Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Created from a rib, We were intended to be Help-Mates; Ignorance has since made that term a "badge of shame", a sign of Weakness & Stupidity. It takes Courage to play Your position & Intelligence to know what Your position is. Respect the honor of Him being the Man. Appreciate the prestige of being the Woman & Embrace them both as We all have Our designated roles; that's not sexist opinion, it's a TRUE Statement. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Loving someone one & being in Love with someone are two different entities. Love is like a Good Man & an Orgasm, You don’t know what You’ve been missing until You have one; once You have one there’s no question in Your mind. No matter how articulate You are, words can’t express the feeling; You have to experience it inorder to relate to it. God is truly the Grand Architect; designing Man & Woman like puzzle pieces to perfectly fit together forming a Phenomenal picture. Appreciative & Speechless for Good Reason... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

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Loving someone one & being in Love with someone are two different entities. Love is like a Good Man & an Orgasm, You don’t know what You’ve been missing until You have one; once You have one there’s no question in Your mind. No matter how articulate You are, words can’t express the feeling; You have to experience it inorder to relate to it. God is truly the Grand Architect; designing Man & Woman like puzzle pieces to perfectly fit together forming a Phenomenal picture. Appreciative & Speechless for Good Reason... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

I saw a thought provoking sign online, it read: "I asked God to protect Me from All of My enemies & then I started Losing Friends"... Deep right? It occurred to Me that people are like Gravity, if They aren't lifting You up They're dragging You down. Life lessons; We can't expect to fly with dead weight on Our wings. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Identify Your Need, Understand Your Obstacle, Recognize Your Responsibility, and Become Your Answer. Life may not be going the way You intended, but it is going EXACTLY the way God planned it; Things happen by Appointment Not Accident. I'm Not where I want to be but I'm miles from where I've been & not too far from where Im headed. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Recognize the Blessing in any "Bad relationship" for without Knowing Bad We wouldn't Identify & Appreciate Good. We're in each others lives for Reasons, Seasons or Lifetimes & it doesn't have to be a Lifetime inorder to make a difference. People who serve their purpose & then moving on, isn't Bad or Good; It's Life. Some people You have to Love from a distance so that You can properly Love Yourself. Anyone can get a Friend but You have to be one inorder to keep one. Stay Prayerful. Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules:   Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Treat that Man like Who He Can & Will be. Not like Who he is or Was. Who wants to be reminded of their flaws? When we treat Our Men like royalty the pressure is on to Maintain Our Praise or Rise to the Occasion & Earn it.  Don't take for granted because men are physically the stronger sex that they are also emotionally superior. Sometimes all He needs is that boost of confidence from His better half to reach His full potential or even become aware of how much He's capable of. These Men don't Love Us as much as they Love the way We make them feel Sisters.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: When He says " I Do" We can't take that as the Green Light for Us to always say "I Don't".  Not insinuating it's okay to venture outside of Your relationship for feeling neglected however being completely honest all things have Cause & Effect. In most cases when all that We want is at a particular store We're less likely to shop anywhere else. Making a Man feel Unwanted or Uncomfortable can only cause problems. Keeping Him happy is a form of Preventative Medicine a mere form of protection against the "Miserable-ous Divorce-ous" virus that's running rapid amongst Us.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules:   Excluding infidelity We need not know Everything. Being too intrusive can make a Man feel pressured, claustrophobic & disrespected. I've found that with Men its not so much as what they're hiding being the issue it's more the invasion of their privacy & personal space. As a Grown Woman in a relationship We owe it to Our unions to Trust Him until He gives Us reason not to.  Realize being in a Loving committed relationship & still being individuals with Our own Lives is actually more sane than it is strange; which is why it's sad that it's so rare. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2012

Anger is the Secondary Emotion; the mask that Hurt the Primary Emotion wears when its ashamed to show it's face. An Angered Spirit is a Tortured Spirit. What’s heard is "I'm Mad at You" when what’s said is "I'm in Pain". The Best people can make the Worst mistakes & the Worst Results can stem from the Best Intentions; without the ability to Forgive, We limit Our ability to Love. If You Love Someone, "Let them Know"; if You can't stand them "Let it Go". It takes much more energy to hold grudges then to just live Free without the weight of a Burden. Harboring resentment gives the same entity that caused You grief, Power over Your Mind, Body, Soul & Spirit; God is the Only One worthy of that privilege. Why waste energy upsetting someone You don't even like? It's more sensible to dismiss them along with any & all I'll feelings. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

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Anger is the Secondary Emotion; the mask that Hurt the Primary Emotion wears when its ashamed to show it's face. An Angered Spirit is a Tortured Spirit. What’s heard is "I'm Mad at You" when what’s said is "I'm in Pain". The Best people can make the Worst mistakes & the Worst Results can stem from the Best Intentions; without the ability to Forgive, We limit Our ability to Love. If You Love Someone, "Let them Know"; if You can't stand them "Let it Go". It takes much more energy to hold grudges then to just live Free without the weight of a Burden. Harboring resentment gives the same entity that caused You grief, Power over Your Mind, Body, Soul & Spirit; God is the Only One worthy of that privilege. Why waste energy upsetting someone You don't even like?? ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

