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I am so feeling her vibe...  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

When You rise above where people (even family & friends) think You should be, they tend to have a problem with it. Your Success can be offensive to others; this amongst several reasons make some of Us afraid to Excel. If You have to be afraid of anything, be afraid of not giving it Your All at All Times. When We don't use Our Gifts We forfeit Our Blessings. The enemy is a Master of deception, he knows Our weaknesses better than We do & will stop at nothing to dim Our Light; prevent Us from being the Star We were created to be. When We feel "stuck"or unable to prosper, We need to evaluate Our circumstances & self-reflect without prejudice. There's situations when what We fear is Success not Failure. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

‎"Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that all was vanity; but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dream with open eyes, and make it possible." --- T. E. Lawrence (Lawrence of Arabia) from The Seven Pillars of Wisdom.
Decide to be a force to be reckoned with; go Get Yours! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Once You're able to posses & display Sincere Happiness for others in the midst of Your unhappiness it's then & only then that You'll release the karma You need to find joy in Your Own life. The way We Live Good, Bad or Indifferent is like yelling into a cave & what We receive is nothing more than an echo; TEN fold what We put forth. Exude so much Love & Positivity that Your cup cant help but runneth over. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Everything executed Accordingly: I'm realizing in order to stay on top You have to separate Yourself from those who dwell on the bottom; both misery & ignorance loves company. Sometimes You have to pray for people from a distance for even though You may love them they don't love themselves ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Good Morning Winners!, When We step out of Our Comfort Zone, We step into the Success phase of Our Destiny. Realize the Enemy is more intimidated by You reaching Your full potential than You are. See Your insecurities as what they are: "Deliberate Distractions" Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware. You Are More Than A Conqueror; remember? ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

I thought I was afraid of Public Speaking & or "Telling My Business"; now thru speeches & writing about personal experiences I help heal Myself as well as Others. Simultaneously feeding My Family & My Spirit. Hindsight Being 20/20 I now question, was I afraid or did I allow the enemy trick Me into silence because He was afraid of the God in Me that would bless Me to be Blessing? Fear being the antithesis of Faith reveals to Us that it's nothing but a tool of the enemy to keep God's children in bondage; prevented from reaching Our full potential. Face Your fear & go get what God has for You. Sometimes subconsciously We're afraid of Success & not Failure. A Fearless Christian is a Threat to the enemy. Good Morning Everyone ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

A new and final need of man is stated in Genesis 2:18. The Creator himself, in whose image he was made, had revealed himself to him in language. This, among many other effects, awakened the social affection. This affection was the index of social capacity. The first step towards communication between kindred spirits was accomplished when Adam heard and understood spoken language. Beyond all this God knew what was in the man whom he had formed. And he expresses this in the words, "It is not good for the man to be alone." He is formed to be social, to hold converse, not only with his superior, but also with his equal. As yet he is but a unit, an individual. He needs a mate, with whom he may take sweet counsel. And the benevolent Creator resolves to supply this want. "I will make him a helpmeet for him" - one who may not only reciprocate his feelings, but take an intelligent and appropriate part in his active pursuits. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Men are instinctively drawn to Strength, However there is a Significant Difference between being a “Strong Woman” & Acting Like A Man. Men want Wives Not Husbands. If You make him feel like Less Of A Man, he will behave like Less Of A Man. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: We were created to be Help-Mates; Ignorance has made that term a “badge of shame”, a sign of Weakness & Stupidity. It takes Courage to play Your position & Intelligence to know what Your position is. Respect the honor of Him being the Man. Appreciate the prestige of being the Woman & Embrace them both as We all have designated roles. Thats Not sexist, its blatant TRUTH ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Thus there is No Shame, nor Weakness but only Strength & Wisdom in this Independent, Modern & Beautiful Woman stating Publicly: "I Need a Man"   ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

A new and final need of man is stated in Genesis 2:18. The Creator himself, in whose image he was made, had revealed himself to him in language. This, among many other effects, awakened the social affection. This affection was the index of social capacity. The first step towards communication between kindred spirits was accomplished when Adam heard and understood spoken language. Beyond all this God knew what was in the man whom he had formed. And he expresses this in the words, "It is not good for the man to be alone." He is formed to be social, to hold converse, not only with his superior, but also with his equal. As yet he is but a unit, an individual. He needs a mate, with whom he may take sweet counsel. And the benevolent Creator resolves to supply this want. "I will make him a helpmeet for him" - one who may not only reciprocate his feelings, but take an intelligent and appropriate part in his active pursuits. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

When Your wealth is lost, You lost Nothing, when Your health is lost, You lost Something, when Your Faith is lost, You lost EVERYTHING. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Enlightened; Good Morning ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

I thought I was afraid of Public Speaking & or "Telling My Business"; now thru speeches & writing about personal experiences I help heal Myself as well as Others. Simultaneously feeding My Family & My Spirit. Hindsight Being 20/20 I now question, was I afraid or did I allow the enemy trick Me into silence because He was afraid of the God in Me that would bless Me to be Blessing? Fear being the antithesis of Faith reveals to Us that it's nothing but a tool of the enemy to keep God's children in bondage; prevented from reaching Our full potential.  Face Your fear & go get what God has for You.  Sometimes subconsciously We're afraid of Success & not Failure.  A Fearless Christian is a Threat to the enemy. Good Morning Everyone  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Once You're able to posses & display Sincere Happiness for others in the midst of Your unhappiness it's then & only then that You'll release the karma You need to find joy in Your Own life. The way We Live Good, Bad or Indifferent is like yelling into a cave & what We receive is nothing more than an echo; TEN fold what We put forth. Exude so much Love & Positivity that Your cup cant help but runneth over. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

