You can't want something for someone more than they want it for themselves. Although We may want to help sometimes We're stepping on God's toes. He's the Father & will discipline accordingly. Valuable Lessons & Blessings come from Trials; on occasion the best help You can offer someone You Love when they seem to be Struggling is to turn away & pray for them. Ironically losing that friend to seemingly senseless violence, having that brush with cancer, watching a family member be prayed out of a death bed, enduring a taste of homelessness, etc.; Is the slap in the face Our ignorant, stubborn flesh needs to realize the time to "Grow Up & Get Right" is Now for Tomorrow is Promised but We are Not. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright © 2012