To Believer's: Don't be fooled into the notion that inorder to tithe You're obligated to put 10% of Your minimum wage income into a collection plate when Your family has final notices that require immediate attention. No matter what religious Belief/Faith You subscribe to Your relationship with God is a personal one & He knows You as well as Your heart better than even You. When You offer Your brother/sister a warm bed to lay in, a hot plate of food or even just a ride; You are infact titheing. To Religious Leaders: be mindful of leading Your congregation astray with Your faulty direction; understand You will be held accountable not only for them being lost but for the part You played in imposing Your false knowledge & Opinion in lieu of Fact. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Identify Your Need, Understand Your Obstacle, Recognize Your Responsibility, and Become Your Answer. Life may not be going the way You intended, but it is going EXACTLY the way God planned it; our Father makes Appointments Not Accidents. Believe Me I'm Not where I want to be but I'm miles from where I've been. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Identify Your Need, Understand Your Obstacle, Recognize Your Responsibility, and Become Your Answer. Life may not be going the way You intended, but it is going EXACTLY the way God planned it; Things happen by Appointment Not Accident. I'm Not where I want to be but I'm miles from where I've been. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

The Best defense against a Miserable Spirit, is a Compassionate one that can rise above the situation & identify the Bigger Picture; so Love Someone who Hates You & Help Someone who Hurt You. After the most difficult struggle follows the Biggest Blessings & after the Biggest Blessing follows the Greatest Reward. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Two Poets! One Night! One Reason...Closure!! It's about time... November 5th,2011 Tammy Carr presents: Lamar Hill...CLOSURE! 20 Horse Tavern, Advanced Tickets are $15, more at door (Door open @7pm) Info: Tammy Carr: 856-577-1324 mscarr2u@gmail.com Kimberly Cooper 856-577-0567 ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

I made a conscious decision to have UnCommon Sense. For the rest of My Life the level of Intelligence, Positivity, Creativity & Success that I exhibit will just be Ridiculous! Absolutely Senseless.. Sounds Extra? Maybe; but that's part of My ExtraOrdinary nature. You either get Beside Me or get Behind Me; I know You won't get infront of Me because I'm letting Nothing get in My way. I'm Going with or without You. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Your Neighbor's Life is Not Yours, Your Neighbor's Trials are Not Yours, Your Neighbor's Relationship with God is Not Yours & Your Neighbors Destiny is Not Yours; So I know You realize What Your Neighbor's Business is?... Express some Discipline, wait to be Invited to the Party, Don't just Crash. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

God's path for You will not be His path for Me, so refrain for telling me How to Get To Heaven, as I'll probably get there using Directions that You Don't have. Be as consumed with fulfilling Your personal Obligations as You are with What Your Neighbor Is/Isn't doing. Even the Most religious of people fail to realize that only One Opinion really matters. Both in Driving & in Life remember to Stay in Your Lane. Remain Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Realize the Prestige in being the Enlightened. Like the Northern Star; We lead the way. To Illuminate implies You shine brightly. A Star's stature is too elevated to stoop to the depth of ignorance, mastered by those who dwell in Darkness. We must Maintain Our eliteness by requiring the "Help" to use the Service Entrance NEVER the Front Door. Its nothing personal there is hieracrhy in every form of Life. You're either a Chess Player or a Chess Piece. Safe Travels. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

To Illuminate implies You shine brightly. A Star's stature is too elevated to stoop to the depth of ignorance, mastered by those who dwell in Darkness. We must Maintain Our eliteness by requiring the "Help" to use the Service Entrance NEVER the Front Door. Its nothing personal there is hieracrhy in every form of Life. You're either a Chess Player or a Chess Piece. Safe Travels. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

I saw a thought provoking sign this morning, it read: "I asked God to protect Me from All of My enemies & then I started Losing Friends"... Deep right? It occurred to Me that people are like Gravity, if They aren't lifting You up They're dragging You down. Life lessons; We can't expect to fly with dead weight on Our wings. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

A true fisherman will tell You the caliber of Fish You catch is indicative of Your quality of bait & where You cast Your line. Men stop looking for Wives on “Poles” & Women stop looking for Husbands in the "Audience”. Not saying Either will Never be able to rise to the occasion but it Won’t Be Today; Girl-Scouts cant be held to the standards of a Soldier. If You want to be taken Seriously its time to Grow Up & get Serious. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

While caring for an Elderly woman who spent her Youth blaming her tortured childhood on the world mainly her own child. Daily I watch as the demons of her past consume her; Guilt eating away at what should be the Happiest time of her Life. When You're an inmate of the prison in Your mind there is No Escape or Early Release date; the only option You have is to serve Your time. Sew Dirt, Reap Dirt ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

...We all claim to want the Truth but are We ever really prepared for what We choose not to accept? Maybe if We were to bypass the minuscule details (Little white lies) & direct all negative feelings towards the "Major Falsehoods" (Big Ass Lies) the gap in male/female communication would be lessened. One could call that denial but then what is demanding the Truth while Your definition of True is only what You want to hear? "Women are Crazy & Men are Stupid" ~by Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Realize You are the Person, this is the Place & this is the Time for Tomorrow is Promised but You & I are Not. You were born with the ability to want what You Will & also to WILL What You Want. Your reality should be: Failure is NOT an Option. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged for as a Believer You Know All things are possible, for Greater is He who is in Me... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Thinking Out Loud: I turned 20 & under a month later gave birth to a son, in hindsight I realize I was too young to be a Mom; We grew up together. However I Thank God I was so preoccupied with being perceived as an adult that early on I learned to Close My mouth & open My mind. I see posts from Young mothers who publically, voluntarily disrespect themselves & shame their children. Its more pathetic than funny to be so ignorant that You don't even know You're ignorant. How can someone be offended after being called a name when they're openly living up to the stereotype? Never lower Your standards, Always elevate Your morals. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Thinking Out Loud: I turned 20 & under a month later gave birth to a son, in hindsight I realize I was too young to be a Mom; We grew up together. However I Thank God I was so preoccupied with being perceived as an adult that early on I learned to Close My mouth & open My mind. I see posts from Young mothers who publically, voluntarily disrespect themselves & shame their children. Its more pathetic than funny to be so ignorant that You don't even know You're ignorant. How can someone be offended after being called a name when they're openly living up to the stereotype? Never lower Your standards, Always elevate Your morals. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Without wanting to be, You found Yourself now "Single". Sis, it is what it is. Take a class or read a book to develop Your Mind. Join a gym to develop Your Body. Pray to develop Your Relationship with God. Meditate to develop Clarity & get re-familiar with"You". The Flesh bruises, while Hearts scar & break. The Healing process works from, the Inside, Out so take care of You for a moment & since You're back on the Market use the alone time to increase Your Property Value. You'd be surprised when You realize how much You have to offer. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Without wanting to be, You found Yourself now "Single". Sis, it is what it is. Take a class or read a book to develop Your Mind. Join a gym to develop Your Body. Pray to develop Your Relationship with God. Meditate to develop Clarity & get re-familiar with"You". The Flesh bruises, while Hearts scar & break. The Healing process works from, the Inside, Out so take care of You for a moment & Since You're back on the Market use the alone time to increase Your Property Value. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Whether You realize it or Not the intimate details that You dread being thrown in Your face wouldn't be available as Public Knowledge if You kept Your mouth shut.  Stop airing Your dirty Laundry & sharing what should remain behind close doors between You & Your Mate. Also remember Never take relationship advice from a Lonely & or Miserable Person no matter how much You may have " Love for Them"  if They knew so much They’d be applying it to Their own life; Would You look to a blind person to show You how to read??  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

