There’s no Future in the Past, so create Your Future and Live to the fullest in the Present. Life lessons are to make You Progress Not Digress. Maturity & Growth are forward Movement like Evolution; transitioning from Monkey to Man Not Man to Monkey; enough Bafoonery already, 2012 is All about You Let's Get It!!! Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. Happy New Year!!! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Challenges make you discover things about Yourself that You never really knew. Start to view Your Trials as Challenges not Impossibilities. Yes some Succeed because they're destined, but the Masses Succeed because they're both Destined & DETERMINED. Don’t Live Afraid or be Afraid to Live. Go get what God has for You. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. 2012 is All about You! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Challenges make you discover things about Yourself that you never really knew. Start to view Your Trials as Challenges not Barriers. Yes some Succeed because they're destined, but the Masses Succeed because they're both Destined & DETERMINED. Don’t Live Afraid or be Afraid to Live. Go get what God has for You. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. 2012 is All about You! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When You Open Your Mind to the unknown, You'll begin to Experience what You couldn't even Imagine. Challenges are not supposed to paralyze You, They're suppose to Elevate You; so Rise to The Occasion & Make SUCCESS Your shadow. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. 2012 is All about You! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Whether or not Your Dreams are possible depends on Your perception of Possibility; The Best way to fulfill Your Dreams is to Wake Up & Get Out of Bed. SUCCESS can not be achieved remotely; Exercise Patience in Planning and Impatience in Execution. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. 2012 is All about You! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Faith & Confidence won’t make Your victories Easy, it will However Make them Possible; for what You accomplish in life will make You a Winner but What you Overcome in Life will make You a Success. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. 2012 is All about You! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Tomorrow is Guaranteed, however You & I are not so whatever We want We have to start working on it Now; Today. Intentions are Questionable but Actions are Concrete. Don't let who You were, hinder who You Will Be. SUCCESS like Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder, if You put of Anything let it be Procrastination. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. 2012 is All about You! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When Your wealth is lost, You lost Nothing, when Your health is lost, You lost Something, when Your Faith is lost, You lost EVERYTHING. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. 2012 is All about You! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Your Goals & Aspirations should be as Big as You KNOW Your God to be. That being said, there is No limit on Our success except for the ones We impose. Failure is Not an Option. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged; Make 2012 Your Year!!! ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright © 2011

Not by ignoring it, avoiding it, going under it or beside it. The only way to get through it is To Go Thru it. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. Failure is Not an Option.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Your Goals & Aspirations should be as Big as You know Your God to be. That being said, there is No limit on Our success except for the ones We impose.  Failure is Not an Option. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged; Make 2012 Your Year!!! ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright  © 2011

Without Your & without Your eyes others fail to share Your vision; all the more reason to keep some Goals & Aspirations between only You & Your Lord. Not everyone prays for You some pray against You & not many will compliment You on living out their dreams. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright  © 2011

No You can't judge a book by it's cover but You can get a good idea of it's content if  You' pay attention to the section of literature it's placed in within the library or bookstore that You find it. Familiarize Yourself with the crowd Your significant other keeps; in Your eyesight they may be the Extreme Opposite of all of their friends however keep in mind this is WITHIN YOUR EYESIGHT. Nuns don't fellowship with Whores. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Loving someone one & being in Love with someone are two different entities. Love is like a Good Man & an Orgasm, You don’t know what You’ve been missing until You have one; once You have one there’s no question in Your mind. No matter how articulate You are, words can’t express the feeling; You have to experience it inorder to relate to it. God is truly the Grand Architect; designing Man & Woman like puzzle pieces to perfectly fit together forming a Phenomenal picture. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Don’t be so quick to Blame God when Calamities hit. No one’s perfect, We ALL fall short at one time or another & Eventually We Have to pay for Our transgressions; so consider it One debt Paid In Full. Karma doesn't move in a straight line it actually travels in circles. Remember Good, Bad or Indifferent We reap what We sew. Just like yelling into a cave the words that echo are Your own. Don't try to feed someone what You wouldn't eat Yourself. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Calamities hit & make Us weak in the knees but realize the further We get knocked down, the harder it is to get up, the Greater the reward & the More We have to be Thankful for. Inorder to elevate Ourselves & Go really High You have to be ready, willing & able to be humbled; to Go really Low because "The Most High" himself is actually Really Deep ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: The only thing Better than Being Loved is Loving. Remember by Nature We were made from His rib & what He Needs so do what comes natural Understand His past, Believe in His future & Accept Him all the same. Be the type of Woman that’s Hard to Find, Painful to Leave & Impossible to Forget. Sisters remember as Women we're Blessings Not Burdens. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright  © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: The only thing Better than Being Loved is Loving. Remember by Nature We were made from His rib & what He Needs so do what comes natural Understand His past, Believe in His future & Accept Him all the same. Be the type of Woman that’s Hard to Find, Painful to Leave & Impossible to Forget. Sisters remember as Women we're Blessings Not Burdens. ~LuvUMuch Neciaisms Copyright  © 2011

