There’s no Future in the Past, so create Your Future and Live to the fullest in the Present. Life lessons are to make You Progress Not Digress. Maturity & Growth are forward Movement like Evolution; transitioning from Monkey to Man Not Man to Monkey; enough Bafoonery already, 2012 is All about You Let's Get It!!! Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. Happy New Year!!! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Challenges make you discover things about Yourself that You never really knew. Start to view Your Trials as Challenges not Impossibilities. Yes some Succeed because they're destined, but the Masses Succeed because they're both Destined & DETERMINED. Don’t Live Afraid or be Afraid to Live. Go get what God has for You. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. 2012 is All about You! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Challenges make you discover things about Yourself that you never really knew. Start to view Your Trials as Challenges not Barriers. Yes some Succeed because they're destined, but the Masses Succeed because they're both Destined & DETERMINED. Don’t Live Afraid or be Afraid to Live. Go get what God has for You. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. 2012 is All about You! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When You Open Your Mind to the unknown, You'll begin to Experience what You couldn't even Imagine. Challenges are not supposed to paralyze You, They're suppose to Elevate You; so Rise to The Occasion & Make SUCCESS Your shadow. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. 2012 is All about You! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Whether or not Your Dreams are possible depends on Your perception of Possibility; The Best way to fulfill Your Dreams is to Wake Up & Get Out of Bed. SUCCESS can not be achieved remotely; Exercise Patience in Planning and Impatience in Execution. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. 2012 is All about You! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Faith & Confidence won’t make Your victories Easy, it will However Make them Possible; for what You accomplish in life will make You a Winner but What you Overcome in Life will make You a Success. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. 2012 is All about You! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Tomorrow is Guaranteed, however You & I are not so whatever We want We have to start working on it Now; Today. Intentions are Questionable but Actions are Concrete. Don't let who You were, hinder who You Will Be. SUCCESS like Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder, if You put of Anything let it be Procrastination. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. 2012 is All about You! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When Your wealth is lost, You lost Nothing, when Your health is lost, You lost Something, when Your Faith is lost, You lost EVERYTHING. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. 2012 is All about You! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Your Goals & Aspirations should be as Big as You KNOW Your God to be. That being said, there is No limit on Our success except for the ones We impose. Failure is Not an Option. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged; Make 2012 Your Year!!! ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2011

Not by ignoring it, avoiding it, going under it or beside it. The only way to get through it is To Go Thru it. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. Failure is Not an Option.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Your Goals & Aspirations should be as Big as You know Your God to be. That being said, there is No limit on Our success except for the ones We impose.  Failure is Not an Option. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged; Make 2012 Your Year!!! ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright  © 2011

Without Your & without Your eyes others fail to share Your vision; all the more reason to keep some Goals & Aspirations between only You & Your Lord. Not everyone prays for You some pray against You & not many will compliment You on living out their dreams. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright  © 2011

No You can't judge a book by it's cover but You can get a good idea of it's content if  You' pay attention to the section of literature it's placed in within the library or bookstore that You find it. Familiarize Yourself with the crowd Your significant other keeps; in Your eyesight they may be the Extreme Opposite of all of their friends however keep in mind this is WITHIN YOUR EYESIGHT. Nuns don't fellowship with Whores. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Loving someone one & being in Love with someone are two different entities. Love is like a Good Man & an Orgasm, You don’t know what You’ve been missing until You have one; once You have one there’s no question in Your mind. No matter how articulate You are, words can’t express the feeling; You have to experience it inorder to relate to it. God is truly the Grand Architect; designing Man & Woman like puzzle pieces to perfectly fit together forming a Phenomenal picture. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Don’t be so quick to Blame God when Calamities hit. No one’s perfect, We ALL fall short at one time or another & Eventually We Have to pay for Our transgressions; so consider it One debt Paid In Full. Karma doesn't move in a straight line it actually travels in circles. Remember Good, Bad or Indifferent We reap what We sew. Just like yelling into a cave the words that echo are Your own. Don't try to feed someone what You wouldn't eat Yourself. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Calamities hit & make Us weak in the knees but realize the further We get knocked down, the harder it is to get up, the Greater the reward & the More We have to be Thankful for. Inorder to elevate Ourselves & Go really High You have to be ready, willing & able to be humbled; to Go really Low because "The Most High" himself is actually Really Deep ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: The only thing Better than Being Loved is Loving. Remember by Nature We were made from His rib & what He Needs so do what comes natural Understand His past, Believe in His future & Accept Him all the same. Be the type of Woman that’s Hard to Find, Painful to Leave & Impossible to Forget. Sisters remember as Women we're Blessings Not Burdens. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright  © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: The only thing Better than Being Loved is Loving. Remember by Nature We were made from His rib & what He Needs so do what comes natural Understand His past, Believe in His future & Accept Him all the same. Be the type of Woman that’s Hard to Find, Painful to Leave & Impossible to Forget. Sisters remember as Women we're Blessings Not Burdens. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright  © 2011

Wow! How time flies when You're having fun!? 21years ago I was at JFK Washington TWP about to be shot up with Pitocin to 3 hrs later give birth to My 90%BFF, 10% Aneurism, smph. Happy Birthday to My Collector's Item Ken Doll within all of Our Growing Pains, Baby Boy I wouldn't change a thing! You are Absolutely Perfect, Destined for Greatness & the Best is Yet to Come!,, (Prince You know what's even cooler than a wooden Jesus Piece? One made of Black Ice... Looks like Someone's been in Your room... ) LetTheScavengerHuntBegin ~LuvUTheMost Mom   

Wow! How time flies when You're having fun!? 21years ago I was at JFK Washington TWP chewing ice walking the halls to induce labor to 10 hrs later give birth to My 85%BFF, 15% Aneurism, smph. Happy Birthday to My Collector's Item Ken Doll within all of Our Growing Pains, Baby Boy I wouldn't change a thing! You are Absolutely Perfect, Destined for Greatness & the Best is Yet to Come!,, (Son has a Prince ever caught a cold from Black Ice in their ears??) LetTheScavengerHuntBegin ~LuvUTheMost Mom

Wow! How time flies when You're having fun!? 21years ago I was being rushed to JFK Washington TWP to 12hours later give birth to My 80%BFF, 20% Aneurism, smph. Happy Birthday to My Collector's Item Ken Doll within all of Our Growing Pains, Baby Boy I wouldn't change a thing! You are Absolutely Perfect, Destined for Greatness & the Best is Yet to Come!,, (Black Kings adorn imported Lamb Skin leather slippers lined in the finest Lambs fleece). LetTheScavengerHuntBegin ~LuvUTheMost Mom

Every joke told in Poor taste is a Coward's way of being Truthful. Sarcasm, constant Criticism, Snide comments derive from Envy & are Nothing but Negative Reinforcement. Surrounding Yourself with Negative Reinforcement is a sure fire way to fail. Verily those Threatened by Your Success will stop at nothing in order to Threaten Your Success. Man being like Gravity will either Elevate You or drag You Down. Salvation is not synonymous to Stupidity so it's up to Us in Our Enlightened state to initially evaluate, acknowledge & identify the difference; lastly then to treat it accordingly. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & AWARE. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Make time to Pamper Him & keep Him on a pedestal but Never completely abandon Your Life & or extracurricular activities that make You, You. Business driven Men appreciate a Busy Woman. When You both have lives it allows for the space needed to Miss One Another. Only food should be Smothered, everything else is entitled to & worthy of a Life. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Men are instinctively drawn to Strength, However there is a Significant Difference between being a “Strong Woman” & Acting Like A Man. Men want Wives Not Husbands. If You make him feel like Less Of A Man, he will behave like Less Of A Man. Having a relationship is not a job but maintaining a successful one still requires work. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

One should wonder "In fact am I Intimidated or Simply so Destined for Greatness that I'm Intimidating" the Enemy is a Master of Deception, will get in where He fits in BUT only if We allow it...
I thought I was afraid of Public Speaking &"Telling My Business"; now thru speeches & writing about personal experiences I help heal Myself as well as Others. Simultaneously I feed My Spirit & Family. In hindsight I question, was I afraid, or did I allow the enemy trick Me into silence because He was afraid of the God in Me that would bless Me to be Blessing? Sometimes subconsciously We're afraid of Success & not Failure. Remember Faith is the Antithesis of Fear~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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I thought I was afraid of Public Speaking &"Telling My Business"; now thru speeches & writing about personal experiences I help heal Myself as well as Others. Simultaneously I feed My Spirit & Family. In hindsight I question, was I afraid, or did I allow the enemy trick Me into silence because He was afraid of the God in Me that would bless Me to be Blessing? Sometimes subconsciously We're afraid of Success & not Failure. Remember Faith is the Antithesis of Fear~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Don't take for granted that We're all born with the ability to or clearly express Love. Negative past experiences tend to have Us more prepared for the "Bad" as a means of Protecting Our Hearts & being labeled Naive when wearing Our hearts on Our sleeves. As Women we’re Maternal & instinctively want to Nurture & “Fix”. Understand the difference between trying to “Fix” a relationship & trying to “Change” a person. You can’t hold someone accountable for Not Thinking like You or Acting like You, when they’re obviously Not You. His movement may not mean that He doesn't Love You it may be that He Loves You but is limited in His capability of expressing it. We have to stop confusing the Gifts We're born with & the Skills We're trained in. Be patient & teach Him what Love looks & feels like. If He's worth Your Heart, He's worth the Work. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

