Your Challenges can become Opportunities if You have the Vision to See the Good in the situation & the Faith to Welcome & Accept what You see. As a Believer when You doubt Yourself You're doubting God. Realize Our God is so much Greater than any of Our Problems. Fear is the Antithesis of Faith. You are More than a Conqueror, Remember??? Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Your Challenges can become Opportunities if You have the Vision to See the Good in the situation & the Faith to Welcome & Accept what You see. As a Believer when You doubt Yourself You're doubting God. Realize Our God is so much Greater than any of Our Problems. Fear is the Antithesis of Faith. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Your Goals & or Aspirations don't necessarily need to be shared with the world. Sometimes without You knowing the negativity of others can detour Your destiny. Without having Your eyes no one can have Your vision. Set Your Goals then pray & work towards them. We were born with the ability to Will things into existence by keeping Our Minds open & Mouths shut. Not Everyone prays for You some pray Against You. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Like bows in an arrow at times We Need to take steps backwards before being allowed to catapult forward. Sometimes the further You Step Back (assessing the situation) results in the most Tremendous Advance; PROGRESS. Strive to excel not INSPITE of but BECAUSE of Your setbacks. We determine if Our Failed attempts are Dead Ends or simply Detours. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

If children are raised by a Mother who doesn’t demand respect from Men, or a Father who doesn’t respect Women, the boys will grow into Men that don’t respect Women & the girls into Women who don’t respect themselves. Before We blame society for the issues of Our Children (a.k.a. Our Future) realize Society is the layman term for the Home. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Entertainers & Athletes are adequate however in no way are they better than a child's father as the role model for what Men represent. To all the Father's out there stepping up to the plate & taking the time to sew the necessary seeds in Our children understand that You are the family's Foundation, therefore Irreplaceable, Priceless & Appreciated. Have an Awesomely Blessed, Prosperous & Amazing weekend!; for You Everyday is Father's Day ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Entertainers & Athletes are adequate however in no way are they better than a child's father as the role model for what Men represent. To all the Father's out there stepping up to the plate & taking the time to sew the necessary seeds in Our children understand that You are the family's Foundation, therefore Irreplaceable, Priceless, & Appreciated. Have an Awesomely Blessed, Prosperous & Amazing weekend!; for You Everyday is Father's Day ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Brothers while You're slandering Your Ex's or the Mother of Your children keep in mind as Trifling, Lazy & Scandalous as You now say She is, at one point & time You had unprotected sex with Her so what does that say about You? Grown Men use Washing Machines & Dryers only Boys Air Their Dirty Laundry... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Sisters while we're slandering Your Ex or the Father of Your children keep in mind as Low Down, Dirty & Scandalous as You now say He is, at one point & time You gave Yourself to Him so what does that say about You? Grown Women use Washing Machines & Dryers only kids Air Their Dirty Laundry... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright© 2011

Love is not a Boomerang; there's no guarantee that when You throw it out there it'll come back to You. Sometimes You have to turn away from someone You truly Love inorder to truly Love Yourself. As Big as this world is You never have to settle; Be steadfast & patient for what(who) You want; Brothers, You'll find Her & Sisters, He'll find You. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Why do we choose to contain our thoughts & ambitions within four walls when there is so much more room for advancement 'Outside the Box'? Don't be afraid to broaden your horizons. Be afraid of allowing Someone else to Live Your Dreams. Just be mindful to think Outside the Box but remain in Your Own Space.  The question is Not: 'Why do They have it & You don't?' The question is Why do You concern Yourself with what They have?' We need to Stop counting Our Neighbor's money. What God has for You is For You & NoThing/One can change that. Look what happened to Malcolm X The last time he heard Someone Yell 'Get Your hands Out My Pocket!' that was a staged distraction that costed a Powerful Man his life; same premise. When We get consumed with what the Jones' have it takes away the time & effort that should be spent on getting Our Own. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

¿Por qué elegimos para contener nuestros pensamientos & ambiciones dentro de cuatro paredes cuando hay mucho más espacio para promoción 'Outside the Box'? No tenga miedo de ampliar sus horizontes. Tener miedo de permitir que otra persona a vivir sus sueños. Ser consciente de pensar fuera de la caja pero permanecer en su propio espacio.  La pregunta no es: ' por qué lo tienen & no?' La pregunta es ¿por qué que preocuparse con lo que tienen?' Tenemos que dejar de contar dinero de nuestro vecino. Lo que Dios tiene para usted es que & NoThing/One puede cambiar eso. Mira lo que sucedió a Malcolm X la última vez que escuchó que alguien grite 'Consigue sus manos a mi bolsillo!' que fue una distracción etapas que cuyo costo un poderoso hombre de su vida; misma premisa. Cuando nos hacen consumidos con lo que tiene el Jones le quita el tiempo & el esfuerzo que se debe gastar en conseguir nuestro propio. ~ LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Time spent trying to give directions to where Your headed when Your peers have difficulty reading maps, will only frustrates You & prolong reaching Your destination. The best thing to do is to invite others for the ride, if they can't make the trip, then so be it; just hit them up when You get there. Life like Success are personal journeys therefore it's a constant struggle to share Your vision. Just like this blog, Some Will Get it & some won't  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Never take Kindness for Weakness, Salvation for Stupidity or Humility for Insecurity. Realize when You wrong Someone & Their response is Piety or Silence, it may very well be that Their devotion to a Higher Power affords Them the Grace to step outside of what You've done to Them & Pray for You; because Pleasing God is more important than Pleasing You. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Humble & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Why do we choose to contain our thoughts & ambitions within four walls when there is so much more room for advancement "Outside the Box"? Don't be afraid to broaden your horizons. Be afraid of allowing Someone else to Live Your Dreams. The question is Not: "Why do They have it & You don't?" The question is Why do You concern Yourself with what They have?" We need to Stop counting Our Neighbor's money. What God has for You is For You & NoThing/One can change that. Look what happened to Malcolm X The last time he heard Someone Yell "Get Your hands Out My Pocket!" that was a staged distraction that cost a Powerful Man his life; same premise. When We get consumed with what the Jones' have it takes away the time & effort that could be spent on getting Our Own. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

The question is Not: "Why do They have it & You don't?" The question is Why do You concern Yourself with what They have?" We need to Stop counting Our Neighbor's money. What God has for You is For You & NoThing/One can change that. Look what happened to Malcolm X The last time he heard Someone Yell "Get Your hands Out My Pocket!" that was a staged distraction that cost a Powerful Man his life; same premise. When We get consumed with what the Jones' have it takes away the time & effort that could be spent on getting Our Own. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

While Under Pressure, maintain focus, see disturbances for what they are:”Intentional Distractions” to shake You off Your square. Planes that fly high can’t help but experience turbulence; Annoying? Yes, Deadly? No. Buckle Your seat belt & Keep Flying. When You’re trying to do what’s right it feels like nothing’s going Your way however, if You weren't a Threat, on the verge of Greatness Your walk in the wilderness would be a Stroll in the Park ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Don't take Kindness for Weakness, Salvation for Stupidity or Humility for Insecurity. Realize when We wrong anyone & their response is Piety or Silence, apparently its their devotion to a Higher Power that allows them to step outside of what You've done to them & Pray for You; because Pleasing God is more important than Pleasing You. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Aware. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Tomorrow is Guaranteed even though You & I are Not. Get it done Today. Intentions are Questionable but Actions are Concrete. Don’t let who You were, hinder who You Will Be. SUCCESS like Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder so take the Brakes of Your Life & ride it 'til the Wheels Fall Off. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. Remember Failure is Not an Option! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright  © 2011

Tomorrow is Guaranteed even though You & I are Not. Get it done Today. Intentions are Questionable but Actions are Concrete. Don’t let who You were, hinder who You Will Be. SUCCESS like Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder so take the Brakes of Your Life & ride it 'til the Wheels Fall Off!! Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright  © 2011

No Accidents only Appointments. It's difficult just to abandon control & allow God to completely take over. Certain situations are intentionally designed that way inorder to remove the ability from anyone to steal His glory, so when We emerge from these catastrophic situations We understand it was None Other than God. Stay Prayerful, Focused, & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

More than What You said, what'll be remembered is How You Made them feel; I’d rather be hesitant in my speech then reckless with it’s content. Everyday Lives aren't staffed with editors so not all comments are retractable & not too many weapons cut like the Tongue. Please remember the Flesh Bruises but Hearts Scar & Break. Stay Prayerful, Encouraged & Focused ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © July 2011

Imagination takes precedence over Knowledge. While Knowledge defines all We know and understand, Imagination makes Us create what hasn't been discovered. Every major corporation, standard household item, Billion Dollar social Media site, started as just an idea. Sometimes We have to Step out on Faith to show Ourselves what We're made of. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