When people ask Me where I’m headed My response leaves most thinking I’m delusional in My planning & expectations without being a child of a Celebrity or from familiar Royal lineage. However without it being publicized I’m an heir to the Throne. Your “Nay-Sayers” don’t think You’re Destined for Greatness they Know it. The only one who hasn’t gotten the Memo about Your Amazing Future is You; Your Biggest Competition. At times Our vision is obscured & sight is blurred because Our own insecurities prevent Us from focusing. It's time to Get Out of Your own way. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

When people use their mouths to criticize You its because their Spirit Envies You. You are the person they wish they had the Courage to become. The enemy is Miserable & a Coward. Most people will Not congratulate You for Living Out Their Dreams or Achieving Their Goals. If You find You're lacking support realize what a threat You are to the enemy, how much Greatness You are on the verge of & that the enemy will stop at Nothing to dim Your light. Never allow Yourself to be guilted into forfeiting what God has for You. Shine like You were called on to do! Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

One would feel confident that this Director took these scenes from current Street Filmography however anyone who has ever resided within Camden, NJ knows that this is Nothing less than a daily documentary of what goes on within the restraints of this Small Inner World not City. Sad but True So few people with So Much Potential & So Little Knowlege of How Powerful & Positive They can be. From the Outside looking in You couldn't possibly understand it while from the Inside looking out We couldn't even explain  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

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One would feel confident that this Director took these scenes from current Street Filmography however anyone who has ever habitated within Camden, NJ knows that this is Nothing less than a daily documentary of what goes on within the restraints of this Small Inner World not City. Sad but True So few people with So Much Potential & So Little Knowlege of How Powerful & Positive They can be. From the Outside looking in You couldn't possibly understand it while from the Inside looking out We couldn't even explain Neciaism Copyright © 2012
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Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Sometimes when You're hurt & past the point of No Return Your only option is to ReLocate; go Elsewhere as You obviously need to be in a different "Space". Reluctantly You found Yourself "Single". It is what it is Sis. Take a class or read a book to develop Your Mind. Join a gym to develop Your Body. Pray & develop Your Relationship with God. Meditate to develop Clarity & get re-familiar with "You". Flesh may bruise, while the Heart scars & breaks. The Healing process works from, the Inside, Out so take care of You for a moment & Since You're back on the Market use that "Me time" to increase Your Property Value. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

If They want nothing to do with Your fight, then They should have nothing to do with Your Victory; real friends walk in when others walk out. In a crowd of false friends One can still manage to be lonely; again proof that Quality trumps Quantity. People are like Gravity they'll either help Elevate You or help Weigh You Down. As adults it's up to Us to distinguish the difference. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Observant. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © January 2012

‎"Tithe" like "Church" is an adjective not a noun. You can have Church anywhere & there's several ways to Tithe. Do Your own research, obtain proofs before just following Anyone's lead; religion & tradition are easily confused. To Believer's: Don't be fooled into the notion that inorder to tithe You're obligated to put 10% of Your minimum wage income into a collection plate when Your family has final notices that require immediate attention. No matter what religious Belief/Faith You subscribe to Your relationship with God is a personal one. He knows You as well as Your heart better than even You do. When You offer Your brother/sister a warm bed to lay in, a hot plate of food or even just a ride; You are infact titheing. To Religious Leaders: be mindful of leading Your congregation astray with faulty direction; understand You will be held accountable not only for them being lost but for the part You played in imposing Your Opinion in lieu of Fact. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

What makes Us think if We pray about Goals & or Desires but avoid working towards them they'll magically fall out of the sky? Scripture reads: "if a Man doesn't work he shouldn't eat" therefore We're required to get up, get out & make it happen. How effective would a weightless regimine be to someone who only thinks about changing their eating habits & working out? If You have to put off anything until another time, make it Procrastination. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & on Your Grind. We do what We Have To Today for the luxury of doing what We Want To Tomorrow. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

You can Respect Money & still not Worship it... Do You know the difference?Money can buy You a Bed but not Sleep, Clocks but not Time, Books but not Knowledge, a House but not a Home & Sex but not Love. More important than the Revenue & Blessings is the source from where they came. 2Peter 2:19 reads "You are a slave to whatever controls You." Never loose sight of Your very First Prayer/Where You(it all began) started.   Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Grounded.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

They say "Imitation" is the highest form of a compliment... I'm realizing it really irks Me to be complimented; Sheesh!  #HaveAnOriginalIdea CantBelieveBitersStillExist ~LuvUMuch Neciaism 

Forsaking All Insecurities & Trusting Him = FAITH. When We Truly Surrender We exhibit True Faith. Standing at the edge of a cliff God will either catch You or teach You how to fly. Realize even though You may not have been born a Trump or a Hilton as a new creature in Christ You are More than a Conqueror & an heir to the Throne; identified as such before Your mother's womb even knew You. Sometimes We go through Pain solely to Appreciate the Pleasure; Your Test will be Your Testimony. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © January 2012