"As a Man Thinketh in His Heart so Is He", I'd only fail by Not Trying or even more Out of the question "Quitting" so for Me Failure is Not an Option. No matter how Good or Complete it feels when anyone truly Loves You it will always fail in comparison to Loving Yourself. There is No shame in embracing Your self worth; from the womb We were created as Kings & Queens heirs to the Throne so as a child of God it's Your obligation to claim what's rightfully Yours. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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If You're destined for Greatness Constructive Criticism will make You better; If You're destined for Failure Constructive Criticism will make You bitter. The Reality is Adulthood is a hard pill to swallow & best taken Straight, No Chaser; suck it up it is what it is... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

What makes Us think if We pray about Goals & or Desires but avoid working towards them they'll magically fall out of the sky? Scripture reads: "if a Man doesn't work he shouldn't eat" therefore get up, get out & make it happen. You can't make moves by just thinking about them. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  Good Morning! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Challenges make You discover the Inner Strength You posses without even knowing it was present. Start to view Your Trials as Detours, not Dead Ends. Some Succeed because they’re Destined; the Masses Succeed because they’re both Destined & Determined. Your fear of not even trying has to Over Power Your fear of failure from Giving Up. When We doubt Ourselves in fact We're doubting the ability of Our God. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When We feel like Our prayers aren't being answered maybe We're praying for things outside God's will & like Our Father he stepped in to protect his child from AnyThing/One imposing harm; as sometimes We're a threat to Ourself. Our Faith let's Us Know God Loves Us but Our Heart & Flesh can't Feel it, so We're instructed "lean Not towards Our own understanding". That Job, that House, that Lover was Not for You; Let it Go obviously God has something better.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Our deepest fear isn't complete Failure, its being Successful beyond Our ability to even imagine. Light scares Us not Darkness. The Bright Light makes Us question:”Who am I to be Amazing, Talented, Successful?”Well Who are You NOT to be? As a child of God, Shrinking so other’s who are insecure feel Big, doesn't serve Him. We’re created to Manifest & Magnify God. Let Your Light shine & others worthy will get the courage to do the same. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

God's path for You will not be His path for Me, so refrain for telling me How to Get To Heaven, as I'll probably get there using Directions that You Don't have. Be as consumed with fulfilling Your personal Obligations as You are with What Your Neighbor Is/Isn't doing. Even the Most religious of people fail to realize that only One Opinion really matters. Both while Driving & in Lfe practice remaining in Your Lane. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: When a Male is respectful, responsible & mature, that doesn't make him "corny" it makes him a Man. Having poor examples of Masculinity from Our childhood We tend to get confused when choosing a mate. Grown Women recognize & appreciate the Clark Kents while little girls are searching for SuperMan. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Your Accomplishments are a result of the level of Your self-esteem, Your essence, Your confidence, the image You have of Yourself and who You Really Are. These attributes are the voice that tells You, You Will, You Can, or even You Can't. At times We have to Get Out of Our Own Way. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Do You ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: The Most Unattractive woman is the one who needs a Man to play God in their lives. Be that Woman who's consumed with so much Self Love, so much Confidence, that it can't help but be contagious. You'll find that He'll be Drawn to You as opposed to Running Away. Knowledge especially Self Knowledge is both necessary & intriguing. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

God I'm so Appreciative & I Promise to make You Proud! Thank You! ***Tears of Joy ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Don't take for granted that We're all born with the ability to or clearly express Love. Negative past experiences tend to have Us more prepared for the "Bad" as a means of Protecting Our Hearts & being labeled Naive when wearing Our hearts on Our sleeves. As Women we’re Maternal & instinctively want to Nurture & “Fix”. Understand the difference between trying to “Fix” a relationship & trying to “Change” a person. You can’t hold someone accountable for Not Thinking like You or Acting like You, when they’re obviously Not You. His movement may not mean that He doesn't Love You it may be that He Loves You but is limited in His capability of expressing it. We have to stop confusing the Gifts We're born with & the Talents We're trained in. Teach Him what Love looks & feels like.  We bypass so many Clark Kents searching for SuperMan ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Every joke told in Poor taste is a Coward's way of being Truthful. Sarcasm, constant Criticism, Snide comments derive from Envy & are Nothing but Negative Reinforcement. Surrounding Yourself with Negative Reinforcement is a sure fire way to fail. Verily those Threatened by Your Success will stop at nothing in order to Threaten Your Success. Man being like Gravity will either Elevate You or drag You Down. Salvation is not synonymous to Stupidity so it's up to Us in Our Enlightened state to initially evaluate, acknowledge & identify the difference; lastly then to treat it accordingly. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & AWARE. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Every joke told in Poor taste is a Coward's way of being Truthful. Sarcasm, constant Criticism, Snide comments derive from Envy & are Nothing but Negative Reinforcement. Surrounding Yourself with Negative Reinforcement is a sure fire way to fail. Verily those Threatened by Your Success will stop at nothing in order to Threaten Your Success. Man being like Gravity will either Elevate You or drag You Down. Salvation is not synonymous to Stupidity so it's up to Us in Our Enlightened state to initially evaluate, acknowledge & identify the difference; lastly then to treat it accordingly. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & AWARE.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

God is so Good... That's all I have to say this evening; Good Night All ~LuvUMuch Neciaism 

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: We were created to be Help-Mates; Ignorance has made that term a "badge of shame", a sign of Weakness & Stupidity. It takes Courage to play Your position & Intelligence to know what Your position is. Respect the honor of Him being the Man. Appreciate the prestige of You being the Woman & Embrace them both as We all have designated roles. Real Men want Wives Not Husbands. This statement isn't Me being sexist, it's Me being Truthful ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Don't take for granted that We're all born with the ability to or clearly express Love. Negative past experiences tend to have Us more prepared for the "Bad" as a means of Protecting Our Hearts & being labeled Naive when wearing Our hearts on Our sleeves. As Women we’re Maternal & instinctively want to Nurture & “Fix”. Understand the difference between trying to “Fix” a relationship & trying to “Change” a person. You can’t hold someone accountable for Not Thinking like You or Acting like You, when they’re obviously Not You. His movement may not mean that He doesn't Love You it may be that He Loves You but is limited in His capability of expressing it. We have to stop confusing the Gifts We're born with & the Talents We're trained in. Teach Him what Love looks & feels like.  We bypass so many Clark Kents searching for SuperMan ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

If They want nothing to do with Your fight, then They should have nothing to do with Your Victory; real friends walk in when acquaintances walk out. Both figuratively & literally Real Friends stay around well after the party's over to help "Clean Up the Mess". One can still manage to be lonely even within a group; again proof that Quality trumps Quantity.  You need to be Held Down not Dragged Down.  Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & AWARE of the differences. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Letting him lead isn't necessarily a "Bad Thing" or a sign of weakness. As adults we realize that infact Everything & Everyone has it's place. Sis You allow Your man to be "the Man" it demonstrates Your Knowledge of Self as well as the security You have in the Woman You are & Real Men are drawn to a secure Woman like moths to a flame, so play Your position & allow God to have him find You while You're in preparation to be found. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

I do a lot of motivational speaking & tend to use My Spirit driven words to help people Feel & Live better; but until I was able to speak the same Feeling & Life into Myself I was unable to Succeed & embrace the Me God created Me to be. When the Titanic sank, it wasn't due to the water around it or iceberg it hit; it sank due to the water that got in it. Feed Your spirit with Positivity & Prosperity; command the Good & Forbid the Evil, Realize that God's Promise is True & All that really matters. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Without wanting to be, You found Yourself now "Single". Sis, it is what it is. Take a class or read a book to develop Your Mind. Join a gym to develop Your Body. Pray to develop Your Relationship with God. Meditate to develop Clarity & get re-familiar with "You". Flesh may bruise, while the Heart scars & breaks. The Healing process works from, the Inside, Out so take care of You for a moment & Since You're back on the Market use the alone time to increase Your Property Value. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

On occasion I "fall off the face of the Earth" for a moment, I get Tunnel vision & go into intense work mode & My social life tends to suffer. I had a close family member neglect to call me on my birthday & admit that she was angry at Me because she assumed that I was angry with her. Now if You did no wrong what reason would I have to be mad? On that same note if You Love someone You air out Your differences, life is too short & the Enemy Loves separation as He's the master of deception. Until I show You My character flaws don't expect any from Me.  We can't hold Our Friends of the future accountable for & or obligate them to carrying the baggage Enemies left in Our past  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Everything happens for a reason, Let Go & Let God, Pray about Everything & worry about nothing; these all sound Good but they’re easier said than done. On occasion We’re put in situations to test Our Faith; God wants Us to put Our walk where Our mouth is. If Jesus could be nailed to cross & crucified without saving himself even though he was capable, whatever it is We can weather the storm. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

You can't want something for someone more than they want it for themselves. Although We may want to help sometimes We're stepping on God's toes. He's the Father & will discipline accordingly. Valuable Lessons & Blessings come from struggles so on occasion the best help You can offer someone You Love when they seem to be Struggling is to turn away & pray for them. I've been thru so many trials in My life & hindsight being 20/20 I realize I wasn't being Punished I was being Prepared for My Future. Just hold On. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

The "abused" tend to be abused several times before/if ever breaking away. Initially They think They attract these situations. In a sense that may be true but They're only partially to blame as predators smell prey like blood in Shark infested waters. Rather than being Stupid a victim may very well be caught in a vicious cycle, a product of Their environment/lifestyle. Human Beings tend to gravitate to the familiar subconsciously. We know We want & deserve better than the unfit-for-habitation space We're in, but its still Home so We go back. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Just because You're spinning Your wheels it doesn't mean You're going anywhere; some journeys are endless because that particular destination is Not for Us, don't be afraid to change direction. It's easy to confuse Moving & Progressing. We know what We want while God knows what We need & not only is He Never wrong, He's always on time. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Trust Him. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When We're in too much distress to Pray; We need to resort to Worship. It confuses the enemy & exercises Our God given ability to Will peace into Existence. If You were on a sinking ship in the middle of the ocean & God threw You a Life-Jacket You'd be a fool not to use it & deserve to drown. Same Premise. He Never said it would be Easy but He did say its Not Impossible. Stronger is He that lives in Me... You are More than a Conqueror, remember?? ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright ©