Wow! How time flies when You're having fun!? 21years ago I was at JFK Washington TWP about to be shot up with Pitocin to 3 hrs later give birth to My 90%BFF, 10% Aneurism, smph. Happy Birthday to My Collector's Item Ken Doll within all of Our Growing Pains, Baby Boy I wouldn't change a thing! You are Absolutely Perfect, Destined for Greatness & the Best is Yet to Come!,, (Prince You know what's even cooler than a wooden Jesus Piece? One made of Black Ice... Looks like Someone's been in Your room... ) LetTheScavengerHuntBegin ~LuvUTheMost Mom   

Wow! How time flies when You're having fun!? 21years ago I was at JFK Washington TWP chewing ice walking the halls to induce labor to 10 hrs later give birth to My 85%BFF, 15% Aneurism, smph. Happy Birthday to My Collector's Item Ken Doll within all of Our Growing Pains, Baby Boy I wouldn't change a thing! You are Absolutely Perfect, Destined for Greatness & the Best is Yet to Come!,, (Son has a Prince ever caught a cold from Black Ice in their ears??) LetTheScavengerHuntBegin ~LuvUTheMost Mom

Wow! How time flies when You're having fun!? 21years ago I was being rushed to JFK Washington TWP to 12hours later give birth to My 80%BFF, 20% Aneurism, smph. Happy Birthday to My Collector's Item Ken Doll within all of Our Growing Pains, Baby Boy I wouldn't change a thing! You are Absolutely Perfect, Destined for Greatness & the Best is Yet to Come!,, (Black Kings adorn imported Lamb Skin leather slippers lined in the finest Lambs fleece). LetTheScavengerHuntBegin ~LuvUTheMost Mom

Every joke told in Poor taste is a Coward's way of being Truthful. Sarcasm, constant Criticism, Snide comments derive from Envy & are Nothing but Negative Reinforcement. Surrounding Yourself with Negative Reinforcement is a sure fire way to fail. Verily those Threatened by Your Success will stop at nothing in order to Threaten Your Success. Man being like Gravity will either Elevate You or drag You Down. Salvation is not synonymous to Stupidity so it's up to Us in Our Enlightened state to initially evaluate, acknowledge & identify the difference; lastly then to treat it accordingly. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & AWARE. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Make time to Pamper Him & keep Him on a pedestal but Never completely abandon Your Life & or extracurricular activities that make You, You. Business driven Men appreciate a Busy Woman. When You both have lives it allows for the space needed to Miss One Another. Only food should be Smothered, everything else is entitled to & worthy of a Life. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Men are instinctively drawn to Strength, However there is a Significant Difference between being a “Strong Woman” & Acting Like A Man. Men want Wives Not Husbands. If You make him feel like Less Of A Man, he will behave like Less Of A Man. Having a relationship is not a job but maintaining a successful one still requires work. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

One should wonder "In fact am I Intimidated or Simply so Destined for Greatness that I'm Intimidating" the Enemy is a Master of Deception, will get in where He fits in BUT only if We allow it...
I thought I was afraid of Public Speaking &"Telling My Business"; now thru speeches & writing about personal experiences I help heal Myself as well as Others. Simultaneously I feed My Spirit & Family. In hindsight I question, was I afraid, or did I allow the enemy trick Me into silence because He was afraid of the God in Me that would bless Me to be Blessing? Sometimes subconsciously We're afraid of Success & not Failure. Remember Faith is the Antithesis of Fear~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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I thought I was afraid of Public Speaking &"Telling My Business"; now thru speeches & writing about personal experiences I help heal Myself as well as Others. Simultaneously I feed My Spirit & Family. In hindsight I question, was I afraid, or did I allow the enemy trick Me into silence because He was afraid of the God in Me that would bless Me to be Blessing? Sometimes subconsciously We're afraid of Success & not Failure. Remember Faith is the Antithesis of Fear~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright©2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Don't take for granted that We're all born with the ability to or clearly express Love. Negative past experiences tend to have Us more prepared for the "Bad" as a means of Protecting Our Hearts & being labeled Naive when wearing Our hearts on Our sleeves. As Women we’re Maternal & instinctively want to Nurture & “Fix”. Understand the difference between trying to “Fix” a relationship & trying to “Change” a person. You can’t hold someone accountable for Not Thinking like You or Acting like You, when they’re obviously Not You. His movement may not mean that He doesn't Love You it may be that He Loves You but is limited in His capability of expressing it. We have to stop confusing the Gifts We're born with & the Skills We're trained in. Be patient & teach Him what Love looks & feels like. If He's worth Your Heart, He's worth the Work. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

