Family curses are made to be broken; the women in My family are not happy unless they are unhappy. So many are not comfortable unless they are miserable enough to be uncomfortable; at ease only in the midst of chaos. I've decided to begin a New family cycle; New habits & traits passed down from Generation to Generation… Traits of Piety, Positivity, Peace & Prosperity. As People We follow examples rather than Advice; so Me being a stubborn person thus allowing Me to Understand stubborn people. I have to Live & Lead by Example if I truly Love Myself or whomever follows Me. After all the enemy is not challenged by where I came from or where I am but by where I'm going... Straight to the Top; not inspite of but because of My humbling beginnings, long Journey & My Strength building struggle. Remember There can be no Victory without a fight. #DestinedForGreatness Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2013 https://www.facebook.com/pages/Neciaism/188220187272?ref=ts http://twitter.com/Neciaism http://neciaism.tumblr.com/

Make Him want to Rush Home... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Business driven Men appreciate a Busy Woman. However knowing that You are a busy Woman, can You imagine how Privileged & Appreciated He will feel when You take the time out to find out what time He's coming home & then not just prepare a meal but make His plate & greet Him with open arms? Even on those occasions when You are upset & have a few "choice words" for Him; let Him get home get settled, debrief from the stresses of the world outside those doors… before He ends up in a heated debate. In all honesty Sisters, Men are not that complexed. They may be the physically stronger however not necessarily emotionally superior; a little stroking goes a long way. When they fall in Love with Us they are actually more in Love with the way that We make them feel, whether they realize it or not. Take time out to Pamper Him & keep Him on a pedestal but never completely abandon Your Life & or extracurricular activities that make You, You. These are the qualities that embody a "Strong Woman in a Relationship". Just keep in mind there's a difference between being a Strong Woman & being a MAN; Men want Wives, not Husbands. When You both have individual identities it allows for the space needed to miss one another. Only food should be smothered, everything else is entitled to & worthy of a nurturing, loving, Life. Just make sure You give Him a reason to rush home; home is supposed to provide Peace & Serenity that's supposed to be His Haven. #WorkingSmarterNotHarder #TeamHappyHome "Women are Crazy & Men are Stupid… for lack of better terms of course" a Neciaism Original writing ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2013 https://www.facebook.com/pages/Neciaism/188220187272?ref=ts http://twitter.com/Neciaism http://neciaism.tumblr.com/ http://www.Neciaism.com/

Understand that the enemy is the master of deception. His job is to divide and conquer in any positive relationship; even that of Christ and his followers. This being said it is certain that the worst places, things & people for Us tend to be the most appealing as well as difficult to separate from. We have to be very careful when We're chasing situations down & abandoning everything else to be in particular company, that We are not sabotaging God's plan of protecting Us from it, therefore He's removing it from Our lives. When You are unequally yoked with any person, place or thing, You are almost certain to become a product of Your environment & or step out of character, conforming to the ways polar-opposite of what You stand for. Remember I always say people are like gravity if they are not Elevating You, then they are weighing You down. Settling is for debris Kings & Queens should be treated like royalty & deserve the Best that Life has to offer. Learning to be still while God is moving is a process... Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Enlightened ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2013 https://www.facebook.com/pages/Neciaism/188220187272?ref=ts http://twitter.com/Neciaism http://neciaism.tumblr.com/

EXCLUSIVE - Miss Lawrence Washington Performs "Closet Freak" LIVE... He Killed this Performance! WORK!!!!!! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

This sequel is well overdue; OMG I cant wait until November 15th! THE BEST MAN HOLIDAY!!!!! Whuhoo!!!! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Two Women charged with raping & robbing a Man...

http://s2smagazine.com/80023/two-women-suspected-of-raping-chicago-man/#.Ujb-8DmP2Z0.google Rendered Speechless… ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