‎"Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that all was vanity; but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dream with open eyes, and make it possible." --- T. E. Lawrence (Lawrence of Arabia) from The Seven Pillars of Wisdom. Decide to be a force to be reckoned with; go Get Yours! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Joel Osteen told a story about a man who diligently prayed for a New Golf club; the actual utencil needed to put/golf & after some time he was blessed to inherit the deed to a 500 acre 18 hole Golf Club;the land to run a business based around the leisure activity/sport. Osteen's message is Your prayers should be as Big as Your Faith. My message is Your Faith should be as Big as the God You pray to... He is Able; keep in mind "Greater is He that is In Me than He that is in the World & May wage War Against Me." I WANT IT ALL DON'T JUDGE ME, JUST WATCH ME GET IT ;-) ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

When people use their mouths to criticize You its because their Spirit Envies You. You are the person they wish they had the Courage to become. The enemy is Miserable & a Coward. Most people will Not congratulate You for Living Out Their Dreams or Achieving Their Goals. They say Imitation us the Highest form of Flattery but too much of Anything, even flattery can become annoying. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged HaveAnOriginalIdea ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

When You rise above where people (even family & friends) think You should be, they tend to have a problem with it. Your Success can be offensive to others; this amongst several reasons make some of Us afraid to Excel. If You have to be afraid of anything, be afraid of not giving it Your All at All Times. When We don't use Our Gifts We forfeit Our Blessings. The enemy is a Master of deception, he knows Our weaknesses better than We do & will stop at nothing to dim Our Light; prevent Us from being the Star We were created to be. When We feel "stuck"or unable to prosper, We need to evaluate Our circumstances & self-reflect without prejudice. There's situations when what We fear is Success not Failure. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Never take relationship advice from a Lonely & or Miserable Woman; if She knew so much She'd be applying it to Her own life, as opposed to tearing Your Union or Mate apart. Seek guidance from someone who Loves their Lord, their Mate, their Life, Themselves & the idea of being in Love. A compass built & filled with Hatred can only direct You to where's familiar. Not Everyone prays For & or With You, sadly some pray Against You. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & AWARE. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Without suffering through Loss & surviving the Struggles it's impossible to Appreciate True Victories. Realize that Today is a part of Your journey Not Your Final Destination. As difficult as it may be to accept while You're in the midst of it, with Every Lesion comes a Lesson; try Your best to pay attention; Live & Learn not Error & Repeat. Don't be envious of My victories without envying My battles; nothing came easy or was given to Me; I earned it All. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Someone who doesn't appreciate You, doesn't deserve You. The time You spend pursuing someone whose not worthy is wasted time that You could be investing in the Man that knows & Appreciates Your worth. Once We start settling for less than We deserve We end up with less than We expected. Sister know that You're Priceless. Unless a gun is held to Your head people only do Us what We allow them to. When SHE is worth HER weight in Gold, HE becomes the GoldDigger by default. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Conscious. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Cycles were made to break... What/Whomever You submit to You become a slave to it. If We want better results We have to make better decisions. We decide what We make of Our lives don't confuse Tradition with Truth; Women in My family aren't Happy unless they're Miserable. Disruptive Patterns & Vicious Cycles are made to be broken. You can't be Liberated from what You've awarded Power To & You can't award Power To what You've been Liberated from. Family curses are Options Not Laws. Consciously decide to Totally Love & Live Your Life. Let Whomever won't Go to Heaven with You, Go to Hell without You ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

We have to say "No" to the Flesh & "Yes" to the Spirit, not always comfortable but Always Right... When We closely look at it whatever God is asking of Us, no matter how "far Left it may be in comparison to what We deem as Right" We'll realize its a minuscule task that when blindly executed stands to gain Us Tremendous blessings; Unlimited Reward. If We can channel Our inner warrior & commit to doing Whatever God requires inorder to obtain EveryThing/One We pray for & more, it's Then that We have risen to the occasion. We All have Our "Ram in the bush" Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

"Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that all was vanity; but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dream with open eyes, and make it possible."
- T. E. Lawrence (Lawrence of Arabia) from The Seven Pillars of Wisdom
~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Our Goals & Aspirations are an indication of Our level of Faith.  Our Faith is an indication of  how Great Our Prayers are. Our Prayers are an indication of how Great We Know Our God to Be. So again; "I want it All, Don't judge Me"...  Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism  Copyright © 2012

2012's in full swing Ladies; We should be getting on Our grind while being in hibernation; this year We're keeping it Fresh & New! Still having shows for Everyone but one night a week is ONLY for the Sisters email Neciaism@me.com or FaceBook inbox Sistar Necia with days & times that'd be most convenient. The link is http://ping.fm/3txNj - Same rules as always No Hate; ALL LOVE ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

