourself the luxury of healing correctly; replenishing from the Inside Out.  Since You're back on the Market take the time to increase Your Property Value. This way You don't just get what You want, You get what You Need & what You Deserve. Settling is for debris; Queens warrant Kings, so be aware of Your self worth. Loving You is a Priceless attribute. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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There comes a time in Everyone's life, as for on this Earth that We are only able to count on Ourselves. For that very reason, We're instructed to refrain from putting Anyone on a pedestal, for they will surely disappoint Us.  We have to truly know Ourselves in order to truly Love Ourselves. Genuine friends stay around well after the party's over to help You clean up the mess; both figuratively and literally. Only God can offer You Unconditional Love. Everyone else has limitations; CoWorkers, Friends, Family, etc. even Your own shadow will leave You during Your darkest times. At times for fear of being alone We subject Ourselves to unnecessary, unfair, unwarranted treatment. For clarity purposes realize to be alone doesn't necessarily translate into being lonely & to be in a crowd doesn't necessarily mean You're surrounded by friends. Don't confuse those that are always hanging around for those that will always be there. You can't make a fake person into a real friend. Live, Learn & Share... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Confucius said a man that does what he loves for a living never works a day his life...  A Genuinely Happy Life is the true meaning of Wealth & Success; basically living Your dreams. Find Your calling, do it to the Fullest & Best of Your ability. Get so caught up that You find Yourself too busy dreaming to actually sleep.   Be mindful though to seek Your Personal Destiny & not Your neighbor's; for life fueled by envy will have You compete with someone who's walk is not Yours therefore nor is their reward. When We consume Ourselves with what He or She has instead of what "I Have"  We're bound to end up with only a fraction of Our intended blessings. In a sense You'd be looking externally to heal something that's going on internally. Jealously staring out a window You may as well be sound asleep dreaming; but staring into a mirror is when You'll become awakened. Master being an Original You instead of a Good Imitation of Anyone else. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware of Self. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Don't lower Your Standards & Goals to the level of Your Abilities. Elevate Your Abilities to the height of Your Goals & Standards. Winners Swim on top or Swim below sinking is not an Option. Nobody's Perfect but if You Strive for Perfection You're bound to atleast achieve Greatness. The Victory is Already Yours... As a Man Thinketh so is He. We never want to be held captive in the prison within Our own minds; there's no early release, no furlows. Just penance & repentance until time served. At times We have to get out of Our Own way. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Treat that Man like Who He Can & Will be. Not like Who he is or Was. Who wants to be reminded of their flaws? When We treat Our Men like royalty the pressure is on him to Maintain Our Praise or Rise to the Occasion & Earn it. Don't take for granted because men are physically the stronger sex that they are also emotionally superior. Sometimes all He needs is that boost of confidence from His better half to reach His full potential or even become aware of how much He's capable of. Men don't Love Women solely because of Our looks or the history We share, a majority of the Love comes from the way We make them feel. Single doesn't always mean Your lonely and relationships don't always mean Your happy; make him anxious to come home... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Downplaying Our Gifts, Blessings & Intelligence so other's won't feel insecure doesn't serve God & to serve God is why Man was created. Our psyche is an obscure entity; We convince Ourselves We're afraid to fail when in actuality We're afraid to succeed. "As A Man Thinketh In His Heart So Is He" We owe it to the Creator to reach Our full potential.  I've heard to Whom much is given, much is Required but I also believe that He who suffers Greatly is rewarded in the same fashion; if You believe in God, He believes in You, remain steadfast & persevere.