A Real Man is Literally Priceless & any Real Woman knows this. In this society where Women are able to bring more money to the "proverbial table" the Male Ego seems to be threatened in tremendous proportion. God created Woman to be Your HelpMate & Support You, so try to refrain from feeling Inferior if in fact She can support You. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2011

God is about Truth & Clarity. When we're faced with situations that cause Turmoil & or Confusion that's a clear indication it being Not of God. Anything can be Surrendered & Resolved through sincere Prayer; and if its too Minor to Pray to God about then its too Minor alter Your Progress. Know that Failure is not an option. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Sisters We need to Prioritize & Accept that Our Family Comes First. Life Long friends are fine to have & Your true friends realize that they shouldn't compete with Your Mate or Your Children & instead of feeling slighted they would gladly step aside because what's Best for Your Family is Best for You; Single Women & Women in Relationships are held to Different Standards. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Use Life’s Downfalls to Elevate & Enrich the Lives of Yourself as well as Others. Find the Good within the Bad & allow God to Bless You to be a Blessing. It's not what happens to You that matters, it's how You receive it & what You learn from it, that makes the difference in its Impact. We all have the ability to make Our Tragedies into Treasures. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Life is nothing but a Strategic board game; Losers, Winners & even those who keep score are necessary for it to work. Anticipate the Moves of others while making Your Own or Move out of the Way because You're just taking up space. The decision is Yours; are You a Chess Player or Chess Piece? ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Chess Players vs. Chess Pieces: You have to leave where You Are to get to where You’re Going to be. If You don’t have the Confidence & Courage to walk alone, others will not have the Confidence & Courage to follow You. Eagles Soar because they have wings; Believers Soar because We have Faith. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright  © 2011

A boy taught that expressing Love is Feminine & or Gay, will grow into an UnLoving Man. A girl taught the same thing will grow into a Woman who doesn't know Love so she won't recognize it. Not Words, but "Actions" teach lessons. Children may not do what We say but they'll do what We Do. Babies enter the world like blank pages in a book in which adults fill with content; their parents being the first to write in it. Today's Children are the BluePrint for tomorrow's Adults. We owe them better than what They're  getting. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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I wonder if the people who took Troy Davis' life realize they're more guilty than this brother because where there was doubt as to if he committed this crime, There is No Doubt in theirs... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Don’t be so quick to Blame God when Calamities hit. No one’s perfect, We ALL fall short at one time or another & Eventually We Have to pay for Our transgressions; so consider it One debt Paid In Full. Karma doesn't move in a straight line it actually travels in circles. Remember Good, Bad or Indifferent We reap what We sew. Just like yelling into a cave the words that echo are Your own. Don't try to feed someone what You wouldn't eat Yourself... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Don’t be so quick to Blame God when Calamities hit. No one’s perfect, We ALL fall short at one time or another & Eventually We Have to pay for Our transgressions; so consider it One debt Paid In Full. Karma doesn't move in a straight line it actually travels in circles. Remember Good, Bad or Indifferent We reap what We sew. Just like yelling into a cave the words that echo are Your own. Watch what You do. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

You can't want something for someone more than they want it for themselves. Although We may want to help sometimes We're stepping on God's toes. He's the Father & will discipline accordingly. Valuable Lessons & Blessings come from struggles so on occasion the best help You can offer someone You Love when they seem to be Struggling is to turn away & pray for them. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Individuals handle trauma differently. A person's troubled past may subconsciously drive them to hurt those who try to help them as hurt people tend to Hurt People. In protecting Yourself You may need to Love them from a distance. Loving a heartless spirit can be a waste of time & effort; like trying to teach someone how to swim without them knowing their drowning or even in water. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules:Maternal, We want to Nurture & "Fix". We should Understand the difference between “Fixing” a relationship & “Changing” a person. We are held accountable for painful backlash associated with one's character when their behavior is instinctive to their Breed. If a Dog bites You He's doing what He does; a risk to be aware of before deciding to play with Him ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011  

 Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: When dating a New Man We need to pay special attention to the Women he grew up around & the nature of their relationships. It could give You a glimpse into how He’ll be with You. He may not know how to Love You & maybe the type that doesn’t want to learn. Its not always P.M.S. sometimes it’s that “He-A-Mess”.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Recognize the valuable Lesson in any "Bad relationship" for without Knowing Bad We couldn't Identify or Appreciate Good. We're in each others lives for Reasons, Seasons or Lifetimes & it doesn't have to be a Lifetime inorder to make a difference. To keep a Friend You have to be a Friend. Some people You have to Love from a distance so that You can be able to properly Love Yourself. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Invest in Yourself to the point where the Man who makes You His will be the richest Man alive. Groom Yourself to Beautiful Inside & Out. Sisters realize We are Priceless; We're the Gold while in fact the Men are the Gold-Diggers. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Enlightened ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

The "abused" tend to be abused several times before if ever breaking away. Initially We think We attract these situations... partially to blame as predators smell prey like blood in Shark infested waters; however victims tend to gravitate to the familiar subconsciously. We know We want & deserve better than the unfit-for-habitation space We're in, but its still Home so We go back.~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

When people use their mouths to criticize You its because their Spirit Envies You. You are the person they wish they had the Courage to become. The enemy is Miserable & a Coward. Most people will Not congratulate You for Living Out Their Dreams or Achieving Their Goals. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

victims tend to gravitate to the familiar subconsciously. We know We want & deserve better than the unfit-for-habitation space We're in, but its still Home so We go back.~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

When You’re generous in nature You may instinctively be anxious to share, however not everyone is worthy of reeping the benefits of Your labor. Where You tend to Pray others may view You solely as Prey. People are like Gravity, they will either Elevate You or Drag You down; its important to be aware of You’re surroundings inorder to identify the difference Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

It's easier for a Drug Addict to get clean than it is for a Habitual Liar to tell the Truth or be Trusted..Not everyone surrounding You when You're on top of the world is a Friend.. True Friends stay around long after the Party's over to help You clean up the Mess(both figuratively & literally). True Friends are Priceless where as False Friends tend to be Expensive. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Should've, Would've, Could've; You're always more appealing "after the fact". After being disappointed enough it's best to turn away & Love from a distance. When a Woman learns to Love herself she starts to realize her worth... Sisters learn to Love Everyone; including Yourselves accordingly. Settling for less than You deserve will leave You with less than You expected. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

When God leads You to the edge of the cliff, trust Him fully and let go. Believers realize that only One of Two incidents will take place; Either He’ll catch You when You fall, or He’ll teach You how to Fly. Whatever the case, Failure is Not an Option... Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. Stand & Walk by FAITH not sight. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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Make a conscious decision to have UnCommon Sense. Vow for the rest of Your Life the level of Intelligence, Positivity, Creativity & Success that You exhibit will just be Ridiculous! Absolutely Senseless.. Sounds Extra? Maybe; but that's part of Your ExtraOrdinary nature. People will either get Beside You or get Behind You. Know that No One will get infront of You because I'm telling You let NoThing/One get in Your way. Go with or without Anyone; just as long as when You Go You Go Hard. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

This may Not be the Best Divorce letter ever but it has to be a close 2nd... Dear Wife, I’m writing you this letter to tell you that I’m leaving you forever. I’ve been a good man to you for 7 years & I have nothing to show for it. These last 2 weeks have been hell. ... Your boss called to tell me that you quit your job today & that was the last straw. Last week, you came home & didn’t even notice I had a new haircut, had cooked your favorite meal & even wore a brand new pair of silk boxers. You ate in 2 minutes, & went straight to sleep after watching all of your soaps. You don’t tell me you love me anymore; you don’t want sex or anything that connects us as husband & wife. Either you’re cheating on me or you don’t love me anymore; whatever the case, I’m gone. Your EX-Husband P.S. don’t try to find me. Your SISTER & I are moving away to West Virginia together! Have a great life! —— Dear Ex-Husband Nothing has made my day more than receiving your letter. It’s true you & I have been married for 7 years, although a good man is a far cry from what you’ve been. I watch my soaps so much because they drown out your constant whining & griping Too bad that doesn’t work. I DID notice when you got a hair cut last week, but the 1st thing that came to mind was ‘You look just like a girl!’ Since my mother raised me not to say anything if you can’t say something nice, I didn’t comment. And when you cooked my favorite meal, you must have gotten me confused with MY SISTER, because I stopped eating pork 7 years ago. About those new silk boxers: I turned away from you because the $49.99 price tag was still on them, & I prayed it was a coincidence that my sister had just borrowed $50 from me that morning. After all of this, I still loved you & felt we could work it out. So when I hit the lotto for 10 million dollars, I quit my job & bought us 2 tickets to Jamaica But when I got home you were gone.. Everything happens for a reason, I guess. I hope you have the fulfilling life you always wanted. My lawyer said that the letter you wrote ensures you won’t get a dime from me. So take care. Signed, Your Ex-Wife, Rich As Hell & Free! P.S. I don’t know if I ever told you this, but my sister Carla was born Carl. I hope that’s not a problem.. ~LuvUmuch Neciaism

