A Boy can't Love You like a Man... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: One of my sisters is 10 years my Sr, she's single and only attracted to males atleast 10 years her Jr; at this stage in life with no children while most of Our sister circle are Mothers, Wives or both she's starting to face & accept the strong possibility of growing old alone. This whole "Cougar/Mrs. Robinson" fad is really sexy & romantic, however being just as sexy but realistic, when we pursue boys we have to realize they're bound to act like Boys; Male Children.  Children are incapable of deep romantic relationships, don't want one & neither should they. As a grown Woman the discretion is Ours in realizing what's to window shop & what's to buy; furthermore since when do adults sit at the kids table during Thanksgiving dinner? IJS   Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Realistic. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012 https://www.facebook.com/pages/Neciaism/188220187272

What/Whomever You submit to You become a slave to it. If We want better results We have to make better decisions. We decide what We make of Our lives don't confuse Tradition with Truth; Women in My family aren't Happy unless they're Miserable. Disruptive Patterns & Vicious Cycles are made to be broken. You can't be Liberated from what You've awarded Power To & You can't award Power To what You've been Liberated from. Family curses are Options Not Laws. Consciously decide to Totally Love & Live Your Life. Let Whomever won't Go to Heaven with You, Go to Hell without You. Your Future belongs to You not Your forefathers it's called the past because You've moved passed it. Happy Independence Day!! XOXO ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Just because You're spinning Your wheels it doesn't mean You're going anywhere; some journeys are endless because that particular destination is Not for You; don't be afraid to change direction. It's easy to confuse Moving & Progressing. Taking a Spinning class & cycling cross-country both provide exercise but only one will expose You to new cultures, Broaden Your Horizons & physically take You to new places. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Enlightened. Good Morning, Today's a New Day with New Possibilities! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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God knows and so do I, I'm a work in progress that falls short every day. I accept that, I don't relish in it . I strive for better with sincerity and try not to repeat my mistakes. The embodiment of righteousness & integrity is being the best You, You can be, doing what You know is right & trying to please God; even when no one is watching. Masses may watch You & admire what they see outwardly but that still doesn't ensure You God's favor. Our religions aren't nearly as important as Our relationships. Have an Awesomely Blessed, Prosperous & Enlightened week All  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Don’t be so quick to Blame God when Calamities hit. No one’s perfect, We ALL fall short at one time or another & Eventually We Have to pay for Our transgressions; so consider it One debt Paid In Full. Karma doesn't move in a straight line it actually travels in circles. Remember Good, Bad or Indifferent We reap what We sew. Just like yelling into a cave the words that echo are Your own. Don't try to feed someone what You wouldn't eat Yourself. When I write, I'm not judging I'm sharing as these are things/flaws/behaviors I witness in My own reflection. I realize the toughest fight is within Me, Myself & I on whether to yield to either Flesh or Spirit.  Whats right within speech, movement & or behavior isn't always synonymous with whats popular, or what feels good.  Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged... Not just for You but for someone else.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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To Illuminate implies You shine brightly. A Star's stature is too elevated to stoop to the depth of ignorance, mastered by those who dwell in Darkness. We must Maintain Our elite stature by requiring the "Help" to use the Service Entrance NEVER the Front Door. Its nothing personal there is hieracrhy in every form of Life. You're either a Chess Player or a Chess Piece. Those who see darkness when they look at, then try to judge my family are simply blinded by OUR LI/GHT. Safe Travels. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Our nightmare today can be a Dream come true tomorrow. Life can hit Us with so much pain its almost impossible to see past the hurt & anticipate the good that may come of it. Having pride & being human We tend to struggle with forgiveness as its perceived a sign of weakness. Know that as much strength as it takes to endure pain it takes atleast 10 fold to move past it & forgive who/what caused it. You have to Go thru something, to Get thru Anything & without a fight, a victory is Impossible. Not every individual is worthy of forgiveness however keep in mind how worthy Your soul is of being able to forgive. The Ultimate goal is God's favor no one else's. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & with Your Eye on the Prize. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: As Women we act off of Emotions & the fact of the matter is we are proned to Talk Too Much. At times we allow situations to get blown out of proportion by running off at the mouth due to one wrong word, look or gesture that flipped Our switch. It’s impossible to Listen & Talk simultaneously. We’d be surprised how much We hear with Our mouths closed & ears open. If We continue to freely give Every situation a piece of Our minds how much will We be left with when it's time to think? Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged WomenAreCrazy&MenAreStupid... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Everything happens for a reason, Let Go & Let God, Pray about Everything & worry about nothing; these all sound Good but they’re easier said than done. On occasion We’re put in situations to test Our Faith; God wants Us to put Our walk where Our mouth is. If Jesus could be crucified without saving himself even though he was capable, whatever it is We can weather the storm. Sometimes We have to assume Our position as the passenger on this ride of 'Life", know God is in charge & allow him to drive. What's the worst that could happen? Even if You crash God is at Your side & he will sustain You. Driving being the perfect analogy; ironic & insulting how We put Our lives in the hands of man; Pilots, Physician, Drivers, even Pyschics but when it comes to God the one who gave Us life to begin with We're leary. Listen what God has for You no One can take away... Just Surrender ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © June 2012
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