At the beginning of this week, I was giving Thanks for God saving Me from being the Victim of theft by the enemy of My Assets (Financial, Physical & Spiritual), However hindsight being 20/20 as the week progressed I realize I have to give Greater Thanks for being saved from My former self. Truth be told had God not taken the initiative & sacrificed the Blood of His only son, to cover My Heart, Body, Mind, Soul & Spirit affording Me the undeserved Opportunity to Save My Life, Change My Life, ReStructure My Thinking & Priorities; I could have easily been the Assailant as I've played that position many times before. So I am Thankful for God saving Me from All harm even when it's Self Inflicted. I can't help but Love My Father. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Don't take Kindness for Weakness, Salvation for Stupidity or Humility for Insecurity. Realize when We wrong anyone & their response is Piety or Silence, apparently its their devotion to a Higher Power that allows them to step outside of what You've done to them & Pray for You; because Pleasing God is more important than Pleasing You. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Aware. We have to stand Our ground even when We find Ourselves under siege within spiritual attacks, as the famous "Footprints" poem states; it was then that I carried You. As child of God You are Never alone. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Don't take Kindness for Weakness, Salvation for Stupidity or Humility for Insecurity. Realize when We wrong anyone & their response is Piety or Silence, apparently its their devotion to a Higher Power that allows them to step outside of what You've done to them & Pray for You; because Pleasing God is more important than Pleasing You. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Aware. We have to stand Our ground even when We find Ourselves under siege within spiritual attacks, as the famous "Footprints" poem states; it was then that I carried You. A child of God is Never alone. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Individuals handle trauma differently. A person's troubled past may subconsciously drive them to hurt those who try to help them as hurt people tend to Hurt People. In protecting Yourself You may need to Love them from a distance. Loving a heartless spirit can be a waste of time & effort; like trying to teach someone how to swim without them knowing their drowning or even in water for that matter. Life's too short to do Anything but Love & Laugh so enjoy Loving Life & start with learning to Love Yourself. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

http://ping.fm/scHzX Gotta Love them Rude Boys... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

"Reflectionsin a Broken Mirror": The way You treat others is the way You will ultimately be treated; so in essence its how You Treat Yourself. Showing Respect for others demonstrates Self Respect. Knowing how to Love others is the benefit of learning Self Love. The ability to forgive others derives from mastering Self Forgiveness. Your past may be filthy but God said Your future is spotless. Understand Our Existense is like yelling into a Cave We have to be mindful of what We put into the Universe as it'll only echo Ten Fold. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Tap into that “Inner Contortionist”;It's not Your circumstances that shape You, It's how You shape according to Your circumstances. You’re capable of changing Your Mind & You’re capable of changing Your Life. Flexible people don't break or get “Bent out of Shape”. The Storm came & left, Now how can You Benefit? It's Your Life & even though it's not broken You still have to figure out how to Make it Work. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: A House Divided is an Unstable Foundation, to reach your goals You need to be on solid ground; AnyThing/One that causes Distractions or Discouragement has to be removed. If you wanted to climb to the Top of anything would you plant your ladder on cement or in quicksand? Your Family & Home take precedence over Everything. Friends that cause a wedge between You & Your Mate probably aren't Friends. At times to Love Your Man up close You have to Love Your Friends from a distance. True Friends are Priceless while False Friends are costly. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When people use their mouths to criticize You its because their Spirit Envies You. You are the person they wish they had the Courage to become. The enemy is Miserable & a Coward. Keep in mind most people will Not congratulate You for Living Out Their Dreams; furthermore realize You must be Amazing to be the topic of conversation without being Present. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

It's easier for a Drug Addict to get clean or Snakes to start walking upright Again, than it is for a Habitual Liar to tell the Truth or be Trusted..Not everyone surrounding You when You're on top of the world is a Friend.. True Friends stay around long after the Party's over to help You clean up the Mess(both figuratively & literally). True Friends are Priceless where as False Friends tend to be Expensive. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Jesus not 10%, not 60%, not 85% but 100% is the least that I can commit to; the very least that I can Promise You. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: A House Divided is an Unstable Foundation, to reach your goals You need to be on solid ground; AnyThing/One that causes Distractions or Discouragement has to be removed. If you wanted to climb to the Top of anything would you plant your ladder on cement or in quicksand? Your Family & Home take precedence over Everything. Friends that cause a wedge between You & Your Mate probably aren't Friends. At times to Love Your Man up close You have to Love Your Friends from a distance. True Friends are Priceless while False Friends are costly. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Whether We admit it or not We tend to move closer to God the closer We come to grief. How often would We pray if everything in Our lives were perfect? Oh Well; Ultimately like most things that are beneficial its less about what got You there & more about what keeps You there. Never forget where You came from, because You can be right back where You started in the blink of an eye. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Humble. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Realize You are the Person, this is the Place & this is the Time for Tomorrow is Promised but You & I are Not. You were born with the ability to want what You Will & also to WILL What You Want. Your reality should be: Failure is NOT an Option. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged for as a Believer You Know All things are possible; for Greater is He who is in Me... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Romance & Reality are two Entirely different Entities... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Yesterday's UnderDogs are Tomorrow's Legends. Too many opt to sit back & pass judgment while others grind, then waste no time joining the "band wagon" when the hard work pays off. Without being a part of My fight You will Not be a part of My Victory. Good Morning ALL; Let's Get It! Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Just like You know who Your friends are when You face tough times, God knows How strong Your Faith is when You face tough times. Scripture reads: Let not Your heart be troubled, neither be afraid. Remember as believers We Walk by Faith not by Sight. You are Never Alone; Stay Prayerful & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Our deepest fear isn't Inadequacy, its being Powerful beyond Our Own Imagination & Level Thought & or Expectation. The Exposing Light, intimidates Us not the Secluded Darkness. Questioning:"Who am I to be Brilliant, Talented & Successful?" Well Who are You NOT to be? As a child of God, Shrinking so other's won't feel insecure doesn't serve God. We were created to Manifest & Magnify God. Letting Your Light shine, gives others Worthy the courage to do the same. Rest Easy ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Our deepest fear isn't Inadequacy, its being Powerful beyond Our Own Imagination & Level Thought & or Expectation. The Exposing Light, intimidates Us not the Secluded Darkness. Questioning:"Who am I to be Brilliant, Talented & Successful?" Well Who are You NOT to be? As a child of God, Shrinking so other's won't feel insecure doesn't serve God. We're created to Manifest & Magnify God. Letting Your Light shine, gives others Worthy the courage to do the same. Rest Easy ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