You Deserve The Best! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

You'd spend less time waiting for serpents to revert back to walking upright than You would waiting for a Habitual Liar to tell the Truth or be Trustworthy. Not everyone surrounding You breaking bread with You is Your Friend. True Friends stay around long after the Party's over to help You clean up the Mess (both figuratively & literally). The only thing more difficult than Gaining My trust is ReGaining it. When people show You who they are Believe them for 'changing them' You cannot. Some may see You pray & then in turn begin to see You as Prey. Sincere Love & Piety may compel You to show a miserable spirit a glimpse of Heaven; ultimately frustrating Yourself as that spirit can't shake it's homesick feeling for Hell. You can't allow that dark energy to dim Your Light. Misery is the spirit form of a flesh eating bacteria, a cancer & like a cancer it needs to be removed before it spreads. You can give someone a priceless gift by praying for them & simply turning away. We can't spend Our lives loving everyone else more than they love themselves. Realize when You Love Yourself You're also Loving God as Your life is a gift that he gave You... Cherish it & make the most out of it. Surround Yourself with, Demand & Expect Only The Best because that's what You Deserve. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware; for True Friends are Priceless where as False Friends tend to be Expensive. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2013 https://www.facebook.com/pages/Neciaism/188220187272?ref=ts http://twitter.com/Neciaism http://neciaism.tumblr.com/

Serve Your Purpose & Move on… ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

A thought provoking post read: "I asked God to protect Me from All of My enemies & then I started Losing Friends"... Deep right? People are like Gravity, if They aren't lifting You up They're dragging You down. Learn to allow the Spirit of discernment to guide You in who to be around & where You should be. We're human beings which are actually Spirit filled vessels used as vehicles in each others lives. Sometimes We meet people solely in order to be introduced to something, someone or somewhere else. We shouldn't regret relationships that don't work out the way We planned for everything has its purpose & season. When One burden dies a Blessing is Born; simply it's time has passed & You've graduated on to a New level. Some individuals are like clouds once they're removed from Your life & have moved on, they make for brighter days. Even snakes periodically shed their skin. Growth stems from Change & Change is born thru Evolution… notably, Evolution is the theory of monkey to man not man to monkey; so be no one's fool. It's easy to confuse tradition with Truth. Boldly venture into Your future minus Your baggage & open Yourself to the 'Born Again', 'New Life' status God has for You. Love everyone accordingly including Yourself. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011 https://www.facebook.com/pages/Neciaism/188220187272?ref=ts http://twitter.com/Neciaism http://neciaism.tumblr.com/

There's Levels to this -ish... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

I always say without Your eyes not many can share Your vision. Believe it or not people aren't always afraid of failure some of Us are afraid of Success because it requires alot not just to reach the Top but to stay there & most of the time it's very lonely or at the very least demands both New & foreign Surroundings. You can love someone with all of Your might however not everybody You Love is ready or equipped for Your walk which is a substantial part of Your Journey as that is what dictates Your Final Destination. Some flights are designed to be solo in order for the 'Pilot to get his passenger's undivided attention. Being still while God is moving is a Learned behavior which mandates Extreme Focus; Tunnel Vision. Not every Spirit wrapped in Flesh is built for this… & that's okay. Be mindful for whether it be failure or Success there's levels to this -ish. "The Breakdown" an original writing by Neciaism due to hit shelves in December 2013 ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2013 https://www.facebook.com/pages/Neciaism/188220187272?ref=ts http://twitter.com/Neciaism http://neciaism.tumblr.com/

#UltimateGoalDigger #He'sAllINeed ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

For as long as I've known myself I've always been considered "different". When people see You as on or below the poverty level You're different ideas get You labeled as 'Crazy'. When You're considered middle-class, able to pay Your bills & maybe afford a little extra, Untraditional thoughts gains You the title of 'Eccentric', even slightly Delusional living in Your own world but as soon as You're viewed as wealthy , having those same far-fetched notions however now they are tangible things that can be touched, You socially graduate & are celebrated as a "Genius." I always wanted to please everyone & have everyone like & or agree with Me... When I started to grow in Christ My insecurities as many as they were started to diminish; whether or not people liked and/or agreed with Me did not matter because I was confident & secure in My walk as well as the fact that God already agreed with Me so long as I follow Him. God didn't just like Me He loved Me and I needed no -one or nothing else as scripture reminds Us... ((Romans 8:31)) "when God is for You who can be against You?" I'm sure You've heard it said why try to fit in when You were made to Stand Out? #TeamOutcast #TrendSetter #UltimateGoalDigger Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2013 https://www.facebook.com/pages/Neciaism/188220187272?ref=ts http://twitter.com/Neciaism http://neciaism.tumblr.com/