Esto no puede ser la Carta de divorcio mejor nunca pero tiene que ser una segunda cerca! Querida esposa, yo estoy escribiendo esta carta para decirte que te estoy dejando para siempre. He sido un hombre bueno y a usted por 7 años & no tengo nada que mostrar por ella. Estas últimas 2 semanas han sido un infierno. ... Tu jefe llamada para decirme que salga de su trabajo hoy & fue el colmo. La semana pasada, viniste inicio & no aviso incluso tenía un nuevo corte de pelo, había cocinado su comida favorita & incluso lució un nuevo par de boxeadores de seda. Comió en 2 minutos & se dirigieron directamente a dormir después de ver todos sus jabones. Don't tell me que you love me anymore; no quiere sexo o cualquier cosa que nos conecta como marido & esposa. Está engañando sobre mí o Don't love me anymore; en cualquier caso, me ha ido. Su EX marido P.S. no intentes encontrarme. Su hermana & estamos alejándose a Virginia Occidental juntos! Tiene una gran vida! — — Querido Ex marido nada ha hecho mi día más de recibir su carta. Es cierto & hemos estado casados durante 7 años, aunque un hombre bueno y está muy lejos de lo que has sido. Miro mis jabones tantos porque se ahogan en su constante quejándose & consideraciones lastima que no funciona. Notar cuando tenes un pelo cortado la semana pasada, pero lo 1 que vino a la mente fue 'Mira al igual que una chica'! Dado que mi madre me planteado no quiere decir nada si no se puede decir algo bueno, que yo no comentar. Y cuando se cocina mi comida favorita, debe haber sacado me confundido con mi hermana, porque dejé de comer carne de cerdo hace 7 años. Sobre esos nuevos boxeadores seda: cumplí lejos porque la etiqueta de precio de 49,99 dólares fue aún sobre ellos, & oré fue una casualidad que mi hermana sólo había prestado $50 de mí esa mañana. Después de todo esto, yo todavía amado & consideró que pudiéramos trabajar. Así que cuando me golpeó el lotto por 10 millones de dólares, dejó mi trabajo & nos compró 2 entradas a Jamaica, pero cuando llegué a casa habían desaparecido... Todo ocurre por una razón, supongo. Espero que tengas la vida plena que siempre quiso. Mi abogado dice que la carta que escribió asegura que no obtendrá un centavo de mí. Así que tenga cuidado. Firmado, su Ex esposa, ricos como infierno & gratis! P.S. No sé si alguna vez le dije esto, pero mi hermana Carla nació a Carl. Espero que no sea un problema... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Señoras y chicas por favor leer cada línea!....... Las chicas quieren controlar al hombre en su vida. Las mujeres cultivadas saben que si verdaderamente es suyo, él no necesita controlar. Las niñas buscar no llamarlos. Las mujeres cultivadas están demasiado ocupadas para darse cuenta de que no había. Las niñas tienen miedas de estar solo. Las mujeres cultivan revel en utilizando como un momento de crecimiento personal. Las niñas ignoran a los chicos buenos. Las mujeres cultivadas ignoran a los malos. Las niñas que se casa. Las mujeres cultivadas hacen quieren venir inicio. Las niñas abandonar su horario amplio y esperar a que un chico llamar y hacer planes. Mujeres cultivadas sus propios planes y advertir muy bien el tio en donde él encaja. Las niñas se preocupen por no ser bonita o suficientemente buenos para su hombre. Las mujeres cultivadas saben que son lindas y lo suficientemente bueno como para cualquier hombre. Las niñas intentan monopolizar el tiempo de todos los hombre (es decir, no quería colgantes con sus amigos). Las mujeres cultivadas dan cuenta de que un lil' bits del espacio hace tiempo junto aún más especial- y va a patear con sus propios amigos. Las niñas que un chico llorando es débil. Las mujeres cultivadas ofrecen su hombro y un pañuelo. Las chicas quieren ser consentida y 'cuento' su hombre lo. Las mujeres cultivadas 'show' le y hacen cómodo corresponder sin temor a perder su "hombría". Las niñas obtener heridas por un hombre y hacer que todos los hombres pagan por ello. Las mujeres cultivadas saben que fue sólo un hombre. Las niñas se enamoran y persiguen sin rumbo después del objeto de su afecto, haciendo caso omiso de todas las 'señales'. Cultivadas las mujeres saben que a veces un amo no siempre te amaré atrás- y seguir adelante sin amargura. Las niñas leerá esto y conseguir una actitud. Las mujeres cultivadas leerá esto y pasarlo a otras mujeres cultivadas y sus amigos varones. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

LADIES and GIRLS PLEASE READ EVERY LINE!....... Girls want to control the man in their life. Grown Women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling. Girls check you for not calling them. Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't. Girls are afraid to be alone. Grown women revel in it using it as a time for personal growth. Girls ignore the good guys. Grown women ignore the bad guys. Girls make you come home. Grown women make you want to come home. Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans. Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in. Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man. Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man. Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends). Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends. Girls think a guy crying is weak. Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue. Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so. Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'. Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it. Grown women know that was just ONE man. Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'. Grown women know that sometimes the one you love doesn't always love you back-and move on without bitterness. Girls will read this and get an attitude. Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women and their male friends. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Anger is sometimes the mask that Hurt wears when its ashamed to show You its face. An Angered Spirit is a Tortured Spirit. What You may hear is "I'm Mad at You" when what was said is "I'm in Pain". Anger is a secondary emotion because another Feeling always leads the way. The Best people can make the Worst mistakes & the Worst Results can stem from the Best Intentions; without the ability to Forgive, We limit Our ability to Love. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Created from a rib, We were intended to be Help-Mates; Ignorance has since made that term a "badge of shame", a sign of Weakness & Stupidity. It takes Courage to play Your position & Intelligence to know what Your position is. Respect the honor of Him being the Man. Appreciate the prestige of being the Woman & Embrace them both as We all have Our designated roles; that's Not Sexist, it's TRUTH ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Someone who doesn't appreciate You, doesn't deserve You. The time You spend pursuing someone whose not worthy is wasted time that You could be investing in the Man that knows & Appreciates Your worth. Once We start settling for less than We deserve We end up with less than We expected. Sister know that You're Priceless. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Make time to Pamper Him & keep Him on a pedestal but Never completely abandon Your Life & or extracurricular activities that make You, You. Business driven Men appreciate a Busy Woman. When You both have lives it allows for the space needed to miss one another. Only food should be Smothered, everything else needs a Life. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: We have to Understand the differences between Men & Women far surpasses the physical. We actually speak different languages; so Sisters try to keep in mind just because You said something that doesn't necessarily mean He heard it. Anything/ONE worth having requires work. Stay Prayerful, PATIENT, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: As Women we act off of Emotions & the fact of the matter is we are proned to Talk Too Much. At times we allow situations to get Blown Out of Proportion by Running Off at The Mouth. It’s impossible to LISTEN while we’re Talking. You’d be surprised how much You HEAR with Your mouth closed & ears open Sisters… Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

In life We’re faced with trials & for the life of Us can’t see past the pain of it to even fathom the good that may come of it. Well if You’ve ever victored thru a Trial that would’ve destroyed someone else realize You have a previous Trial to Thank for Your strength & resilience. Inorder to get thru You have to Go Thru. Sometimes God’s not penalizing Us he’s merely preparing Us. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged for not only do storms subside they pass.~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

They Envy the God in You. Someone without God is like a hollow tree; there’s a void but they have no idea what’s missing. So they look at You & envy You because without being able to identify what You have They know They want it. For all of my Brothers & Sisters with low self-conscious when people stare or talk about You realize that if You weren’t Amazing You’d be nothing to Look at or Talk about. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Just because We don't immediately reep reward for Our efforts, that doesn't mean We should abandon hope & stop trying. All things happen in their time & in Life theres a time to be a Student as well as a time to be a Teacher. Keep in mind God is Not Always punishing You at times He's Grooming & Preparing You. FAITH is a way of Walking & Living. Stay Prayerful, Diligent, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