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Don’t take Kindness for Weakness, Salvation for Stupidity or Humility for Insecurity. Realize when We wrong anyone & their response is Piety or Silence, apparently its their devotion to a Higher Power that allows them to step outside of what You’ve done to them & Pray for You; because Pleasing God is more important than Pleasing You.  Living in the Flesh as opposed to the Spirit confuses people in determining the difference between what someone Doesn't want to do with what they Cant do.   Don't underestimate Anyone; Everybody has their limits.  Stay Prayerful, Focused & Aware. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

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When the Rock of Gibraltar, the strongest object known to man gets weak what does it lean on? No matter how strong or self-sufficient We claim to be at some point & time We all need support. As Human beings We have an instinctive, inborn sin nature that makes most of Us more willing to hurt than to help however that doesn't make it right. There's a significant difference between Truth & Tradition. Unfortunately doing what's right isn't synonymous with what's popular.  As captain of Our Own ships it's charged to Our heads to carry Ourselves Accordingly & Pray as if " All Is Well" until it actually is... Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged for life has to be lived anticipating not how things used to be or are but how they will be; You are More than a Conqueror...~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: After You've been Self-Sufficient for sometime its hard to relinquish that "Head of Household" status & let a Man be a Man so We tend to offer up Somethings but seldom EVERYTHING/Be Completely Honest. Women like Myself who Stress Honesty in relationships, need to Accept; You can't be Honest with Anyone else if You can't even be Honest with Yourself. Men want Wives not Husbands PraiseGodForEnlightment ~LuvUMuch Neciaism © 2012
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Regardless as to what Anyone perceives about You, keep in mind the bottom line is You're a child of God & for His children He promised an Overly-Abundant Life, far beyond Our Fondest Dreams; therefore Claim It, Breathe It, Live It & Obtain It. For generations Western Civilization has brain washed masses into thinking the More You struggle the closer You are to God. Step from behind the smoke screen, realize at Your full potential You are a threat to the enemy & destined for greatness so what better way to hinder Your progress then by convincing You that Hell during life will secure Heaven within the after-life. Poverty & Piety are not synonymous. Be proud of what You are blessed with & freely Anticipate the blessings that are on the way. It’s Our Obligation to Go Get It! Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & On Your Grind ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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A thought provoking post read: "I asked God to protect Me from All of My enemies & then I started Losing Friends"... Deep right? People are like Gravity, if They aren't lifting You up They're dragging You down. Learn to allow the Spirit of discernment to guide You in who to be around & where You should be. We're human beings which are actually Spirit filled vessels used as vehicles in each others lives. Sometimes We meet people solely in order to be introduced to something, someone or somewhere else. We shouldn't regret relationships that don't work out the way We planned for everything has its purpose & season. When One burden dies a Blessing is Born; simply it's time has passed & You've graduated on to a New level. Some individuals are like clouds once they're removed from Your life & have moved on, they make for brighter days. Even snakes periodically shed their skin. It's easy to confuse tradition with Truth. Boldly venture into Your future minus Your baggage & open Yourself to the future God has for You. Love everyone accordingly including Yourself. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Love is not a Boomerang; there's no guarantee that when You throw it out there it'll come back to You. Sometimes You have to turn away from someone You truly Love inorder to truly Love Yourself. As Big as this world is realize only debris was designed to settle; Be steadfast & patient for what(who) You want; Brothers, You'll find Her & Sisters, He'll find You. Sometimes We're forced to put Our walk where Our faith is;Faith is not demonstrated in Prayer followed by Worry, We have to Completely Surrender. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012 http://ping.fm/TpWNu

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules:What is it that We put forth which keeps bringing the “Wrong Man” into Our Lives? Before We point that blaming finger outward at Him We need to start with practicing infront of a mirror at Her. Grown Women need Grown Women mentality & claim responsibility for what Our hands called for. We have to assume ownership for some aspects of  what’s "wrong" in Our Lives.  Maybe if We stop fertilizing Our yards with “Dog Food” We'll stop attracting Stray Dogs. Sis, if the late nite barking & marking territory even though every time the gate is open He runs off elsewhere is too much for You to handle a Dog is just not Your ideal companion.  You may need some time off to invest in You & increase Your property value before You go to the closing table. We can't keep demanding soldiers when We're barely GirlScouts.  Every Woman in a bad relationship is not a Damsel in Distress... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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A boy taught that expressing Love is Feminine or Gay, will grow into an UnLoving Man. A girl taught the same thing will grow into a Woman who doesn't know Love so she won't recognize it when its present even if it opens her car door & or pulls out her chair.   I Never respected what I knew of my birth father& despise those traits in anyone especially a Man. Ironically I kept ending up with men who shared his characteristics. After some SelfReflection I realized I gravitated to that sort of person because subconsciously I associated those behaviors with that of a "Man".  As children We're taught while as adults We learn.  Not Words, but "Actions" teach lessons. Children may not do what We say but they'll do what We Do. Babies enter the world like blank pages in a book in which adults fill with content; their parents being the first to compose an entry. Today's Children are the BluePrint for tomorrow's Adults. We owe them better than what they're getting, they didn't ask to be here.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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FROM THE DESK OF TYLER PERRY:
Hey Necia,
I woke up this morning to my publicist calling me saying that there were reports that Bobbi Kristina walked off the set of "For Better Or Worse". NOT TRUE AT ALL PEOPLE!!! There is no way that she could have walked off the set because we have finshed taping the season.
 After Whitney's funeral, Krissi and I spent a long time talking about her goals and dreams. She said she wanted to act. That’s when I decided to write her into "For Better Or Worse". I thought that there would be no better way for me to help her move through the grieving than by giving her something to focus on. The one thing that I learned after my mother's death is that you have to keep busy and you have to be around people who you can trust, so that when you do grieve you can do it in the safety and privacy of people that care.
 Were there tough days for her? Yes of course. Not because of the actng or any job-related issues but because of the fact that she had just lost her mother. And being someone who knows about losing their mother, I know grief comes in different ways and you never know when it's going to hit you or how it's going to hit you, for that matter. Some days you're smiling and happy and some days you’re so broken that you can't stop crying. So yes she was grieving, but grief aside, she managed to finish her obligation and did a great job at the same time.