Having an idea as to who God is isn't the same as actually knowing Him. Religion isn't as important to Your Life, Success & or Destiny as Your relationship is. When You really know God & Know what He expects from You what anyone else thinks is irrelevant. You know what they say "Its not what You know its Who You know". Youre an heir to the Throne, You better recognze. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=avkJO2PSE_k&feature=youtube_gdata_player Makes one wonder is there such a thing as Unprocessed livestock? Titles like Halaal, Organic, Kosher, 100% natural regarding consumable flesh is a myth huh? ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

While Under Pressure, maintain focus, see disturbances for what they are:”Intentional Distractions” to shake You off Your square. Planes that fly high can’t help but experience turbulence; Annoying? Yes, Deadly? No. Buckle Your seat belt & Keep Flying. When You’re trying to do what’s right it feels like nothing’s going Your way keep in Mind, if You weren't a Threat to the Enemy, an heir to the Throne on the verge of Greatness Your walk in the wilderness would be a Stroll in the Park. Stay Prayerful Focused & Encouraged for You are Not Alone & He is Able; Your problems are a mere Fraction of the size of Our God. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: What are You putting forth that keeps bringing the "Wrong Man" into Your Life? Before We point that blaming finger outward We need to start with practicing infront of a mirror. Let's claim some responsibility for what's wrong in Our Lives; Stop fertilizing Your lawn with "Dog Food" & You'll stop attracting Stray Dogs to Your yard. The fact of the matter is We're all not innocent victims, We tend to see what feels good as opposed to what's factual. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: When dating a New Man We need to pay special attention to the Women he grew up around & the nature of their relationships. It could give You a glimpse into how He’ll be with You. He may not know how to Love You & maybe the type that doesn’t want to learn. Its not always P.M.S. sometimes it’s that “He-A-Mess”. You can say what You want about a "Momma's Boys" but if He doesn't respect His Mother, Sis please don't expect any better. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

To whom Much is given Much is Required & who Suffers Greatly will be Rewarded Greatly. His Promise is True. The Best defense against a Miserable Spirit, is a Compassionate one that can rise above the situation & identify the Bigger Picture; so Love Someone who Hates You & Help Someone who Hurt You. After the most difficult struggle follows the Biggest Blessings & after the Biggest Blessing follows the Greatest Reward. At the End of it All, We realize its not about Please You, Me or Them ; its about Pleasing "Him". Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

The Best defense against a Miserable Spirit, is a Compassionate one that can rise above the situation & identify the Bigger Picture; so Love Someone who Hates You & Help Someone who Hurt You. After the most difficult struggle follows the Biggest Blessings & after the Biggest Blessing follows the Greatest Reward. At the End of it All, We realize its not about Please You, Me or Them ; its about Pleasing "Him". Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Never take relationship advice from a Lonely & or Miserable Person; if They knew so much They’d be applying it to Their own life. Thats like a Homeless person giving You directions to their house. Misery is like a Cancer but not only does it spread, it's contagious & loves company. Though they differ as Cancer You have no choice but to fight & deal with it; now Misery... You need not entertain. Forbid the Bad & Common the Good. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & On Point. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Entertainers & Athletes are adequate however in no way are they better than a child's father as the role model for what Men represent. To all the Father's out there stepping up to the plate & taking the time to sew the necessary seeds in Our children understand that You are the family's Foundation, therefore Irreplaceable, Priceless & Appreciated. Have an Awesomely Blessed, Prosperous & Amazing holiday season; for You Everyday is Father's Day, You are The Family's Foundation, so "Thank You" ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

‎"Tithe" like "Church" is an adjective not a noun. You can have Church anywhere & there's several ways to Tithe. Do Your own research, obtain proofs before just following Anyone's lead; religion & tradition are easily confused. To Believer's: Don't be fooled into the notion that inorder to tithe You're obligated to put 10% of Your minimum wage income into a collection plate when Your family has final notices that require immediate attention. No matter what religious Belief/Faith You subscribe to Your relationship with God is a personal one. He knows You as well as Your heart better than even You do. When You offer Your brother/sister a warm bed to lay in, a hot plate of food or even just a ride; You are infact titheing. To Religious Leaders: be mindful of leading Your congregation astray with faulty direction; understand You will be held accountable not only for them being lost but for the part You played in imposing Your Opinion in lieu of Fact. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

An Optimist chases their Dreams while a Pessimist runs from their Nightmares. Don't miss out on a Successful Life because Your too afraid to venture into the Unknown. EveryThing/One familiar isn't always the Best for You. Just because You're a friend to Someone that doesn't make them a Friend to You. In life We learn to remove the Negative from Our Circle to make room for the Positive. Once We take the dead weight off Our wings We're not only able to Fly but to Soar.  The Difference between Good & Great is the Faith You posses with that Extra Effort. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

An Optimist chases their Dreams while a Pessimist runs from their Nightmares. Don't miss out on a Successful Life because Your too afraid to venture into the Unknown. EveryThing/One familiar isn't always the Best for You. Just because You're a friend to Someone that doesn't make them a Friend to You. In life We learn to remove the Negative from Our Circle to make room for the Positive. Once We take the dead weight off Our wings We're not only able to Fly but to Soar.  The Difference between Good & Great is the Faith You posses with that Extra Effort. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Exodus 34:10. Then the LORD said: “I am making a covenant with you. Before all your people I will do wonders never before done in any nation in all the world. The people you live among will see how awesome is the work that I, the LORD, will do for you. *** We Speak life into things Both Good & Bad; as a Child of God We're able to rebuke the Bad & Command the Good. Know that The Best is Yet to come for Your are Destined for Greatness; if that were not the case Your Walk in the Wilderness would be a Stroll in the Park. Stand by Faith not by Sight. *** Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Money can buy You a Bed but not Sleep, Clocks but not Time, Books but not Knowledge, a House but not a Home & Sex but not Love. More important than the Revenue is from where the Blessings to receive them came. 2Peter 2:19 reads "You are a slave to whatever controls You." Never loose sight of Your very First Prayer/Where You(it all began) started. I'm not where I want to be, yet I'm miles from where I've been. ***Status:Very Thankful ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

No other term would be appropriate except Homegoing Keesh as You Were, Are & Always Will Be an Angel. The Most Beautiful Person I have Ever come in contact with. This world is not worthy of You. We Love You Always & Forever Sis. R.I.P. Keesha Golden ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: I'm very Family Orientated & as a Grown Woman I'd Love to be married however when I'm ready I don't just want A Husband I want My Own, Not My Sister's. We can't be so much in Love with the idea of Being in Love that it takes away from Our self worth. Nuptials are not like Social Media there is no "Complicated" relationship status it's cut & dry; either He's(You're) Married or Not. Ladies when We allow squatters to live in Our homes it decreases Our property value; then when We're really interested in selling We can only expect bottom basement prices from a wholesale Auction. Appreciate & Respect You as the Queen You were created to be. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Exodus 34:10. Then the LORD said: “I am making a covenant with you. Before all your people I will do wonders never before done in any nation in all the world. The people you live among will see how awesome is the work that I, the LORD, will do for you. *** We Speak life into things Both Good & Bad; as a Child of God We're able to rebuke the Bad & Command the Good. Know that The Best is Yet to come for Your are Destined for Greatness; if that were not the case Your Walk in the Wilderness would be a Stroll in the Park. Stand by Faith not by Sight. *** Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Exodus 34:10. Then the LORD said: “I am making a covenant with you. Before all your people I will do wonders never before done in any nation in all the world. The people you live among will see how awesome is the work that I, the LORD, will do for you. *** We Speak life into things Both Good & Bad; as a Child of God We're able to rebuke the Bad & Command the Good. Know that The Best is Yet to come for Your are Destined for Greatness; if that were not the case Your Walk in the Wilderness would be a Stroll in the Park. Stand by Faith not by Sight. *** Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Your Goals & or Aspirations don't necessarily need to be shared with the world. Sometimes without You knowing the negativity of others can detour Your destiny. Without having Your eyes no one can have Your vision. Set Your Goals then pray & work towards them. We were born with the ability to Will things into existence by keeping Our Minds open & Mouths shut. Not Everyone prays for You some pray Against You. As We know Misery Loves company but We need not make room in Our Lives to accommodate it. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