Come along with Me… ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Family curses are made to be broken; the women in My family are not happy unless they are unhappy. So many are not comfortable unless they are miserable enough to be uncomfortable; at ease only in the midst of chaos. I've decided to begin a New family cycle; New habits & traits passed down from Generation to Generation… Traits of Piety, Positivity, Peace & Prosperity. As People We follow examples rather than Advice; so Me being a stubborn person thus allowing Me to Understand stubborn people. I have to Live & Lead by Example if I truly Love Myself or whomever follows Me. After all the enemy is not challenged by where I came from or where I am but by where I'm going... Straight to the Top; not in spite of but because of humble beginnings along with the struggle. Remember There can be no Victory without a fight. #DestinedForGreatness Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2013 https://www.facebook.com/pages/Neciaism/188220187272?ref=ts http://twitter.com/Neciaism http://neciaism.tumblr.com/

Love like Beauty is in the eye of the beholder… ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Working on My autobiography I'm digging deep into situations that I haven't addressed in years. It's making Me realize that I haven't necessarily gotten over things I've simply gotten pass them; there is a significant difference. Getting over negative situations tend to make us Better however getting passed negative situations run the risk of making us bitter. Hindsight being 20/20 it's surprising how past experiences subconsciously affect the decisions we make in Our future. It's time to confront My demons, conquer them and lay them to rest because they only have the power that I award them. God is introducing Me to a "Me" that I haven't known in years & teaching Me how to Love her. Mastering 'Self Love' will make Me a better Lover all the way around: both to the He in My Life who is him & the She in My Life who is Me. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2013 https://www.facebook.com/pages/Neciaism/188220187272?ref=ts http://twitter.com/Neciaism http://neciaism.tumblr.com/

Happy Bastard… ~LuvUmuch Neciaism

No matter how old You get, or how many life accomplishments You achieve; somewhere deep down inside everyone yearns for a Mothers Love. Everybody wants to be somebody's baby. I don't know what it feels like to have parents; but I know what it is to have a spiritual/emotional void, that can be patched but never really filled. I'm not sharing this for sympathy. I'm sharing for the readers out there who are suffering in silence, or are missing something however can't quite put their finger on what it is. Those that are searching but have no idea what for. These emotions don't make You weak they make You human. The fact of the matter is even though everything happens for reason, We may take our last breath without ever knowing what that reason is. All We can do is make the best out of the worst situations & grasp the concept that indeed everyone of Us is More Than a Conqueror. Don't complain about what You can't do just plan Your celebration for when You do what You haven't done yet. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2013 https://www.facebook.com/pages/Neciaism/188220187272?ref=ts http://twitter.com/Neciaism http://neciaism.tumblr.com/

A Meal fit for a King, a Queen… a Winner! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

God said He would carry You through; He never said that He’d make it easy. I've always heard that 'to whom much is given much is required' but I truly believe those who suffer the greatest also reap the greatest reward. So if You're a strong soldier in Christ it's only fitting that Your Trials would be treacherous. The enemy is no different then any other envious degenerate; he will only pursue the strongest & most likely to reach the top. You Never really know what You’re capable of until You don’t have a choice in the matter. Difficult? maybe; but Impossible? Never. Verily, getting a taste of hell will make one savor the flavor & Appreciate Heaven; Trust Me when I say that. As painful as they maybe be proud of Your scars their proof that whatever tried to harm You wasn't strong enough to destroy You. I still have souvenirs from My visits down-under that I occasionally glance at as a reminder of how far I've come. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2013 https://www.facebook.com/pages/Neciaism/188220187272?ref=ts http://twitter.com/Neciaism http://neciaism.tumblr.com/

When Your Reality is bigger than Their Dreams… ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2013