 So please... PLEASE LEAVE THIS BABY ALONE!!!! AND SHE IS A BABY!!! Please stop the lies and give this child some room to breathe and grieve.
 IF IT WAS YOUR CHILD WOULND’T YOU WANT THAT?

-Tyler
Acknowledging it's Paparazzi & Gossip Columinist's job to sell stories without necessarily determining its validity. I get it, a job with No Moral ethics. Still & all as a human being, as an Adult none-the-less I'd hope at some point in our lives we accept the fact that doing what's Right isn't always synonymous with what's popular. Karma doesn't travel in a straight line it actually travels in circles. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Kings, Queens, Rooks & Pawns... You have to leave where You Are to get to where You’re Going to be. If You don’t have the Confidence & Courage to walk alone, others will not have the Confidence & Courage to follow You or stand behind You in Any sense of the word. Eagles Soar because they have wings; Believers Soar because We have Faith. The Successes in Life don't come by luck but thru strategy & planning. We Decide to succeed, not by someone else's moves but by Our own. In the game of life either You're a Chess Piece or a Chess Player whatever Your position is, as a Winner You're obligated to be the Absolute Best at it. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Realize the term "Christian" means behaving 'Christ Like'. For some reason a lot of Us that profess to be grounded in Our faith tend to be very judgmental regarding the walk of others Without possibly knowing what anyone's true situation is or how its affecting them. Something that may just barely phase You, stands to cripple someone else or vice/versa as we have different levels of Hell. It's not Our place to judge. God helps those who help themselves but He tends to favor those who help others. You're Blessed when You can be a Blessing. At one point or another We've all lived in a Glass House. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Humble. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Having an idea as to who God is isn't the same as actually knowing Him. Religion isn't as important to Your Life, Success & or Destiny as Your Relationship is. When You really know God & Know what He expects from You what anyone else thinks is irrelevant. You know what they say "Its not what You know its Who You know".  Acceptance is predictable, Love is optional while Respect is demanded for quiet as its kept no matter who Your parents are, how or where You grew up You're an heir to the Throne, within the Highest form of Royalty known to mankind.  Don't sell Yourself short. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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When people use their mouths to criticize You its because their Spirit Envies You. You are the person they wish they had the Courage to become, speaking the words, acting out the events & creating the enviornent they want for themselves but are too afraid to venture 'Outside the Box' .  Their mentality is: "I dont have it & I damn sure don't want You to get it either!" The enemy is Miserable & a Coward. Most people will Not congratulate You for Living Out Their Dreams or Achieving Their Goals. At Your full potential You are a threat to the enemy as well as his minions.  Never allow Yourself to be guilted into forfeiting the blessings God has set aside for You. Shine like the Star You were created to Be. Those who pass judgement expose nothing about Your character but volumes about Their Own.  Your Haters are not just Congradulators but also Your Secret Admirers.  Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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If You Want Better than Do Better.  Not liking Your life's situation may require You to seek alternate measures, than what You are accustomed to. What sense does it make to be dissatisfied with Your circumstances yet continue to make the same moves it took to get there but expect different results each time? Or to ask for advice, disregard the advice then be caught off guard when You look around after time has lapsed &realized You haven't gone anywhere, You've just drove around in circles & remained stagnant. Evidently You like being strapped for cash, You like feeling deflated, You like Your children being disrespectful, You like being in a relationship where both of You have someone on the side & that being the case like the old adage goes..."You Like It? I Love it" & don't care to hear about for You've made Your bed. To get where You've never been You have to do what You've Never done & dare to Go where You've never gone. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Sensible ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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They say aim for the Moon so even if You fall short You'll land amongst the Stars... The sky's the Limit: Nothing besides a building has a roof on it. This Earth, Your Very Being, Your Potential is Limitless. All You have to do is Realize it, Live it, Breathe it & Proceed Forward. You have to Think Beyond inorder to Achieve Beyond. Our Success is not just in Our hands but what We do with Our hands, the difference between Ordinary & ExtraOrdinary is that Extra Effort, Extra Confidence & Extra Faith. You may have failed at what You attempted but a Failure is Not what or who You Are; You Are More than a Conqueror. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Enlightened ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

They say aim for the Moon so even if You fall short You'll land amongst the Stars... The sky's the Limit: Nothing besides a building has a roof on it. This Earth, Your Very Being, Your Potential is Limitless. All You have to do is Realize it, Live it, Breathe it & Proceed Forward. You have to Think Beyond inorder to Achieve Beyond. Our Success is not just in Our hands but what We do with Our hands, the difference between Ordinary & ExtraOrdinary is that Extra Effort, Extra Confidence & Extra Faith. You may have failed at what You attempted but a Failure is Not what or who You Are; You Are More than a Conqueror. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Enlightened ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Everything happens for a reason, Let Go & Let God, Pray about Everything & worry about nothing; these all sound Good but they’re easier said than done. On occasion We’re put in situations to test Our Faith; God wants Us to put Our walk where Our words are. If Jesus could be nailed to cross & crucified without saving himself even though He was capable of it, whatever it is We can weather the storm. Being human the flesh is so weak We can't help but bleed, both figuratively & literally. Trust God knew it was coming, He knows Your pain & He's provided an Escape Hatch... PRAYER, complete Surrenderence. I often say "I Completely Trust God" but being completely honest, I also often wonder how true that is when after prayer I still have no appetite, sleepless nights, etc. Prayer without  Faith are only words. The Faith & Actions behind the words is where in lies the Power. At times We have to divorce Our Flesh & Marry Our Spirit inorder to transform Our Tests to Testimonies.  »»Philippians 4:13»»
I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Here a few interesting things you may not have known about the holiday…

Memorial Day was originally called “Decoration Day.”