What/Whomever You submit to You become a slave to it. If We want better results We have to make better decisions. We decide what We make of Our lives don't confuse Tradition with Truth; Women in My family aren't Happy unless they're Miserable. Disruptive Patterns & Vicious Cycles are made to be broken. You can't be Liberated from what You've awarded Power To & You can't award Power To what You've been Liberated from. Family curses are Options Not Laws. Consciously decide to Totally Love & Live Your Life. Let Whomever won't Go to Heaven with You, Go to Hell without You ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: As Women we’re Maternal & instinctively want to Nurture & “Fix”. We need to Understand the difference between trying to “Fix” a relationship & trying to “Change” a person. Think outside the box & consider that instead of changing Your mate God is using Your mate to change You. God's Intellect is so Profound & UnParalleled that at times He can be right in Our faces that even with TriFocals on We still can't see Him. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Loving someone one & being in Love with someone are two different entities. Love is like a Good Man & an Orgasm, You don’t know what You’ve been missing until You have one; once You have one there’s no question in Your mind. No matter how articulate You are, words can’t express the feeling; You have to experience it inorder to relate to it. God is truly the Grand Architect; Speechless for Good Reason. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Anger is the Secondary Emotion; the mask that Hurt the Primary Emotion wears when its ashamed to show it's face. An Angered Spirit is a Tortured Spirit. What’s heard is "I'm Mad at You" when what’s said is "I'm in Pain". The Best people can make the Worst mistakes & the Worst Results can stem from the Best Intentions; without the ability to Forgive, We limit Our ability to Love. If You Love Someone, "Let them Know"; if You can't stand them "Let it Go". it takes much more energy to hold grudges then to just live Free. Harboring resentment gives the same entity that caused You grief, Power over Your Mind, Body, Soul & Spirit; God is the Only One worthy of that privilege. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Be mindful when composing Your “Perfect Mate” list of requirements; quite frankly We should Only Request & Expect to Receive what We Offer. You can’t expect to buy Dom Perignon with Coupons & FoodStamps; too many GirlScouts out there demanding Soldiers, c'mon now ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Loving someone one & being in Love with someone are two different entities. Love is like a Good Man & an Orgasm, You don’t know what You’ve been missing until You have one; once You have one there’s no question in Your mind. No matter how articulate You are, words can’t express the feeling; You have to experience it inorder to relate to it. God is truly the Grand Architect; Speechless for Good Reason. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Loving someone one & being in Love with someone are two different entities. Love is like a Good Man & an Orgasm, You don’t know what You’ve been missing until You have one; once You have one there’s no question in Your mind. No matter how articulate You are, words can’t express the feeling; You have to experience it inorder to relate to it. Speechless for Good Reason. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

After a latenite blog someone asked Me if I knew "What time it was". Not being argumentative just being candid, My response was; The question is: "Does the Enemy know or care what time it is?" Not everyone prays for You some pray against You, so even when while resting We need to be aware, alert & on point. Great Soldiers sleep armed. Someone needed to hear this. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged Mwuah! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Individuals handle trauma differently. A person's troubled past may subconsciously drive them to hurt those who try to help them as hurt people tend to Hurt People. In protecting Yourself You may need to Love them from a distance. Loving a heartless spirit can be a waste of time & effort; like trying to teach someone how to swim without them knowing their drowning or even in water for that matter. Life's too short to do Anything but Love, Laugh & Live; so enjoy Loving Life & start with learning to Love Yourself. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Sincere Love & Piety may compel You to show a miserable spirit a glimpse of Heaven; ultimately frustrating Yourself as that spirit can't shake it's home-sick feeling for Hell. Some people aren't happy unless they're unhappy. For that I couldn't tell You what to do however I can advise what Not to do: Allow it to steal Your Joy. Misery is the spirit form of a flesh eating bacteria. They may not go to Heaven with You; but just be sure Not to go to Hell with Them. Stay Prayerful Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Good Afternoon All, I'm organizing My itinerary for 2012-2013 Nationwide, if You'd like Me to come out & speak feel free to FaceBook inbox Me or email directly: Neciaism@gmail.com with Your contact information & I'm as good as there. Have an Awesomely Blessed, Prosperous & Safe week. Stay Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: In a relationship as Women need to Prioritize & Accept that Our Family Comes First. Life Long friends are fine to have; However Your true friends realize that they shouldn't compete with Your Mate or Your Children & instead of feeling slighted they would gladly step aside as they want what's best for You. Bottom line Single Women & Women in Relationships are held to Different Standards. Respect Your Home & Your Man as the Head if the House.  Truly respecting Your Man begins with Truly Respecting Yourself; now can You Respect that?  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Someone asked Me if i knew "What time it was". Not being argumentative just being candid, My response was; The question is: "Does the Enemy know or care what time it is?" Not everyone prays for You some pray against You, so even when while resting We need to be aware, alert & on point. Great Soldiers sleep armed. Someone needed to hear this. Stay Encouraged Mwuah. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 4, 2011

While Under Pressure, maintain focus, see disturbances for what they are:”Intentional Distractions” to shake You off Your square. Planes that fly high can’t help but experience turbulence; Annoying? Yes, Deadly? No. Buckle Your seat belt & Keep Flying. When You’re trying to do what’s right it feels like nothing’s going Your way keep in Mind, if You weren't a Threat to the Enemy, an heir to the Throne on the verge of Greatness Your walk in the wilderness would be a Stroll in the Park. Stay Prayerful Focused & Encouraged for You are Not Alone & He is Able! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Tricks of a Feather... No You can't judge a book by it's cover but You can get a good idea of it's content if  You' pay attention to the section of literature it's placed in within the library or bookstore where You found it. Familiarize Yourself with the crowd Your significant other keeps; in Your eyesight they may be the Extreme Opposite of all of their friends however keep in mind this is "within Your Eyesight". Truth be told Nuns don't fellowship with Whores. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Time spent trying to give directions to where Your headed when Your peers have difficulty reading road maps, will only frustrate You & prolong You reaching Your destination. The best thing to do is to invite others for the ride, if they can't make the trip, then so be it; just extend a helping hand & prayer to them when You get there. Life like Success are personal journeys therefore it's a constant struggle to share Your vision with everyone as You don't share the same eyes or perspective. Similar like this blog, Some Will Get it & some won't. The choice is Yours. Stay Prayerful Focused & Encouraged  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Time spent trying to give directions to where Your headed when Your peers have difficulty reading maps, will only frustrates You & prolong reaching Your destination. The best thing to do is to invite others for the ride, if they can't make the trip, then so be it; just hit them up when You get there. Life like Success are personal journeys therefore it's a constant struggle to share Your vision. Just like this blog, Some Will Get it & some won't  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

What/Whomever You submit to You become a slave to it. If We want better results We have to make better decisions. We decide what We make of Our lives don't confuse Tradition with Truth;
Women in My family aren't Happy unless they're Miserable. Disruptive Patterns & Vicious Cycles are made to be broken. You can't be Liberated from what You've awarded Power To & You can't award Power To what You've been Liberated from. Family curses are Options Not Laws. Consciously decide to Totally Love & Live Your Life. Let Whomever won't Go to Heaven with You, Go to Hell without You ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

‎"Doing You"; isn't necessarily a bad thing. Love Yourself & lead by example. You Loving You, shows others how it's done. If You don't Love & Respect You no one else will either. Charity starts at Home. You have to hold Your Star Player down; Failure is Not an Option... I made a conscious decision to have UnCommon Sense. For the rest of My Life the level of Intelligence, Positivity, Creativity & Success that I exhibit will just be Ridiculous! Absolutely Senseless.. Sounds Extra? Maybe; but that's part of My ExtraOrdinary nature. You either get Beside Me or get Behind Me; I know You won't get infront of Me because I'm letting Nothing get in My way. I'm Going with or without You. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Good Morning, I'll be celebrating the Anniversary of My birth with a year long party with an Exclusive guest list & only those invited can come; Amazing Success, Phenomenal Accomplishments, Unparalleled Joy, Tremendous Favor & Beyond Blessed footsteps have already RSVP'd. It would mean the world to Me if You'd also attend. Failure & Negativity have been banned. You are More than a Conqueror remember? As a Man Thinketh in His Heart so is He. Enjoy Your week Everyone, Happy Monday. Pray to be blessed to be a blessing, now Let's get the party started! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

I have TOOOO Much to be happy about, TOOOO Much to be Thankful for, TOOOO Much reason to offer Praise! Even if I wanted to be Negative; I just don't have the time. Happy Birthday to Me!!! Thank You Jesus My family & Friends make Me the Wealthiest Woman in the world (& the cheddar doesn't hurt either, lol) Live Your Life Everyone! Thanks for holding a Sistar down Mwuah!!!!! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism 

Although I LOVE to hear about the positive contributions of Black Men I don't like the fact that it's considered "rare". There're many Intelligent, Family Orientated, Hard Working, Great Husbands & Fathers who happen to be Men of color. We don't like to be labeled; however We can't behave in a manner that substantiates the labels. Culturally Our Men have so much more to offer than a Michael Jordan, T.D. Jakes & Bill Cosby. Let's Get it Together so that We can Get It Together. Realize We are Kings & Queens; heirs to the throne. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Entertainers & Athletes are adequate however in no way are they better than a child's father as the role model for what Men represent. To all the Father's out there stepping up to the plate & taking the time to sew the necessary seeds in Our children understand that You are the family's Foundation, therefore Irreplaceable, Priceless & Appreciated. Have an Awesomely Blessed, Prosperous & Amazing holiday season; for You Everyday is Father's Day & Everyone is Thankful. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Just because We don't immediately reep reward for Our efforts, that doesn't mean We should abandon hope & stop trying. All things happen in their time & in Life theres a time to be a Student as well as a time to be a Teacher. Keep in mind God is Not Always punishing You certain situations even though painful it's that He's Grooming & Preparing You. FAITH is a way of Walking & Living; not always Easy but Always Effective. Stay Prayerful, Diligent, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Coming up on the holidays Sisters  lets not start to trip over the old pictures of OR family reminiscent stories of Your partner's Exes. What & Who We met Yesterday has alot to do with Who We are Today. Its called His Past because He's moved passed it & it's behind Him. When We're driving spending too much time looking in the rear view mirror as opposed to the road ahead, increases Our chances to end up in a fatal Wreck. To get it Right We first must get it Wrong. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Thankful that the Best is usually Last.  Don't feed into the tricks of the Enemy We have much more to be Thankful for than to regret. Happy Thanksgiving ALl!   ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