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I made a conscious decision to have UnCommon Sense. For the rest of My Life the level of Intelligence, Positivity, Creativity & Success that I exhibit will just be Ridiculous! Absolutely Senseless.. Sounds Extra? Maybe; but that's part of My ExtraOrdinary nature. You either get Beside Me or get Behind Me; I know You won't get infront of Me because I'm letting Nothing get in My way. I'm Going with or without You. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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I made a conscious decision to have UnCommon Sense. For the rest of My Life the level of Intelligence, Positivity, Creativity & Success that I exhibit will just be Ridiculous! Absolutely Senseless.. Sounds Extra? Maybe; but that's part of My ExtraOrdinary nature. You either get Beside Me or get Behind Me; I know You won't get infront of Me because I'm letting Nothing get in My way. I'm Going with or without You. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When people ask Me where I'm headed My response leaves most thinking I'm delusional in My future expectations without being a Trump or from widely Known Royalty. However without it being publicized I'm a heir to the Throne. Like My "Nay-Sayers" don't think I'm Phenomenal they Know I Am & so do I. The only one who hasn't gotten the Memo about Your Success is You. As Your Biggest Competition get Out of Your own way. ~ LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When people ask Me where I'm headed My response leaves most thinking I'm delusional in My future expectations without being a Trump or from widely Known Royalty. However without it being publicized I'm a heir to the Throne. Like My "Nay-Sayers" don't think I'm Phenomenal they Know I Am & so do I. The only one who hasn't gotten the Memo about Your Success is You. As Your Biggest Competition get Out of Your own way. ~ LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Éxodo 34:10. Entonces el Señor dijo: "Yo estoy haciendo un pacto con vosotros. Antes de que todo su pueblo: haré maravillas nunca antes hecho en cualquier otra nación en todo el mundo. Las personas que viven entre las verá cómo es impresionante es el trabajo que yo, el Señor, lo hará por usted. *** Hablamos vida en las cosas buenas y malas, como un hijo de Dios, vamos a reprender el mal y ordenar el bien. Sabemos que lo mejor está por venir para su destinados a Greatness.Walk y soporte por fe y no por vista. *** Estancia orante, centrado y Animado. ~ LuvUMuch Neciaism

Exodus 34:10. Then the LORD said: “I am making a covenant with you. Before all your people I will do wonders never before done in any nation in all the world. The people you live among will see how awesome is the work that I, the LORD, will do for you. *** We Speak life into things Both Good & Bad; as a Child of God let's rebuke the Bad & Command the Good. Know that The Best is Yet to come for Your are Destined for Greatness.Walk & Stand by Faith not by Sight. *** Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

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I made a conscious decision to have UnCommon Sense. For the rest of My Life the level of Intelligence, Positivity, Creativity & Success that I exhibit will just be Ridiculous! Absolutely Senseless.. Sounds Extra? Maybe; but that's part of My ExtraOrdinary nature. You either get Beside Me or get Behind Me; I know You won't get infront of Me because I'm letting Nothing get in My way. I'm Going with or without You. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

There's 3 stages in God's great Work We know as a Successful Life: 1st) - It's Impossible, 2nd) - It's Difficult, 3rd) - It's Done. Claim the Victory it starts with Believing; People Fear Me because they can't understand Me, Hate Me because they can't Conquer Me & Love Me because they really Know Me but I'm exactly the way God wants Me to be so if You have a problem with Me Your problem's Not with Me. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Pensé que tenía miedo de hablar en público & 'Contando mi negocio'; ahora a través de discursos & escribir sobre experiencias personales ayudo a curar a mí mismo, así como otros. Simultáneamente se alimentan a mi espíritu & familia. ¿En retrospectiva, que pregunta, yo tenía miedo o permitió el truco enemigo Me en silencio porque tenía miedo de Dios en mí que bendiga a mí ser bendición? A veces subconscientemente nos tienen miedo de éxito & no falla. Recuerde que la fe es la antítesis del miedo ~ LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

I thought I was afraid of Public Speaking &"Telling My Business"; now thru speeches & writing about personal experiences I help heal Myself as well as Others. Simultaneously I feed My Spirit & Family. In hindsight I question, was I afraid, or did I allow the enemy trick Me into silence because He was afraid of the God in Me that would bless Me to be Blessing? Sometimes subconsciously We're afraid of Success & not Failure. Remember Faith is the Antithesis of Fear~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

They fear what do not understand, i.e. 'ignorance' - hate what you are Afraid of, i.e. 'racism'. If a stranger calls own hate, do not be offended feel privileged as they are probably so confused by his greatness that are Afraid of what you will do the following. Walk with your head Up so that negativity below You won't have a chance in it distract You. Stay Prayerful, Encouraged & Focused ~ LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

They fear what do not understand, i.e. 'ignorance' - hate what you are Afraid of, i.e. 'racism'. If a stranger calls own hate, do not be offended feel privileged as they are probably so confused by his greatness that are Afraid of what you will do the following. Walk with your head Up so that negativity below You won't have a chance in it distract You. Stay Prayerful, Encouraged & Focused ~ LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

They fear what do not understand, i.e. 'ignorance' - hate what you are Afraid of, i.e. 'racism'. If a stranger calls own hate, do not be offended feel privileged as they are probably so confused by his greatness that are Afraid of what you will do the following. Walk with your head for that negativity below non-have a chance in it distract him. Stay prayerful, encouraged to & focused ~ LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

It may be the Most Difficult Task to pray for Someone who means You Nothing but Harm however keep in mind after the Toughest Fight comes the Greatest Reward! Be thankful You Are not where They Are in their walk any longer. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Above the Negativity ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Puede ser la tarea más difícil para orar por alguien que significa que nada pero daño sin embargo tener en cuenta después de la pelea más dura la mayor recompensa! Ser agradecido están no donde están en su caminar más. Permanecer orante, centrado, alienta & por encima de la negatividad ~ LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Tus enemigos tienen que darse cuenta que están bendecidos por su salvación. A pesar de lo que has hecho a mí, yo te amo & te perdono. Sin embargo no se equivoquen no Me pero el Dios en mí que Me lo manda. Si no cree en Dios, dan cuenta de que está bendecida que tantos. Incluso a mis enemigos; Yo soy tú eres hermana antes de que yo soy su amigo & para eso necesita a Dios gracias. ~ LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Your Enemies need to realize They're blessed by Your salvation. Inspite of what You've done to Me, I Love You & Forgive You. However make no mistake its not Me but the God in Me that commands Me to do so. Whether or Not You believe in God, realize You're Blessed that so many do. Even to my enemies; I'm You're Sister before I'm Your friend & for that You need to Thank God.~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

We all have Our own level of Hell & Torment so it's only natural that We have Our own way of dealing with it & unfortunately We tend to lash out on Whom/Whatever happens to be in the line of fire. When We're confronted with SomeOne(Thing) that seems particularly Difficult We have to keep in mind that We don't know what's going on behind the scenes. When someone is Nasty to You without You wronging them, stand firm in Your convictions, Praise God for granting You clarity & Pray for them as that's a spirit they're wrestling with, Their not mad at You, they're mad at God. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Our Journey is just as if Not More Important than Our Destination. We walk, We stumble, We fall & We get Up knowing how to walk properly. So many people are Alive but not Living. Doesn't quite make much sense to be Afraid to die but also scared to Live does it?? Commit to not leaving this Life until there's reason for You to be remembered ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Nuestro viaje es igual si no más importante que nuestro destino. Caminamos, tropiezan, caemos & obtenemos por saber cómo caminar bien. Tanta gente está vivo pero no viven. No hacen bastante asustado mucho sentido ser Afraid morir sino también para vivir hace??? Se comprometen a no esta dejando la vida hasta que no hay razón para que pueda ser recordado ~ LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

God uses Us as vehicles in each other's lives, allowing Us to transport one another from one level to the next. Everyone serving a specific purpose in both Our life & the lives of those who's paths We cross. People who've treated Us the worst & Places that bear the most difficult memories should be manipulated to ensure We Appreciate Our current conditions. Life happens in seasons & All Seasons bear a Reason. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Dios nos utiliza como vehículos en la otra vida, lo que nos permite transportar mutuamente de un nivel a otro. Todo el mundo que sirve a un propósito específico en nuestra vida & las vidas de los que tiene rutas que cruzan. Gente que nos ha tratado la peor & lugares que llevan los recuerdos más difíciles deben ser manipulados para garantizar las condiciones actuales nos aprecian nuestra. La vida pasa temporadas & todas las estaciones tienen un motivo. ~ LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Cuando Dios te llevan al borde del acantilado, confía plenamente en él y dejar ir. Los creyentes se dan cuenta de que sólo uno de los dos incidentes llevará a cabo; Tampoco él te catch You cuando caes, o te enseñará cómo volar. En cualquier caso, no es una opción... Permanecer orante, centrado & alienta. Soporte & a pie por la fe no vista. ~ LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When God leads You to the edge of the cliff, trust Him fully and let go. Believers realize that only One of Two incidents will take place; Either He’ll catch You when You fall, or He’ll teach You how to Fly. Whatever the case, Failure is Not an Option... Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. Stand & Walk by FAITH not sight. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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(Dedicado a Vesta Williams R.I.P. 23/09/11) Reglas de relación Woman2Woman: Cuando ves a tu ex con alguien darse cuenta de su similar a dar tus cosas viejas (utilizado pero no destruido) a los menos afortunados, así que abstenerse de ser molesta o lamentable. La vida sigue; no detenerme en el pasado; La basura está destinada a ser alguien más tesoro. Permanecer orante, centrado & alienta. ~ LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: When You see Your ex with someone else realize its similar to giving Your old things (used but not destroyed) to the less fortunate, so refrain from being upset or regretful. Life goes on; don’t dwell in the past; Your trash is bound to be someone else’s treasure. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011 (Dedicated to Vesta Williams R.I.P. 9/23/11)