"As a Man Thinketh in His Heart so Is He", I'd only fail by Not Trying or even more Out of the question "Quitting" so for Me Failure is Not an Option. No matter how Good or Complete it feels when anyone truly Loves You it will always fail in comparison to Loving Yourself. There is No shame in embracing Your self worth; from the womb We were created as Kings & Queens heirs to the Throne so as a child of God it's Your obligation to claim what's rightfully Yours. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

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If You're destined for Greatness Constructive Criticism will make You better; If You're destined for Failure Constructive Criticism will make You bitter. The Reality is Adulthood is a hard pill to swallow & best taken Straight, No Chaser; suck it up it is what it is... ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

What makes Us think if We pray about Goals & or Desires but avoid working towards them they'll magically fall out of the sky? Scripture reads: "if a Man doesn't work he shouldn't eat" therefore get up, get out & make it happen. You can't make moves by just thinking about them. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  Good Morning! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Challenges make You discover the Inner Strength You posses without even knowing it was present. Start to view Your Trials as Detours, not Dead Ends. Some Succeed because they’re Destined; the Masses Succeed because they’re both Destined & Determined. Your fear of not even trying has to Over Power Your fear of failure from Giving Up. When We doubt Ourselves in fact We're doubting the ability of Our God. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When We feel like Our prayers aren't being answered maybe We're praying for things outside God's will & like Our Father he stepped in to protect his child from AnyThing/One imposing harm; as sometimes We're a threat to Ourself. Our Faith let's Us Know God Loves Us but Our Heart & Flesh can't Feel it, so We're instructed "lean Not towards Our own understanding". That Job, that House, that Lover was Not for You; Let it Go obviously God has something better.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Our deepest fear isn't complete Failure, its being Successful beyond Our ability to even imagine. Light scares Us not Darkness. The Bright Light makes Us question:”Who am I to be Amazing, Talented, Successful?”Well Who are You NOT to be? As a child of God, Shrinking so other’s who are insecure feel Big, doesn't serve Him. We’re created to Manifest & Magnify God. Let Your Light shine & others worthy will get the courage to do the same. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

God's path for You will not be His path for Me, so refrain for telling me How to Get To Heaven, as I'll probably get there using Directions that You Don't have. Be as consumed with fulfilling Your personal Obligations as You are with What Your Neighbor Is/Isn't doing. Even the Most religious of people fail to realize that only One Opinion really matters. Both while Driving & in Lfe practice remaining in Your Lane. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: When a Male is respectful, responsible & mature, that doesn't make him "corny" it makes him a Man. Having poor examples of Masculinity from Our childhood We tend to get confused when choosing a mate. Grown Women recognize & appreciate the Clark Kents while little girls are searching for SuperMan. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Your Accomplishments are a result of the level of Your self-esteem, Your essence, Your confidence, the image You have of Yourself and who You Really Are. These attributes are the voice that tells You, You Will, You Can, or even You Can't. At times We have to Get Out of Our Own Way. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Do You ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: The Most Unattractive woman is the one who needs a Man to play God in their lives. Be that Woman who's consumed with so much Self Love, so much Confidence, that it can't help but be contagious. You'll find that He'll be Drawn to You as opposed to Running Away. Knowledge especially Self Knowledge is both necessary & intriguing. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