I want it All, Don't judge Me... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Okay Ladies 2012's in full swing. We should be getting on Our grind while being in hibernation; this year We're getting New! Still having shows for Everyone but one night a week will be ONLY for Ladies email neciaism@me.com or Facebook inbox Sistar Necia with days & times that'd be most convenient. The link is http://ping.fm/0OSw0 - Same rules as always No Hate; ALL LOVE ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Okay Ladies 2012 is in full swing. We should be getting on Our grind while being in hibernation; this year We're getting New. Still having shows for Everyone but one night a week will be ONLY for Ladies email neciaism@me.com or inbox Sistar Necia with days & times that'd be most convenient. The link is http://ping.fm/8dki0 - Same rules as always No Hate; ALL LOVE ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Sustenance and Protection; two blessings. Different in the definition, however still equally powerful, necessary & gifted to each child of God covered in the Blood. Within Storms, Believers will be Protected from its fury by the Storm being calmed or be blessed by Grace which will calm the Believer & Sustain them throughout the Storm's wrath. Sometimes within the most turmoultuos strain lies the most Tremendous blessing. Make Your Test Your Testimony as someone else will need help getting through. We have to Go Thru to Get Thru; be Thankful You are More than a Conqueror. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. Have an Amazing Weekend All!! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

When You smile, it means You’re thinking about God; but when You make someone sad smile, it means God"s thinking about You. Commit to being a Healer not a Hurter, the reward is far Greater.  There aren't too many things that feel better than putting a smile on the face of a Loved one. Life's too short to do Anything but Love, Laugh & Live Life to the Fullest. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Considerate.  Have an Awesomely Blessed weekend. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright  © 2012

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Don't take for granted that We're all born with the ability to or clearly express Love. Negative past experiences tend to have Us more prepared for the "Bad" as a means of Protecting Our Hearts & being labeled Naive when wearing Our hearts on Our sleeves. As Women we’re Maternal & instinctively want to Nurture & “Fix”. Understand the difference between trying to “Fix” a relationship & trying to “Change” a person. You can’t hold someone accountable for Not Thinking like You or Acting like You, when they’re obviously Not You. His movement may not mean that He doesn't Love You it may be that He Loves You but is limited in His capability of expressing it. We have to stop confusing the Gifts We're born with the Skills We're trained in. Be patient & teach Him what Love looks & feels like. If He's worth Your Heart, He's worth the Work.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Never take relationship advice from a Lonely & or Miserable Woman; if She knew so much She'd be applying it to Her own life, as opposed to tearing Your Union or Mate apart. Seek guidance from someone who Loves their Lord, their Mate, their Life, Themselves & the idea of being in Love. A compass built & filled with Hatred can only direct You to where's familiar. Not Everyone prays For & or With You, sadly some pray Against You. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & AWARE. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

When people use their mouths to criticize You its because their Spirit Envies You. You are the person they wish they had the Courage to become. The enemy is Miserable & a Coward. Most people will Not congratulate You for Living Out Their Dreams or Achieving Their Goals. They say Imitation us the Highest form of Flattery but too much of Anything, even flattery can become annoying. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

People may not remember What You Said, but they will always remember How You Made them feel; I’d rather be hesitant in my speech then reckless with it’s content. In everyday life we aren't staffed with editors on hand so most comments aren't retractable & not too many weapons cut like the Tongue. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Mindful of Your Mouth... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Someone who doesn't appreciate You, doesn't deserve You. The time You spend pursuing someone whose not worthy is wasted time that You could be investing in the Man that knows & Appreciates Your worth. Once We start settling for less than We deserve We end up with less than We expected. Sister know that You're Priceless. Unless a gun is held to Your head people only do Us what We allow them to. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Conscious. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Make time to Pamper Him & keep Him on a pedestal but Never completely abandon Your Life & or extracurricular activities that make You, You. Business driven Men appreciate a Busy Woman. When You both have lives it allows for the space needed to miss one another. Only food should be Smothered, everything else needs a Life. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Sustenance and Protection; two blessings. Different in the definition, however still equally powerful, necessary & gifted to each child of God covered in the Blood. Within Storms, Believers will be Protected from its fury by the Storm being calmed or be blessed by Grace which will calm the Believer & Sustain them throughout the Storm's wrath. Sometimes within the most turmoultuos strain lies the most Tremendous blessing. Make Your Test Your Testimony as someone else will need help getting through. We have to Go Thru to Get Thru; be Thankful You are More than a Conqueror. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

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Once You've won the Victory in Your mind, the Victories in Your Life become less challenging. Know that You'll succeed in either of Two ways it’s Going to happen; or You’ll make it happen, that choice is Yours however Failure is Not an Option. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. Not Good but Great Morning Everyone!! ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2012

Big Thoughts evolve into Big Dreams; Big Dreams manifest Big Ideas; Big Ideas stimulate Big Moves; Big Moves create Big Solutions; Big Solutions Solve Big Problems. So “Yes”, Size matters. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