I see the Invisible, Believe in the Impossible, can touch the Unreachable, so My Achievments are Incredible & My Spirit is Invincible! You Are Only as Successful as YOU Believe You Are. Through Life's disappointments We tend to get "beat down" just remember You have to go through Hell to truly appreciate Heaven. Our Trials give Us Our Testimony as while We endure We're acquiring knowledge & planting seeds in Our own Existence. You weren't cursed with Your Life; Your Life was Blessed with You. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Downplaying Our Gifts, Blessings & Intelligence so other's won't feel insecure doesn't serve God & to serve God is why Man was created. Our psyche is an obscure entity; We convince Ourselves We're afraid to fail when in actuality We're afraid to succeed. "As A Man Thinketh In His Heart So Is He" We owe it to the Creator to reach Our full potential. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules:Maternal, We want to Nurture & "Fix". We should Understand the difference between “Fixing” a relationship & “Changing” a person. We are held accountable for painful backlash associated with one's character when their behavior is instinctive to their Breed. If a Dog bites You He's doing what He does; a risk as an Adult You should be aware of before deciding to play with Him ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

It's easier for a Drug Addict to get clean than it is for a Habitual Liar to tell the Truth or be Trusted..Not everyone surrounding You when You're on top of the world is a Friend.. True Friends stay around long after the Party's over to help You clean up the Mess(both figuratively & literally). True Friends are Priceless where as False Friends tend to be Expensive. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

A boy taught that expressing Love is Feminine & or Gay, will grow into an UnLoving Man. A girl taught the same thing will grow into a Woman who doesn't know Love so she won't recognize it. Not Words, but "Actions" teach lessons. Children may not do what We say but they'll do what We Do. Babies enter the world like blank pages in a book in which adults fill with content; their parents being the first to write in it. Today's Children are the BluePrint for Tomorrow's Adults. We owe them better than what They're getting. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

You have to leave where You Are to get to where You’re Going to be. If You don’t have the Confidence & Courage to walk alone, others will not have the Confidence & Courage to follow You. Eagles Soar because they have wings; Believers Soar because We have Faith. Life is what We make it; it's up to Us if We assume the position of a Chess Piece or a Chess Player. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Riddle: Your Neighbor's Life is Not Yours, Your Neighbor's Trials are Not Yours, Your Neighbor's Relationship with God is Not Yours & Your Neighbors Destiny is Not Yours; So I know You realize What Your Neighbor's Business is?... Wait to be Invited to the Party, Don't just Crash. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2011

Faith & Confidence won’t make Your victories Easy, it will However Make them Possible; for what You accomplish in Life will make You a Winner but What You Overcome in Life will make You a Success. Bad things make Us Appreciate Good things & also add Character to Who We Are. Realize We may not be able to change the affect of Our circumstances but We can change the way Our circumstances affect Us. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

While Under Pressure, maintain focus, see disturbances for what they are:”Intentional Distractions” to shake You off Your square. Planes that fly high can’t help but experience turbulence; Annoying? Yes, Deadly? No. Buckle Your seat belt & Keep Flying. When You’re trying to do what’s right it feels like nothing’s going Your way however, if You weren't a Threat, on the verge of Greatness Your walk in the wilderness would be a Stroll in the Park ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

No Matter How much is going Wrong in Your Life the ability to be Genuinely be Happy for other's instead of wishing them harm, will release a flood of Blessings & Gratitude Your way. Loving Someone else sews a seed in You. If You spend Your Life Secretly envying others hopefully Now You have clarity as to why You don't secretly Fail.#SewDirtReapDirt Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: A House Divided is an Unstable Foundation, to reach your goals You need to be on solid ground; AnyThing/One that causes Distractions or Discouragement has to be removed. If you wanted to climb to the Top of anything would you plant your ladder on cement or in quicksand? Your Family & Home take precedence over Everything. Friends that cause a wedge between You & Your Mate probably aren't Friends. At times to Love Your Man up close You have to Love Your Friends from a distance. True Friends are Priceless while False Friends are costly. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