God I'm so Appreciative & I Promise to make You Proud! Thank You! ***Tears of Joy ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Don't take for granted that We're all born with the ability to or clearly express Love. Negative past experiences tend to have Us more prepared for the "Bad" as a means of Protecting Our Hearts & being labeled Naive when wearing Our hearts on Our sleeves. As Women we’re Maternal & instinctively want to Nurture & “Fix”. Understand the difference between trying to “Fix” a relationship & trying to “Change” a person. You can’t hold someone accountable for Not Thinking like You or Acting like You, when they’re obviously Not You. His movement may not mean that He doesn't Love You it may be that He Loves You but is limited in His capability of expressing it. We have to stop confusing the Gifts We're born with & the Talents We're trained in. Teach Him what Love looks & feels like.  We bypass so many Clark Kents searching for SuperMan ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Every joke told in Poor taste is a Coward's way of being Truthful. Sarcasm, constant Criticism, Snide comments derive from Envy & are Nothing but Negative Reinforcement. Surrounding Yourself with Negative Reinforcement is a sure fire way to fail. Verily those Threatened by Your Success will stop at nothing in order to Threaten Your Success. Man being like Gravity will either Elevate You or drag You Down. Salvation is not synonymous to Stupidity so it's up to Us in Our Enlightened state to initially evaluate, acknowledge & identify the difference; lastly then to treat it accordingly. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & AWARE. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Every joke told in Poor taste is a Coward's way of being Truthful. Sarcasm, constant Criticism, Snide comments derive from Envy & are Nothing but Negative Reinforcement. Surrounding Yourself with Negative Reinforcement is a sure fire way to fail. Verily those Threatened by Your Success will stop at nothing in order to Threaten Your Success. Man being like Gravity will either Elevate You or drag You Down. Salvation is not synonymous to Stupidity so it's up to Us in Our Enlightened state to initially evaluate, acknowledge & identify the difference; lastly then to treat it accordingly. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & AWARE.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

God is so Good... That's all I have to say this evening; Good Night All ~LuvUMuch Neciaism 

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: We were created to be Help-Mates; Ignorance has made that term a "badge of shame", a sign of Weakness & Stupidity. It takes Courage to play Your position & Intelligence to know what Your position is. Respect the honor of Him being the Man. Appreciate the prestige of You being the Woman & Embrace them both as We all have designated roles. Real Men want Wives Not Husbands. This statement isn't Me being sexist, it's Me being Truthful ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Don't take for granted that We're all born with the ability to or clearly express Love. Negative past experiences tend to have Us more prepared for the "Bad" as a means of Protecting Our Hearts & being labeled Naive when wearing Our hearts on Our sleeves. As Women we’re Maternal & instinctively want to Nurture & “Fix”. Understand the difference between trying to “Fix” a relationship & trying to “Change” a person. You can’t hold someone accountable for Not Thinking like You or Acting like You, when they’re obviously Not You. His movement may not mean that He doesn't Love You it may be that He Loves You but is limited in His capability of expressing it. We have to stop confusing the Gifts We're born with & the Talents We're trained in. Teach Him what Love looks & feels like.  We bypass so many Clark Kents searching for SuperMan ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

If They want nothing to do with Your fight, then They should have nothing to do with Your Victory; real friends walk in when acquaintances walk out. Both figuratively & literally Real Friends stay around well after the party's over to help "Clean Up the Mess". One can still manage to be lonely even within a group; again proof that Quality trumps Quantity.  You need to be Held Down not Dragged Down.  Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & AWARE of the differences. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Letting him lead isn't necessarily a "Bad Thing" or a sign of weakness. As adults we realize that infact Everything & Everyone has it's place. Sis You allow Your man to be "the Man" it demonstrates Your Knowledge of Self as well as the security You have in the Woman You are & Real Men are drawn to a secure Woman like moths to a flame, so play Your position & allow God to have him find You while You're in preparation to be found. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

I do a lot of motivational speaking & tend to use My Spirit driven words to help people Feel & Live better; but until I was able to speak the same Feeling & Life into Myself I was unable to Succeed & embrace the Me God created Me to be. When the Titanic sank, it wasn't due to the water around it or iceberg it hit; it sank due to the water that got in it. Feed Your spirit with Positivity & Prosperity; command the Good & Forbid the Evil, Realize that God's Promise is True & All that really matters. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Without wanting to be, You found Yourself now "Single". Sis, it is what it is. Take a class or read a book to develop Your Mind. Join a gym to develop Your Body. Pray to develop Your Relationship with God. Meditate to develop Clarity & get re-familiar with "You". Flesh may bruise, while the Heart scars & breaks. The Healing process works from, the Inside, Out so take care of You for a moment & Since You're back on the Market use the alone time to increase Your Property Value. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