The Epitome of being “Born Again”…You may have to substitute being a Social Butterfly to take up residence in a Successful cocoon. Sometimes it’s necessary to step away from the world to achieve Productive Solace. Life can get so overwhelming that the titles placed on Us such as: Mother, Father, Husband, Wife, Friend, that the most important title “Self” gets lost in the shuffle. It’s amazing but also very possible that We can know those surrounding Us better then We even know Ourselves. When aspiring to be the Best You that You can be, momentarily press PAUSE & allow God to re-introduce You to Yourself. So many can’t comprehend when I take My hiatus’, My absence can easily offend those who rely on Me. It’s never My intention to offend or abandon anyone; quite the contrary I’m unusually accustomed to putting everyone else’s comfort & needs above My own. Within this the fourth decade in My Life I’m just growing into who God created Me to Be. I dare Myself to be bigger than the average individual even dares to imagine. Our God makes Appointments never accidents. Stay Prayerful, Encouraged & Focused on fulfilling Your Specific Purpose. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2013 https://www.facebook.com/pages/Neciaism/188220187272?ref=ts http://twitter.com/Neciaism http://neciaism.tumblr.com/ http://www.neciaism.com/

I write to Live because I have the Right to Live... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2013

I get some of the Most Heartfelt emails; I so Appreciate My readers. Your Love & Support gives Me constant confirmation. When I go out to speak, when I post exerts online, when I return phone calls, I receive Praise, Love & a sense of Purpose from All walks of Life. ***Proverbs 18:16 King James Version (KJV) A man's gift maketh room for him, and bringeth him before great men.*** The epiphany I experienced made Me realize I had to Write to Live because as a Child of God I had the Divine Right to Live... Let No One & Nothing Steal Your Joy. Stay Prayerful, Encouraged & Focused on Your God given ability. When We neglect to use Our gifts We forfeit it's Blessings. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2013 https://www.facebook.com/pages/Neciaism/188220187272?ref=ts http://twitter.com/Neciaism http://neciaism.tumblr.com/ http://www.neciaism.com

Live, Love, Learn & Share... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

There comes a time in Everyone's life, as for on this Earth that We are only able to count on Ourselves. For that very reason, We're instructed to refrain from putting any human being on a pedestal, for they will surely disappoint Us. We have to truly know Ourselves in order to truly Love Ourselves. Genuine friends stay around well after the party's over to help You clean up the mess; both figuratively and literally. Only God can offer You Unconditional Love. Everyone else has guidelines & limitations; CoWorkers, Friends, Family, etc; even Your own shadow will leave You during Your darkest hour. At times for fear of being alone We subject Ourselves to unnecessary, unfair, unwarranted treatment. For clarity purposes realize to be alone doesn't necessarily translate into being lonely & to be in a crowd doesn't necessarily mean You're surrounded by loved ones with Your best interest at heart. Don't confuse those that are always hanging around for those that will always be there. When people show You who they are Believe them because You cannot change them; the most talented of magicians couldn't make an artificial person into a Real Friend. Live, Love, Learn & Share... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2013 https://www.facebook.com/pages/Neciaism/188220187272?ref=ts http://twitter.com/Neciaism http://neciaism.tumblr.com/ http://www.neciaism.com

So filthy it's sickening... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Misery is a self centered spirit & of course she loves company however unfortunately due to her character she spends a lot of time alone. Someone miserable, somewhere at some point & time in life will try to steal Your joy. Especially if You're Energy exudes more positivity & delight then they ever thought possible & only dream of possessing. Those who use their mouths to criticize You are exposing the fact that their spirit envies you. To a soul that's dark enough, Light tends to be intimidating. Like Jesus there are times We have to pity babies & fools. The epitome of ignorance is to be so ignorant that the one whom embodies it can't define it. Walk with Your head up, therefore people, places & things beneath You remain in Your blindside. Don't surround Yourself in trash unless You want to get & remain sick. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Above the negativity. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2013 https://www.facebook.com/pages/Neciaism/188220187272?ref=ts http://twitter.com/Neciaism http://neciaism.tumblr.com/ http://www.neciaism.com