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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Men are instinctively drawn to Strength, However there is a Significant Difference between being a “Strong Woman” & Acting Like A Man. Men want Wives Not Husbands. If You make him feel like Less Of A Man, he will behave like Less Of A Man. Positive Reinforcement & Appreciation are powerful multi-purpose tools that We all have. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Reglas de relación Woman2Woman: Hombres instintivamente se refieren a la fuerza, sin embargo hay una gran diferencia entre ser una "Mujer fuerte" & actuando como un hombre hombres quieren esposas de maridos no. Si lo hace sentirse menos de un hombre, él se comportará como menos de A Man positivo refuerzo & reconocimiento son potentes herramientas multiusos que todos tenemos. ~ LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Las escrituras Lee que si un hombre no funciona ya no debe comer. Nos tienen que orar como nuestra vida depende de Dios & trabajar como resultados de nuestra vida dependen de nosotros. A veces nos podemos sentir como nuestras oraciones están cayendo en saco roto; Sin embargo es todo lo contrario. Su justa que sabemos lo que queremos y Dios sabe qué nos necesidad de & los dos no siempre sinónimos. Permanecer orante, centrado & alienta. ~ LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Scripture reads if a Man doesn't work He shouldn't eat. We have to Pray like Our Life depends on God & work like Our Life's results depend on Us. Sometimes We may feel like Our prayers are falling on deaf ears; however it's quite the contrary. Its just that We know what We Want while God knows what We Need & the two aren't always synonymous. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Fe & confianza no hará sus victorias fácil, sin embargo les hará posible; por lo que lograr en la vida le hará un ganador pero lo superan en la vida te hará un éxito. Cosas malas que nosotros apreciamos buenas cosas & también añadir caracteres a quiénes somos. Permanecer orante, centrado & alentó A ~ LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Faith & Confidence won’t make Your victories Easy, it will However Make them Possible; for what You accomplish in Life will make You a Winner but What You Overcome in Life will make You a Success. Bad things make Us Appreciate Good things & also add Character to Who We Are. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Nuestro temor más profundo no es insuficiencia, su potente más allá del pensamiento. Luz, nos intimida no oscuridad. Preguntar: ' quién soy yo para ser brillante, talentosos, exitoso?'¿Así que no se quiénes son? Como hijo de Dios, reduciendo así de los demás no se sienten inseguro no serve a Dios. Nos estamos creados para ampliar & de manifiesto de Dios. Dejando el brillo de la luz, otros da coraje para hacer lo mismo. ~ LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Our deepest fear isn't Inadequacy, its being Powerful beyond thought. Light, intimidates Us not Darkness. Questioning:"Who am I to be Brilliant, Talented, Successful?"Well Who are You NOT to be? As a child of God, Shrinking so other's won't feel insecure doesn't serve God. We're created to Manifest & Magnify God. Letting Your Light shine, gives others courage to do the same. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules:Choose a Man & not just a male. A male flatters You, a Man Compliments You; a male spends on You, a Man invests in You; a male treats You like Property, a Man treats You Properly; a male lusts after You, a Man Lusts to Love You; a male thinks He's God's gift to Women, a Man Knows Woman is God's gift to Man. Knowledge is Power & Sister You are Powerful ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Woman2Woman Reglas de relación: elegir un hombre & no sólo un macho. Un macho halaga usted, un hombre piropos que; un hombre pasa contigo, un hombre invierte en TI; un macho te trata como propiedad, un hombre trata usted correctamente; un macho lusts después, un hombre viciosos a Love You; un macho piensa es don de Dios a las mujeres, un hombre sabe mujer es don de Dios al hombre de conocimiento es poder & hermana eres potente ~ LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: The only thing Better than Being Loved is Loving. Remember by Nature We were made from His rib & what He Needs so do what comes natural Understand His past, Believe in His future & Accept Him all the same. Be the type of Woman that’s Hard to Find, Painful to Leave & Impossible to Forget. Real Women are Blessings Not Burdens. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2011

Dios nos utiliza como vehículos en la otra vida, lo que nos permite transportar mutuamente de un nivel a otro. Todo el mundo que sirve a un propósito específico en nuestra vida & las vidas de los que tiene rutas que cruzan. Gente que nos ha tratado la peor & lugares que llevan los recuerdos más difíciles deben ser manipulados para garantizar las condiciones actuales nos aprecian nuestra. La vida pasa temporadas & todas las estaciones tienen un motivo. ~ LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Without wanting to be, You found Yourself now "Single". Sis, it is what it is. Take a class or read a book to develop Your Mind. Join a gym to develop Your Body. Pray to develop Your Relationship with God. Meditate to develop Clarity & get re-familiar with"You". Flesh bruises, Hearts scar. The Healing process works from, the Inside, Out. Since You're back on the Market take the time to increase Your Property Value. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

*****BEST DIVORCE LETTERS EVER*****
Dear Wife, I’m writing you this letter to tell you that I’m leaving you forever. I’ve been a good man to you for 7 years & I have nothing to show for it. These last 2 weeks have been hell. ... Your boss called to tell me that you quit your job today & that was the last straw. Last week, you came home & didn’t even notice I had a new haircut, had cooked your favorite meal & even wore a brand new pair of silk boxers. You ate in 2 minutes, & went straight to sleep after watching all of your soaps. You don’t tell me you love me anymore; you don’t want sex or anything that connects us as husband & wife. Either you’re cheating on me or you don’t love me anymore; whatever the case, I’m gone. Your EX-Husband P.S. don’t try to find me. Your SISTER & I are moving away to West Virginia together! Have a great life!

—— Dear Ex-Husband Nothing has made my day more than receiving your letter. It’s true you & I have been married for 7 years, although a good man is a far cry from what you’ve been. I watch my soaps so much because they drown out your constant whining & griping Too bad that doesn’t work. I DID notice when you got a hair cut last week, but the 1st thing that came to mind was ‘You look just like a girl!’ Since my mother raised me not to say anything if you can’t say something nice, I didn’t comment. And when you cooked my favorite meal, you must have gotten me confused with MY SISTER, because I stopped eating pork 7 years ago. About those new silk boxers: I turned away from you because the $49.99 price tag was still on them, & I prayed it was a coincidence that my sister had just borrowed $50 from me that morning. After all of this, I still loved you & felt we could work it out. So when I hit the lotto for 10 million dollars, I quit my job & bought us 2 tickets to Jamaica But when I got home you were gone.. Everything happens for a reason, I guess. I hope you have the fulfilling life you always wanted. My lawyer said that the letter you wrote ensures you won’t get a dime from me. So take care. Signed, Your Ex-Wife, Rich As Hell & Free! P.S. I don’t know if I ever told you this, but my sister Carla was born Carl. I hope that’s not a problem. (This tickled Me so I had to share it, GoodNight All)
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Crying about Nothing, Aggrevated about Everything, Just Pissed off & Everyone gets on Your nerves; making direct eye contact with the Chick infront of You; You think to Yourself "Why does this B!+€H keep following Me?... Only to realize You're looking at a Mirror, Ugh! Spmh PMSisSerious ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

God uses Us as vehicles in each other's lives, allowing Us to transport one another from one level to the next. Everyone serving a specific purpose in both Our life & the lives of those who's paths We cross. People who've treated Us the worst & Places that bear the most difficult memories should be manipulated to ensure We Appreciate Our current conditions. Life happens in seasons & All Seasons bear a Reason. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Our Journey is just as Important as Our Destination. We stumble, We fall & We get Up knowing how to walk properly. So many people are Alive but not Living. Doesn't quite make much sense to be Afraid to die but also scared to Live does it?? ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Changing, Growth & Maturity are states of Mind. Changed, Grown & Mature are states of Being. Have You arrived at the party or are You still trying to figure out what to wear??? Today is the Day, the Time is Now & You are the One; Go get It! Ideas don't materialize Results; Prayer, Faith & Effort does. If You put off Anything until a later date, put off Procrastination ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Changing, Growth & Maturity are states of Mind. Changed, Grown & Mature are states of Being. Have You arrived at the party or are You still trying to figure out what to wear??? Today is the Day, the Time is Now & You are the person; Got get It! If You want to put anything off until a later time, put off Procrastination ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