When You rise above where people (even family & friends) think You should be, they tend to have a problem with it. Your Success can be offensive to others; this amongst several reasons make some of Us afraid to Excel. If You have to be afraid of anything, be afraid of not giving it Your All at All Times. When We don't use Our Gifts We forfeit Our Blessings. The enemy is a Master of deception, he knows Our weaknesses better than We do & will stop at nothing to dim Our Light; prevent Us from being the Star We were created to be. When We feel "stuck"or unable to prosper, We need to evaluate Our circumstances & self-reflect without prejudice. There's situations when what We fear is Success not Failure. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Joel Osteen told a story about a man who diligently prayed for a New Golf club; the actual utencil needed to put/golf & after some time he was blessed to inherit the deed to a 500 acre 18 hole Golf Club;the land to run a business based around the leisure activity/sport. Osteen's message is Your prayers should be as Big as Your Faith. My message is Your Faith should be as Big as the God You pray to... He is Able; keep in mind Greater is He that is In Me. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Joel Osteen told a story about a man who diligently prayed for a New Golf club & after some time he was blessed to inherit the deed to a 500 acre 18 hole Golf Club. Osteen's message is Your prayers should be as Big as Your Faith. My message is Your Faith should be as Big as the God You pray to... He is Able; keep in mind Greater is He that is In Me. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Every waking moment will Not make You happy. I'm Inspirational; A Motivational Speaker by birth not choice; but I'm also human, so I know what it is to Hurt, to be so turmoiled that You Want to be Angry, to not feel like Smiling, having no desire to Laugh; but believe Me that's a spirit. Rebuke the enemy & reclaim Your joy. You're a child of the Most High, far too Amazing to be Vexed, Your energy is far too Valuable to waste on Negativity. Life is too short to do anything but Live, Love & Laugh. Say TGIF (Thank God I'm Fabulous) ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

I'm Inspirational; A Motivational Speaker by birth not choice; but I'm also human, so I know what it is to Hurt, to be so turmoiled that You Want to be Angry, to not feel like Smiling, having no desire to Laugh; but believe Me that's a spirit. Rebuke the enemy & reclaim Your joy. You're a child of the Most High, far too Amazing to be Vexed, Your energy is far too Valuable to waste on Negativity. Life is too short to do anything but Live, Love & Laugh. Say TGIF (Thank God I'm Fabulous) ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Don't lower Your Standards & Goals to the level of Your Abilities. Elevate Your Abilities to the height of Your Goals & Standards. Below water level is Drowning; while above will afford You the advantage of either Swimming or Floating. Nobody's Perfect but if You Strive for Perfection You're bound to atleast achieve Greatness. Success will knock at Your door but You have to be Brave enough to Answer. The Victory is Already Yours...  Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

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Once You've won the Victory in Your mind, the Victories in Your Life become less challenging. Know that You'll succeed in either of Two ways it’s Going to happen; or You’ll make it happen, that choice is Yours however Failure is Not an Option. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. Not Good but Great Morning Everyone!! ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2012

Once You've won the Victory in Your mind, the Victories in Your Life become less challenging.
Know that You'll succeed in either of Two ways it’s Going to happen; or You’ll make it happen, that choice is Yours however Failure is Not an Option. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. Not Good but Great Morning Everyone!! ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2012

God uses Us as vehicles in each other's lives, allowing Us to transport one another from one level to the next. Everyone serving a specific purpose in both Our own life & the lives of those who's paths We cross. People who've treated Us the worst & Places that bear the most difficult memories can be manipulated to ensure We Appreciate Our current conditions. Life happens in seasons & All Seasons bear a Reason. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Above the Negativity; Life is just too short. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Love is not a Boomerang; there's no guarantee that when You throw it out there it'll come back to You. Sometimes You have to turn away from someone You truly Love inorder to truly Love Yourself. As Big as this world is realize only debris was designed to settle; Be steadfast & patient for what(who) You want; Brothers, You'll find Her & Sisters, He'll find You. Sometimes We're forced to put Our walk where Our faith is;Faith is not demonstrated in Prayer followed by Worry, We have to Completely Surrender. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

You can't want something for someone more than they want it for themselves. Although We may want to help sometimes We're stepping on God's toes. He's the Father & will discipline accordingly. Valuable Lessons & Blessings come from struggles so on occasion the best help You can offer someone You Love when they seem to be Struggling is to turn away & pray for them. I've been thru so many trials in My life & hindsight being 20/20, I now realize I wasn't being Punished for My Past, I was being Prepared for My Future. Just hold On. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Pray about Everything & Worry about Nothing.»»II Timothy 1:7.»»For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control. Being Knowlegable about Your walk will make You Fearless in Your walk. From the womb it was written: "You are more than a Conqueror"; Do Not Fear that Understand & Embrace that. Stay Prayerful, Positive, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Changing Your surroundings will change Your Thinking; changing Your Thinking will change Your Actions & changing Your Actions will Change Your Life. Alot of Change makes alot of sense & alot of cents translate into alot of Dollars. Your past may be filthy but God said Your future is spotless. Its Never too late to redirect Your path... From one Work in Progress to another. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Being extremely driven at times I tend to get so preoccupied with what I inspire to have that I neglect to appreciate & give thanks for what I do. Some put up emotional walls to keep people out & protect their hearts while others put them up to see who cares enough to break them down. I'm More than a Conqueror, but a Work in Progress none-the-less Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

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If You are willing to suffer for Christ then You have decided to set aside Your own desires 