We all make mistakes, We have to get passed them & learn not to repeat them so as opposed to beating Ourselves up about them We need to Appreciate them. As a lesson learned. The fact of the matter is We're better than who We were before but still not as Great as We're going to be. There are Blessings all around Us. The pious Blame God for Nothing but Thank Him for Everything. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Inorder to Be Successful You have to embrace being too busy Dreaming to sleep. Let's Get It (Somebody has to, Why Not You??) ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Resorting to Publically calling people out (especially when You, Yourself can't spell... but that's another topic, smph) is the worst thing You can do; it brings unnecessary attention to what/who annoys You. Some people's entire existence is based on upsetting others. We have to rise above the emotion & ignore them; just like a child throwing a tantrum. The Best thing about walking with Your head up is EveryThing/One irrelevant will remain in Your blindsight realize even simply lowering Your chin is too much energy to waste on Negative Influences. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Accustomed to being in Control; Driving Myself Everywhere., anyone looking at My Life from the Outside would be able to see how it's a struggle for Me to completely Surrender. From the Inside Me knowing My mistakes & short comings realize the times that I struggled the most, had I just surrendered control to God I could've spared Myself alot of grief. You'd think as intelligent as I am, knowing the Creator is familiar with all the short cuts, the best route to take & will always take care of Me during My travels that I would've easily given him the wheel & assumed My position in the passenger's seat. Sometimes We can be so smart that We OutSmart Ourselves.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When people ask Me where I'm headed My response leaves most thinking I'm delusional in My future expectations without being a Trump or from widely Known Royalty. However without it being publicized I'm a heir to the Throne. Like My "Nay-Sayers" don't think I'm Phenomenal they Know I Am & so do I. The only one who hasn't gotten the Memo about Your Success is You. As Your Biggest Competition at times You have to get Out of Your own way. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: A House Divided is an Unstable Foundation, to reach your goals You need to be on solid ground; AnyThing/One that causes Distractions or Discouragement has to be removed. If you wanted to climb to the Top of anything would you plant your ladder on cement or in quicksand? Your Family & Home take precedence over Everything. Friends that cause a wedge between You & Your Mate probably aren't Friends. At times to Love Your Man up close You have to Love Your Friends from a distance. True Friends are Priceless while False Friends are costly. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Only after You’ve Perfected the Skill of Loving Yourself, can You Master the Art of Loving Anyone else. Charity starts at home. I'm not ProMale or ProFemale; I'm ProTRUTH . Knowlege is Priceless, Powerful & Everyone can benefit from some. Rest Easy All. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: As a single Mom I know how hard it is on a single income. However if the Father is unable to pay as much as We'd like for ChildSupport We need to think twice about getting him incarcerated truth be told children need their Dad's more than they do Dollars. When emotions are running high We tend to go for the jugular; "If I can't have Him No one can" We have to keep in mind Our Children as a part of the "No One" population? Before You Lash out at Me try to Learn with Me. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Anger is the Secondary Emotion; the mask that Hurt the Primary Emotion wears when its ashamed to show it's face. An Angered Spirit is a Tortured Spirit. What’s heard is "I'm Mad at You" when what’s said is "I'm in Pain". The Best people can make the Worst mistakes & the Worst Results can stem from the Best Intentions; without the ability to Forgive, We limit Our ability to Love. If You Love Someone, "Let them Know"; if You can't stand them "Let it Go". it takes much more energy to hold grudges then to just live Free. Harboring resentment gives the same entity that caused You grief, Power over Your Mind, Body, Soul & Spirit ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Anger is the secondary emotion; the mask that Hurt wears when its ashamed to show its face. An Angered Spirit is a Tortured Spirit. What’s heard is "I'm Mad at You" when what’s said is "I'm in Pain". The Best people can make the Worst mistakes & the Worst Results can stem from the Best Intentions; without the ability to Forgive, We limit Our ability to Love. If You Love Someone, "Let them Know", but if You can't stand them "Let it Go". it takes much more energy to hold grudges then to just live Free. Harboring resentment gives the same entity that caused You grief, Power over Your Mind, Body, Soul & Spirit ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Once You've won the Victory in Your mind, the Victories in Your Life become less challenging. Know that You'll succeed in either of Two ways:it’s Going to happen, or You’ll Make it happen, those are Your Only Options; Notice Failure is Not One of Them. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

We all make mistakes, We have to get passed them & learn not to repeat them so as opposed to beating Ourselves up about them We need to be Thankful for them. The fact of the matter is We're better than who We were before but still not as Great as We're going to be. There are Blessings all around Us. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

You're a Child of God before anything else, thus God should be the center of All You do. It's not about You & Them; It's about You & HIM. Your religion isn't nearly as important as Your Relationship. Learn to see Yourself as God see's You, then You'll Become who he knows You To Be. We're instructed to call things as they will be Not as they are. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Positive. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

You have to Let Go of who You were, to become who You’re going to be; its called Your Past because You've moved passed it & it's behind You. Inorder to Get it Right, We first have to get it wrong. Mistakes are speed bumps or road blocks that Have Detours, NOT Dead-Ends; so Never abandon Hope. Fear is the Antithesis of Faith. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

If a Tree falls in the forest & No one is around to hear it, Does it Make a Sound? Better still if a Man is threatened by a Woman so much so that he resorts to Gossip is He a Man??... Random Thought ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

If You're destined for Greatness Constructive Criticism will make You Better; If You're destined for Failure Constructive Criticism will make You Bitter. Adulthood is a hard pill to swallow. They talked about Jesus too; somethings We just have to learn to ignore. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Life too short, to squander Your existence trying to live someone else's Dreams. Don't be restrained by living with the results of other's failed attempts or interpretation of what a Good Life is. Prevent the negative opinions of other's from stifling Your Goals & Aspirations. Be courageous enough to follow Your Spirit.. Your competitors don't Think You're a Success story they Know You Are. Prove them Right. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

An Optimist chases their Dreams while a Pessimist runs from their Nightmares. Don't miss out on a Successful Life because Your too afraid to venture into the Unknown. EveryThing/One familiar isn't always the Best for You. Just because You're a friend to Someone that doesn't make them a Friend to You. In life We learn to remove the Negative from Our Circle to make room for the Positive. Once We take the dead weight off Our wings We're not only able to Fly but to Soar.  The Difference between Good & Great is the Faith You posses & that Extra Effort. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2011

Don’t sacrifice Your dreams because others lack vision, without Your Eyes they cant see what You see. Depend on God & Lean on Yourself; realize to be where You’ve Never Been, You have to do what You’ve Never Done, so Never Fear. Somethings happen For a Reason & somethings happen to Give You a Reason; don’t get Discouraged. As Children of God We Never fail Because of, We Excel Inspite of. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Stand Firm on His Promise. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2011  

You have to Let Go of who You were, to become who You’re going to be; its called Your Past because You've moved passed it & it's behind You. Inorder to Get it Right, We first have to get it wrong. Mistakes are speed bumps or road blocks with Detours, NOT Dead-Ends. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2011

God will Talk to You if You take the time to Listen to Him & on that same note he'll Listen to You if You take the time to talk to Him. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. Trying to emotionally prepare to lay an Awesome Brother to rest in the morning. Good Night All. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Fear is the antithesis of Faith & Failure is Foul Language. Just to abandon all hope when things get tough is like spitting in God's face. Where do We get the notion that life is easy? What's weight training without resistance?...Pointless. Difficult doesn't mean Impossible. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2011

Identify Your Need, Understand Your Obstacle, Recognize Your Responsibility, and Become Your Answer. Life may not be going the way You intended, but it is going EXACTLY the way God planned it; Things happen by Appointment Not Accident. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Our scars can be a GPS to remind Us of where We’ve been & where We don’t ever want to go again. We all make mistakes the key is to learn from them & not repeat them. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2011