Approximately 5,000 people gathered to celebrate the first “official” Decoration Day celebration at Arlington National Ceremony in 1868. That’s about the same amount of observers that gather there today.  
About 25 towns and cities, both in the North and the South, have been connected in some way to the origins of Memorial Day. In 1966, President Lyndon Johnson declared Waterloo, N.Y. the birthplace of the holiday. The town claims that the holiday was the idea of a local druggist in 1865.
Yale Scholar, David W. Blight, claims that the first Memorial Day-style celebration was actually put on by African-Americans, mostly former slaves, at a mass burial site for Union soldiers in Charleston, S.C.
Memorial Day didn’t become an official national holiday until 1971, when a Congressional Act set it at the end of May.
To preserve the purpose of honoring veterans, in 2000 Congress passed the National Moment of Remembrance Act, signed into law by President Clinton. The law calls for a moment of silence from Americans at their local time of 3 p.m. every Memorial Day.

Here's to remembering all of those who have served our Country & THOSE WHO HELPED BUILD IT. Without knowing where We come from how could Wecknow where We're going??  Have an Awesomely Blessed Rosperous & Safe Holiday weekend! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism
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In life there are some people You have to lose in order to find Yourself; even snakes periodically shed their skin. I haven't changed, nor did I get New the fact of the matter is You Never really Knew Me... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism 
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We Have to Go Thru Something to Get Thru Anything! A victory isn't a victory without a fight now is it? We have to take the Bad with the Good. As Beautiful as roses are they come with both beautiful petals & painful thorns. Surviving hell will only make You appreciate Heaven; I know it's not easy but You Have to keep pushing. Donald Trump, Oprah Winfrey, Nelson Mandella, this list goes on & on when they were born how much value was placed on their names? how important was their existence? had they threw in the towel; raised the white flag during the battle, they'd still today be insignificant. Commit not to leaving this life without cause to be remembered. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  Happy HumpDay Literally Rise & Shine!!  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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They say aim for the Moon so even if You fall short You'll land amongst the Stars... The sky's the Limit: Nothing besides a building has a roof on it. This Earth, Your Very Being, Your Potential is Limitless. All You have to do is Realize it, Live it, Breathe it & Proceed Forward. You have to Think Beyond inorder to Achieve Beyond. Our Success is not just in Our hands but what We do with Our hands, the difference between Ordinary & ExtraOrdinary is that Extra Effort, Extra Confidence & Extra Faith. Failure is Not an Option. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Enlightened ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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You could never be who Your neighbor is because Our pre-ordained plans are developed on an individual basis. So be Joyous Instead of Envious in the accomplishments of Your peers. Celebrate their Successes & God will not only Elevate You to Achieve but Celebrate Your achievements as well.  Chances are You'd be a better You than an imitation Anyone else.  This world is incredibly large & filled above capacity; You'd be surprised the very thing You detest about Your being is the point of jealousy for someone else.  Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Appreciative of Your Blessings. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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If I had to pin point a single characteristic that can manage to determine how I view & treat an individual it'd have to be Honesty. A Liar is a coward & cowards deserve little to no respect. Time would be better spent waiting for a cat to bark & for serpents to revert back to walking upright as opposed to slithering than to assume a habitual Liar will be trustworthy & tell the truth. If I can't trust You, I can't Love You without compromising Loving Me. When You find Yourself an Option in someone's life, eliminate Yourself from the equation & lessen the burden on Everyone involved.  Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware of Your self worth. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Once You're able to posses & display Sincere Happiness for others in the midst of Your unhappiness it's then & only then that You'll release the karma You need to find joy in Your Own life. The way We Live Good, Bad or Indifferent is like yelling into a cave & what We receive is nothing more than an echo; TEN fold what We put forth. Exude so much Love & Positivity that Your cup cant help but runneth over.  A Compass built in Anger designed by Hatred cant help but direct You to where's familiar.  Follow the Light & leave the negativity behind You; there's a reason why shadows are dark...  Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Enlightened ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Never take relationship advice from a Lonely & or Miserable Woman no matter how much Love & Respect You may have for her as an individual; if She knew so much She'd be applying it to Her own situation as opposed to tearing Your Union apart. Seek guidance from someone who Loves their Lord, their Mate, their Life, Themselves & the idea of being in Love.   Not Everyone prays For & or With You, sadly some pray Against You.  After a priceless artifact is broken all the glue & sauderring  in the world could make it look new but the truth is the value has diminished.  Giving Ultimatums, Self Esteem bruising & any other Negative Reinforcement turn Cracks into Faults. You Never want to go past the Point of No Return.  Flesh bruises while Hearts & Spirits break. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Enlightened ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Joel Osteen told a story about a man who diligently prayed for a New Golf club & after some time he was blessed to inherit the deed to a 500 acre 18 hole Golf Club. Osteen's  message is Your prayers should be as Big as Your Faith. My message is Your Faith should be as Big as the God You pray to... He is Able, for You Are More Than A Conqueror!  While Under Pressure, maintain focus, see disturbances for what they are:”Intentional Distractions” to shake You off Your square. Planes that fly high can’t help but experience turbulence; Annoying? Yes, Deadly? "NO" Buckle Your seat belt & Keep Flying. When You’re trying to do what’s right it feels like nothing’s going Your way however, if You weren't a Threat, on the verge of Greatness Your walk in the wilderness would be a Stroll in the Park ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Time & Energy is wasted neglecting Moral consciousness by doing alot of talking & still saying Nothing. More than What's said to someone what'll be remembered is How You Made them feel; I’d rather be hesitant in my speech then reckless with it’s content. Everyday Life isn't staffed with editors to make comments retractable, not too many weapons cut like the Tongue & tongue lashings take forever to heal. The flesh bruises while hearts break. If You crack a valuable statue, You can glue it back together to look like its new but in fact it has decreased in value. Be mindful when You open Your mouth not to break anyone's Spirit; those belong to God & You can't afford to pay for it.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: When a Male is respectful, responsible & mature, that doesn't make him "corny" it makes him a Man. Having poor examples of Masculinity from Our childhood We tend to get confused when choosing a mate. Quite often We bypass Clark Kent looking for SuperMan.  When dating a New Man We need to pay special attention to the Women he grew up around & the nature of their relationships. It could give You a glimpse into how He’ll be with You. He may not know how to Love You & maybe the type that doesn’t want to learn. You can say what You want about a "Momma's Boys" but if He doesn't respect His Mother, Sis please don't expect any better. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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I wanted to be her when I was little! Nightgown neck opening wrapped around my head as the gown & sleeves hung imitating the Queen's long flowing hair, singing into my hair brush, LOL! Wow R.I.P. Beautiful Donna Summer, hope you enjoyed your Last Dance http://ping.fm/XyZ2y
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We all have Our own level of Hell & Torment so it's only natural that We have Our own way of dealing with it. Unfortunately We tend to lash out on Whomever happens to be in the line of fire. When We're confronted with SomeOne that seems particularly Difficult We have to keep in mind that We don't know what's going on behind the scenes. Walking in Truth. Them being Nasty to You without You wronging them, requests that You stand firm in Your convictions, Praise God for granting You clarity & Pray for them as that's a spirit they're wrestling with.  They're not mad at You, they're mad at God. Both in driving & in Life We have to try to Stay in Our Lanes.   Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Enlightened ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Searching my drawers, pockets, bags, even My psyche, somedays I just can't find a Damn to give one even if I wanted to... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism
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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: As Women we’re Maternal & want to Nurture & "Fix". We need to Understand the difference between trying to “Fix” a relationship & trying to “Change” a person. You can’t hold anyone but Yourself accountable for painful backlash associated with one's character when their behavior is instinctive as opposed to intentional. If a Dog bites You He's only doing what He knows & You should've been familiar with the risks You'd be taking when You decided to play with Him. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Realistic. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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YOU'D BE SURPRISED WITH THE JEWELS YOU FIND ONCE YOU CLEAN YOUR ROOM...Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Without wanting to be, You found Yourself now "Single". Sis, it is what it is. Take a class or read a book inorder to develop Your Mind. Join a gym inorder to develop Your Body. Pray inorder to develop Your Relationship with God. Meditate inorder to develop Clarity & get re-familiar with"You". As Women We were created, based & are driven by Emotion. Flesh bruises while the Heart tends to scar & break. Allow yourself the luxury of healing correctly; replenishing from the Inside Out.  Since You're back on the Market take the time to increase Your Property Value. This way You don't just get what You want, You get what You Need & what You Deserve. Settling is for debris; Queens warrant Kings, so be aware of Your self worth. Loving You is a Priceless attribute. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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When people ask Me where I'm headed My response leaves most thinking I'm delusional in My future expectations without being a Trump or from widely Known Royalty. However without it being publicized I'm a heir to the Throne. Like My "Nay-Sayers" don't think I'm Phenomenal they Know it & so do I. The only one who hasn't gotten the Memo about Your Success is You. You're Your Biggest Competition so get Out of Your way. ~ LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Life is short so Love Carelessly; if You get hurt, know what doesn’t kill You makes You stronger & Destiny clearly is Destined. Love Your haters they’re Your Secret Admirers. Make Love with Your eyes closed as the best things in life are Priceless & Unseen. Realize every minute You spend sad is 60 seconds of joy You lost. Life is Appointments not Accidents, so plan to Live Out Loud. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Enlightened ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