Forsaking All Insecurities & Trusting Him = FAITH. When We Truly Surrender We exhibit True Faith. Standing at the edge of a cliff God will either catch You or teach You how to fly. Realize even though You may not have been born a Trump or a Hilton as a new creature in Christ You are More than a Conqueror; identified as such before Your mother's womb even knew You. Sometimes We go through Pain solely to Appreciate the Pleasure; Your Test will be Your Testimony. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © January 2012

You'd spend less time waiting for Serpants to revert back to walking upright than You would waiting for a Habitual Liar to tell the Truth or be Trusted..Not everyone surrounding You when You're on top of the world is a Friend. True Friends stay around long after the Party's over to help You clean up the Mess(both figuratively & literally). Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware; for True Friends are Priceless where as False Friends tend to be Expensive.. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Due to Our stubborn nature, it's only when We get hurt after a fall that We Learn. Everyone makes mistakes but as adults we shouldn't be repeating them; with Error should come Growth as in Child to Adult, Novice to Expert. Evolution is Monkey to Man NOT Man to Monkey. Wipe away the tears, abandon the Self Pitty & Regret; make a Concios decision to be defined by Your Future & Not Your past. Trials are Nothing but the beginning of another Victory; You are More than a Conqueror. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

It may be the Most Difficult Task to pray for Someone who means You Nothing but Harm however keep in mind after the Toughest Fight comes the Greatest Reward! Be Thankful You Are not where They Are anymore. To Whom much is given much is required so alot of blessings usually mean alot of round-trips on the Humble High Road. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Above the Negativity;remember whatever it is You are Bigger & Better than the situation. Have a Phenomenally Blessed week All!! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Love is not a Boomerang; there's no guarantee that when You throw it out there it'll come back to You. Sometimes You have to turn away from someone You truly Love inorder to truly Love Yourself. As Big as this world is realize only debris was designed to settle; Be steadfast & patient for what(who) You want; Brothers, You'll find Her & Sisters, He'll find You. Sometimes We're forced to put Our walk where Our faith is;Faith is not demonstrated in Prayer followed by Worry, We have to Completely Surrender. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

God uses Us as vehicles in each other's lives, allowing Us to transport one another from one level to the next. Everyone serving a specific purpose in both Our life & the lives of those who's paths We cross. People who've treated Us the worst & Situations that bear the most difficult memories can be manipulated to ensure We Appreciate Our current conditions. Life happens in seasons & All Seasons bear a Reason. People, Places & Things need not be Permanent fixtures inorder to make a difference. Life is the Grand Academy where We gain most of Our knowlege so like any school We Graduate & Elevate from one level to the next; thus the addage "Live & Learn" Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Love is not a Boomerang; there's no guarantee that when You throw it out there it'll come back to You. Sometimes You have to turn away from someone You truly Love inorder to truly Love Yourself. As Big as this world is realize only debris was designed to settle; Be steadfast & patient for what(who) You want; Brothers, You'll find Her & Sisters, He'll find You. Sometimes We're forced to put Our walk where Our faith is... Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

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How human is Our President? I KNOW Michelle handled her handle that night! I Love the First Family!! Destined for Greatness!! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: As Women we act off of Emotions & the fact of the matter is We are proned to Talk Too Much. At times We allow situations to get Blown Out of Proportion by Running Off at The Mouth. It's impossible to HEAR or LISTEN while we're Talking. Ironically sometimes We have to Close Our Mouths & Open Our Minds inorder to be heard. They say a majority of Communicating is listening thus why We have ONE mouth & TWO Ears. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: After You've been Self-Sufficient for sometime its hard to relinquish that "Head of Household" status & let a Man be a Man so We tend to offer up Somethings but seldom EVERYTHING/Be Completely Honest. Women like Myself who Stress Honesty in relationships, need to Accept if You can't be Honest with You can't be honest with Him. See when We say We want the "Truth" we're not using that term in its proper context if Our Truth is only what We want to hear as opposed to what the facts really are. Keep in mind Men want Wives not Husbands. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism © 2012

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: No matter how much of a “Bitch” his wife is, How unattractive She may be or make Him feel like He is; make no mistake that’s still His wife. When You let squatters live in Your House You bring down Your property value. Sadly there's more differences between being a Mrs. & a Mistress than a few letters; Smph. Not Judging simply Sharing ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

It may be the Most Difficult Task to pray for Someone who means You Nothing but Harm however keep in mind after the Toughest Fight comes the Greatest Reward! Be Thankful You Are not where They Are anymore. To Whom much is given much is required so alot of blessings may mean alot of round-trips on the Humble High Road. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Above the Negativity ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

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***I Told My Girls You Can Get It; Don't slow It down just Let it Flow; So in Love; I'll Give It All Away; just Don't tell nobody Tomorrow....  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Just because You're spinning Your wheels it doesn't mean You're going anywhere; some journeys are endless because that particular destination is Not for Us, don't be afraid to change direction. It's easy to confuse Moving & Progressing. We know what We want while God knows what We need & not only is He Never wrong, He's always on time. It's always easier to Stand by Faith when Everything seems to be going Our way. FAITH=Forsaking All Insecurities & Trusting Him. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Persevere. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