You can't make Everyone You come across happy, as Everyone You come across will not want to Be Happy. All You can do is be the Best You that You can Be, shine like the Star You were created to Be & Let No One/Nothing dim Your light. If God sees You doing all that You can do, he'll show up & do what all that You can't do. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © January 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: What are You putting forth that keeps bringing the "Wrong Man" into Your Life? Before We point that blaming finger outward We need to start with practicing infront of a mirror. Let's claim some responsibility for what's wrong in Our Lives; Stop sprinkling "Dog Food" around & You'll stop attracting Stray Dogs. The fact of the matter is We're all not innocent victims, We tend to see what feels good as opposed to what's factual. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2011

Exodus 34:10. Then the LORD said: “I am making a covenant with you. Before all your people I will do wonders never before done in any nation in all the world. The people you live among will see how awesome is the work that I, the LORD, will do for you. *** We Speak life into things Both Good & Bad; as a Child of God let's rebuke the Bad & Command the Good. Know that The Best is Yet to come for Your are Destined for Greatness.Walk & Stand by Faith not by Sight. *** Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

...and that's why I don't mind, saying I Love You... no surprise MJB killed it again!  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

I thought I was afraid of Public Speaking & or "Telling My Business"; now thru speeches & writing about personal experiences I help heal Myself as well as Others. I'm able to feed My Spirit while feeding My Family. In hindsight I question, was I afraid or did I allow the enemy trick Me into silence because He was afraid of the God in Me that would bless Me to be Blessing? Sometimes subconsciously We're afraid of Success & not Failure. Remember Faith is the Antithesis of Fear & You are More than a Conqueror. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Make time to Pamper Him & keep Him on a pedestal but Never completely abandon Your Life & or extracurricular activities that make You, You. Business driven Men appreciate a Busy Woman. When You both have lives it allows for the space needed to Miss One Another. Only food should be Smothered, everything else is entitled to & worthy of a Life. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Having an idea as to who God is isn't the same as actually knowing Him. Religion isn't as important to Your Life, Success & or Destiny as Your relationship is. When You really know God & Know what He expects from You what anyone else thinks is irrelevant. You know what they say "Its not what You know its Who You know". Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When We're in too much distress to Pray; We need to resort to Worship. It confuses the enemy & exercises Our God given ability to Will peace into Existence. If You were on a sinking ship in the middle of the ocean & God threw You a Life-Jacket You'd be a fool not to use it & deserve to drown. Same Premise. He Never said it would be Easy but He did say its Not Impossible. Stronger is He that lives in Me... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: For the most part Men are cut & dry. "Reality" or "What a situation is" will manifest is both actions & words. If He acts as if He doesn't care, if You feel as if He doesn't care; chances are He doesn't care. As women We tend to see what's easier to take as opposed to what things really are. Being a casualty of Love & War is Someone fooling You. Being a fallen soldier slain by Friendly fire is when We fool Ourselves. Time to throw away the Rose Colored glasses. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: For the most part Men are cut & dry. "Reality" or "What a situation is" will manifest is both actions & words. If He acts as if He doesn't care, if You feel as if He doesn't care; chances are He doesn't care. As women We tend to see what's easier to take as opposed to what things really are. Being a casualty of Love & War is Someone fooling You. Being a fallen soldier slain by Friendly fire is when We fool Ourselves. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When We feel like Our prayers aren't being answered it's that We're praying for things outside God's will. Like a parent He'll step in & protect His children from AnyThing/One imposing harm; even when it themselves; that's when We Know God Loves Us but We just don't Feel it. This is why we're taught to lean Not towards Our own understanding. All things happen for a reason however there's no guarantee We'll always know what that reason is; thus where Faith comes in. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When We feel like Our prayers aren't being answered it's that We're praying for things outside God's will. Like a parent He'll step in & protect His children from AnyThing/One imposing harm; even when it themselves; that's when We Know God Loves Us but We just don't Feel it. This is why we're taught to lean Not towards Our own understanding. All things happen for a reason however there's no guarantee We'll always know what that reason is; thus where Faith comes in. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When We feel like Our prayers aren't being answered it's that We're praying for things outside God's will. Like a parent He'll step in & protect His children from AnyThing/One imposing harm; even when it themselves; that's when We Know God Loves Us but We just don't Feel it. This is why we're taught to lean Not towards Our own understanding. All things happen for a reason however there's no guarantee We'll always know what that reason is; this is where Faith comes in. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Just because You're spinning Your wheels it doesn't mean You're going anywhere; some journeys are endless because that particular destination is Not for Us, don't be afraid to change direction. It's easy to confuse Moving & Progressing. We know what We want while God knows what We need & not only is He Never wrong, He's always on time. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Trust Him. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Due to Our stubborn nature, it's only when We get hurt after a fall that We Learn. Everyone makes mistakes but as adults we shouldn't be repeating them; with Error should come Growth as in Child to Adult, Novice to Expert. Evolution is Monkey to Man NOT Man to Monkey. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

I saw a thought provoking post, it read: "I asked God to protect Me from All of My enemies & then I started Losing Friends"... Deep right? It occurred to Me that people are like Gravity, if They aren't lifting You up They're dragging You down. Life lessons; We can't expect to fly with dead weight on Our wings. The Airlines charge a lot of Money for excess baggage; in Life it can cost You Success. Time to shake it off! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

If You want to be attractive to Me, help Me broaden My horizons, teach Me something, show Me something new, expose Me to a New Culture; I Love to Learn. I wonder if Men realize what an Aphrodisiac Intelligence is... Speechless for Good reason. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When You’re generous in nature You may instinctively be anxious to share, however not everyone is worthy of reeping the benefits of Your labor. Where You tend to Pray others may view You solely as Prey. People are like Gravity, they will either Elevate You or Drag You down; its important to be aware of You’re surroundings inorder to identify the difference Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

The "abused" tend to be abused several times before/if ever breaking away. Initially They think They attract these situations. In a sense that may be true but They're only partially to blame as predators smell prey like blood in Shark infested waters. Rather than being Stupid a victim may very well be caught in a vicious cycle, a product of Their environment/lifestyle. Human Beings tend to gravitate to the familiar subconsciously. We know We want & deserve better than the unfit-for-habitation space We're in, but its still Home so We go back. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Invest in Yourself to the point where the Man who makes You His will be the richest Man alive. Groom Yourself to be Beautiful Inside & Out. Sisters realize We are Priceless; We're the Gold while in fact the Men are the Gold-Diggers. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Enlightened ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Recognize the valuable Lesson in any "Bad relationship" for without Knowing Bad We couldn't Identify or Appreciate Good. We're in each others lives for Reasons, Seasons or Lifetimes & it doesn't have to be a Lifetime inorder to make a difference. To keep a Friend You have to be a Friend. Some people leave You no choice but to Love them from a distance so that You can properly Love Yourself. Remember Charity starts at home; Learn to Love Loving You! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules:Maternal, We want to Nurture & "Fix". We should Understand the difference between “Fixing” a relationship & “Changing” a person. We are held accountable for painful backlash associated with one's character when their behavior is instinctive to their Breed. If a Dog bites You He's doing what He does; a risk to be aware of before deciding to play with Him ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011  

You can't want something for someone more than they want it for themselves. Although We may want to help sometimes We're stepping on God's toes. He's the Father & will discipline accordingly. Valuable Lessons & Blessings come from struggles so on occasion the best help You can offer someone You Love when they seem to be Struggling is to turn away & pray for them. I've been thru so many trials in My life & hindsight being 20/20 I realize I wasn't being Punished I was being Prepared for My Future. Just hold On. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Don’t be so quick to Blame God when Calamities hit. No one’s perfect, We ALL fall short at one time or another & Eventually We Have to pay for Our transgressions; so consider it One debt Paid In Full. Karma doesn't move in a straight line it actually travels in circles. Remember Good, Bad or Indifferent We reap what We sew. Just like yelling into a cave the words that echo are Your own. Don't try to feed someone what You wouldn't eat Yourself. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

A boy taught that expressing Love is Feminine & or Gay, will grow into an UnLoving Man. A girl taught the same thing will grow into a Woman who doesn't know Love so she won't recognize it. Not Words, but "Actions" teach lessons. Children may not do what We say but they'll do what We Do. Babies enter the world like blank pages in a book in which adults fill with content; their parents being the first to write in it. Today's Children are the BluePrint for tomorrow's Adults. We owe them better than what They're  getting. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

More than What You said, what'll be remembered is How You Made them feel; I’d rather be hesitant in my speech then reckless with it’s content. Everyday Lives aren't staffed with editors so not all comments are retractable & not too many weapons cut like the Tongue. Please remember the Flesh Bruises but Hearts Scar & Break. Stay Prayerful, Encouraged & Focused ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

While Under Pressure, maintain focus, see disturbances for what they are:”Intentional Distractions” to shake You off Your square. Planes that fly high can’t help but experience turbulence; Annoying? Yes, Deadly? No. Buckle Your seat belt & Keep Flying. When You’re trying to do what’s right it feels like nothing’s going Your way however, if You weren't a Threat, on the verge of Greatness Your walk in the wilderness would be a Stroll in the Park ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

The question is Not: "Why do They have it & You don't?" The question is Why do You concern Yourself with what They have?" We need to Stop counting Our Neighbor's money. What God has for You is For You & NoThing/One can change that. Look what happened to Malcolm X The last time he heard Someone Yell "Get Your hands Out My Pocket!" that was a staged distraction that cost a Powerful Man his life; same premise. When We get consumed with what the Jones' have it takes away the time & effort that could be spent on getting Our Own. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

An Essential quality to remming on top once You get there is not to lose sight of the struggle it took to arrive or the emotions You experienced during Your travels when it was just a goal. Before You decide to hurt someone, decide to help someone. Only God's love is permanent; everything else Today, Tomorrow, Our failures & successes are temporary. Never forget where You came from for in a blink of an eye whether You like it or not, You can go back there. Pray to be blessed to be a blessing. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