If You think it can't happen don't worry it won't; just like If You think it can happen without question it Will. Good Bad or indifferent We have the ability to WILL Our desires into Existence. Life struggles can get so intense We have no choice but to Let Go & Let God. A Believer should understand at the edge of the cliff, 1 of 2 things will happen; God will catch You when you fall, or He'll teach You how to fly. Learning to Surrender = Amazing Grace. Stay Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Relationship Rules: How could I ever be disappointed knowing I'm going to act like Me & You're going to act like You. He would Never cheat on You... Why because You'd Never cheat on Him? She'd Never disrespect You... Why because You'd Never disrespect Her? Rose Colored glasses are no longer fashionable, without UV lenses they won't even protect Your vision however they will ensure You remain Blind. We claim to want the truth but do We really?, is "Truth" defined by  situations or people being what We want them to be?   We cant get discouraged when others don't do as We do; without being Us they are only held accountable for behaving like themselves. If He's a liar & not ready to commit OR if She's promiscuous & manipulative chances are there were signs in the beginning that were ignored & by default Accepted. Yes the Reality was Rejected so ultimately the Truth should've been Expected. ItIsWhatItIs  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Whether You realize it or Not the intimate details that You dread being thrown in Your face wouldn't be available as Public Knowledge if You kept Your mouth shut.  Stop airing Your dirty Laundry & sharing what should remain behind close doors between You & Your Mate. Also refrain from taking relationship advice from a Lonely & or Miserable Person no matter how much You may have " Love for Them"  if They knew so much They’d be applying it to Their own life; Would You look to a blind person to show You how to read?? Be mindful not everyone prays for You, some pray against You...  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Every Successful Reality began as a figment of Imagination that someone took initiative & applied action. Identify Your Need, Understand Your Obstacle, Recognize Your Responsibility, and Become Your Answer. Life may not be going the way You intended, but it is going EXACTLY the way God planned it; Our Father works by Appointment Never Accident.  Regret nothing for We may Not yet be where We want to be but We're miles from where We've been & not too far from where We're headed.  Keep Your eye on the Prize & Look onward & upward. Ignore the enemies distractions & disregard the need to pivot Your head Left or Right. Last but not least never worry about what's behind You because God always has Your back. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged .~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Once You're able to posses & display Sincere Happiness for others in the midst of Your unhappiness it's then & only then that You'll release the karma You need to find joy in Your Own life. The way We Live Good, Bad or Indifferent is like yelling into a cave & what We receive is nothing more than an echo; TEN fold what We put forth. Exude so much Love & Positivity that Your cup cant help but runneth over. By accepting the art of giving, We learn the blessing of receiving. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & in Love with Love. Pray to be Blessed to be a Blessing. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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A boy taught that expressing Love is Feminine & or Gay, will grow into an UnLoving Man. A girl taught the same thing will grow into a Woman who doesn't know Love so she won't be able to identify it when it shows up. Not Words, but "Actions" teach lessons.  Society's idea that a child raised amongst boys will grow into an adult who recognizes a Man is delusional at its best. Children may not do what We say but they'll do what We Do. Babies enter the world like blank pages in a book in which adults fill with content; their parents being the first to compose an entry/write in it. Today's Children are the BluePrint for tomorrow's Adults. We owe them better than what They're getting. Decide to sew a seed Today. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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When facing a seemingly Winless Battle, where even if Your character would command that You run, Your back is pressed so close up against the wall that running isn't an option. The only choice You have is to embrace Faith & rebuke Fear for We Know God doesn't give Us a Spirit of such.  Lifetimes are filled with Phases & Seasons which ultimately become Lessons aka "LIFE". The only way to Get through tough times is to Go through tough times... This is Not the First & will not be the Last for beneath the death of each Test lies the birth of a Testimony. Just Hold On. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Similar to when magnets get too close, no matter how much You may want to help, the force of Someone's negativity can pull You so close that in turn it ultimately pushes You away...  The Best people can make the Worst mistakes & the Worst Results can stem from the Best Intentions; without the ability to Forgive, We limit Our ability to Love. Forgive whomever wronged You because it may not have happened intentionally however never Forget the pain they caused as it may happen again. Some individuals come with so much baggage You can't be in their company without being required to help them carry it.  People are like Gravity they'll either Elevate You or Drag You down the situation You're in at the time will make the difference. Just remember Misery & Negativity is like a flesh eating bacteria where in some cases if not eliminated You risk it contaminating Your Mind, Body, Soul & Spirit, then You serve no Good to Anyone not even Yourself. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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You may have to substitute being a Social Butterfly to a take up residence in a Successful cacoon.  Sometimes it's necessary to step away from the world to achieve Productive Solace. Life can get so overwhelming that the titles placed on Us such as: Mother, Father, Husband, Wife, that the most important title "Self" gets lost in the shuffle. It's amazing but also very possible that We can know those surrounding Us better then We even know Ourselves.  When aspiring to be the Best You that You can be, momentarily press PAUSE & allow God to re-introduce You to Yourself. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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When You're generous in nature You may instinctively be anxious to share, however not everyone is worthy of reeping the Fruits of Your labor. Where You tend to Pray others may view You solely as Prey. True friends are Priceless while False friends are Expensive so its important to be aware of You're surroundings. Love Everyone accordingly including Yourself, knowing You're valued at Top Dollar, You should Never market Your time on the Clearance rack.  You deserve the Best that Life has to offer there's no shame in acknowledging that. Stay Prayerful, Encouraged, Enlightened & True to You. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Love is not a Boomerang; there's no guarantee that when You throw it out there it'll come back to You. Sometimes You have to turn away from someone You truly Love inorder to truly Love Yourself. As Big as this world is realize only debris was designed to settle; Be steadfast & patient for what(who) You want;  Brothers, You'll find Her & Sisters, He'll find You. Sometimes We're forced to put Our walk where Our faith is; Faith is not demonstrated in Prayer followed by Worry, We have to Completely Surrender & carry Ourselves as 'All is Well' until it actually is. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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When You rise above the expectation of others, they tend to have a problem with it. Some can find Your Success offensive; this amongst several reasons make Us afraid to Excel so We stifle Our gifts. When We don't use Our Gifts We forfeit Blessings. The enemy is a Master of deception, he knows Our weaknesses better than We do & will stop at nothing to infiltrate Our Spirit & dim Our Light. When We feel "stuck"or unable to prosper, We need to evaluate Our circumstances & surroundings for as We age We learn We're not losing friends but Our maturity gives Us the ability to decipher who Our friends really are.  Negativity, Jealousy & Envy are heavy baggage & tends to weigh one down. Don't confuse Tradition with Truth & get so consumed with what/who's familiar that You decide not to Let Go & remain stagnant. Enough change makes Dollars. Sometimes subconsciously We fear Success not Failure. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Bold about Your Destiny. Failure is just Not an Option. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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I've got to be the Biggest Christopher Wallace/Notorious Big/Frank White/Biggie Smalls/ B.I.G. Fan... R.I.P. Big Poppa, gone but Never forgotten. ~LuvUTheMost Neciaism  http://ping.fm/ETeXc

Anger is the Secondary Emotion; the mask that Hurt the Primary Emotion wears when its ashamed to show it's face. An Angered Spirit is a Tortured Spirit. What’s heard is "I'm Mad at You" when what’s said is "I'm in Pain". The Best people can make the Worst mistakes & the Worst Results can stem from the Best Intentions; without the ability to Forgive, We limit Our ability to Love. If You Love Someone, "Let them Know"; if You can't stand them "Let it Go". it takes much more energy to hold grudges then to just live Free. Harboring resentment gives the same entity that caused You grief, Power over Your Mind, Body, Soul & Spirit; God is the Only One worthy of that privilege. Your Life, Your Destiny, Your Fate is Your Own. Acknowledge & Take Back Your Power. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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I can't watch this Enough or Too Much MySpiritCupRunnethOver ~LuvUMuch Neciaism
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FAITH is Forsaking All Insecurities & Trusting Him.  Not until We Truly Surrender do We exhibit True Faith. Standing at the edge of a cliff God will either catch You or teach You how to fly. Realize even though You may not have been born a Trump, Hilton or part of the "Royal" family, as a new creature in Christ You are More than a Conqueror & still very much an heir to the Throne; identified as such before Your mother's womb even knew You. Sometimes We go through Pain solely to Appreciate the Pleasure; Your Test will be Your Testimony.  To whom Much is given Much is Required & who Suffers Greatly will be Rewarded in the same fashion. God's Promise is True, Hold On. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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What makes Us think if We pray about Goals & or Desires but avoid working towards them they'll magically fall out of the sky? Scripture reads: "if a Man doesn't work he shouldn't eat" therefore We're required to get up, get out & make it happen. How effective would a WeightLoss regimine be to someone who only thinks about changing their eating habits & working out? As opposed to acting on & putting forth effort.   If You have to put off anything until another time, make it Procrastination. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & on Your Grind. We do what We Have To Today for the luxury of doing what We Want To Tomorrow.  Have an Awesomely Blessed, Prosperous & Safe Tuesday.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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You can Respect Money & still not Worship it...  