They said when You've been through Hell You tend to appreciate Heaven; I can see the logic behind that as through life I've realized the only way to Get Thru hard times is to Go Thru hard times. Try to forgive Your Brother or Sister who tries to make You feel inadequate or unintelligent for making mistakes. The fact of the matter is We all at some point & time do "Stupid" things; that if We're lucky We survive it & learn the lesson to Never do it again. The only thing We don't all do is admit them. Be mindful, the Grass isn't always greener on the other side of the fence it just looks that way because Your neighbor spent a lot of money on Sod & spray paint for appearance purposes. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Individuals handle trauma differently. A person's troubled past may subconsciously drive them to hurt those who try to help them as hurt people tend to Hurt People. In protecting Yourself You may need to Love them from a distance. Loving a heartless spirit can be a waste of time & effort; like trying to teach someone how to swim without them knowing their drowning or even in water for that matter. Life's too short to do Anything but Love, Laugh & Live; so enjoy Loving Life & start with learning to Love Yourself. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

News flash Em: Sis Fab sent this chick ( the exfck-buddy) to get into your head. Stand your ground, he does love you & will change but stand your ground. The next time girlfriend wants to "holler" take a rain check & have some Big Girl conversation with Chrissy. Stay Encouraged Queen! XOXO ~LuvUMuch Neciaism 

I have some place to be & may be going solo...  You will Not get in the way of My Success Destiny. Channeling the Power of the Most High, I will Not allow You to. Before I sacrifice My walk & forfeit My Blessings, I'll Sabotage & End Our relationship. I wasn't cursed with this life; this life was blessed with Me! Now either You can come along, or wait here; either way I'm Going for Failure is Not an Option.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Proverbs 25:28
He that has no rules over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down and without walls.
Take Charge of You; Your Spirit is only as strong as Your Faith. Keep the focus on the Solution & off of the Problem. I see the Invisible, Believe in the Impossible & Can touch the Unreachable, so My Achievments are Incredible & My Spirit is Invincable!; You Are Only as Successful as YOU Believe You Are. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Whether You realize it or Not the intimate details that You dread being thrown in Your face wouldn't be available as Public Knowledge if You kept Your mouth shut.  Stop airing Your dirty Laundry & sharing what should remain behind closed doors between You & Your Mate. Also remember Never take relationship advice from a Lonely & or Miserable Person no matter how much You may have " Love for Them"  if They knew so much They’d be applying it to Their own life; Would You look to a blind person to show You how to read??  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Anger is the Secondary Emotion; the mask that Hurt the Primary Emotion wears when its ashamed to show it's face. An Angered Spirit is a Tortured Spirit. What’s heard is "I'm Mad at You" when what’s said is "I'm in Pain". The Best people can make the Worst mistakes & the Worst Results can stem from the Best Intentions; without the ability to Forgive, We limit Our ability to Love. If You Love Someone, "Let them Know"; if You can't stand them "Let it Go". it takes much more energy to hold grudges then to just live Free. Harboring resentment gives the same entity that caused You grief, Power over Your Mind, Body, Soul & Spirit; God is the Only One worthy of that privilege. Why waste energy upsetting someone You Youre don't like?? ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Without suffering through Loss & surviving the Struggles it's impossible to Appreciate True Victories. Realize that You have the ability to decide if Today is a part of Your journey or Your Final Destination. As difficult as it may be to accept while You're in the midst of it, with Every Lesion comes a Lesson; You have to pay attention; Live & Learn not Error & Repeat. Don't be envious of My victories without envying My battles; nothing came easy or was given to Me; I earned it All. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012 

Without suffering through Loss & surviving the Struggles it's impossible to Appreciate True Victories. Realize that Today is a part of Your journey Not Your Final Destination. As difficult as it may be to accept while You're in the midst of it, with Every Lesion comes a Lesson; try Your best to pay attention; Live & Learn not Error & Repeat. Don't be envious of My victories without envying My battles; nothing came easy or was given to Me; I earned it All. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Isaiah 60: (1) Arise, shine; for thy light is come, and the glory of the LORD is risen upon thee. (2) For, behold, the darkness shall cover the earth, and gross darkness the people: but the LORD shall arise upon thee, and his glory shall be seen upon thee. (3) And the Gentiles shall come to thy light, and kings to the brightness of thy rising. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Proverbs 25:28
He that has no rules over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down and without walls.
Take Charge of You; Your Spirit is only as strong as Your Faith. Keep the focus on the Solution & off of the Problem. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

When people use their mouths to criticize You its because their Spirit Envies You. You are the person they wish they had the Courage to become. The enemy is Miserable & a Coward. Most people, not even Loved Ones, will congratulate You for Living Out Their Dreams or Achieving Their Goals. If You find You're lacking support realize what a threat You are to the enemy, how much Greatness You are on the verge of & that the enemy will stop at Nothing to dim Your light. Never allow Yourself to be guilted into forfeitting what God has for You. Shine like You were called on to do! Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