Don't take Kindness for Weakness, Salvation for Stupidity or Humility for Insecurity. Realize when We wrong anyone & their response is Piety or Silence, apparently its their devotion to a Higher Power that allows them to step outside of what You've done to them & Pray for Your Spirit, because Pleasing God is more important than Pleasing You. We have to stand Our ground even when We find Ourselves under siege within spiritual attacks, as the famous "Footprints" poem says; it was then that I carried You. A child of God is Never alone & will always have the Victory. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Why do people get so offended when they're told to "mind their business" or You answer a question with "None of Your business"? If they'd just look at the situation from (Your)the speakers perspective maybe they'd realize that they obviously asked an offensive question or made an offensive comment in order to get that response. WTF YDoUNeed2KnowEverything
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I saw something that defied the laws of legal ignorance tonight... Spending beyond Our means is a conscious decision, like keeping up with the Jones' & most of the times the Jones' aren't "Friends"; that would mean for whatever reason We tend to buy things We can't afford, to Upset people, We don't even like; Does that make any sense? & again without Cents there will be No Dollars. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Not all things can be recycled, something's Need to be thrown away. In with the New out with the Old...
Every "JOKE" told in Poor taste is a Coward's way of being Truthful. Sarcasm, constant Criticism, Snide comments derive from Envy & are Nothing but Negative Reinforcement. Surrounding Yourself with Negative Reinforcement is a sure fire way to fail. Verily those Threatened by Your Success will stop at nothing in order to Threaten Your Success. Man being like Gravity will either Elevate You or drag You Down. Salvation is not synonymous to Stupidity so it's up to Us in Our Enlightened state to evaluate, acknowledge & identify the difference; lastly then to treat it accordingly. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & AWARE. When Your House is Clean, You Feel Better (Both Literally & Figuratively) . ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Cycles were made to break... What/Whomever You submit to You become a slave to it. If We want better results We have to make better decisions. We decide what We make of Our lives don't confuse Tradition with Truth;
Women in My family aren't Happy unless they're Miserable. Disruptive Patterns & Vicious Cycles are made to be broken. You can't be Liberated from what You've awarded Power To & You can't award Power To what You've been Liberated from. Family curses are Options Not Laws. Consciously decide to Totally Love & Live Your Life. Let Whomever won't Go to Heaven with You, Go to Hell without You ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

I grew up without a Father so without knowing a Man as a child, it was a struggle to recognize one as an adult. Entertainers & Athletes are adequate however in no way are they better than a child's father as the role model for what Men represent. To all the Father's out there stepping up to the plate & taking the time to sew the necessary seeds in Our children understand that You are the family's Foundation, therefore Irreplaceable, Priceless & Appreciated for You Everyday is Father's Day & We are Truly Thankful. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

http://ping.fm/Ro7Iq R.I.P. Whitney, You've waited to so long to be able to Exhale & now You can. A Tormented person disrespects the Living but a Tormented Spirit disrespects the dead. Like Jesus said on the cross "Forgive Them Father for They know Not what They do." ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

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Good Things come to those Who wait but Great Things are obtained by those Who Go Get It! Rise & Grind EveryDay!! Failure is Not an Option. Good Morning. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright ©2012

Similar to when magnets get too close, no matter how much You may want to help, the force of Someone's negativity can pull You so close that it pushes You away... Anger is sometimes the mask that Hurt wears when its ashamed to show its face. An Angered Spirit is a Tortured Spirit. What's heard is "I'm Mad at You" when what's said is "I'm in Pain".  The Best people can make the Worst mistakes & the Worst Results can stem from the Best Intentions; without the ability to Forgive, We limit Our ability to Love. Forgive whomever wronged You but never Forget the pain they caused. There are individuals who come with so much baggage You can't be in their company without being required to help them carry it.  The determination of whether (It's)They're worth it or not is Yours. Misery & Negativity is like a flesh eating bacteria; if not eliminated it will contaminate one's Mind, Body, Soul & Spirit. Sometimes inorder to properly Love Ourselves We have to keep others in prayer & Love them from a distance. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=avkJO2PSE_k&feature=youtube_gdata_player Makes one wonder is there such a thing as Unprocessed livestock? Titles like Halaal, Organic, Kosher, 100% natural regarding consumable flesh is a myth huh? ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

A boy taught that expressing Love is Feminine & or Gay, will grow into an UnLoving Man. A girl taught the same thing will grow into a Woman who doesn't know Love so she won't recognize it. Not Words, but "Actions" teach lessons. Children may not do what We say but they'll do what We Do. Babies enter the world like blank pages in a book in which adults fill with content; their parents being the first to compose an entry/write in it.Today's Children are the BluePrint for tomorrow's Adults. We owe them better than what They're getting. As children We're taught while as adults We learn. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

They're only Two approaches to Success either You sit around & wait for it to happen or You make moves & make it happen. As a child of God, His Promise is that You're Destined for Greatness. If SomeThing/One tried to take Your Property, Family or Life; anything that's rightfully Yours, wouldn't You fight for it? Well as an heir to the Throne Success is rightfully Yours as well & likewise should be fought for. Prayer without Effort are dead words & a Loser is a Winner who hasn't failed enough to be sick of the feeling.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © January 2012