A boy taught that expressing Love is Feminine & or Gay, will grow into an UnLoving Man. A girl taught the same thing will grow into a Woman who doesn't know Love so she won't recognize it. Not Words, "Actions" teach lessons. Children may not do what We say but they'll do what We Do. Babies enter the world like blank pages in a book in which adults fill with content; their parents being the first to write in it. Today's Children are the BluePrint for tomorrow's Adults. We owe them better than what They're/We're getting. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright ©2011

A boy taught that expressing Love is Feminine & or Gay, will grow into an UnLoving Man. A girl taught the same thing will grow into a Woman who doesn't know Love so she won't recognize it. Not Words, "Actions" teach lessons. Children may not do what We say but they'll do what We Do. Babies enter the world like blank pages in a book in which adults fill with content; their parents being the first to write in it. Today's Children are the BluePrint for tomorrow's Adults. We owe them better than what We're getting. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright ©2011

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At times I find myself Complaining about God not “Showing Up”…then it occurs to me that He “Woke me Up”. Every Day is a Blessing as it’s an Opportunity to Get It Right; Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Appreciative. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2011

A Determined Person doesn't find it hard to SUCCEED; they find it hard to stop trying. If You do whatever it takes to get to where/what You want, it can’t help but be worth it. Be a Champion standing over the shadow of Your former self. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Realize Today is the Tomorrow You dreamed of Yesterday. Even if Prayer doesn’t change Things for You, it will surely change You for Things. From One Work in Progress to Another; Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

The difference between a Successful Person and Failed Person isn’t a lack of strength or intelligence, I’d say it’s lack of Will & or Determination. “Can’t” isn’t a State of Being it’s just another 4 Letter word to refrain from using. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Never take relationship advice from a Lonely & or Miserable Person; if They knew so much They’d be applying it to Their own life. Thats like a Homeless person giving You directions to their house. Misery is similar to Cancer but not only does it spread, it's contagious & loves company. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Never take relationship advice from a Lonely & or Miserable Person; if They knew so much They’d be applying it to Their own life. Thats like a Homeless person giving You directions to their house. Misery is like a Cancer but not only does it spread, it's contagious & loves company. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Anger is sometimes the mask that Hurt wears when its ashamed to show You its face. An Angered Spirit is a Tortured Spirit. What You may hear is "I'm Mad at You" when what was said is "I'm in Pain". The Best people can make the Worst mistakes & the Worst Results can stem from the Best Intentions; without the ability to Forgive, We limit Our ability to Love. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

The Best defense against a Miserable Spirit, is a Compassionate one that can rise above the situation & identify the Bigger Picture; so Love Someone who Hates You & Help Someone who Hurt You. After the most difficult struggle follows the Biggest Blessings & after the Biggest Blessing follows the Greatest Reward. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Like bows in an arrow at times We Need to take steps backwards before being allowed to catapult forward. Sometimes the further You Step Back (assessing the situation) results in the most Tremendous Advance; PROGRESS. Strive to excel not INSPITE of but BECAUSE of Your setbacks. We determine if Our obstacles are Dead Ends or just Detours. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When We're in too much distress to Pray; We need to resort to Worship. It confuses the enemy & exercises Our God given ability to Will peace into Existence. If You were on a sinking ship in the middle of the ocean & God threw You a Life-Jacket You'd be fool to drown instead of using it. We have to Walk & Stand by Faith Not Sight. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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What makes Us think if We pray about Goals & or Desires but avoid working towards them they'll magically fall out of the sky? Scripture reads: "if a Man doesn't work he shouldn't eat" therefore get up, get out & make it happen. You can't make moves by just thinking about them. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  TGIF}} Thank God I'm Fabulous!! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

God said He would carry You through; He never said that He’d make it easy. You Never really know what You’re capable of until You don’t have a choice in the matter. Difficult, Painful? Maybe; but Impossible? Never. Going thru Hell makes Us appreciate Heaven; Trust Me when I say that. I still have souvenirs I occasionally glance at as a periodic reminder. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

The girl you just called fat? She's overdosing on diet pills. The girl you just called ugly? She spends hours putting makeup on hoping people will like her. The boy you just tripped? He is abused enough at home. See that man with the ugly scars? He fought for his country. That guy you just made fun of for crying? His mother is dying. Put this as your status if you're against bullying. I bet 95% of you wont re-post , but my true friends will. I just did

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Keep Your Eyes on the Road... God's path for You will not be His path for Me, so refrain for telling me How to Get To Heaven, as I'll probably get there using Directions that You Don't have. Be as consumed with fulfilling Your personal Obligations as You are with What Your Neighbor Is/Isn't doing. Even the Most religious of people fail to realize that only One Opinion really matters. While Driving & in Life please try to Stay in Your Lane. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

The way You treat others is the way You will ultimately be treated; so in essence its how You Treat Yourself. Showing Respect for others demonstrates Self Respect. Knowing how to Love others is the benefit of learning Self Love. The ability to forgive others derives from mastering Self Forgiveness. Your past may be filthy but God said Your future is spotless. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

What/Whomever You submit to You become a slave to it. If We want better results We have to make better decisions. We decide what We make of Our lives don't confuse Tradition with Truth;
Women in My family aren't Happy unless they're Miserable. Disruptive Patterns & Vicious Cycles are made to be broken. You can't be Liberated from what You've awarded Power To & You can't award Power To what You've been Liberated from. Family curses are Options Not Laws. Consciously decide to Totally Love & Live Your Life. Let Whomever won't Go to Heaven with You, Go to Hell without You ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

If Your Ambition & Potential makes Your Peers feel inadequate. You may need to find New Peers. Surround Yourself with those achieving Goals from Dreams You have yet to have; not for the purpose of looking down on anyone, but for incentive to keep striving for better. If Your Peers are threatened by Your Success, They Will Without Question Threaten Your Success. Don't accept Ordinary when ExtraOrdinary awaits You. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

No You can't judge a book by it's cover but You can get a good idea of it's content if  You' pay attention to the section of literature it's placed in within the library or bookstore that You find it. Familiarize Yourself with the crowd Your significant other keeps; in Your eyesight they may be the Extreme Opposite of all of their friends however keep in mind this is within Your Eyesight. Nuns don't fellowship with Whores. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Good Night All! It's been Real! Special Shout Out to the (Philadelphia) Vault & Ciroc!! XOXO ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Ridiculousness is the Funniest show in the Entire World! OMG I'm crying, this is hysterical ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

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I believe both Failing & Succeeding are options in which We are privileged to choose one. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

I made a conscious decision to have UnCommon Sense. For the rest of My Life the level of Intelligence, Positivity, Creativity & Success that I exhibit will just be Ridiculous! Absolutely Senseless.. Sounds Extra? Maybe; but that's part of My ExtraOrdinary nature. You either get Beside Me or get Behind Me; I know You won't get infront of Me because I'm letting Nothing get in My way. I'm Going with or without You. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

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If They want nothing to do with Your fight, then They should have nothing to do with Your Victory; real friends walk in when others walk out. In a crowd of false friends One can still manage to be lonely; again proof that Quality trumps Quantity. People are like Gravity they'll either help Elevate You or help Weigh You Down. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & On Point ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2011

When You're generous in nature You may instinctively be anxious to share, however not everyone is worthy of reeping the benefits of Your labor. Where You tend to Pray others may view You solely as Prey. True friends are Priceless while False friends are Expensive so its important to be aware of You're surroundings. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When people use their mouths to criticize You its because their Spirit Envies You. You are the person they wish they had the Courage to become. The enemy is Miserable & a Coward. Most people will Not congratulate You for Living Out Their Dreams or Achieving Their Goals. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Sometimes the things we are summoned to go thru, as well as the people we are commissioned to deal with are amongst the most difficult while at the same time being The GateKeeper for Tremendous Reward. Be Still & Obedient; see Your Trial thru; Remember You were born Blessed, Highly Favored & so much More than a Conqueror. All Storms pass & some even leave things better than they were before they started. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Contentment is not the fulfillment of what you wish for, but the Appreciation of what you have. We may not get What want, When we want it; However God makes sure We get it When we Need it. Sometimes We have to celebrate being alive & able to do anything, including Pray. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Thankful. Happy Thursday! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Scripture reads if a Man doesn't work He shouldn't eat. We have to Pray like Our life's results depends on God & work like Our life's results depend on Us. Sometimes We may feel like Our prayers are falling on deaf ears; however it's quite the contrary. God knows what we Need, while We know what We want; the two aren't always synonymous.  Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Patient, Obedient ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