When people use their mouths to criticize You its because their Spirit Envies You. You are the person they wish they had the Courage to become. The enemy is Miserable & a Coward. Most people will Not congratulate You for Living Out Their Dreams or Achieving Their Goals. If You find You're lacking support realize what a threat You are to the enemy, how much Greatness You are on the verge of & that the enemy will stop at Nothing to dim Your light. Never allow Yourself to be guilted into forfeitting what God has for You. Shine like You were called on to do! Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Woman2Woman: When You're not afraid to be Alone You're wealthy; when You realize that as a child of God even while being Physically alone, You're Never Spiritually alone, You're wealthy. As women we need to understand the difference between " Being in Love with a Man" & "Being in Love with the Idea of Being in Love"; having that full comprehension defines You as Wealthy.  Without a dime to Your name just knowing & appreciating Your self worth makes You wealthy. Sisters as Women We are Priceless & living that life may be expensive as it may cost Us people, places & things unnecessary to Our growth. If he Physically, Emotionally, Spiritually or Verbally abuses You, He doesn't Love You & if You accept it, You don't Love You either! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Proverbs 25:28
He that has no rules over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down and without walls.
Take Charge of You; Your Spirit is only as strong as Your Faith. Keep the focus on the Solution & off of the Problem. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Of course Life is hard & being Human at times We feel like its a constant struggle. Scripture reads "They that live Godly shall suffer prosecution" If You were not a child of God, Destined for Greatness & a threat to the Enemy ; Your walk in the Wilderness would be a Stroll in the park. The higher a plane flies the Greater chances of Turbulence. He Never said it would be Easy what He said is It Is Possible! FAITH = Forsaking All Insecurities & Trusting Him. Enough Faith will provide You with Grace in the midst of Any Storm. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2012

Identify Your Need, Understand Your Obstacle, Recognize Your Responsibility, and Become Your Answer. Life may not be going the way You intended, but it is going EXACTLY the way God planned it. As children of God We understand things happen by Appointment Not Accident. Sometimes Our vision gets distorted because We're in Our own way. We can't lose Faith in the eye of difficulties; Your life's not broken, however You owe it to Yourself & Our Creator to figure out how to make it work. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged, for Failure is Not an Option. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © January 2012

What/Whomever You submit to You become a slave to it. If We want better results We have to make better decisions. We decide what We make of Our lives don't confuse Tradition with Truth; Women in My family aren't Happy unless they're Miserable. Disruptive Patterns & Vicious Cycles are made to be broken. You can't be Liberated from what You've awarded Power To & You can't award Power To what You've been Liberated from. Family curses are Options Not Laws. Consciously decide to Totally Love & Live Your Life. Let Whomever won't Go to Heaven with You, Go to Hell without You ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

A boy taught that expressing Love is Feminine & or Gay, will grow into an UnLoving Man. A girl taught the same thing will grow into a Woman who doesn't know Love so she won't recognize it. Not Words, but "Actions" teach lessons. Children may not do what We say but they'll do what We Do. Babies enter the world like blank pages in a book in which adults fill with content; their parents being the first to compose an entry/write in it.Today's Children are the BluePrint for tomorrow's Adults. We owe them better than what They're getting. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © January 2012

I thought I was afraid of Public Speaking & or "Telling My Business"; now thru speeches & writing about personal experiences I help heal Myself as well as Others. Simultaneously feeding My Family & My Spirit. Hindsight Being 20/20 I now question, was I afraid or did I allow the enemy trick Me into silence because He was afraid of the God in Me that would bless Me to be Blessing? Fear being the antithesis of Faith reveals to Us that it's nothing but a tool of the enemy to keep God's children in bondage; prevented from reaching Our full potential.  Face Your fear & go get what God has for You.  Sometimes subconsciously We're afraid of Success & not Failure.  A Fearless Christian is a Threat to the enemy. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

I thought I was afraid of Public Speaking & or "Telling My Business"; now thru speeches & writing about personal experiences I help heal Myself as well as Others. Simultaneously feeding My Family & My Spirit. Hindsight Being 20/20 I now question, was I afraid or did I allow the enemy trick Me into silence because He was afraid of the God in Me that would bless Me to be Blessing? Fear being the antithesis of Faith reveals to Us that it's nothing but a tool of the enemy to keep God's children in bondage; prevented from reaching Our full potential.  Face Your fear & go get what God has for You.  Sometimes subconsciously We're afraid of Success & not Failure.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Created from a rib, We were intended to be Help-Mates; Ignorance has since made that term a "badge of shame", a sign of Weakness & Stupidity. It takes Courage to play Your position & Intelligence to know what Your position is. Respect the honor of Him being the Man. Appreciate the prestige of being the Woman & Embrace them both as We all have Our designated roles; that's not a sexist, it's TRUE statement ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Everything happens for a reason, Let Go & Let God, Pray about Everything & worry about nothing; these all sound Good but they’re easier said than done. On occasion We’re put in situations to test Our Faith; God wants Us to put Our walk where Our mouth is. If Jesus could be nailed to cross & crucified without saving himself even though he was capable, whatever it is We can weather the storm. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. You are More than a Conqueror remember? Rest Easy All... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