When Your wealth is lost, You lost Nothing, when Your health is lost, You lost Something, when Your Faith is lost, You lost EVERYTHING. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Enlightened; Good Morning ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Money can buy You a Bed but not Sleep, Clocks but not Time, Books but not Knowledge, a House but not a Home & Sex but not Love. More important than the Revenue is from where the Blessings to receive them came. 2Peter 2:19 reads "You are a slave to whatever controls You." Never loose sight of Your very First Prayer/Where You started(it all began). I'm not where I want to be, yet I'm miles from where I've been & only inches from where I'm headed.. ***Status:Very Thankful ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Exodus 34:10. Then the LORD said: “I am making a covenant with you. Before all your people I will do wonders never before done in any nation in all the world. The people you live among will see how awesome is the work that I, the LORD, will do for you. *** We Speak life into things Both Good & Bad; as a Child of God We're able to rebuke the Bad & Command the Good. Know that The Best is Yet to come for Your are Destined for Greatness; if that were not the case Your Walk in the Wilderness would be a Stroll in the Park. Stand by Faith not by Sight. *** Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

An Optimist chases their Dreams while a Pessimist runs from their Nightmares. Don't miss out on a Successful Life because Your too afraid to venture into the Unknown. EveryThing/One familiar isn't always the Best for You. Just because You're a friend to Someone that doesn't make them a Friend to You. In life We learn to remove the Negative from Our Circle to make room for the Positive. Once We take the dead weight off Our wings We're not only able to Fly but to Soar.  The Difference between Good & Great is the Faith You posses in the ability of Your Lord. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: When dating a New Man We need to pay special attention to the Women he grew up around & the nature of their relationships. It could give You a glimpse into how He’ll be with You. He may not know how to Love You & maybe the type that doesn’t want to learn. Its not always P.M.S. sometimes it’s that “He-A-Mess”. You can say what You want about a "Momma's Boys" but if He doesn't respect His Mother, Sis please don't expect any better. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

When We're in too much distress to Pray; We need to resort to Worship. It confuses the enemy & exercises Our God given ability to Will peace into Existence. If You were on a sinking ship in the middle of the ocean & God threw You a Life-Jacket You'd be a fool not to use it & deserve to drown. Same Premise. He Never said it would be Easy but He did say its Possible. Stronger is He that lives in Me... You are More than a Conqueror, remember?? ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

When We're in too much distress to Pray; We need to resort to Worship. It confuses the enemy & exercises Our God given ability to Will peace into Existence. If You were on a sinking ship in the middle of the ocean & God threw You a Life-Jacket You'd be a fool not to use it & deserve to drown. Same Premise. He Never said it would be Easy but He did say its Not Impossible. Stronger is He that lives in Me... You are More than a Conqueror, remember?? ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Pray about Everything & worry about Nothing... So often We worry about what will happen tomorrow and all the worry won't change a thing. Know that God is in control & live everyday like it's Your last; I try to remind myself to look Onward & Upward not to the right or left or even behind me because God always has my back. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2012

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So often We worry about what will happen tomorrow and all the worry won't change a thing. Know that God is in control & live everyday like it's Your last; I try to remind myself to look Onward & Upward not to the right or left or even behind me because God always has my back. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2012

Why do people get so offend when they're told to "mind their business" or You answer a question with "None of Your business"? If they'd just look at the situation from (Your)the speakers perspective maybe they'd realize that they obviously asked an offensive question or made an offensive comment in order to get that response. WTF?? DamnTheNeedToKnowEverything
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It takes a big person to step outside of a situation & say "I'm wrong & I Love You"; it takes an even bigger person to make that admission when it's not true. Humility is Piceless while Pride is just very Expensive.... The people You Love are priceless & its normal to periodically disagree with those You Love.  Most "Arguments & or Disagreements" can be resolved with Patience, Listening twice as much as We Speak & expressing Humility Three times as much as We Listen or Speak.  There are even times that it may be necessary to Agree to Disagree. Keep in mind though its not always necessary to point the blame of who's right or wrong. Sometimes You have to prioritize if it's worth more to You to Feed Your Ego or Your Spirit.  Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged  ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2012

The people You Love are priceless & its normal to periodically disagree with those You Love.  Most "Arguments & or Disagreements" can be resolved with Patience, Listening twice as much as We Speak & expressing Humility Three times as much as We Listen or Speak.  There are even times that it may be necessary to Agree to Disagree. Keep in mind though its not always necessary to point the blame of who's right or wrong. Sometimes You have to prioritize if it's worth more to You to Feed Your Ego or Your Spirit.  Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged  ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2012

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 "Blessed be the LORD my strength, which teacheth my hands to war,and my fingers to fight"   Your Destiny is not in Your hands. Your Destiny is what You do with Your hands. Claim Your Destiny & Make Life Work for You. Keep Grinding!  Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged  ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2012

Nothing can stop someone with a Successful Attitude from achieving their goal; just like nothing can help someone with a Failure’s attitude from falling short. You can’t get Light from darkness; if You run from anything run from a Negative Self Image. You Are More than a Conqueror remember?  Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged  ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2012

My spin on FORGIVE & FORGET; We should Forgive the person that wronged Us but Never Forget the anguish caused as remembering the feelings will insure that it will not happen again. We all make mistakes the key is to learn from them & not repeat them. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2012