I made a conscious decision to have UnCommon Sense. For the rest of My Life the level of Intelligence, Positivity, Creativity & Success that I exhibit will just be Ridiculous! Absolutely Senseless.. Sounds Extra? Maybe; but that's part of My ExtraOrdinary nature. You either get Beside Me or get Behind Me; I know You won't get infront of Me because I'm letting Nothing get in My way. I'm Going with or without You. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Your Calling can be Your Career.We ALL have gifts we just don’t All open them.Similar to After Christmas alot of times We allow them to sit around until someone more resourceful comes by & puts them to good use; at times We even give them away! As small as Mosquitos are they don't wait for openings, they make them. Make A Way out of No Way.Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Life’s Experiences make You Who You Are, so If You avoid Life’s Experiences, then Who Are You & more importantly Who Will You Ever be?? You are the only one who has the power to accomplish what You set out to do. Live Life; Fear Nothing but Your Lord remember Fear is the Antithesis of Faith. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When You’re told You’re “Pushing too hard”, Your actions are “Too over the top”, or even called “Extra”; it’s not an insult; its a compliment so wear it like a badge of honor.  Everyday when You’re blessed to open Your eyes commit to OutDoing Your Personal Best. Ordinary effort reap Ordinary results & Extra People accomplish ExtraOrdinary things. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

A Weaker Man is Controlled by His insecurities & what people expect; A Strong Man is controlled by His Faith & what He expects from others as well as Himself. How much Faith do You have in You? remember when We doubt Ourselves We doubt what Our God is capable of. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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Sincere Love & Piety may compel You to show a miserable spirit a glimpse of Heaven; ultimately frustrating Yourself as that spirit can't shake it's home-sick feeling for Hell. Some people aren't happy unless they're unhappy. For that I couldn't tell You what to do however I can advise what Not to do: Allow it to steal Your Joy. Misery is the spirit form of a flesh. eating bacteria. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Inspite of what You've done to Me, I Love You & Forgive You. However make no mistake its not Me but the God in Me that commands Me to do so. Whether or Not You believe in God, realize You're Blessed that so many do. Even to my enemies; I'm You're Sister before I'm Your friend & for that You need to Thank God.~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

/G Not realizing how much You Love someone until they're Gone; Not being able to miss Love without ever experiencing it; Knowing Love when You're in it, because it feels like nothing You've ever experienced. Cherish & Appreciate it because it's unparalleled. Speechless for Good Reason*****. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Make time to Pamper Him & keep Him on a pedestal but Never completely abandon Your Life & or extracurricular activities that make You, You. Business driven Men appreciate a Busy Woman. When You both have lives it allows for the space needed to miss one another. Only food should be Smothered, everything else needs a Life. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Spirituality, Masculinity, Confidence, intellect & Chivalry are true Aphrodisiacs ~LuvUMuch Neciaism 

Calamities hit & make Us weak in the knees but realize the further We get knocked down, the harder it is to get up, the Greater the reward & the More We have to be Thankful for. Inorder to elevate Ourselves & Go really High You have to be ready, willing & able to be humbled; to Go really Low because "The Most High" himself is actually Really Deep ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Calamities hit & make Us weak in the knees but realize the further We get knocked down, the harder it is to get up, the Greater the reward & the More We have to be Thankful for. Inorder to elevate Ourselves & Go really High You have to be ready, willing & able to be humbled; to Go really Low because "The Most High" himself is actually Really Deep ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Sisters Hold him down; don't Rip him Apart. Look at the current state of Our Households becuase We keep tearing the heads off(i.e.homes minus a male Head of Household). Treat Your Man like Who He Can & Will be. When we treat Our Men like Kings the pressure is on Him to Maintain Our Praise or Rise to the Occasion & Earn it. Emasculating a Man can make one less of a Woman ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

http://ping.fm/NvJNp Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Sisters We have to Hold him down not Rip him Apart. Look at the current state of Our Households becuase We keep tearing the heads off. Treat Your Man like Who He Can & Will be. When we treat Our Men like Kings the pressure is on Him to Maintain Your Praise or Rise to the Occasion & Earn it. Emasculating a Man can make one less of a Woman IJS ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Sisters We have to Hold him down not Rip him Apart. Look at the current state of Our Households becuase We keep tearing the heads off. Treat Your Man like Who He Can & Will be. When we treat Our Men like Kings the pressure is on Him to Maintain Your Praise or Rise to the Occasion & Earn it. Emasculating a Man can make one less of a Woman ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Treat that Man like Who He Can & Will be. Not like Who he is or Was. Who wants to be reminded of their flaws? When we treat Our Men like royalty the pressure is on Him to Maintain Your Praise or Rise to the Occasion & Earn it. Sisters We have to Hold him down not Rip him Apart. What would happen to the Household if We keep tearing the head off?? ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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I Love Me Some "Him"... not what He drives, but what drives Him, not how He moves, but what moves Him. I pray for Him & He prays for Himself. He has a Big heart & I'm always in it. He allows Me to teach Him & He's anxious to learn Me. He has several friends but He's strongest when He stands alone. I can Live without Him but I just don't want to. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: As Women we’re Maternal & instinctively want to Nurture & “Fix”. We need to Understand the difference between trying to “Fix” a relationship & trying to “Change” a person. Think outside the box & consider that instead of changing Your mate God is using Your mate to change You. God's Intellect is so Profound & UnParralleled that He can be right in Our faces & We still can't see Him. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.
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It may be the Most Difficult Task to pray for Someone who means You Nothing but Harm however keep in mind after the Toughest Fight comes the Greatest Reward. Be Thankful You Are not where They Are in their walk any longer. Love & Patience is like a Boomerang just throw it out there & watch it come back to You. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Above the Negativity ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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There's 3 stages in God's great Work We know as a Successful Life: 1st) - It is impossible, 2nd) - It is difficult, 3rd) - It is Done. Claim the Victory it starts with Believing; People Fear Me because they can't understand Me, Hate Me because they can't Conquer Me & Love Me because they really Know Me but I'm exactly the way God wants Me to be so if You have a problem with Me Your problem's Not with Me. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Not solely scriptural but also Spiritual, not Your religion but Your Relationship, not just prayer but also Praise, Your words may flatter but Your behavior bears the Compliments, not Your talk but Your Walk. I have Yet to be where I'm going but I've come so far from where I was. Whatever You're called to Do or Whomever You decide to Be, be the Absolute Best at it. Even when You're number One keep grinding like You're number Two. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

You're Amazing! It's not about You & Them; It's about You & HIM. Your religion isn't nearly as important as Your Relationship. Learn to see Yourself as God see's You, then You'll Become who he knows You To Be. We're instructed to call things as they will be Not as they are. You are More than a Conqueror remember?? Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Boldly believe in You, what You do and in what You Will accomplish; Act on that knowledge even if You have the highest of obstacles in front of You. The only thing that Will stop You from crossing, climbing or going through those obstacles is what You think about Yourself. How You see You isn't just something its Everything Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2011

When people ask Me where I'm headed My response leaves most thinking I'm delusional in My future expectations without being a Trump or from widely Known Royalty. However without it being publicized I'm a heir to the Throne. Like My "Nay-Sayers" don't think I'm Phenomenal they Know I Am & so do I. The only one who hasn't gotten the Memo about Your Success is You. As Your Biggest Competition get Out of Your own way. ~ LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Whether or not Your Dreams are possible depends on Your perception of Possibility; The Best way to fulfill Your Dreams is to Wake Up & Get Out of Bed! SUCCESS is not achieved remotely; Exercise Patience in Planning and Impatience in Execution. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Wman Relationship Rules:"A Man is only as Good as his word" so if He can't keep a promise a small as an appointment or chore what would make Us think He could keep the Ultimate Promise; Marriage & Monogamy? We shouldn't be surprised when at the 1st sign of conflict the Baby(You) gets thrown out with the Bath-water(Your vows). If We have to be particular about any life choice, it should be whom We choose to spend the rest of Our lives with. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Only participate in things that contribute to Your Individual Success. Being an Independant Thinker makes You a “Trend-setter” as opposed to “following trend”. Breakground in Life by Mastering the art of being a Chess Player & not a Chess Piece. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © November 2011