To Believer's: Don't be fooled into the notion that inorder to tithe You're obligated to put 10% of Your minimum wage income into a collection plate when Your family has final notices that require immediate attention. No matter what religious Belief/Faith You subscribe to Your relationship with God is a personal one. He knows You as well as Your heart better than even You do. When You offer Your brother/sister a warm bed to lay in, a hot plate of food or even just a ride; You are infact titheing. To Religious Leaders: be mindful of leading Your congregation astray with faulty direction; understand You will be held accountable not only for them being lost but for the part You played in imposing Your Opinion in lieu of Fact. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Treat that Man like Who He Can & Will be. Not like Who he is or Was. Who wants to be reminded of their flaws? Treating Him like royalty puts the pressure on Him to Rise to the Occasion, not disappoint his Loyal Subjects & please His Queen. Our relationships aren't always broken We just have to learn how to Work it ;-) ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Without wanting to be, You found Yourself now "Single". Sis, it is what it is. Take a class or read a book to develop Your Mind. Join a gym to develop Your Body. Pray to develop Your Relationship with God. Meditate to develop Clarity & get re-familiar with "You". Flesh may bruise, while the Heart scars & breaks. The Healing process works from, the Inside, Out so take care of You for a moment & Since You're back on the Market use the alone time to increase Your Property Value. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

At times I can be so Stubborn, so Proud, that I'd rather die then play part in proving My "Nay-Sayers" right regarding My failure. Standing at the edge of a cliff theres always some deviant spirit waiting to just push You off. Next time that happens avoid being Shaken & anticipating the fall, embrace being Excited & be convinced that alas You're about to learn to fly. We have to learn to take what the enemy plans for bad & fully "Surrender" allowing God to make it good. Don't get discouraged when You discover Everyone doesn't like You or is not Your friend. Stay Encouraged because the fact of the matter is Your enemies can sometimes help You reach Your goals more that Your friends by being the wind beneath Your Success' wings.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When people use their mouths to criticize You its because their Spirit Envies You. You are the person they wish they had the Courage to become. The enemy is Miserable & a Coward. Most people will Not congratulate You for Living Out Their Dreams or Achieving Their Goals. Pay close attention those who talk about Your cooking will not only lick their fingers & clean their plates they'll also try to figure out Your recipe because they cant get enough of what You feed them. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Inspite of what You've done to Me, I Love You & Forgive You; things i can do from a distance. However make no mistake its not Me but the God in Me that commands Me to do so. Whether or Not You believe in God, realize You're Blessed that Whom You offend does. Even to My enemies; I'm You're Sister before I'm Your friend & for that, anyway You look at it, You need to Thank God. Finally Whom/Whatever it is You're hating on please be patient as there's much more to come. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Your Challenges can become Opportunities if You have the Vision to See the Good in the situation & the Faith to Welcome & Accept what You see. As a Believer when You doubt Yourself You're doubting God. Realize Our God is so much Greater than any of Our Problems. Fear is the Antithesis of Faith. You are More than a Conqueror, Remember??? Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Like bows in an arrow at times We Need to take steps backwards before being allowed to catapult forward. Sometimes the further You Step Back (assessing the situation) results in the most Tremendous Advance; PROGRESS. Strive to excel not INSPITE of but BECAUSE of Your downfalls We determine if Our Failed attempts are Dead Ends or simply Detours. Karma will give You what You ask for & Life will give You what You Demand; Demand Greatness as the God in You is Able. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When people ask Me where I’m headed My response leaves most thinking I’m delusional in My future expectations without being a Trump or from widely Known Royalty. However without it being publicized I’m a heir to the Throne. Your “Nay-Sayers” don’t think You’re Successful they Know it. The only one who hasn’t gotten the Memo about Your Amazing Future is You. You’re Your Biggest Competition; Get Out of Your own way ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright ©2011

Don't confuse what a Person Can't do with what they Don't Want to Do.. Soldiers sleep armed. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

...Now back to Our Normal Scheduled Programming... Never take Kindness for Weakness, Salvation for Stupidity or Humility for Insecurity. Realize when You wrong Someone & Their response is Piety or Silence, it may very well be that Their devotion to a Higher Power affords Them the Grace to step outside of what You’ve done to Them & Pray for You; because Pleasing God is more important than Pleasing You. As children of God We were not created to be Anyone's foot stool. You can kick a dog but so long before He bites You. Fear No One but God. Remember being sent outside to defend Yourself as a child? Hmm The Empire Strikes Back ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

I Blocked You & Deleted You from my friends list just like Your man did because We're Not Friends. You still peak at My fanpage because You're obviously still a fan. Alice CallMeUnemployedIntoxicatedLonely&Bitter Persons dig this: there's No competition between Us as You're Not in My league, We're not in the same Arena & You've never been trained in this Sport so You couldn't possibly play Your position! This is why You have no successful relationships Friendly & or Romantic; the stalking ish is a turn off. Do Yourself a favor & put the drinks down, put the Drugs away & clean Yourself up, because You're a Hot Damn Mess. The epidemy of Bargain Basement Bitch is Your claim to Fame; furthermore I'm copyrighting this as well.."And. What Bitch??!! (in My S.N.P. Voice) not Me not Today, Press Loser. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Not failing Because of but Succeeding Inspite of is the difference between just being alive & Living. Mountains are intentional in their construction to increase distance from one side to another, requiring effort to "Get Over" it, commanding We Appreciate the Conquer/ Reaching the Other Side. The Key is not to focus on the pain of the fall but the Glory of the Rise. Failure is Not an Option. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Positive for You Are More Than A Conqueror. Good Night All ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

No One said Faith makes things easy; what it does is makes things Possible. FAITH reveals Opportunity to You, when You feel defeated & left without hope; FAITH can Motivate You to Believe in Yourself, Tomorrow & in the Victory. FAITH will inspire You to ignore & disregard failure for Your Destiny lies not in Your hands but within what You do with Your hands (work & pray). Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Secure in the Fact that for You Failure is Not an option. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

No One said Faith makes things easy; what it does is makes things Possible. FAITH reveals Opportunity to You, when You feel defeated & left without hope; FAITH can Motivate You to Believe in Yourself, Tomorrow & the Victory Claim & the Victory. FAITH will inspire You to ignore & disregard failure for Your Destiny lies not in Your hands but within what You do with Your hands (work & pray). Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Secure in the Fact that for You Failure is Not an option. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: We were created to be Help-Mates; Ignorance has made that term a "badge of shame", a sign of Weakness & Stupidity. It takes Courage to play Your position & Intelligence to know what Your position is. Respect the honor of Him being the Man. Appreciate the prestige of You being the Woman & Embrace them both as We all have designated roles. This statement isn't Me being sexist, it's Me being Truthful ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Faith & Confidence won’t make Your victories Easy, it will However Make them Possible; for what You accomplish in Life will make You a Winner but What You Overcome in Life will make You a Success. Bad situations make Us Appreciate Good situations while adding Character & Depth to Our being. What We start will add nothing to Our Legacy while what We Finish adds Everything. Commit not to leaving this Life without a works to be remembered by. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: A House Divided is an Unstable Foundation, to reach your goals You need to be on solid ground; AnyThing/One that causes Distractions or Discouragement has to be removed. If you wanted to climb to the Top of anything would you plant your ladder on cement or in quicksand? Your Family & Home take precedence over Everything. Friends that cause a wedge between You & Your Mate probably aren't Friends. At times to Love Your Man up close You have to Love Your Friends from a distance. True Friends are Priceless while False Friends are costly. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Whether You realize it or Not the intimate details that You dread being thrown in Your face wouldn't be available as Public Knowledge if You kept Your mouth shut.  Stop airing Your dirty Laundry & sharing what should remain behind close doors between You & Your Mate. Also remember Never take relationship advice from a Lonely & or Miserable Person no matter how much You may have " Love for Them"  if They knew so much They’d be applying it to Their own life; Would You look to a blind person to show You how to read??  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

My girls want to roll out but #1, it's a Tuesday night, #2, it is a Tuesday night & #3, Do y'all realize it's a Tuesday night?? I have Doughnuts to make in the AM, endless Smooches & Good night ~LuvUMuch Neciaism 

Your Goals & or Aspirations don't necessarily need to be shared with the world. Sometimes without You knowing the negativity of others can detour Your destiny. Without having Your eyes no one can have Your vision. Set Your Goals then pray & work towards them. We were born with the ability to Will things into existence by keeping Our Minds open & Mouths shut. Not Everyone prays for You some pray Against You. As We know Misery Loves company so We need not accommodate it. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Whether or not Your Dreams are possible depends on Your perception of Possibility; The Best way to fulfill Your Dreams is to Wake Up & Get Out of Bed! SUCCESS is not achieved remotely; Exercise Patience in Planning and Impatience in Execution. Learn to make a way Out of No way; You're More than a Conqueror remember?? Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Recognize the prestige that follows being classified as the Enlightened. Like the Northern Star; We lead the way. To Illuminate implies You shine brightly. A Star's stature is too elevated to stoop to the depth of ignorance, mastered by those who dwell in Darkness. We must Maintain Our eliteness by requiring the "Help" to use the Service Entrance NEVER the Front Door. Its nothing personal there is hierarchy in every form of Life. You're either a Chess Player or a Chess Piece. Safe Travels. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Whether or not Your Dreams are possible depends on Your perception of Possibility; The Best way to fulfill Your Dreams is to Wake Up & Get Out of Bed! SUCCESS is not achieved remotely; Exercise Patience in Planning and Impatience in Execution. People Fear Me because they can't understand Me, Hate Me because they can't Conquer Me & Love Me because they really Know Me but I'm exactly the way God wants Me to be so if You have a problem with Me Your problem's Not with Me. Be Beyond Blessed. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