A blog from one of my FB family inspired an entry for tonight... Spending beyond Our means is a conscious decision, like keeping up with the Jones' & most of the times the Jones' aren't "Friends"; that would mean for whatever reason We tend to buy things We can't afford, to Upset people, We don't even like; this make absolutely no sense & again without Sense (Cents) there will be No Dollars; hence A Waste Of Time. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © January 2012

A blog from one of my FB family inspired an entry for tonight... Spending beyond Our means is a conscious decision, like keeping up with the Jones' & most of the times the Jones' aren't "Friends"; that would mean for whatever reason We tend to buy things We can't afford, to Upset people, We don't even like; this make absolutely no sense & again without Cents there will be No Dollars. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © January 2012

You can't want something for someone more than they want it for themselves. Although We may want to help sometimes We're stepping on God's toes. He's the Father & will discipline accordingly. Valuable Lessons & Blessings come thru Trials. On occasion the best help You can offer someone You Love when they seem to be Struggling is to turn away & pray for them. Ironically losing that friend to seemingly senseless violence, having that brush with cancer, watching a family member be prayed out of a death bed, enduring a taste of homelessness, etc.; Is the slap in the face Our ignorant, stubborn flesh needs to realize it's time to "Grow Up & Get Right" is Now for Tomorrow is Promised but We are Not. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

You can't want something for someone more than they want it for themselves. Although We may want to help sometimes We're stepping on God's toes. He's the Father & will discipline accordingly. Valuable Lessons & Blessings come thru Trials. On occasion the best help You can offer someone You Love when they seem to be Struggling is to turn away & pray for them. Ironically losing that friend to seemingly senseless violence, having that brush with cancer, watching a family member be prayed out of a death bed, enduring a taste of homelessness, etc.; Is the slap in the face Our ignorant, stubborn flesh needs to realize the time to "Grow Up & Get Right" is Now for Tomorrow is Promised but We are Not. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

You can't want something for someone more than they want it for themselves. Although We may want to help sometimes We're stepping on God's toes. He's the Father & will discipline accordingly. Valuable Lessons & Blessings come from Trials; on occasion the best help You can offer someone You Love when they seem to be Struggling is to turn away & pray for them. Ironically losing that friend to seemingly senseless violence, having that brush with cancer, watching a family member be prayed out of a death bed, enduring a taste of homelessness, etc.; Is the slap in the face Our ignorant, stubborn flesh needs to realize the time to "Grow Up & Get Right" is Now for Tomorrow is Promised but We are Not. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Sisters the enemy is a master of disguise & deception; he enjoys the thought of a house divided; if We're not careful he will take Our focus off the Solution & shift it towards the Problem. As Women we’re Maternal & instinctively want to Nurture & “Fix”.  There's a specific difference between trying to “Fix” a relationship & trying to “Change” a Man. Dealing with a person's difficult attributes can bring forth Our Inner Strengths. Instead of praying for God to change Your Man"s flaws how about praying that He use those annoyances to make You a better mate; to bring out the Best Woman in You?  God's Intellect is so Profound & UnParalleled that at times He can be right in Our faces & thru Our ignorance We still can't see Him.  Family is a Priceless Gift; don't be so quick to abandon Your Gift. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Of course Life is hard & being Human at times We feel like its a constant struggle.  Scripture reads "They that live Godly shall suffer prosecution" If You were not a child of God, Destined  for Greatness & a threat to the Enemy ; Your walk in the Wilderness would be a Stroll in the park.  The higher a plane flies the Greater chances of Turbulence. He Never said it would be Easy what He said is It Is Possible! FAITH =Forsaking All Insecurities & Trusting Him. Enough Faith will provide You with Grace in the midst of Any Storm.  Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2012

When We feel like Our prayers aren't being answered maybe We're praying for things outside God's will & like the gracious Father that He is He stepped in to protect his child from AnyThing/One imposing harm; as sometimes We're a threat to Ourself. Our Faith let's Us Know God Loves Us but Our Heart & Flesh can't Feel it, so We're instructed "lean Not towards Our own understanding". That Job, that House, that Lover was Not for You; Let it Go obviously God has something better.  Your Faith is demonstrated when it looks  like Your world is falling apart to Everyone except You. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Calamities hit & make Us weak in the knees, too weak to stand, an indication it's time to submit, let Your knees go, kneel & pray. Realize the further We get knocked down, the harder it is to get up, the Greater the reward & the More We have to be Thankful for. Inorder to elevate Ourselves & Go really High You have to be ready, willing & able to be humbled; to Go really Low. Remember "The Most High" himself is actually Really Deep. Stay Prayerful, Focused. & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Calamities hit & make Us weak in the knees but realize the further We get knocked down, the harder it is to get up, the Greater the reward & the More We have to be Thankful for. Inorder to elevate Ourselves & Go really High You have to be ready, willing & able to be humbled; to Go really Low remember "The Most High" himself is actually Really Deep. Situations that arise & make You too weak to stand, is an indication it's time to submit, let Your knees go, kneel & pray. Stay Prayerful, Focused. & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Calamities hit & make Us weak in the knees but realize the further We get knocked down, the harder it is to get up, the Greater the reward & the More We have to be Thankful for. Inorder to elevate Ourselves & Go really High You have to be ready, willing & able to be humbled; to Go really Low because "The Most High" himself is actually Really Deep. Situations that arise & make You too weak to stand, is nothing but an indication it's time to submit, kneel & pray. Stay Prayerful, Focused. & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