Hard doesn’t mean Impossible, Far doesn’t mean Out-of-Reach, Difficult doesn’t mean You Can’t. Plan your Direction, Strategize Your Movement, Define Your Goal & Claim Your Victory so Your Dreams Can be Your Reality.  Stay Prayerful, Focused &Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

So often We worry about what will happen tomorrow and all the worry won't change a thing. Know that God is in control & live everyday like it's Your last; I try to remind myself to look Onward & Upward not to the right or left or even behind me because God always has my back. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2012

To whom Much is given Much is Required & who Suffers Greatly will be Rewarded in the same fashion. His Promise is True. The Best defense against a Miserable Spirit, is a Compassionate one that can rise above the situation & identify the Bigger Picture; so Love Someone who Hates You & Help Someone who Hurt You. Lifes Heirachy is First: the most difficult struggle, Second: the Biggest Blessings, then Third: Grace & Confirmation that all things happen for a reason. At the End of it All, We realize its not about Pleasing You, Me or Them; its Only about Pleasing "Him". Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Of course Life is hard & being Human at times We feel like its a constant struggle. Scripture reads "They that live Godly shall suffer prosecution" If You were not a child of God, Destined for Greatness & a threat to the Enemy ; Your walk in the Wilderness would be a Stroll in the park. The Higher a plane Flies the Greater chances of it experiencing Turbulence. He Never said it would be Easy what He said is It Is Possible! FAITH = Forsaking All Insecurities & Trusting Him. Enough Faith will provide You with Grace in the midst of Any Storm. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2012

When people ask Me where I'm headed My response leaves most thinking I'm delusional in My future expectations without being a Trump, Gates or from contemporary recognized Royalty. However without it being publicized I'm a heir to the Throne. My "Nay-Sayers" don't think I'm Phenomenal they Know I Am & so do I. The only one who hasn't gotten the Memo about Your Success is You. As Your Biggest Competition its due time get Out of Your own way. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~ LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Tap into that “Inner Contortionist”;It's not Your circumstances that shape You, It's how You shape according to Your circumstances. Understand You’re capable of changing Your Mind & You’re capable of changing Your Life. Flexible people don't break or get “Bent out of Shape”. The Storm came & left, Now how can You Benefit from its impact? It's Your Life & even though it's not broken You still have to figure out how to Make it not just Work;but Work For You. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged for Failure is Not an Option. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Excluding infidelity We need not know Everything. Being too intrusive can make a Man feel pressured, claustrophobic & disrespected. I've found that with Men its not so much as what they're hiding being the issue it's more the invasion of their privacy & personal space. As a Grown Woman in a relationship We owe it to Our unions to Trust Our partner until He gives Us reason not to.  Realize being in a Loving committed relationship & still being individuals with Our own Lives is actually a Healthy way of life; all the more reason it's such a shame that as a culture more of Us can't/won't embrace it. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

I made a conscious decision to have UnCommon Sense. For the rest of My Life the level of Intelligence, Positivity, Creativity & Success that I exhibit will just be Ridiculous!; Absolutely Senseless. This may sound Extra but that's part of My ExtraOrdinary nature. You either get Beside Me or get Behind Me all I know is You won't get infront of Me because I'm letting Nothing hinder My Progress, block My Blessings or get in My way. I'm Going with or without You. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Your Calling can be Your Career. We ALL have gifts we just don’t All open them. Similar to After Christmas alot of times We allow them to sit around until someone more resourceful comes by & puts them to good use; theres even been times where We even give them away! As small as Mosquitos are they don't wait for openings, they make them. Claim Your Destiny & make a way out of No Way. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: You've got to Know You're worth it. You deserve to be Happy. Love is Compromises & a Compromise is not Settling; be clear on the difference, lest You'll sell Yourself short.  You cant truly Love anyone else without Loving Yourself. Stay Prayerful, Focused &Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Confucius said "If You find a job that You love doing, You will never work a day in Your life." My question to You is do You Work to Live or Live to Work. Find Your talent & manipulate it to feed Your Mind, Spirit & Family. Not many things are as rewarding as Living Your dreams.  Its time to sew seeds in You. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright  © 2012

Confucius said "If You find a job that You love doing, You will never work a day in Your life." My question to You is do You Work to Live or Live to Work. Find Your talent & manipulate it to feed Your Mind, Spirit & Family. Not many things are as rewarding as Living Your dreams. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright  © 2012