On occasion I "fall off the face of the Earth" for a moment, I get Tunnel vision & go into intense work mode & My social life tends to suffer. I had a close family member neglect to call me on my birthday & admit that she was angry at Me because she assumed that I was angry with her. Now if You did no wrong what reason would I have to be mad? On that same note if You Love someone You air out Your differences, life is too short & the Enemy Loves separation as He's the master of deception. Until I show You My character flaws don't expect any from Me.  We can't hold Our Friends of the future accountable for & or obligate them to carrying the baggage Enemies left in Our past  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Everything happens for a reason, Let Go & Let God, Pray about Everything & worry about nothing; these all sound Good but they’re easier said than done. On occasion We’re put in situations to test Our Faith; God wants Us to put Our walk where Our mouth is. If Jesus could be nailed to cross & crucified without saving himself even though he was capable, whatever it is We can weather the storm. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

You can't want something for someone more than they want it for themselves. Although We may want to help sometimes We're stepping on God's toes. He's the Father & will discipline accordingly. Valuable Lessons & Blessings come from struggles so on occasion the best help You can offer someone You Love when they seem to be Struggling is to turn away & pray for them. I've been thru so many trials in My life & hindsight being 20/20 I realize I wasn't being Punished I was being Prepared for My Future. Just hold On. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

The "abused" tend to be abused several times before/if ever breaking away. Initially They think They attract these situations. In a sense that may be true but They're only partially to blame as predators smell prey like blood in Shark infested waters. Rather than being Stupid a victim may very well be caught in a vicious cycle, a product of Their environment/lifestyle. Human Beings tend to gravitate to the familiar subconsciously. We know We want & deserve better than the unfit-for-habitation space We're in, but its still Home so We go back. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Just because You're spinning Your wheels it doesn't mean You're going anywhere; some journeys are endless because that particular destination is Not for Us, don't be afraid to change direction. It's easy to confuse Moving & Progressing. We know what We want while God knows what We need & not only is He Never wrong, He's always on time. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Trust Him. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

When We're in too much distress to Pray; We need to resort to Worship. It confuses the enemy & exercises Our God given ability to Will peace into Existence. If You were on a sinking ship in the middle of the ocean & God threw You a Life-Jacket You'd be a fool not to use it & deserve to drown. Same Premise. He Never said it would be Easy but He did say its Not Impossible. Stronger is He that lives in Me... You are More than a Conqueror, remember?? ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright ©

Having an idea as to who God is isn't the same as actually knowing Him. Religion isn't as important to Your Life, Success & or Destiny as Your relationship is. When You really know God & Know what He expects from You what anyone else thinks is irrelevant. You know what they say "Its not what You know its Who You know". Youre an heir to the Throne, You better recognze. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=avkJO2PSE_k&feature=youtube_gdata_player Makes one wonder is there such a thing as Unprocessed livestock? Titles like Halaal, Organic, Kosher, 100% natural regarding consumable flesh is a myth huh? ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

While Under Pressure, maintain focus, see disturbances for what they are:”Intentional Distractions” to shake You off Your square. Planes that fly high can’t help but experience turbulence; Annoying? Yes, Deadly? No. Buckle Your seat belt & Keep Flying. When You’re trying to do what’s right it feels like nothing’s going Your way keep in Mind, if You weren't a Threat to the Enemy, an heir to the Throne on the verge of Greatness Your walk in the wilderness would be a Stroll in the Park. Stay Prayerful Focused & Encouraged for You are Not Alone & He is Able; Your problems are a mere Fraction of the size of Our God. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: What are You putting forth that keeps bringing the "Wrong Man" into Your Life? Before We point that blaming finger outward We need to start with practicing infront of a mirror. Let's claim some responsibility for what's wrong in Our Lives; Stop fertilizing Your lawn with "Dog Food" & You'll stop attracting Stray Dogs to Your yard. The fact of the matter is We're all not innocent victims, We tend to see what feels good as opposed to what's factual. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: When dating a New Man We need to pay special attention to the Women he grew up around & the nature of their relationships. It could give You a glimpse into how He’ll be with You. He may not know how to Love You & maybe the type that doesn’t want to learn. Its not always P.M.S. sometimes it’s that “He-A-Mess”. You can say what You want about a "Momma's Boys" but if He doesn't respect His Mother, Sis please don't expect any better. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