Just because You're spinning Your wheels it doesn't mean You're going anywhere; some journeys are endless because that particular destination is Not for You; don't be afraid to change direction. It's easy to confuse Moving & Progressing. Taking a Spinning class & cycling cross-country both provide exercise but only one will expose You to new cultures & broaden Your horizons. Just like Payers with no Faith amount to dead words. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Enlightened. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Sew a seed in You. You can’t want something for someone More than they want it for themselves. Not Sobriety, not Integrity, not even Christ. Only a fool takes the Same Actions & expect Different Results. Realize the only way to make a Nickle into “A Dime” or Ignorance into Intelligence is to add CHANGE. The More Change, the More increase in Value. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

For some reason a lot of Us that profess to be grounded in Our faith tend to be very judgmental regarding the walk of others Without possibly knowing what anyone's true situation is or how its affecting them. Something that may just barely phase You stands to cripple someone else or vice/versa as we have different levels of Hell. It's not Our place to judge. God helps those who help themselves but he tends to favor those who help others. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

You can't want something for someone more than they want it for themselves. Although We may want to help sometimes We're stepping on God's toes. He's the Father & will discipline accordingly. Some valuable Lessons & Blessings come from struggles so on occasion the best help You can offer someone You Love is to turn away & pray for them. You can't afford to sacrifice Your walk for Anyone especially Someone who doesn't Love themself. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman: Sisters we have to be mindful of our behaviors infront of our children. Our daughters learn their self-worth from observing Us. Disrespecting Ourselves & not Loving Ourselves teaches Our daughters not only that Self Love & Respect are unimportant but that demanding it from a potential mate is not a factor. They may not do what We say but they’ll do what We do. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

It may be the Most Difficult Task to pray for Someone who means You Nothing but Harm however keep in mind after the Toughest Fight comes the Greatest Reward! Be thankful You Are not where They Are anymore. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Above the Negativity ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

A Determined Person doesn't find it hard to SUCCEED; they find it hard to stop trying. If You do whatever it takes to get to where/what You want, it can’t help but be worth it. Become a Champion standing over the shadow of Your former self. We 're all works in Progress that stand to learn from Our mistakes by stepping back, evaluating & changing direction. The further You pull an Arrow back within its Bow the further it catapults forward. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged; See You At The Top!! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules:Choose a Man & not just a male. A male flatters You, a Man Compliments You; a male spends on You, a Man invests in You; a male treats You like Property, a Man treats You Properly; a male lusts after You, a Man Lusts to Love You; a male thinks He's God's gift to Women, a Man Knows Woman is God's gift to Man. Knowledge is Power & Sister You are Powerful ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules:Choose a Man & not just a male. A male flatters You, a Man Compliments You; a male spends on You, a Man invests in You; a male treats You like Property, a Man treats You Properly; a male lusts after You, a Man Lusts to Love You; a male thinks He's God's gift to Women, a Man Knows Woman is God's gift to Man. Knowledge is Power & Sister You are Powerful ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

http://ping.fm/aMxp6 Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Without wanting to be, You found Yourself now "Single". Sis, it is what it is. Take a class or read a book to develop Your Mind. Join a gym to develop Your Body. Pray to develop Your Relationship with God. Meditate to develop Clarity & get re-familiar with"You". Flesh bruises, Hearts scar. The Healing process works from, the Inside, Out. Since You're back on the Market take the time to increase Your Property Value. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Life is short so Love Carelessly; if You get hurt, know what doesn't kill You makes You stronger & Destiny Always finds its way. Love Your haters, they're Your Secret Admirers Make Love with Your eyes closed as the best things in life are Priceless & Unseen. Remember every minute You spend sad is 60 seconds of joy You lost. Life is Appointments not Accidents, so plan to Live Out Loud & remember if You settle for Less than You deserve You'll end up with Less than You Need or Ever Expected ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Sisters We need to leave a Lasting Impression. The only thing Better than Being Loved is Loving. Understand His Past, Believe in His future & Accept Him all the same. Be the type of Woman that's Hard to find, Painful to leave & Impossible to forget for being made from His rub by birth You're already what he needs. The title "Woman" is more Powerful & Prestigious than some of Us realize... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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I Love Me Some "Him"... not what He drives, but what drives Him, not how He moves, but what moves Him. I pray for Him & He prays for Himself. He has a Big heart & I'm always in it. He allows Me to teach Him & He's anxious to learn Me. He has several friends but He's strongest when He stands alone. I can Live without Him but I just don't want to. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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Loving someone one & being in Love with someone are two different entities. Love is like a Good Man & an Orgasm, You don't know what You've been missing until You have one; once You have one there's no question in Your mind. No matter how articulate You are, words can't express the feeling; You have to experience it inorder to relate to it. Speechless for Good Reason. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

If You're capable of Thinking Outside the Box, looking where Everyone else has looked & seeing what No One Else has seen. You're destined to Achieve what They think is Impossible. Life may offer You what You Deserve but it'll Give You what You Demand. Demand the Best of Both Life & Yourself. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: When He says " I Do" We can't take that as the Green Light for Us to always say "I Don't". Not insinuating it's okay to venture outside of Your relationship for feeling neglected however being completely honest all things have Cause & Effect. In most cases when all that We want is at a particular store We're less likely to shop anywhere else. Making a Man feel Unwanted or Uncomfortable can only cause from problems. Keeping Him happy is a form of Preventative Medicine to protect You from Divorce ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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Just pondering…How dare you demand your mate to be a Soldier when you’re barely even a Girl Scout?? The best medicine is usually hard to swallow but very effective. Stay Prayerful, Encouraged & REALISTIC! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

A House Divided creates an Unstable Foundation . In order to reach your goals You need to be on solid ground; Anything that causes Distractions or Discouragement has to be removed. If you wanted to climb to the Top of anything would you plant your ladder on cement or in quicksand? Your Family & Home take precedence over Everything. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Appreciative for what You've been blessed with... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

People like Gravity will either Elevate You or weigh You Down. In theory its important to associate Yourself with those Who are doing better; those Who are where You inspire to be. Your state of mind should be if You're not going to Heaven with Me; I'm Not going to Hell with You. Life is Progress & Death is Stagnant. We're given free will so the choice in direction is Ours. The Only way to Soar is by abandoning whatever's weighing You down. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

God uses Us as vehicles in each other's lives, allowing Us to transport one another from one level to the next. Everyone serving a specific purpose in both Our life & the lives of those who's paths We cross. People who've treated Us the worst & Places that bear the most difficult memories should be manipulated to ensure We Appreciate Our current conditions. Life happens in seasons & All Seasons bear a Reason. Try to Learn Everything ¬ to regret Anything ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