Time spent trying to give directions to where Your headed when Your peers have difficulty traveling or even reading road maps, will only frustrate You & prolong You reaching Your destination. The best thing to do is to invite others for the ride, if they can't make the trip, then so be it; just extend a helping hand & prayer to them once You arrive. Life like Success are personal journeys therefore it's a constant struggle to share Your vision with everyone for without Your eyes or perspective, they can't see what You see. Similar to this blog, Some Will Get it & some won't. Only the Spirit of Discernment will distinguish the difference. Stay Prayerful FOCUSED & Encouraged  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Time spent trying to give directions to where Your headed when Your peers have difficulty traveling or even reading road maps, will only frustrate You & prolong You reaching Your destination. The best thing to do is to invite others for the ride, if they can't make the trip, then so be it; just extend a helping hand & prayer to them once You arrive. Life like Success are personal journeys therefore it's a constant struggle to share Your vision with everyone for without Your eyes or perspective, they can't see what You see. Similar to this blog, Some Will Get it & some won't. It's up to You to distinguish the difference. Stay Prayerful FOCUSED & Encouraged  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Time spent trying to give directions to where Your headed when Your peers have difficulty traveling or even reading road maps, will only frustrate You & prolong You reaching Your destination. The best thing to do is to invite others for the ride, if they can't make the trip, then so be it; just extend a helping hand & prayer to them once You arrive. Life like Success are personal journeys therefore it's a constant struggle to share Your vision with everyone for without Your eyes or perspective, they can't see what You see. Similar like this blog, Some Will Get it & some won't. It's up to You to distinguish the difference. Stay Prayerful FOCUSED & Encouraged  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Regardless as to what Anyone perceives about You, keep in mind the bottom line is You're a child of God & for His children He promised an Overly-Abundant Life, far beyond Our Fondest Dreams; therefore Claim It, Breathe It, Live It & Obtain It. For generations Western Civilization has brain washed masses into thinking the More You struggle the closer You are to God. Its time to take the Rose Colored Glasses off & step from behind the smoke screen. The fact of the matter is, at Your full potential You are a threat to the enemy & destined for greatness so what better way to hinder Your progress then by convincing You that Hell during life will secure Heaven within the after-life? Poverty & Piety are not synonymous. Be proud of what You are blessed with & freely Anticipate the blessings that are on the way. It’s Our Obligation to Go Get It! Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & On Your Grind; Good Morning. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: The last man may have left You with alot of baggage however it isn't fair for a Your new partner to be expected to carry it around or even throw it out. That's Your Man not Your Bellhop. We can't keep holding Today accountable for Yesterday's transgressions. No matter how many times You've been hurt or betrayed You owe it to Yourself not to close Your heart. Everyone of Us has Our own issues Our own highs & individual lows. None of Us need to forfeit Our positive future for someone else's negative past. Being in Love with Him doesn't mean that He's perfect, it means Your love filled spirit has made a conscious decision to look past His imperfections.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Tailor Made Grace & Joy: When We feel like Our prayers aren't being answered maybe We're praying for things outside God's will & like Our Father he stepped in to protect his child from AnyThing/One imposing harm; as sometimes We're a threat to Ourself. Our Faith let's Us Know God Loves Us but Our Heart & Flesh can't Feel it, so We're instructed "lean Not towards Our own understanding". That Job, that House, that Lover was Not for You. Let it Go obviously God has something better & Custom Made for You. Sometimes We have to Get Out of Our Own Way. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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I'm very Family Orientated & as a Grown Woman I'd Love to be married however when I'm ready I don't just want A Husband I want My Own, Not My Sister's. We can't be so much in Love with the idea of Being in Love that it takes away from Our self worth. Nuptials are not like Social Media there is no "Complicated" relationship status either He's(You're) Married or Not. Ladies when We allow squatters to live in Our homes it decreases Our property value; then when We're really interested in selling We can only expect bottom basement prices from a wholesale Auction. Appreciate & Respect You as the Queen You were created to be. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Sincere Love & Piety may compel You to show a miserable spirit a glimpse of Heaven; ultimately frustrating Yourself as that spirit can't shake it's home-sick feeling for Hell. Some people aren't happy unless they're unhappy. For that I couldn't tell You what to do however I can advise what Not to do: Allow it to steal Your Joy. Misery is the spirit form of a flesh eating bacteria. They may not go to Heaven with You; but just be sure Not to go to Hell with Them. Stay Prayerful Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

When We feel like Our prayers aren't being answered maybe We're praying for things outside God's will & like Our Father he stepped in to protect his child from AnyThing/One imposing harm; as sometimes We're a threat to Ourself. Our Faith let's Us Know God Loves Us but Our Heart & Flesh can't Feel it, so We're instructed "lean Not towards Our own understanding". That Job, that House, that Lover was Not for You. Let it Go obviously God has something better & Custom Made for You. Sometimes We have to Get Out of Our Own Way. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Every "JOKE" told in Poor taste is a Coward's way of being Truthful. Sarcasm, constant Criticism, Snide comments derive from Envy & are Nothing but Negative Reinforcement. Surrounding Yourself with Negative Reinforcement is a sure fire way to fail. Verily those Threatened by Your Success will stop at nothing in order to Threaten Your Success. Man being like Gravity will either Elevate You or drag You Down. Salvation is not synonymous to Stupidity so it's up to Us in Our Enlightened state to evaluate, acknowledge & identify the difference; lastly then to treat it accordingly. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & AWARE. When Your House is Clean, You Feel Better. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

When You Open Your Mind to the unknown, You'll begin to Experience what You couldn't even Imagine. Challenges are not supposed to paralyze You, They're suppose to Elevate You; so Rise to The Occasion & Make SUCCESS Your shadow; Following Your Every Move. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Don’t be so quick to Blame God when Calamities hit. No one’s perfect, We ALL fall short at one time or another & Eventually We Have to pay for Our transgressions; so consider it One debt Paid In Full. Karma doesn't move in a straight line it actually travels in circles. Remember Good, Bad or Indifferent We reap what We sew. Just like yelling into a cave the words that echo are Your own. Don't try to feed someone what You wouldn't eat Yourself. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012