The way You treat others is the way You will ultimately be treated; so in essence its how You Treat Yourself.
Showing Respect for others demonstrates Self Respect. Knowing how to Love others is the benefit of learning Self Love. The ability to forgive others derives from mastering Self Forgiveness. Your past may be filthy but God said Your future is spotless. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Sincere Love & Piety may compel You to show a miserable spirit a glimpse of Heaven; ultimately frustrating Yourself as that spirit can't shake it's home-sick feeling for Hell. Some people aren't happy unless they're unhappy. For that I couldn't tell You what to do however I can advise what Not to do: Allow it to steal Your Joy. Misery is the spirit form of a flesh. eating bacteria. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: When You see Your ex with someone else realize its similar to giving Your old things (used but not destroyed) to the less fortunate, so refrain from being upset or regretful. Life goes on; don’t dwell in the past; Your trash is bound to be someone else’s treasure. Besides incase You haven't heard Recycling save Our Earth ;-) Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Without wanting to be, You found Yourself now "Single". Sis, it is what it is. Take a class or read a book to develop Your Mind. Join a gym to develop Your Body. Pray to develop Your Relationship with God. Meditate to develop Clarity & get re-familiar with"You". Flesh bruises, Hearts scar. The Healing process works from, the Inside, Out. Since You're back on the Market take the time to increase Your Property Value. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules:Choose a Man & not just a male. A male flatters You, a Man Compliments You; a male spends on You, a Man invests in You; a male treats You like Property, a Man treats You Properly; a male lusts after You, a Man Lusts to Love You; a male thinks He's God's gift to Women, a Man Knows Woman is God's gift to Man. Knowledge is Power & Sister You are Powerful ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

You can’t hold instinctive behavior against a Person. It’d be easier to get a Snake to walk upright & a Cat to bark; than to get a Genuinely Sneaky individual to become Trustworthy. Somethings can’t be taught. People have to be born with certain characteristics inorder for the behavior to be expected from Them & or for Anyone to hold them accountable. At times We tend to See what We want as opposed to whats True. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Realistic ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

You can’t hold instinctive behavior against a Person. It’d be easier to get a Snake to walk upright & a Cat to bark; than to get a Genuinely Sneaky individual to become Trustworthy. Somethings You can’t be taught; You have to be born with it inorder for it be expected from You. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Realistic ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Entering into Battles Intimidated, Leary of the outcome & Defeated, not only are You doubting Yourself You're doubting God. Believers don't deal with averages, statistics or even the certainty of mathematics. We stand & walk by Faith Not by sight. Offer Praise while You're in the Struggle. Claim the Victory because Its Already YOURS. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Whether We admit it or not We tend to move closer to God the closer We come to grief. How often would We pray if everything in Our lives were perfect? Ultimately like most things that are beneficial its less about what got You there & more about what keeps You there. Never forget where You came from. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Bad seed & Bad soil tend to bear Bad fruit. Children may not do what We say but they will do what We do; when We think they’re not listening they can still hear Us. Alot of times the behaviors We detest in Our children are obtained from watching their parents(Us). Even if You're an atheist You owe it to Your child to expose them to the theory of God. Someone raised Fearing NoThing/One is the real threat to Society. R.I.P. Pookie Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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The even more alarming part is one of my very Best Friends had the hardest time breaking up with his father for the exact same reason just two years ago. Kids don't do what We Say but the do what We Do ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011
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As a single parent choosing a mate it becomes less about Us & more about Our children. At the end of the day the Best co-parent for them will be the Best spouse for You. When We become parents it becomes “Their World” First & FarMost. Hope Everyone had an Awesome Holiday weekend! Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Okay Ladies Fall’s about to be in effect. We should be getting on Our grind while being in hibernation; this year We're getting New. Still having shows for Everyone but one night a week will be ONLY for Ladies email neciaism@live.com or inbox Sistar Necia with days & times that'd be most convenient. The link is http://ping.fm/TMRFu - Same rules as always No Hate; ALL LOVE ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Without wanting to be, You found Yourself now "Single". Sis, it is what it is. Take a class or read a book to develop Your Mind. Join a gym to develop Your Body. Pray to develop Your Relationship with God. Meditate to develop Clarity & get re-familiar with"You". Flesh bruises, Hearts scar. The Healing process works from, the Inside, Out. Since You're back on the Market take the time to increase Your Property Value. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Recognize the Blessing in any "Bad relationship" for without Knowing Bad We wouldn't Identify & Appreciate Good. We're in each others lives for Reasons, Seasons or Lifetimes & it doesn't have to be a Lifetime inorder to make a difference. Serving Your purpose & then moving on isn't Bad or Good; It's Life. Some people You have to Love from a distance so that You can be able to properly Love Yourself. You have to be a True Friend to Get & Keep a True Friend ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

While Under Pressure, maintain focus, see disturbances for what they are:”Intentional Distractions” to shake You off Your square. Planes that fly high can’t help but experience turbulence; Annoying? Yes, Deadly? No. Buckle Your seat belt & Keep Flying. When You’re trying to do what’s right it feels like nothing’s going Your way however, if You weren't a Threat, on the verge of Greatness Your walk in the wilderness would be a Stroll in the Park ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

CHURCH is my COLLEGE, HEAVEN is my UNIVERSITY , JESUS is my PRINCIPAL, THE HOLY SPIRIT is my TEACHER, ANGELS are my CLASS MATES, THE BIBLE is my STUDY BOOK, TRIAL & TEMPTATION are my EXAMS, WINNING SOULS is my ASSIGNMENT, PRAYER is my ATTENDANCE, CROWN OF LIFE is my DEGREE, AND PRAISE & WORSHIP is my MOTTO. Enroll today there is room for all and tuition is FREE!!

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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Sisters acknowledge the differences between a male & a Man; where a male may flatter You, a Man will Compliment You; Where a male may spend money on You, a Man will invest in You; Where a male will treat You like Property, a Man will treat You Properly; Where a male will only lust after You, a Man will Lust to Love You; where a male thinks He's God's gift to Women, a Man Knows Woman is God's gift to Man. Knowledge is Power ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Although I like to hear about the positive contributions of Black Men I don't like the fact that it's considered "rare". There're many Intelligent, Family Orientated, Hard Working, Great Husbands & Fathers who happen to be Men of color. We don't like to be labeled; however We can't behave in a manner that substantiates the labels. As a culture We are so much more than Michael Jordan, T.D. Jakes & Bill Cosby. Let's Get it Together so that We can Get It ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

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ANTICIPATING "For Better or Worse" ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Royal Treatment can inspire Royal Behavior; so put Him on a pedestal whether he deserves it or not. Your inspiration may be the Ladder he needs to "Step His Game Up." Women put up emotional walls to keep Men(hurt) out; Men put them up to find the Woman who's Love is Strong enough to Knock them Down. Complimenting one another is NATURAL we're puzzle pieces built to fit together & form a picture ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

God uses Us as vehicles in each other's lives, allowing Us to transport one another from one level to the next. Everyone serving a specific purpose in each others lives. People who've treated Us the worst & Places that bear the most difficult memories should be manipulated to ensure We Appreciate Our current conditions. Life happens in seasons & All Seasons bear a Reason. Stay Prayerful, Encouraged & try not to regret anything ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

God uses Us as vehicles in each other's lives, allowing Us to transport one another from one level to the next. Everyone serving a specific purpose in both Our life & the lives of those who's paths We cross. People who've treated Us the worst & Places that bear the most difficult memories should be manipulated to ensure We Appreciate Our current conditions. Life happens in seasons & All Seasons bear a Reason. Stay Prayerful, Encouraged & try not to regret anything ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright2011

Regardless as to what Anyone may think about You, We need to keep in mind at the end of the day You are a child of God & for His children He promised an Overly-Abundant Life, far beyond Our Fondest Dreams; it’s Our Obligation to Go Get It! Claim It, Breathe It, Live It & Obtain It. Poverty & Piety are not synonymous. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & On Your Grind ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

God promised You an Overly-Abundant Life, far beyond Your Most Fondest Dreams; it’s Your Obligation to Go Get It! Claim It, Live It, Obtain It; Poverty & Piety are not synonymous. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & On Your Grind ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2011

http://ping.fm/JaWbs When people You could careless about place You on their "Top Ten" of discussion topics it's a compliment & a testimony as to how Great Your existence is... Instead of being offended be Greatful as You're obviously Very Special! Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

http://ping.fm/01EJm Tap into that “Inner Contortionist”: It's not Your circumstances that shape You, It's how You shape according to Your circumstances. You’re capable of changing Your Mind & You’re capable of changing Your Life. Flexible people don't break or get “Bent out of Shape”. The Storm came & left, Now how can You Benefit? It's Your Life so it's not broken You just have to figure out how to Work it. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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