To Believer's: Don't be fooled into the notion that inorder to tithe You're obligated to put 10% of Your minimum wage income into a collection plate when Your family has final notices that require immediate attention. No matter what religious Belief/Faith You subscribe to Your relationship with God is a personal one & He knows You as well as Your heart better than even You. When You offer Your brother/sister a warm bed to lay in, a hot plate of food or even just a ride; You are infact titheing. To Religious Leaders: be mindful of leading Your congregation astray with Your faulty direction; understand You will be held accountable not only for them being lost but for the part You played in imposing Your false knowledge & Opinion in lieu of Fact. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Identify Your Need, Understand Your Obstacle, Recognize Your Responsibility, and Become Your Answer. Life may not be going the way You intended, but it is going EXACTLY the way God planned it; our Father makes Appointments Not Accidents. Believe Me I'm Not where I want to be but I'm miles from where I've been. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Identify Your Need, Understand Your Obstacle, Recognize Your Responsibility, and Become Your Answer. Life may not be going the way You intended, but it is going EXACTLY the way God planned it; Things happen by Appointment Not Accident. I'm Not where I want to be but I'm miles from where I've been. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

The Best defense against a Miserable Spirit, is a Compassionate one that can rise above the situation & identify the Bigger Picture; so Love Someone who Hates You & Help Someone who Hurt You. After the most difficult struggle follows the Biggest Blessings & after the Biggest Blessing follows the Greatest Reward. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Two Poets! One Night! One Reason...Closure!! It's about time... November 5th,2011 Tammy Carr presents: Lamar Hill...CLOSURE! 20 Horse Tavern, Advanced Tickets are $15, more at door (Door open @7pm) Info: Tammy Carr: 856-577-1324 mscarr2u@gmail.com Kimberly Cooper 856-577-0567 ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

I made a conscious decision to have UnCommon Sense. For the rest of My Life the level of Intelligence, Positivity, Creativity & Success that I exhibit will just be Ridiculous! Absolutely Senseless.. Sounds Extra? Maybe; but that's part of My ExtraOrdinary nature. You either get Beside Me or get Behind Me; I know You won't get infront of Me because I'm letting Nothing get in My way. I'm Going with or without You. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Your Neighbor's Life is Not Yours, Your Neighbor's Trials are Not Yours, Your Neighbor's Relationship with God is Not Yours & Your Neighbors Destiny is Not Yours; So I know You realize What Your Neighbor's Business is?... Express some Discipline, wait to be Invited to the Party, Don't just Crash. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

God's path for You will not be His path for Me, so refrain for telling me How to Get To Heaven, as I'll probably get there using Directions that You Don't have. Be as consumed with fulfilling Your personal Obligations as You are with What Your Neighbor Is/Isn't doing. Even the Most religious of people fail to realize that only One Opinion really matters. Both in Driving & in Life remember to Stay in Your Lane. Remain Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Realize the Prestige in being the Enlightened. Like the Northern Star; We lead the way. To Illuminate implies You shine brightly. A Star's stature is too elevated to stoop to the depth of ignorance, mastered by those who dwell in Darkness. We must Maintain Our eliteness by requiring the "Help" to use the Service Entrance NEVER the Front Door. Its nothing personal there is hieracrhy in every form of Life. You're either a Chess Player or a Chess Piece. Safe Travels. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

To Illuminate implies You shine brightly. A Star's stature is too elevated to stoop to the depth of ignorance, mastered by those who dwell in Darkness. We must Maintain Our eliteness by requiring the "Help" to use the Service Entrance NEVER the Front Door. Its nothing personal there is hieracrhy in every form of Life. You're either a Chess Player or a Chess Piece. Safe Travels. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

I saw a thought provoking sign this morning, it read: "I asked God to protect Me from All of My enemies & then I started Losing Friends"... Deep right? It occurred to Me that people are like Gravity, if They aren't lifting You up They're dragging You down. Life lessons; We can't expect to fly with dead weight on Our wings. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

A true fisherman will tell You the caliber of Fish You catch is indicative of Your quality of bait & where You cast Your line. Men stop looking for Wives on “Poles” & Women stop looking for Husbands in the "Audience”. Not saying Either will Never be able to rise to the occasion but it Won’t Be Today; Girl-Scouts cant be held to the standards of a Soldier. If You want to be taken Seriously its time to Grow Up & get Serious. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

While caring for an Elderly woman who spent her Youth blaming her tortured childhood on the world mainly her own child. Daily I watch as the demons of her past consume her; Guilt eating away at what should be the Happiest time of her Life. When You're an inmate of the prison in Your mind there is No Escape or Early Release date; the only option You have is to serve Your time. Sew Dirt, Reap Dirt ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

...We all claim to want the Truth but are We ever really prepared for what We choose not to accept? Maybe if We were to bypass the minuscule details (Little white lies) & direct all negative feelings towards the "Major Falsehoods" (Big Ass Lies) the gap in male/female communication would be lessened. One could call that denial but then what is demanding the Truth while Your definition of True is only what You want to hear? "Women are Crazy & Men are Stupid" ~by Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Realize You are the Person, this is the Place & this is the Time for Tomorrow is Promised but You & I are Not. You were born with the ability to want what You Will & also to WILL What You Want. Your reality should be: Failure is NOT an Option. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged for as a Believer You Know All things are possible, for Greater is He who is in Me... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Thinking Out Loud: I turned 20 & under a month later gave birth to a son, in hindsight I realize I was too young to be a Mom; We grew up together. However I Thank God I was so preoccupied with being perceived as an adult that early on I learned to Close My mouth & open My mind. I see posts from Young mothers who publically, voluntarily disrespect themselves & shame their children. Its more pathetic than funny to be so ignorant that You don't even know You're ignorant. How can someone be offended after being called a name when they're openly living up to the stereotype? Never lower Your standards, Always elevate Your morals. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Thinking Out Loud: I turned 20 & under a month later gave birth to a son, in hindsight I realize I was too young to be a Mom; We grew up together. However I Thank God I was so preoccupied with being perceived as an adult that early on I learned to Close My mouth & open My mind. I see posts from Young mothers who publically, voluntarily disrespect themselves & shame their children. Its more pathetic than funny to be so ignorant that You don't even know You're ignorant. How can someone be offended after being called a name when they're openly living up to the stereotype? Never lower Your standards, Always elevate Your morals. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Without wanting to be, You found Yourself now "Single". Sis, it is what it is. Take a class or read a book to develop Your Mind. Join a gym to develop Your Body. Pray to develop Your Relationship with God. Meditate to develop Clarity & get re-familiar with"You". The Flesh bruises, while Hearts scar & break. The Healing process works from, the Inside, Out so take care of You for a moment & since You're back on the Market use the alone time to increase Your Property Value. You'd be surprised when You realize how much You have to offer. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Without wanting to be, You found Yourself now "Single". Sis, it is what it is. Take a class or read a book to develop Your Mind. Join a gym to develop Your Body. Pray to develop Your Relationship with God. Meditate to develop Clarity & get re-familiar with"You". The Flesh bruises, while Hearts scar & break. The Healing process works from, the Inside, Out so take care of You for a moment & Since You're back on the Market use the alone time to increase Your Property Value. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Whether You realize it or Not the intimate details that You dread being thrown in Your face wouldn't be available as Public Knowledge if You kept Your mouth shut.  Stop airing Your dirty Laundry & sharing what should remain behind close doors between You & Your Mate. Also remember Never take relationship advice from a Lonely & or Miserable Person no matter how much You may have " Love for Them"  if They knew so much They’d be applying it to Their own life; Would You look to a blind person to show You how to read??  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

At the beginning of this week, I was giving Thanks for God saving Me from being the Victim of theft by the enemy of My Assets (Financial, Physical & Spiritual), However hindsight being 20/20 as the week progressed I realize I have to give Greater Thanks for being saved from My former self. Truth be told had God not taken the initiative & sacrificed the Blood of His only son, to cover My Heart, Body, Mind, Soul & Spirit affording Me the undeserved Opportunity to Save My Life, Change My Life, ReStructure My Thinking & Priorities; I could have easily been the Assailant as I've played that position many times before. So I am Thankful for God saving Me from All harm even when it's Self Inflicted. I can't help but Love My Father. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Don't take Kindness for Weakness, Salvation for Stupidity or Humility for Insecurity. Realize when We wrong anyone & their response is Piety or Silence, apparently its their devotion to a Higher Power that allows them to step outside of what You've done to them & Pray for You; because Pleasing God is more important than Pleasing You. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Aware. We have to stand Our ground even when We find Ourselves under siege within spiritual attacks, as the famous "Footprints" poem states; it was then that I carried You. As child of God You are Never alone. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Don't take Kindness for Weakness, Salvation for Stupidity or Humility for Insecurity. Realize when We wrong anyone & their response is Piety or Silence, apparently its their devotion to a Higher Power that allows them to step outside of what You've done to them & Pray for You; because Pleasing God is more important than Pleasing You. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Aware. We have to stand Our ground even when We find Ourselves under siege within spiritual attacks, as the famous "Footprints" poem states; it was then that I carried You. A child of God is Never alone. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Individuals handle trauma differently. A person's troubled past may subconsciously drive them to hurt those who try to help them as hurt people tend to Hurt People. In protecting Yourself You may need to Love them from a distance. Loving a heartless spirit can be a waste of time & effort; like trying to teach someone how to swim without them knowing their drowning or even in water for that matter. Life's too short to do Anything but Love & Laugh so enjoy Loving Life & start with learning to Love Yourself. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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"Reflectionsin a Broken Mirror": The way You treat others is the way You will ultimately be treated; so in essence its how You Treat Yourself. Showing Respect for others demonstrates Self Respect. Knowing how to Love others is the benefit of learning Self Love. The ability to forgive others derives from mastering Self Forgiveness. Your past may be filthy but God said Your future is spotless. Understand Our Existense is like yelling into a Cave We have to be mindful of what We put into the Universe as it'll only echo Ten Fold. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Tap into that “Inner Contortionist”;It's not Your circumstances that shape You, It's how You shape according to Your circumstances. You’re capable of changing Your Mind & You’re capable of changing Your Life. Flexible people don't break or get “Bent out of Shape”. The Storm came & left, Now how can You Benefit? It's Your Life & even though it's not broken You still have to figure out how to Make it Work. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: A House Divided is an Unstable Foundation, to reach your goals You need to be on solid ground; AnyThing/One that causes Distractions or Discouragement has to be removed. If you wanted to climb to the Top of anything would you plant your ladder on cement or in quicksand? Your Family & Home take precedence over Everything. Friends that cause a wedge between You & Your Mate probably aren't Friends. At times to Love Your Man up close You have to Love Your Friends from a distance. True Friends are Priceless while False Friends are costly. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When people use their mouths to criticize You its because their Spirit Envies You. You are the person they wish they had the Courage to become. The enemy is Miserable & a Coward. Keep in mind most people will Not congratulate You for Living Out Their Dreams; furthermore realize You must be Amazing to be the topic of conversation without being Present. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