"In no way am I Healed but without question I am a Healer"~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2013 https://www.facebook.com/pages/Neciaism/188220187272?ref=ts http://twitter.com/Neciaism http://neciaism.tumblr.com/ http://www.Neciaism.com/

Once You're able to possess & display Sincere Happiness for others in the midst of Your unhappiness it's then that You'll release the karma necessary to find joy in Your Own life. When You find Yourself on the way down extend a helping hand to someone beneath you & elevate them; even if You have to Help someone who Hurt You. The way We Live Good, Bad or Indifferent is like yelling into a cave & what We receive is nothing more than an echo; TEN fold what We put forth. When the enemy comes at You, artilleries full of hatred its difficult to remain True to the Beautiful Spirit that God made You; but in order to honor God You Must. When We give in & take on the notion that vengeance is Ours, so We're going to lash out using Our darkened heart We award darkness the title of Our true King & Ruler. Exude so much Love & Positivity that Your cup cant help but runneth over. Growing Up I was never showed Love; however after I hit rock bottom I decided to give out so much of it that it couldn't help but come back to Me & today here I am, LIGHT so Bright it's hard for most to look directly at Me. On so many occasions I Write & Speak from the eye of a Tornado, none being the wiser until I share something like this. No one said it was easy; what He said was 'Thru Him All things are Possible'. "In no way am I Healed but without question I am a Healer" Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. Have an Awesomely Blessed Week All :-) ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2013 https://www.facebook.com/pages/Neciaism/188220187272?ref=ts http://twitter.com/Neciaism http://neciaism.tumblr.com/ http://www.Neciaism.com/

Once You're able to possess & display Sincere Happiness for others in the midst of Your unhappiness it's then that You'll release the karma necessary to find joy in Your Own life. When You find Yourself on the way down extend a helping hand to someone beneath you & elevate them; even if You have to Help someone who Hurt You. The way We Live Good, Bad or Indifferent is like yelling into a cave & what We receive is nothing more than an echo; TEN fold what We put forth. When the enemy comes at You, artilleries full of hatred its difficult to remain True to the Beautiful Spirit that God made You; but in order to honor God You Must. When We give in & take on the notion that vengeance is Ours, so We're going to lash out using Our darkened heart We award darkness the title of Our true King & Ruler. Exude so much Love & Positivity that Your cup cant help but runneth over. Growing Up I was never showed Love; however after I hit rock bottom I decided to give out so much of it that it couldn't help but come back to Me & today here I am, LIGHT so Bright it's hard for most to look directly at Me. On so many occasions I Write & Speak from the eye of a Tornado, none being the wiser until I share something like this. No one said it was easy; what He said was 'Thru Him All things are Possible'. "In no way am I Healed but without question I am a Healer" Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. Have an Awesomely Blessed Week All :-) ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2013 https://www.facebook.com/pages/Neciaism/188220187272?ref=ts http://twitter.com/Neciaism http://neciaism.tumblr.com/ http://www.Neciaism.com/

Joe - I'd Rather Have A Love [Official Video] ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

LI/G\HT conquers darkness Each & Every time... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

What/Whomever You submit to You become a slave to it. If We want better results We have to make better decisions. Consciously decide to Totally Love & Live Your Life. Let Whomever won't Go to Heaven with You, Go to Hell without You. We tend to use the Past & what We've been taught or witnessed as a crutch in order to excuse Our bad behavior when the fact of the matter is, as adults We can all distinguish the difference between 'Right' & 'wrong'. Your Future belongs to Your Present not Your Past & it's called the Past because what's implied is that We've moved Passed it. The Women in My family aren't Happy unless they're Miserable. I elect to free My mind, Reward My Spirit & live differently. Disruptive Patterns & Vicious Cycles are made to be broken. You can't be Liberated from what You've awarded Power to & only You can award Power to what You've been Liberated from. Family curses are Options Not Laws. Much like all else it's a state of mind… We decide what We make of Our lives, don't confuse Tradition with Truth. Child of God Claim the Victory in all that You do. 

 Stay Prayerful, Focused & Bold about the Power of Your Lord as well as Your Faith in Him.  

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