There's a distinctive difference. Money can buy You a Bed but not Sleep, a Clock but not Time, a Book but not Knowledge, a House but not a Home & even Sex but not Love. More important than the Revenue & Blessings is the source from whence it came. 2Peter 2:19 reads "You are a slave to whatever controls You." Never loose sight of Your very First Prayer, Your first dollar & how You felt when You earned it; in essence Where You (It all) began; for within a blink of an eye it can all be gone. Forgetting & being too busy to give Thanks, Our present will start to resemble Our past & involuntarily We'll be reminded. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Humble.  Good Night All. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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We Endure inorder to Enjoy.  Not the "IFS" (Neciaism being Insecurity & Fear Surfacing) but the "YETS" (Neciaism being You're Entering The Season) When We think We're doubting Our ability We're actuality doubting God's promise. We're charged to live in a state of confirmation & claim the victory. When We buy something We're confident that no one can take it from Us because We've already paid for it, have the receipt & it rightfully it belongs to Us. Similar to believing that Jesus died on the cross, You have the Victory, it's already Yours, bought & paid for, the blood being Your receipt.  The question is not IF the ease is coming but WHEN will it arrive. Walk in "FAITH"(Neciaism being Forsaking All Insecurities & Trusting Him).  Enduring Hell yesterday,  will prepare You to Enjoy Heaven today.   Have an Awesomely Blessed week All! Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Loving someone one & being in Love with someone are two different entities. Love is like a Good Man & an Orgasm, You don't know what You've been missing until You have one; once You have one there's no grey area; no question in Your mind. No matter how articulate You are, words can't express the feeling; You have to experience it inorder to relate to it. Speechless for Good Reason. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Every Success story will tell You how uncomfortable they had to be, how much work it took inorder to get where they are. In essence one should assume being Uncomfortable is a key part of the plight & inspiration needed to make the necessary movements to be "Comfortable". We should surround Ourselves with those who are doing better' not to be aloof but to get the push We need to be who We inspire to be. People are like Gravity they'll either Elevate You or Drag You down. Those whom drag You down will prevent You from rising. Choose Your peers wisely; Have an Awesomely Blessed, Prosperous & Safe weekend. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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They're only Two approaches to Success either You sit around & wait for it to happen or You take action to make it happen. As a child of God, His Promise is that You're Destined for Greatness. If SomeThing/One tried to take Your Property, Family or Life; anything that's rightfully Yours, wouldn't You fight for it? Well as an heir to the Throne Success is rightfully Yours as well & likewise should be fought for. Prayer without Effort are dead words. Scripture makes reference to 'High Time'  in ***Romans 13:11*** "High Time" can be translated in Your Season. Our Faith, Actions & Determination schedule Our Season. Your Season is when Your sick of all the others; schedule Wealth & Prosperity not tomorrow but Today.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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You may not be able to change Your circumstances but what You can't afford is to allow Your circumstances to change You. In life We go through trials and suffer disappointments that can threaten Our character. We know hurt people tend to hurt people but Tradition isn't necessarily Truth; be true to Yourself and strive to be the Best You in ALL WAYS, Always. After all Your Character strength is not determined in the way You fall but in the way You get up.  Situations don't have to be Dead Ends sometimes they're Detours; ultimately it's Our decision.  Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Without seeking God You may not meet Him. If You never meet Him You may never Know Him & without knowing Him how could You recognize Him even if You were to see Him? I've never wronged You but You don't like Me? I'd say its the God in Me that You find intimidating; My light is so bright that due to the darkness some dwell in they can't help but be blinded by it. Try staring directly at the sun & see what happens. Envy is a compliment so don't be discouraged by it, be Thankful for it.  Let No One & or NoThing steal Your Shine.  Do Not allow ridicule or judgement to convince You into limiting Your progress, when We don't use Our blessings We forfeit them.  Allows Your Divine Purpose to find You, be the Best You that You can be & Fulfill Your destiny for You are More than a Conqueror. ***Romans 13:11***Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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When people use their mouths to criticize You its because their Spirit Envies You. You are the person, demonstrating the actions & living the life they wish they had the Courage to. The enemy is Miserable & a Coward. Most people will Not congratulate You for Living Out Their Dreams or Achieving Their Goals. At Your full potential, fulfilling Your Divine Purpose, You are a threat to the enemy & More than a Conqueror. Never allow Yourself to be guilted into forfeiting the blessings God has set aside for You. Shine like the Star You were conceived to do. Those who pass judgement expose nothing about Your character but volumes about Their Own. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Don't lower Your Standards & Goals to the level of Your Abilities. Elevate Your Abilities to the height of Your Goals & Standards. Swim on top or Swim below are Your only options; winners don't acknowledge Sink or Swim. Nobody's Perfect but if You Strive for Perfection You're bound to atleast achieve Greatness. Success will knock at Your door but You have to be Brave enough to Answer. The Victory is Already Yours... Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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