It's easier for a Drug Addict to get clean or Snakes to start walking upright Again, than it is for a Habitual Liar to tell the Truth or be Trusted..Not everyone surrounding You when You're on top of the world is a Friend.. True Friends stay around long after the Party's over to help You clean up the Mess(both figuratively & literally). True Friends are Priceless where as False Friends tend to be Expensive. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Jesus not 10%, not 60%, not 85% but 100% is the least that I can commit to; the very least that I can Promise You. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: A House Divided is an Unstable Foundation, to reach your goals You need to be on solid ground; AnyThing/One that causes Distractions or Discouragement has to be removed. If you wanted to climb to the Top of anything would you plant your ladder on cement or in quicksand? Your Family & Home take precedence over Everything. Friends that cause a wedge between You & Your Mate probably aren't Friends. At times to Love Your Man up close You have to Love Your Friends from a distance. True Friends are Priceless while False Friends are costly. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Whether We admit it or not We tend to move closer to God the closer We come to grief. How often would We pray if everything in Our lives were perfect? Oh Well; Ultimately like most things that are beneficial its less about what got You there & more about what keeps You there. Never forget where You came from, because You can be right back where You started in the blink of an eye. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Humble. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Realize You are the Person, this is the Place & this is the Time for Tomorrow is Promised but You & I are Not. You were born with the ability to want what You Will & also to WILL What You Want. Your reality should be: Failure is NOT an Option. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged for as a Believer You Know All things are possible; for Greater is He who is in Me... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Romance & Reality are two Entirely different Entities... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Yesterday's UnderDogs are Tomorrow's Legends. Too many opt to sit back & pass judgment while others grind, then waste no time joining the "band wagon" when the hard work pays off. Without being a part of My fight You will Not be a part of My Victory. Good Morning ALL; Let's Get It! Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Just like You know who Your friends are when You face tough times, God knows How strong Your Faith is when You face tough times. Scripture reads: Let not Your heart be troubled, neither be afraid. Remember as believers We Walk by Faith not by Sight. You are Never Alone; Stay Prayerful & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Our deepest fear isn't Inadequacy, its being Powerful beyond Our Own Imagination & Level Thought & or Expectation. The Exposing Light, intimidates Us not the Secluded Darkness. Questioning:"Who am I to be Brilliant, Talented & Successful?" Well Who are You NOT to be? As a child of God, Shrinking so other's won't feel insecure doesn't serve God. We were created to Manifest & Magnify God. Letting Your Light shine, gives others Worthy the courage to do the same. Rest Easy ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Our deepest fear isn't Inadequacy, its being Powerful beyond Our Own Imagination & Level Thought & or Expectation. The Exposing Light, intimidates Us not the Secluded Darkness. Questioning:"Who am I to be Brilliant, Talented & Successful?" Well Who are You NOT to be? As a child of God, Shrinking so other's won't feel insecure doesn't serve God. We're created to Manifest & Magnify God. Letting Your Light shine, gives others Worthy the courage to do the same. Rest Easy ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

I see the Invisible, Believe in the Impossible, can touch the Unreachable, so My Achievments are Incredible & My Spirit is Invincible! You Are Only as Successful as YOU Believe You Are. Through Life's disappointments We tend to get "beat down" just remember You have to go through Hell to truly appreciate Heaven. Our Trials give Us Our Testimony as while We endure We're acquiring knowledge & planting seeds in Our own Existence. You weren't cursed with Your Life; Your Life was Blessed with You. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Downplaying Our Gifts, Blessings & Intelligence so other's won't feel insecure doesn't serve God & to serve God is why Man was created. Our psyche is an obscure entity; We convince Ourselves We're afraid to fail when in actuality We're afraid to succeed. "As A Man Thinketh In His Heart So Is He" We owe it to the Creator to reach Our full potential. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules:Maternal, We want to Nurture & "Fix". We should Understand the difference between “Fixing” a relationship & “Changing” a person. We are held accountable for painful backlash associated with one's character when their behavior is instinctive to their Breed. If a Dog bites You He's doing what He does; a risk as an Adult You should be aware of before deciding to play with Him ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

It's easier for a Drug Addict to get clean than it is for a Habitual Liar to tell the Truth or be Trusted..Not everyone surrounding You when You're on top of the world is a Friend.. True Friends stay around long after the Party's over to help You clean up the Mess(both figuratively & literally). True Friends are Priceless where as False Friends tend to be Expensive. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

A boy taught that expressing Love is Feminine & or Gay, will grow into an UnLoving Man. A girl taught the same thing will grow into a Woman who doesn't know Love so she won't recognize it. Not Words, but "Actions" teach lessons. Children may not do what We say but they'll do what We Do. Babies enter the world like blank pages in a book in which adults fill with content; their parents being the first to write in it. Today's Children are the BluePrint for Tomorrow's Adults. We owe them better than what They're getting. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

You have to leave where You Are to get to where You’re Going to be. If You don’t have the Confidence & Courage to walk alone, others will not have the Confidence & Courage to follow You. Eagles Soar because they have wings; Believers Soar because We have Faith. Life is what We make it; it's up to Us if We assume the position of a Chess Piece or a Chess Player. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Riddle: Your Neighbor's Life is Not Yours, Your Neighbor's Trials are Not Yours, Your Neighbor's Relationship with God is Not Yours & Your Neighbors Destiny is Not Yours; So I know You realize What Your Neighbor's Business is?... Wait to be Invited to the Party, Don't just Crash. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2011

Faith & Confidence won’t make Your victories Easy, it will However Make them Possible; for what You accomplish in Life will make You a Winner but What You Overcome in Life will make You a Success. Bad things make Us Appreciate Good things & also add Character to Who We Are. Realize We may not be able to change the affect of Our circumstances but We can change the way Our circumstances affect Us. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

While Under Pressure, maintain focus, see disturbances for what they are:”Intentional Distractions” to shake You off Your square. Planes that fly high can’t help but experience turbulence; Annoying? Yes, Deadly? No. Buckle Your seat belt & Keep Flying. When You’re trying to do what’s right it feels like nothing’s going Your way however, if You weren't a Threat, on the verge of Greatness Your walk in the wilderness would be a Stroll in the Park ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

No Matter How much is going Wrong in Your Life the ability to be Genuinely be Happy for other's instead of wishing them harm, will release a flood of Blessings & Gratitude Your way. Loving Someone else sews a seed in You. If You spend Your Life Secretly envying others hopefully Now You have clarity as to why You don't secretly Fail.#SewDirtReapDirt Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: A House Divided is an Unstable Foundation, to reach your goals You need to be on solid ground; AnyThing/One that causes Distractions or Discouragement has to be removed. If you wanted to climb to the Top of anything would you plant your ladder on cement or in quicksand? Your Family & Home take precedence over Everything. Friends that cause a wedge between You & Your Mate probably aren't Friends. At times to Love Your Man up close You have to Love Your Friends from a distance. True Friends are Priceless while False Friends are costly. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

We all make mistakes, We have to get passed them & learn not to repeat them so as opposed to beating Ourselves up about them We need to Appreciate them. As a lesson learned. The fact of the matter is We're better than who We were before but still not as Great as We're going to be. There are Blessings all around Us. The pious Blame God for Nothing but Thank Him for Everything. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Inorder to Be Successful You have to embrace being too busy Dreaming to sleep. Let's Get It (Somebody has to, Why Not You??) ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Resorting to Publically calling people out (especially when You, Yourself can't spell... but that's another topic, smph) is the worst thing You can do; it brings unnecessary attention to what/who annoys You. Some people's entire existence is based on upsetting others. We have to rise above the emotion & ignore them; just like a child throwing a tantrum. The Best thing about walking with Your head up is EveryThing/One irrelevant will remain in Your blindsight realize even simply lowering Your chin is too much energy to waste on Negative Influences. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Accustomed to being in Control; Driving Myself Everywhere., anyone looking at My Life from the Outside would be able to see how it's a struggle for Me to completely Surrender. From the Inside Me knowing My mistakes & short comings realize the times that I struggled the most, had I just surrendered control to God I could've spared Myself alot of grief. You'd think as intelligent as I am, knowing the Creator is familiar with all the short cuts, the best route to take & will always take care of Me during My travels that I would've easily given him the wheel & assumed My position in the passenger's seat. Sometimes We can be so smart that We OutSmart Ourselves.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011