What/Whomever You submit to You become a slave to it. If We want better results We have to make better decisions. We decide what We make of Our lives don't confuse Tradition with Truth; Women in My family aren't Happy unless they're Miserable. Disruptive Patterns & Vicious Cycles are made to be broken. You can't be Liberated from what You've awarded Power To & You can't award Power To what You've been Liberated from. Family curses are Options Not Laws. Consciously decide to Totally Love & Live Your Life. Let Whomever won't Go to Heaven with You, Go to Hell without You ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Recognize the prestige that follows being classified as the Enlightened. Like the Northern Star; We lead the way. To Illuminate implies You shine brightly. A Star's stature is too elevated to stoop to the depth of ignorance, mastered by those who dwell in Darkness. We must Maintain Our eliteness by requiring the "Help" to use the Service Entrance NEVER the Front Door. Its nothing personal there is hierarchy in every form of Life. You're either a Chess Player or a Chess Piece. Safe Travels. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright Recognize the prestige that follows being classified as the Enlightened. Like the Northern Star; We lead the way. To Illuminate implies You shine brightly. A Star's stature is too elevated to stoop to the depth of ignorance, mastered by those who dwell in Darkness. We must Maintain Our eliteness by requiring the "Help" to use the Service Entrance NEVER the Front Door. Its nothing personal there is hierarchy in every form of Life. You're either a Chess Player or a Chess Piece. Travel Light F/PHAmily ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: We're living in the times of the "blended family" so if We expect Him to pay the Bills, Take Out the Trash, Shovel the snow, all the manly duties; it's also within his jurisdiction to discipline the Children.  The way We Talk to/Treat him in front of the children can't help but have some bearing on the level of respect he gets from them as well as their impression of the "Family Dynamic".  Sisters We can't keep asking Our Men to be Men with the stipulation... only when it's convenient to Us. Not ProMan or ProWoman just ProTruth ~LuvUMuch Neciaism ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: When you're Involved it's not so much Ostracizing your friends as it is Nurturing your union & reinforcing your bond. Overcoming trials as a Couple tends to strengthen relationships. When the dust settles your True friends will still Supportively be there. Single women & Women in relationships are held to different standards.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Don't Entertain Negativity, Don't Feed it, Don't Pay it any Attention; Act as if it Doesn't even Exist. Mark my words like "Unwanted Company" it will surely Go Away. The moment You indulge in that conversation, even if just for "curiosity sake" listen to what it has to say; allow it to get into Your head where You're thinking about it while You're alone, You've given it a Life; Power over Your Speech, Thoughts, Spirit & Existence.  If You thought stray cats were hard to rid of try shaking Negativity.  Stay Prayerful, Positive, Encouraged & Aware. You are the Boss of You.   ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Identify Your Need, Understand Your Obstacle, Recognize Your Responsibility, and Become Your Answer. Life may not be going the way You intended, but it is going EXACTLY the way God planned it. As children of God We understand things happen by Appointment Not Accident. Sometimes Our vision gets distorted because We're in Our own way. We can't lose Faith in the eye of difficulties; Your life's not broken, however You owe it to Yourself & the Creator to figure out how to make it work. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged, for Failure is Not an Option. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © January 2012

Identify Your Need, Understand Your Obstacle, Recognize Your Responsibility, and Become Your Answer. Life may not be going the way You intended, but it is going EXACTLY the way God planned it; Things happen by Appointment Not Accident. Sometimes Our vision s distorted because We're in Our own way... Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © January 2012

God will Talk to You if You take the time to Listen to Him & on that same note he'll Listen to You if You take the time to talk to Him. Sometimes Man just can't give You the Answer, not because he doesn't want to but merely because he doesn't have it. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware. Your religion isn't nearly as important as Your relationship, get to Know Him not just his name. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © January 2012

God will Talk to You if You take the time to Listen to Him & on that same note he'll Listen to You if You take the time to talk to Him. Sometimes Man just can't give You the Answer, not because he doesn't want to but merely because he doesn't have it. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware. Your religion isn't nearly as important as Your relationship. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © January 2012

Life’s A, BE's & C’s: Be-Confident & confront what/who scares You. Be-kind to what/who offends You. Be-Critical of what/who praises You, Be-Cautious, mindful & Aware of what overly-pleases You. Don't fall victim to Anything but Success & Be-Mindful to Respect Money but not Worship it; only the Enlightened will See(C) & recognize the difference. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © January 2012