If Your Ambition & Potential makes Your Peers feel inadequate. You may need to find New Peers. Surround Yourself with those achieving Goals from Dreams You have yet to have; not for the purpose of looking down on anyone, but for incentive to keep striving for better. If Your Peers are threatened by Your Success, They Will Without Question Threaten Your Success. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Scripture says: "Lean not to Your Own Understanding"; that shows Us that something's Are Not, Will Not & Need Not be Clear to Us. Ultimately God is in Control & Will take care of It. God doesn't Have to "Make Sense" because He's the one who "Made Sense". Reasons, Seasons or Lifetimes, all things at their appointed time; whether or not it's "Convenient" for Us. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

My Rose Colored Glasses were so thick & having so many pairs that at times it became difficult for Me to recognize My Own Reflection...  "Rose Colored Glasses" by Neciaism Copyright © 2011

The reality is there's a thin line between Loving My man & Worshiping him. I had to put things into prospective as a common thread in every religion was the level of sin that worshipping anyThing/One other than God fell into. Again scripture echoes in My head "Whomsoever You choose to follow lest You become slave to it"...  "Rose Colored Glasses" by Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Scripture reads if a Man doesn't work He shouldn't eat. We have to Pray like Our Life depends on God & work like Our Life's results depend on Ourselves. Sometimes We may feel like Our prayers are falling on deaf ears; however it's quite the contrary. Its just that We know what We Want while God knows what We Need & the two aren't always synonymous. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Just when You think You can't take anymore, right when it feels like You've had all You can handle, here comes Grace to prove You wrong. If You Must, You Can & If You Can, then You Must. We really don’t Know what we’re capable of until We have no choice in the matter. Failure is Not an Option. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged for as a Believer You Know All things are possible. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Pride You will Not Over-Shadow My Humility, Fear You will Not Hinder My Progress, Sickness You will Not take My Life, Sadness You will Not Steal My Joy & Anger You will Not Block My Blessings! Only The Size of Your Faith in God should be Bigger than the Knowledge of or Confidence You have in Yourself. Light always victors over Darkness. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

God's path for You will not be His path for Me, so refrain for telling me How to Get To Heaven, as I'll probably get there using Directions that You Don't have. Be as consumed with fulfilling Your personal Obligations as You are with What Your Neighbor Is/Isn't doing. Even the Most religious of people fail to realize that only One Opinion really matters. Both in Driving & in Life remember to Stay in Your Lane. Remain Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

You're Amazing! It's not about You & Them; It's about You & HIM. Your religion isn't nearly as important as Your Relationship. Learn to see Yourself as God see's You, then You'll Become who he knows You To Be. We're instructed to call things as they will be Not as they are. You are More than a Conqueror remember?? Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Not just scriptural but also Spiritual, not Your religion but Your Relationship, not just prayer but also Praise, Your words may flatter but Your behavior bears the Compliments, not Your talk but Your Walk. I have Yet to be where I'm going but I've come so far from where I've been. Whatever You're called to Do or Whomever You been elected to Be, be the Absolute Best at it. Even when You're number One work & pray like You're number Two. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

I see the Invisible, Believe in the Impossible, can touch the Unreachable, so My Achievments are Incredible & My Spirit is Invincible! You Are Only as Successful as YOU Believe You Are. Through Life's disappointments We tend to get "beat down" just remember You have to go through Hell to truly appreciate Heaven. Our Trials give Us Our Testimony as while We endure We're acquiring knowledge & planting seeds in Our own Existence. You weren't cursed with Your Life; Your Life was Blessed with You. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Refrain from Verbally doubting Yourself. Proclaiming “I Can’t”, stating “I’m Going to Fail” causes the forces around You to comply with Your wishes. The WORD says Whom or Whatsoever We choose to obey, We will become slave to it. Grasp the meaning of this quote & realize We have the ability to Speak Life into both Superiority & Subservience, make Your decisions on speech wisely. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: We receive what We project. I signed up for a Singles Ministry today noticing a female who Only smiles at the Pastor everyone else doesn't even get direct eye contact. A Smile or Pleasant Appearance costs nothing while being a Priceless attribute. This Sister was so Blatantly Bitter that even without Me having a Penis she made Me lose My erection; if I were a Man I wouldn't approach Her either. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

I see the Invisible, Believe in the Impossible, can touch the Unreachable, so My Achievments are Incredible & My Spirit is Invincible! You Are Only as Successful as YOU Believe You Are.  Through Life's disappointments We tend to get "beat down" just remember You have to go through Hell to truly appreciate Heaven.  Our Trials give Us Our Testimony as  while We endure We're acquiring knowledge & planting seeds in Our own Existence.  You weren't cursed with Your Life; Your Life was Blessed with You. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

People like Gravity will either Elevate You or weigh You Down. In theory its important to associate Yourself with those Who are doing better; those Who are where You inspire to be. Your state of mind should be if You're not going to Heaven with Me; I'm Not going to Hell with You. Life is Progress & Death is Stagnant. We're given free will so the choice in direction is Ours. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When You rise above where people think You should be, they tend to have a problem with it. Your Success can be offensive to others; this amongst other reasons make some of Us afraid to Excel. If You have to be afraid of anything, be afraid of not giving it Your All at All Times. When You don't use Your Gifts You forfeit Your Blessings. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

What You Go Thru in life will make You a Survivor, what You Accomplish in life will make You a Winner, what you Overcome in Life will make You a Success & what You think You are makes You what You Are. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2011

Boldly believe in You, what You do and in what You Will accomplish; Act on that knowledge even if You have the highest of obstacles in front of You. The only thing that Will stop You from crossing, climbing or going through those obstacles is what You think about Yourself. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2011

Faith is not pretending that struggles don’t exist; it’s Trust & Understanding that they won’t last forever. We Live inorder to Experience, We Experience inorder to Learn, we Learn inorder to Teach. When You find Your way thru offer someone lost the directions because Karma doesn’t move in a straight line it travels in circles. Stay Prayerful, Positive & Encouraging.~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

I had an Epiphany this week; I'm No where ready to be married yet. A big part of Loving & Knowing anyone else is Loving & Knowing Yourself. This who I am, Take it or Leave it. I can't apologize for it because I'm Not Sorry, I'm just Me. One Year to be Fortune 500 Tunnell vision is mandatory; only death will block My success ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