To whom Much is given Much is Required & who Suffers Greatly will be Rewarded Greatly. His Promise is True. The Best defense against a Miserable Spirit, is a Compassionate one that can rise above the situation & identify the Bigger Picture; so Love Someone who Hates You & Help Someone who Hurt You. After the most difficult struggle follows the Biggest Blessings & after the Biggest Blessing follows the Greatest Reward. At the End of it All, We realize its not about Please You, Me or Them ; its about Pleasing "Him". Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

The Best defense against a Miserable Spirit, is a Compassionate one that can rise above the situation & identify the Bigger Picture; so Love Someone who Hates You & Help Someone who Hurt You. After the most difficult struggle follows the Biggest Blessings & after the Biggest Blessing follows the Greatest Reward. At the End of it All, We realize its not about Please You, Me or Them ; its about Pleasing "Him". Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Never take relationship advice from a Lonely & or Miserable Person; if They knew so much They’d be applying it to Their own life. Thats like a Homeless person giving You directions to their house. Misery is like a Cancer but not only does it spread, it's contagious & loves company. Though they differ as Cancer You have no choice but to fight & deal with it; now Misery... You need not entertain. Forbid the Bad & Common the Good. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & On Point. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Entertainers & Athletes are adequate however in no way are they better than a child's father as the role model for what Men represent. To all the Father's out there stepping up to the plate & taking the time to sew the necessary seeds in Our children understand that You are the family's Foundation, therefore Irreplaceable, Priceless & Appreciated. Have an Awesomely Blessed, Prosperous & Amazing holiday season; for You Everyday is Father's Day, You are The Family's Foundation, so "Thank You" ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

‎"Tithe" like "Church" is an adjective not a noun. You can have Church anywhere & there's several ways to Tithe. Do Your own research, obtain proofs before just following Anyone's lead; religion & tradition are easily confused. To Believer's: Don't be fooled into the notion that inorder to tithe You're obligated to put 10% of Your minimum wage income into a collection plate when Your family has final notices that require immediate attention. No matter what religious Belief/Faith You subscribe to Your relationship with God is a personal one. He knows You as well as Your heart better than even You do. When You offer Your brother/sister a warm bed to lay in, a hot plate of food or even just a ride; You are infact titheing. To Religious Leaders: be mindful of leading Your congregation astray with faulty direction; understand You will be held accountable not only for them being lost but for the part You played in imposing Your Opinion in lieu of Fact. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

An Optimist chases their Dreams while a Pessimist runs from their Nightmares. Don't miss out on a Successful Life because Your too afraid to venture into the Unknown. EveryThing/One familiar isn't always the Best for You. Just because You're a friend to Someone that doesn't make them a Friend to You. In life We learn to remove the Negative from Our Circle to make room for the Positive. Once We take the dead weight off Our wings We're not only able to Fly but to Soar.  The Difference between Good & Great is the Faith You posses with that Extra Effort. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

An Optimist chases their Dreams while a Pessimist runs from their Nightmares. Don't miss out on a Successful Life because Your too afraid to venture into the Unknown. EveryThing/One familiar isn't always the Best for You. Just because You're a friend to Someone that doesn't make them a Friend to You. In life We learn to remove the Negative from Our Circle to make room for the Positive. Once We take the dead weight off Our wings We're not only able to Fly but to Soar.  The Difference between Good & Great is the Faith You posses with that Extra Effort. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Exodus 34:10. Then the LORD said: “I am making a covenant with you. Before all your people I will do wonders never before done in any nation in all the world. The people you live among will see how awesome is the work that I, the LORD, will do for you. *** We Speak life into things Both Good & Bad; as a Child of God We're able to rebuke the Bad & Command the Good. Know that The Best is Yet to come for Your are Destined for Greatness; if that were not the case Your Walk in the Wilderness would be a Stroll in the Park. Stand by Faith not by Sight. *** Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Money can buy You a Bed but not Sleep, Clocks but not Time, Books but not Knowledge, a House but not a Home & Sex but not Love. More important than the Revenue is from where the Blessings to receive them came. 2Peter 2:19 reads "You are a slave to whatever controls You." Never loose sight of Your very First Prayer/Where You(it all began) started. I'm not where I want to be, yet I'm miles from where I've been. ***Status:Very Thankful ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