Faith is not pretending that struggles don’t exist; it’s Trust & Understanding that they won’t last forever. We Live inorder to Experience, We Experience inorder to Learn, we Learn inorder to Teach. When You find Your way thru offer someone lost the directions because Karma doesn’t move in a straight line it travels in circles; what goes around comes around. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Positive & Encouraging. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © January 2012

Pride You will Not Over-Shadow My Humility, Fear You will Not Hinder My Progress, Sickness You will Not take My Life, Sadness You will Not Steal My Joy, Anger You will Not Block My Blessings. Success & Happiness You belong to Me; paid for with the Blood. Only The Size of Your Faith in Him should be Bigger than His presence in Your life. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © January 2012

Our scars can be a GPS to remind Us of where We’ve been & where We don’t ever want to go again. We all make mistakes the key is to learn from them & not repeat them. Enduring the Negatives (People, Places & Things) will make You appreciate the Positives. Life doesn't always start out the way We anticipated but it always ends the way it was always supposed to. We have to take what the enemy designs for bad & allow God to make it Good. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © January 2012

FAITH = Forsaking All Insecurities & Trusting Him    If You were not Destined for Greatness & a Threat to the Enemy he'd leave You alone. Take off the rose colored & identify Your trial for what they are; smoke screens & distractions designed to blur Your vision & obscure Your destiny. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Challenges make you discover things about Yourself that You never really knew. Start to view Your Trials as Challenges not Impossibilities. Yes some Succeed because they're destined, but the Masses Succeed because they're both Destined & DETERMINED. Don’t Live Afraid or be Afraid to Live; You'd be surprised at what You could Accomplish when You have no choice in the matter. Go get what God has for You. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

When Your wealth is lost, You lost Nothing, when Your health is lost, You lost Something, when Your Faith is lost, You lost EVERYTHING. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. 2012 is All about You! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © January 2012

Welcome to flight 2012. We are prepared to take off into the New Year. Please make sure ATTITUDES & BLESSINGS are secure & locked in. All self destructive devices should be turned off at this time. Should we lose altitude under pressure during this flight, reach up and pull down a prayer. Prayers will automatically be activated by FAITH. Once your faith is fully activated you can assist other passengers. There will be NO NEGATIVE BAGGAGE allowed on this flight. The Captain has cleared us for take off. Destination GREATNESS.....! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

They're only Two approaches to Success either You sit around & wait for it to happen or You make moves & make it happen. As a child of God You're Destined for Greatness. If SomeThing/One tried to take Your Property, Family or Life; anything that's rightfully Yours, wouldn't You fight for it? Well as an heir to the Throne Success is rightfully Yours as well & likewise should be fought for. Prayer without Effort are dead words & a Loser is a Winner who hasn't failed enough to be sick of the feeling. The secret is to Sink so Low that Upwards is Your Only Option. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. Let's Get It!! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © January 2012

Changing, Growth & Maturity are states of Mind. Changed, Grown & Mature are states of Being. Have You arrived at the party or are You still trying to figure out what to wear? It's time to get a move on because the Party will go on without You. If You have to put off anything; put off Procrastination. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © January 2012

If the Dreams for Your Future don't intimidate You, they're simply Not Big Enough; Realize Your Potential like Your Future is Limitless. As long as You shoot for the Stars even if You fall short You're bound to reach the Sky. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. 2012 is Your Year, Let's Get It!! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © January 1, 2012

If the Dreams for Your Life don't intimidate You, they're simply Not Big Enough; Realize Your Potential like Your Future is Limitless. As long as You shoot for the Stars even if You fall short You're bound to reach the Sky. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. 2012 is Your Year, Let's Get It!! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © January 1, 2012

Dear Father as the fight between My Intelligence & His IGNANCE” ensues. Allow My Patience & Wisdom to be superior. What He did that pissed Me off tonight Lord, allow Me to keep in mind that if I tear Him a "New One" before He goes off to work in the morning I could very well instigate Him going completely Postal, losing His job & as a family unit We will all suffer. I come to you Submissively & Sincerely in Jesus name Amen. Wooosaaah ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

Without Your & without Your eyes others fail to share Your vision; all the more reason to keep some Goals & Aspirations between only You & Your Lord. Not everyone prays for You some pray against You & not many will compliment You on living out their dreams. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged; 2012 is All about You!! ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2012

Anger is the Secondary Emotion; the mask that Hurt the Primary Emotion wears when its ashamed to show it's face. An Angered Spirit is a Tortured Spirit. What’s heard is "I'm Mad at You" when what’s said is "I'm in Pain". The Best people can make the Worst mistakes & the Worst Results can stem from the Best Intentions; without the ability to Forgive, We limit Our ability to Love. If You Love Someone, "Let them Know"; if You can't stand them "Let it Go". it takes much more energy to hold grudges then to just live Free. Harboring resentment gives the same entity that caused You grief, Power over Your Mind, Body, Soul & Spirit; God is the Only One worthy of that privilege. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012

New Year, New Revelations bearing New Actions manifesting New Results.  Not by ignoring it, avoiding it, going under it or even beside it. The only way to get through it is To Go Thru it. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. Failure is Not an Option.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012