A true fisherman will tell You the caliber of Fish You catch is indicative of Your quality of bait & where You cast Your line. Men stop looking for Wives on “Poles” & Women stop looking for Husbands in the "Audience”. Not saying Either will Never be able to rise to the occasion but it Won’t Be Today; Girl-Scouts cant be held to the standards of a Soldier. If You want to be taken Seriously You have to be Serious, c'mon now. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

As a part of the Most Intelligent Life form I find it thought provoking that even realizing the 3 certainties, the sole shared experiences of ALL humans beings, having Zero odds: Birth, Life & Death; Most of Us are Afraid to Live, but still Scared to Die. Take the Brakes off Your Life & Ride it 'til the wheels fall off. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

There is no such thing as a Good, Bad or Failed Soldier. Being labeled a Soldier is to be deserving of the highest compliment; it needs no prefix or description it’s self explanatory, it’s a Defined Term, like Dead or Alive. Either You Are or You’re Not but don't confuse being a Girl-Scout with being a Soldier. Not only is more required of a Soldier but they're Born while Girl Scouts are created. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & REALISTIC. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

There is no such thing as a Good, Bad or Failed Soldier. Being labeled a Soldier is to be deserving of the highest compliment; it needs no prefix or description it’s self explanatory, it’s a Defined Term, like Dead or Alive. Either You Are or You’re Not but don't confuse being a Girl-Scout with being a Soldier. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & REALISTIC. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

The Best defense against a Miserable Spirit, is a Compassionate one that can rise above the situation & identify the Bigger Picture; so Love Someone who Hates You & Help Someone who Hurt You. After the most difficult struggle follows the Biggest Blessings & after the Biggest Blessing follows the Greatest Reward. Its ironic, Most of the time people only Think they hate You; infact they hate what & whom You remind them of & sometimes You bear a striking resemblance to who they wish they could be. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

The Best defense against a Miserable Spirit, is a Compassionate one that can rise above the situation & identify the Bigger Picture; so Love Someone who Hates You & Help Someone who Hurt You. After the most difficult struggle follows the Biggest Blessings & after the Biggest Blessing follows the Greatest Reward. Its ironic, Most of the time people only Think they hate You; infact they hate what & whom You remind them of sometimes You resemble who they wish they could be. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Downplaying Our Gifts, Blessings & Intelligence so other's won't feel insecure doesn't serve God & to serve God is why Man was created. Our psyche is an obscure entity; We convince Ourselves We're afraid to fail when in actuality We're afraid to succeed. "As A Man Thinketh In His Heart So Is He" We owe it to the Creator to reach Our full potential. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Letting him lead isn’t a “Bad or Weak thing”. As adults We realize that infact Everything & Everyone has it’s place. Sis if You allow Your man to be “the Man” it demonstrates Your Knowledge of Self as well as the security You have in the Woman You are. Real Men are drawn to a secure Woman like moths to a flame; while Boys feed of the insecure like Flies on S#!t; the type of Woman You are will dictate the type of Man You Attract, Obtain & Deserve. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Our deepest fear isn't Inadequacy, its being Powerful beyond thought. Light, intimidates Us not Darkness. Questioning:"Who am I to be Brilliant, Talented, Successful?"Well Who are You NOT to be? As a child of God, Shrinking so other's won't feel insecure doesn't serve God. We're created to Manifest & Magnify God. Letting Your Light shine, gives others whom are Worthy the courage to do the same. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Tomorrow is Guaranteed even though You & I are Not. Get it done Today. Intentions are Questionable but Actions are Concrete. Don’t let who You were, hinder who You Will Be. Success like Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder & if You Love Someone tell the Today because You may not Live to See Tomorrow. Procrastination is the Only thing that should be put off to do Later. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright  © 2011

Tomorrow is Guaranteed even though You & I are Not. Get it done Today. Intentions are Questionable but Actions are Concrete. Don’t let who You were, hinder who You Will Be. Success like Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder & if You Love Someone tell the Today because You may not Live to See Tomorrow. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright  © 2011

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No matter what age I'm blessed to grow to, how much wisdom I'm blessed to obtain, how much strength I'm blessed to acquire I question ever being able to handle the death of a Loved One.. R.I.P. Kevin Daniels. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Pray for Me Everyone I'm about to try out this Do It Yourself Eyebrow Wax kit... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism.

Sometimes We have to bite Our Tongues & swallow Our Pride in order to feed Our Family It'sTimeToGrowUp ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Never abandon what’s obviously Yours but Flawed to covet what's seemingly Flawless but Someone else’s. A level of Respect is earned with repairing Your own Home in lieu of packing up, relocating & subletting Your Sister’s House. Layman's Trems: If You Leave Your Man to sleep with her's, You'll end up in a Manage' Trois with Karma & Trust Me she's the Real Bitch ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

More than What You said, what’ll be remembered is How You Made them feel; I'd rather be hesitant in my speech then reckless with it's content. Everyday Life isn’t staffed with Editors so comments are not retractable & not too many weapons cut like the Tongue. The Flesh Bruises while Hearts Scar & Break, so when We open Our Mouths to talk We have to be mindful to actually Say Something. Stay Prayerful, Encouraged & Focused ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

What's behind You fails into comparison to what's. Infront of You. Faith directs Us to use Our peripherals for right & left, concentrate on Onward & Upward. Disregard the rear & proceed Forward Boldy because God is indefinitely watching Your back. Have a Blessed, Safe & Prosperous Wednesday, The Best is Yet to Come! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Men are instinctively drawn to Strength, However there is a Significant Difference between being a “Strong Woman” & Acting Like A Man. Men want Wives Not Husbands. If You make him feel like Less Of A Man, he will behave like Less Of A Man. Having a relationship is not a job but maintaining & or obtaining a successful one does requires work. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: We have to Understand the differences between Men & Women far surpasses the physical. We actually speak different languages; so Sisters try to keep in mind just because You said something that doesn't necessarily mean He heard it. Anything/ONE worth having requires work. Stay Prayerful, PATIENT, Focused & Encouraged. Realize most words are subject to interpretation ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Having Mommy routines its easy to get confused between being a Mother & a Spouse. Our tone is just as important as Our request & if the request sounds like a Demand there'll be a conflict. What You want won't matter as much as the fact that You're "Telling Him What to Do". Grown Men would rather be talked to than Talked At. It's not always what We said sometimes it's the way We say it. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When You scream at Her, He'll whisper Sweet Nothing's in Her ear. When You humiliate, offend, and insult Her, He'll compliment, defend & support Her. When You  hurt Her, He'll ease Her pain. When You make Her cry, He'll wipe away Her tears; so don't worry about being Good to Her because Someone else will. One Man's trash is another Man's Treasure. Women aren't as complicated as We may appear Liking a Bad Man will make Us Love a Good one.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: When a Male is respectful, responsible & mature, that doesn't make him "corny" it makes him a Man. Having poor examples of Masculinity from Our childhood We tend to get confused when choosing a mate. Quite often We bypass Clark Kent looking for SuperMan. Chivalry is Not Dead, Women being Disrespected Is. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: After You've been Self-Sufficient for sometime its hard to relinquish that "Head of Household" status & let a Man be a Man so We tend to offer up Somethings but seldom EVERYTHING/Be Completely Honest. Women like Myself who Stress Honesty in relationships, need to Accept; You can't be Honest with Anyone else if You can't even be Honest with Yourself. Men want Wives not Husbands ~LuvUMuch Neciaism © 2011