No other term would be appropriate except Homegoing Keesh as You Were, Are & Always Will Be an Angel. The Most Beautiful Person I have Ever come in contact with. This world is not worthy of You. We Love You Always & Forever Sis. R.I.P. Keesha Golden ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: I'm very Family Orientated & as a Grown Woman I'd Love to be married however when I'm ready I don't just want A Husband I want My Own, Not My Sister's. We can't be so much in Love with the idea of Being in Love that it takes away from Our self worth. Nuptials are not like Social Media there is no "Complicated" relationship status it's cut & dry; either He's(You're) Married or Not. Ladies when We allow squatters to live in Our homes it decreases Our property value; then when We're really interested in selling We can only expect bottom basement prices from a wholesale Auction. Appreciate & Respect You as the Queen You were created to be. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Exodus 34:10. Then the LORD said: “I am making a covenant with you. Before all your people I will do wonders never before done in any nation in all the world. The people you live among will see how awesome is the work that I, the LORD, will do for you. *** We Speak life into things Both Good & Bad; as a Child of God We're able to rebuke the Bad & Command the Good. Know that The Best is Yet to come for Your are Destined for Greatness; if that were not the case Your Walk in the Wilderness would be a Stroll in the Park. Stand by Faith not by Sight. *** Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged.  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Exodus 34:10. Then the LORD said: “I am making a covenant with you. Before all your people I will do wonders never before done in any nation in all the world. The people you live among will see how awesome is the work that I, the LORD, will do for you. *** We Speak life into things Both Good & Bad; as a Child of God We're able to rebuke the Bad & Command the Good. Know that The Best is Yet to come for Your are Destined for Greatness; if that were not the case Your Walk in the Wilderness would be a Stroll in the Park. Stand by Faith not by Sight. *** Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Your Goals & or Aspirations don't necessarily need to be shared with the world. Sometimes without You knowing the negativity of others can detour Your destiny. Without having Your eyes no one can have Your vision. Set Your Goals then pray & work towards them. We were born with the ability to Will things into existence by keeping Our Minds open & Mouths shut. Not Everyone prays for You some pray Against You. As We know Misery Loves company but We need not make room in Our Lives to accommodate it. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

What/Whomever You submit to You become a slave to it. If We want better results We have to make better decisions. We decide what We make of Our lives don't confuse Tradition with Truth; Women in My family aren't Happy unless they're Miserable. Disruptive Patterns & Vicious Cycles are made to be broken. You can't be Liberated from what You've awarded Power To & You can't award Power To what You've been Liberated from. Family curses are Options Not Laws. Consciously decide to Totally Love & Live Your Life. Let Whomever won't Go to Heaven with You, Go to Hell without You ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: As Women we’re Maternal & instinctively want to Nurture & “Fix”. We need to Understand the difference between trying to “Fix” a relationship & trying to “Change” a person. Think outside the box & consider that instead of changing Your mate God is using Your mate to change You. God's Intellect is so Profound & UnParalleled that at times He can be right in Our faces that even with TriFocals on We still can't see Him. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Loving someone one & being in Love with someone are two different entities. Love is like a Good Man & an Orgasm, You don’t know what You’ve been missing until You have one; once You have one there’s no question in Your mind. No matter how articulate You are, words can’t express the feeling; You have to experience it inorder to relate to it. God is truly the Grand Architect; Speechless for Good Reason. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Anger is the Secondary Emotion; the mask that Hurt the Primary Emotion wears when its ashamed to show it's face. An Angered Spirit is a Tortured Spirit. What’s heard is "I'm Mad at You" when what’s said is "I'm in Pain". The Best people can make the Worst mistakes & the Worst Results can stem from the Best Intentions; without the ability to Forgive, We limit Our ability to Love. If You Love Someone, "Let them Know"; if You can't stand them "Let it Go". it takes much more energy to hold grudges then to just live Free. Harboring resentment gives the same entity that caused You grief, Power over Your Mind, Body, Soul & Spirit; God is the Only One worthy of that privilege. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Be mindful when composing Your “Perfect Mate” list of requirements; quite frankly We should Only Request & Expect to Receive what We Offer. You can’t expect to buy Dom Perignon with Coupons & FoodStamps; too many GirlScouts out there demanding Soldiers, c'mon now ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Loving someone one & being in Love with someone are two different entities. Love is like a Good Man & an Orgasm, You don’t know what You’ve been missing until You have one; once You have one there’s no question in Your mind. No matter how articulate You are, words can’t express the feeling; You have to experience it inorder to relate to it. God is truly the Grand Architect; Speechless for Good Reason. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Loving someone one & being in Love with someone are two different entities. Love is like a Good Man & an Orgasm, You don’t know what You’ve been missing until You have one; once You have one there’s no question in Your mind. No matter how articulate You are, words can’t express the feeling; You have to experience it inorder to relate to it. Speechless for Good Reason. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

After a latenite blog someone asked Me if I knew "What time it was". Not being argumentative just being candid, My response was; The question is: "Does the Enemy know or care what time it is?" Not everyone prays for You some pray against You, so even when while resting We need to be aware, alert & on point. Great Soldiers sleep armed. Someone needed to hear this. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged Mwuah! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Individuals handle trauma differently. A person's troubled past may subconsciously drive them to hurt those who try to help them as hurt people tend to Hurt People. In protecting Yourself You may need to Love them from a distance. Loving a heartless spirit can be a waste of time & effort; like trying to teach someone how to swim without them knowing their drowning or even in water for that matter. Life's too short to do Anything but Love, Laugh & Live; so enjoy Loving Life & start with learning to Love Yourself. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Sincere Love & Piety may compel You to show a miserable spirit a glimpse of Heaven; ultimately frustrating Yourself as that spirit can't shake it's home-sick feeling for Hell. Some people aren't happy unless they're unhappy. For that I couldn't tell You what to do however I can advise what Not to do: Allow it to steal Your Joy. Misery is the spirit form of a flesh eating bacteria. They may not go to Heaven with You; but just be sure Not to go to Hell with Them. Stay Prayerful Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Good Afternoon All, I'm organizing My itinerary for 2012-2013 Nationwide, if You'd like Me to come out & speak feel free to FaceBook inbox Me or email directly: Neciaism@gmail.com with Your contact information & I'm as good as there. Have an Awesomely Blessed, Prosperous & Safe week. Stay Encouraged. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: In a relationship as Women need to Prioritize & Accept that Our Family Comes First. Life Long friends are fine to have; However Your true friends realize that they shouldn't compete with Your Mate or Your Children & instead of feeling slighted they would gladly step aside as they want what's best for You. Bottom line Single Women & Women in Relationships are held to Different Standards. Respect Your Home & Your Man as the Head if the House.  Truly respecting Your Man begins with Truly Respecting Yourself; now can You Respect that?  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Someone asked Me if i knew "What time it was". Not being argumentative just being candid, My response was; The question is: "Does the Enemy know or care what time it is?" Not everyone prays for You some pray against You, so even when while resting We need to be aware, alert & on point. Great Soldiers sleep armed. Someone needed to hear this. Stay Encouraged Mwuah. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 4, 2011

While Under Pressure, maintain focus, see disturbances for what they are:”Intentional Distractions” to shake You off Your square. Planes that fly high can’t help but experience turbulence; Annoying? Yes, Deadly? No. Buckle Your seat belt & Keep Flying. When You’re trying to do what’s right it feels like nothing’s going Your way keep in Mind, if You weren't a Threat to the Enemy, an heir to the Throne on the verge of Greatness Your walk in the wilderness would be a Stroll in the Park. Stay Prayerful Focused & Encouraged for You are Not Alone & He is Able! ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Tricks of a Feather... No You can't judge a book by it's cover but You can get a good idea of it's content if  You' pay attention to the section of literature it's placed in within the library or bookstore where You found it. Familiarize Yourself with the crowd Your significant other keeps; in Your eyesight they may be the Extreme Opposite of all of their friends however keep in mind this is "within Your Eyesight". Truth be told Nuns don't fellowship with Whores. Stay Prayerful, Focused, Encouraged & Aware. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Time spent trying to give directions to where Your headed when Your peers have difficulty reading road maps, will only frustrate You & prolong You reaching Your destination. The best thing to do is to invite others for the ride, if they can't make the trip, then so be it; just extend a helping hand & prayer to them when You get there. Life like Success are personal journeys therefore it's a constant struggle to share Your vision with everyone as You don't share the same eyes or perspective. Similar like this blog, Some Will Get it & some won't. The choice is Yours. Stay Prayerful Focused & Encouraged  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011

Time spent trying to give directions to where Your headed when Your peers have difficulty reading maps, will only frustrates You & prolong reaching Your destination. The best thing to do is to invite others for the ride, if they can't make the trip, then so be it; just hit them up when You get there. Life like Success are personal journeys therefore it's a constant struggle to share Your vision. Just like this blog, Some Will Get it & some won't  ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2011