Hard doesn’t mean Impossible, Far doesn’t mean Unreachable, Broken doesn't mean Irreparable. Plan Your Direction, Strategize Your Movement, Define Your Goal & Claim Your Victory so Your Dreams can be Your REALITY. Dream Big & Live Bigger. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Pride You will Not Over-Shadow My Humility, Fear You will Not Hinder My Progress, Sickness You will Not take My Life, Sadness You will Not Steal My Joy & Anger You will Not Block My Blessings! Only The Size of Your Faith in God should be Bigger than the Knowledge of or Confidence You have in Yourself. Light always victors over Darkness. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: No matter how much of a “Bitch” his wife is, How unattractive She may be or make Him feel like He is; make no mistake that’s still His wife. When You let squatters live in Your House You bring down Your property value. Sisters We deserve to be Purchased not Rented or Leased; settling is what Debris does & Debris is only appealing to Scavengers. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: No matter how much of a “Bitch” his wife is, How unattractive She may be or make Him feel like He is; make no mistake that’s still His wife. When You let squatters live in Your House You bring down Your property value. Sisters We deserve to be Purchased not Rented or Leased; settling is what Debris does. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: No matter how much of a “Bitch” his wife is, How unattractive She may be or make Him feel like He is; make no mistake that’s still His wife. When You let squatters live in Your House You bring down Your property value. Sisters We deserve to be Purchased not Rented; settling is what Debris does. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: When He says " I Do" We can't take that as the Green Light for Us to always say "I Don't".  Not insinuating it's okay to venture outside of Your relationship for feeling neglected however being completely honest all things have Cause & Effect. In most cases when all that We want is at a particular store We're less likely to shop anywhere else. Making a Man feel Unwanted or Uncomfortable can only cause from problems. Keeping Him happy is a form of Preventative Medicine to protect You from Divorce ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011 

My Rose Colored Glasses are so thick & I have so many pairs that at times it became difficult for Me to recognize My Own Reflection...  "Rose Colored Glasses" by Neciaism Copyright © 2011

I’ve been screamed at but managed to Hear Nothing, been pushed before but managed to Stand Still, been hit before but managed to Endure the Pain, You can pull on Me all You want to but You’ll Never be Able to Pull Me Down. Not all Soldiers wear Combat Boots some of us adorn Stilettos. I'm a Living Testimony that as a Man thinketh in His Heart so is He; Stay Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When We’re too distressed to Pray; We need to resort to Worship. It Empowers Us to exercise Our God given ability to Will peace into Existence. If You were on a sinking ship in the middle of the ocean & God threw You a Life-Jacket You’d be a fool not to use it & deserve to drown. He Never said it would be Easy however if He said it at all You know its Possible; Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Just when You think You can't take anymore, right when it feels like You've had all You can handle, here comes Grace to prove You wrong. If You Must, You Can & If You Can, then You Must. We really don’t Know what we’re capable of until We have no choice in the matter. Failure is Not an Option. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged for as a Believer You Know All things are possible. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Living thru Trauma means that You survived it, that doesn't You'll never have to face again or it won't resurface without receiving Closure. At times We need to reflect & ask Ourselves did I really "Get Over It" or did I simply Move Past It & put it on the back burner until I'm ready to deal with it? Self Improvement & healing requires Self Reflection. As "Works in Progress" We tend to put problems in Pandora's box & secretly beat up on Ourselves. Once We learn to See Ourselves as God sees Us We can accept Who We are & learn to be Who He knows Us to be. Stay Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

At times we have to tap into Our “Inner Contortionist”: It's not Your circumstances that shape You, It's how You shape according to Your circumstances. If You’re capable of changing Your Mind, You’re capable of changing Your Life. Think about it Flexible people don't break or get “Bent out of Shape”. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Although I Love to hear about the positive contributions of Black Men I don't like the fact that it's considered "rare". There're many Intelligent, Family Orientated, Hard Working, Great Husbands & Fathers who happen to be Men of color. We don't like to be labeled; however We can't behave in a manner that substantiates the labels. As a culture We are so much more than Michael Jordan, T.D. Jakes & Bill Cosby. Let's Get it together so that We can All Get It Together ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Although I like to hear about the positive contributions of Black Men I don't like the fact that it's considered "rare". There're many Intelligent, Family Orientated, Hard Working, Great Husbands & Fathers who happen to be Men of color. We don't like to be labeled; however We can't behave in a manner that substantiates the labels. As a culture We are so much more than Michael Jordan, T.D. Jakes & Bill Cosby. Let's Get it together so that We can All Get It Together ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

You can't make Everyone You come across happy, as Everyone You come across will not want to Be Happy. All You can do is be the Best You that You can Be, shine like the Star You were created to Be & Let No One/Nothing dim Your light. If God sees You doing what You can do, he'll show up & do what You can't do. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2011

No You can't judge a book by it's cover but You can get a good idea of it's content if  You' pay attention to the section of literature it's placed in within the library or bookstore that You find it. Familiarize Yourself with the crowd Your significant other keeps; in Your eyesight they may be the Extreme Opposite of all of their friends however keep in mind this is within Your Eyesight. Nuns don't fellowship with Whores. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Loving someone one & being in Love with someone are two different entities. Love is like a Good Man & an Orgasm, You don't know what You've been missing until You have one; once You have one there's no question in Your mind. No matter how articulate You are, words can't express the feeling; You have to experience it inorder to relate to it. Speechless for Good Reason. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright© 2011

Okay I want Forever Lazies for Christmas & if Y'all order now You'll get two with two pairs of matching socks for only 29.99! Thank You in advance ;-) ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

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